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Dec 27, 2012
 
Somethings been on my mind now for 2 weeks, and its killing me. I know a secret about my friends. They are a couple and been going out now for a couple years. One of them, I know is cheating on the other. Im not sure what I should do? It will kill both of them in the end I know, but how should I go about this?
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Dec 27, 2012
 

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Be honest n tell them n let what happens happen , not fair to either one let them get started with road to recovery
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Dec 27, 2012
 
Should I talk to both at same time? Or Seperate?
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Dec 27, 2012
 

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I would do it separate and they can work it out from there , but it's the right thing to do before it goes any farther because the hurt will be more
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Dec 27, 2012
 

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Keep your nose out of it.
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Dec 27, 2012
 

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It's going to come out one way or another eventually. Which friend do you want to lose the most? The one that's a dirty cheat or the one you basically was no friend to for allowing it to go on so long? You never know what's going on and the poor faithful partner may end up in a very bad spot. There's nothing worse than knowing your friend knew something and just let it slide.
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Dec 27, 2012
 

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Thats so true, im gonna tell them both together. They have no clue I know about this. It might get ugly but Im really close to both of them and I have to do this. Its 2 o clock so I have about 30 minutes to think about it.
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Dec 27, 2012
 

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Yea keep ur dang nose urself. It's not affecting u and it's none of ur business. It won't always come out one way or another anyway if the one cheating is smart
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Dec 27, 2012
 
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Yea keep ur dang nose urself. It's not affecting u and it's none of ur business. It won't always come out one way or another anyway if the one cheating is smart
shut the hell up shit for brains , tell them now n get it over with this yahoo is just mad cause their partner is cheating on them ha ha ha ha ha
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Dec 27, 2012
 
Im def going to just kinda nervous to do so!
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Dec 27, 2012
 
One is already home, this is going to be difficult.
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Be prepared to lose them both as friends; the cheater because you exposed the game and the faithful for opening their eyes. Anger and betrayal are very strong emotions and they may focus on the messenger, not the message. Realize that any anger they direct at you is because the truth is too hard to face. Love is the opposite of hate, and sometimes in order to compensate for the loss of love, hate is used to deaden the pain... but as the one to open that wound you may become it's focus. Good luck.
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Dec 27, 2012
 
Working Poor wrote:
Be prepared to lose them both as friends; the cheater because you exposed the game and the faithful for opening their eyes. Anger and betrayal are very strong emotions and they may focus on the messenger, not the message. Realize that any anger they direct at you is because the truth is too hard to face. Love is the opposite of hate, and sometimes in order to compensate for the loss of love, hate is used to deaden the pain... but as the one to open that wound you may become it's focus. Good luck.
This really makes sense and Im sure they will be very upset, but maybe I should just keep my mouth shut. I really need to think about this alittle more.
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Dec 27, 2012
 
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<quoted text>This really makes sense and Im sure they will be very upset, but maybe I should just keep my mouth shut. I really need to think about this alittle more.
Just stay out of it! It's not ur problem or relationship
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Dec 27, 2012
 
Do u live with them or something? Why are u so worried about when they are getting home?
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Dec 27, 2012
 
How did u find out anyway that one was cheating?
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Do u live with them or something? Why are u so worried about when they are getting home?
Yes I do live with them, and I was going to tell them both when they got home.
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Dec 27, 2012
 
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How did u find out anyway that one was cheating?
Walked in on one.
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Dec 27, 2012
 
You know the right thing is to tell them wouldn't you want to know if someone was doing that to you so don't listen to these jerk offs n get er done n tell em
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Dec 27, 2012
 
Friend wrote:
<quoted text>Walked in on one.
Was it the guy or the girl that was cheating?

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