Trying to Keep a Secret

Trying to Keep a Secret

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Friend

Jasper, IN

#1 Dec 27, 2012
Somethings been on my mind now for 2 weeks, and its killing me. I know a secret about my friends. They are a couple and been going out now for a couple years. One of them, I know is cheating on the other. Im not sure what I should do? It will kill both of them in the end I know, but how should I go about this?
Know it all

Tucker, GA

#2 Dec 27, 2012
Be honest n tell them n let what happens happen , not fair to either one let them get started with road to recovery
Friend

Jasper, IN

#3 Dec 27, 2012
Should I talk to both at same time? Or Seperate?
For real

Tucker, GA

#4 Dec 27, 2012
I would do it separate and they can work it out from there , but it's the right thing to do before it goes any farther because the hurt will be more
Serious

Louisville, KY

#5 Dec 27, 2012
Keep your nose out of it.
Honestly

Henderson, KY

#6 Dec 27, 2012
It's going to come out one way or another eventually. Which friend do you want to lose the most? The one that's a dirty cheat or the one you basically was no friend to for allowing it to go on so long? You never know what's going on and the poor faithful partner may end up in a very bad spot. There's nothing worse than knowing your friend knew something and just let it slide.
Friend

Jasper, IN

#7 Dec 27, 2012
Thats so true, im gonna tell them both together. They have no clue I know about this. It might get ugly but Im really close to both of them and I have to do this. Its 2 o clock so I have about 30 minutes to think about it.
hmm

United States

#8 Dec 27, 2012
Yea keep ur dang nose urself. It's not affecting u and it's none of ur business. It won't always come out one way or another anyway if the one cheating is smart
Know it all

Tucker, GA

#9 Dec 27, 2012
hmm wrote:
Yea keep ur dang nose urself. It's not affecting u and it's none of ur business. It won't always come out one way or another anyway if the one cheating is smart
shut the hell up shit for brains , tell them now n get it over with this yahoo is just mad cause their partner is cheating on them ha ha ha ha ha
Friend

Jasper, IN

#10 Dec 27, 2012
Im def going to just kinda nervous to do so!
Friend

Jasper, IN

#11 Dec 27, 2012
One is already home, this is going to be difficult.
Working Poor

Evansville, IN

#12 Dec 27, 2012
Be prepared to lose them both as friends; the cheater because you exposed the game and the faithful for opening their eyes. Anger and betrayal are very strong emotions and they may focus on the messenger, not the message. Realize that any anger they direct at you is because the truth is too hard to face. Love is the opposite of hate, and sometimes in order to compensate for the loss of love, hate is used to deaden the pain... but as the one to open that wound you may become it's focus. Good luck.
Hope

Jasper, IN

#13 Dec 27, 2012
Working Poor wrote:
Be prepared to lose them both as friends; the cheater because you exposed the game and the faithful for opening their eyes. Anger and betrayal are very strong emotions and they may focus on the messenger, not the message. Realize that any anger they direct at you is because the truth is too hard to face. Love is the opposite of hate, and sometimes in order to compensate for the loss of love, hate is used to deaden the pain... but as the one to open that wound you may become it's focus. Good luck.
This really makes sense and Im sure they will be very upset, but maybe I should just keep my mouth shut. I really need to think about this alittle more.
hmm

United States

#14 Dec 27, 2012
Hope wrote:
<quoted text>This really makes sense and Im sure they will be very upset, but maybe I should just keep my mouth shut. I really need to think about this alittle more.
Just stay out of it! It's not ur problem or relationship
hmm

United States

#15 Dec 27, 2012
Do u live with them or something? Why are u so worried about when they are getting home?
hmm

United States

#16 Dec 27, 2012
How did u find out anyway that one was cheating?
Friend

Jasper, IN

#17 Dec 27, 2012
hmm wrote:
Do u live with them or something? Why are u so worried about when they are getting home?
Yes I do live with them, and I was going to tell them both when they got home.
Friend

Jasper, IN

#18 Dec 27, 2012
hmm wrote:
How did u find out anyway that one was cheating?
Walked in on one.
Know it all

Tucker, GA

#19 Dec 27, 2012
You know the right thing is to tell them wouldn't you want to know if someone was doing that to you so don't listen to these jerk offs n get er done n tell em
hmm

Louisville, KY

#20 Dec 27, 2012
Friend wrote:
<quoted text>Walked in on one.
Was it the guy or the girl that was cheating?

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