my step son is a monster

my step son is a monster

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help

Duluth, GA

#1 Mar 14, 2013
how can i get my husband to sign over rights to his son from a previous relationship? i dont want the kid in my house or my life anymore and not his mother either this boy has made my life hell and its time for him to go away. my husband would have more money and we would have more room in MY house if he did this. what would you do to get this done
Oh wow

Walls, MS

#2 Mar 14, 2013
You probably shouldn't have married the man if you dislike his son so. The boy deserves love from his father, and that says a lot about your character that you would encourage a man to just dump his flesh and blood( no matter how ugly he acts, he could get the vibe your trying to get rid of him) for another woman. That child is part of your husband, you should have thought this over before marrying him. If you don't have a child of your own, then you just do not understand that when you bring a child into this world your given the responsibility to raise a secure child. If this child is just signed away to his mother, it could damage him, and your husband could resent you in the future.( if he's any man at all he'd tell you you were crazy!)
just sayn

United States

#3 Mar 14, 2013
help wrote:
how can i get my husband to sign over rights to his son from a previous relationship? i dont want the kid in my house or my life anymore and not his mother either this boy has made my life hell and its time for him to go away. my husband would have more money and we would have more room in MY house if he did this. what would you do to get this done
. U shud refuse to give ur husband any til he does. That shudnt take very long. But if it does, let me know and I can take care of ALL ur needs!
pleaze

United States

#4 Mar 14, 2013
Sounds like your the monster
phil

Bellevue, WA

#5 Mar 14, 2013
id never give up my sons for any woman...hope he tosses your a@@ and you get to live in YOUR house all alone...cheap a@@ hoe..
a dad

New Salisbury, IN

#6 Mar 14, 2013
I WILL not leave my son for NO ONE!!!! You are one sick b**ch. Hope your old man leaves you. You dont love him nor his child and he needs to see you for what you really are a gold digger! I agree with pleaze you are the monster!!!
iknow

Linden, TN

#7 Mar 14, 2013
I have been in a similar situation were I have
iknow

Linden, TN

#8 Mar 14, 2013
Felt this way my step son is the devil and his mother tries to control how our house is ran etc. you name it I've been through it.
BNikkiC

Duluth, GA

#9 Mar 14, 2013
help wrote:
how can i get my husband to sign over rights to his son from a previous relationship? i dont want the kid in my house or my life anymore and not his mother either this boy has made my life hell and its time for him to go away. my husband would have more money and we would have more room in MY house if he did this. what would you do to get this done
It's people like THIS that give good stepparents bad reps! How dare you ask a question like that. I think you should have your husband choose between you and his son and when he chooses his son, you'll have what you deserve. Nothing. Smh. This is a sad post. The fact that you call the home you share with your husband and stepson yours shows that you don't give a hoot about either of them. Do them both a favor and leave! I would NEVER put my husband in this position because I LOVE HIM.(And I love his son and I put up with a lot because of this love but I wouldn't change a thing!) This is so low. This man needs to get his child away from you. The child was there first and will be there long after you're gone. Your husband will grow to resent you for trying to take that away from him.
another step parent

Shelbyville, TN

#10 Mar 14, 2013
I can relate and my step child gets on my nerves too! However they are a human being and did not ask to be brought up in this world nor asked his parents not to love and live together under the same roof! The children can be victim if they are thrown out like trash. Look at it from another perspective.....I can choose to be a great influence on this child so one day he will grow up to be a man and care for himself. Or I can do nothing but be annoyed at his childish ways and he will be nothing more than a big kid living in your basement playing xbox for the rest of YOUR life! No doubt the child needs to understand and respect your house rules and show you respect. They will learn this when you show respect to them. Do not throw away or damage your marriage because of a selfish phase or growing pains of your step child is currently going through. My theory is if you do not like what phase of your life is in, do something about it! Love is the key in all situations! Your step child will ultimately love you when they see you loving their parent!
a dad

New Salisbury, IN

#11 Mar 14, 2013
another step parent wrote:
I can relate and my step child gets on my nerves too! However they are a human being and did not ask to be brought up in this world nor asked his parents not to love and live together under the same roof! The children can be victim if they are thrown out like trash. Look at it from another perspective.....I can choose to be a great influence on this child so one day he will grow up to be a man and care for himself. Or I can do nothing but be annoyed at his childish ways and he will be nothing more than a big kid living in your basement playing xbox for the rest of YOUR life! No doubt the child needs to understand and respect your house rules and show you respect. They will learn this when you show respect to them. Do not throw away or damage your marriage because of a selfish phase or growing pains of your step child is currently going through. My theory is if you do not like what phase of your life is in, do something about it! Love is the key in all situations! Your step child will ultimately love you when they see you loving their parent!
Read her post again she did not say that he was disrespecting her!!! The post was about her her her not the husbands or the childs feelings just what SHE wants and what is "good" for HER! What have you been doing and saying to them? How old is the child? What if the shoe was on the other foot and you was asked to leave your child just walk off and not look back? What if your parents had done you this way? Come on answer some of our questions! Who are you?Tell us so we will know how to react to you in public! You are a sick,money hungry,conceded, selfish bi**h!
step-mom

Lexington, TN

#12 Mar 14, 2013
How can you say that about a child??? Just ignore the BM, dont let her control you, let her know when she goes to far. The BM has no right to know what goes on in your house and has no right trying to control anything you and your husband do. But as for your step son maybe he just needs some attention and guidance. He is just a child. I am a stepmom to and I love my step child like my own child. But I dont let BM rule us. we dont even speak to her even at drop off and pick up. She has her own life we have ours. there is no need to talk to BM if there isnt a reason.
guest

Shelbyville, TN

#13 Mar 14, 2013
my prayers are with this child and this situation.nobody should push apart a child from their parent.its wrong.you should focus on the positive and build on that.....my children are my world and your more than likely going to ruin your marriage trying to come between them just saying
Guest40

United States

#15 Mar 14, 2013
Typical white trash, inconsiderate,self centered no good ass woman. I'd throw your ass in the street tonight.
help

Duluth, GA

#16 Mar 14, 2013
im not white trash i am not white. my step son drills holes in his wall to spy on me in the bathroom and masterbates while watching me shower. he beat up a Down syndrome boy at school. he stole from MY grandma. he is a monster and needs to be sent off. oh he steals my dirty panties too.
honestly

Linden, TN

#17 Mar 14, 2013
help, it sounds like you are the problem. It's sad that you can't try to make a difference in this kids life, instead of being jealous of the money your husband spends on HIS OWN SON! hopefully sometime soon your husband will wake up and see what a selfish, trashy, worthless piece of shit you are
help

Duluth, GA

#18 Mar 14, 2013
can you not read? my step son is a pervert and a psycho like his mom. read
iknow

Linden, TN

#19 Mar 14, 2013
Sometimes it's best to act like you don't care because being a step parent you get your feelings hurt a lot if you care too much. I'm just nice when he's at our house but we don't do things together anymore.
Buddha

Savannah, TN

#20 Mar 14, 2013
Call Supernatural. They will deal with him.
just sayn

Monroe, NC

#21 Mar 15, 2013
honestly wrote:
help, it sounds like you are the problem. It's sad that you can't try to make a difference in this kids life, instead of being jealous of the money your husband spends on HIS OWN SON! hopefully sometime soon your husband will wake up and see what a selfish, trashy, worthless piece of shit you are
can i come over and watch u shower?

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