Cell Phones & Cheating
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Curious

Clarksville, IN

#1 Nov 26, 2012
My man was flirting with a girl from work he told me he ended it. I looked at the pome bill and it seemed that there were no more texts. Then the other day I saw he was texting her again. How is he hiding this? I busted him using games to chat with girls but this is different. I just want to know before I get rid of him.
Sorry

Tucker, GA

#2 Nov 26, 2012
Curious wrote:
My man was flirting with a girl from work he told me he ended it. I looked at the pome bill and it seemed that there were no more texts. Then the other day I saw he was texting her again. How is he hiding this? I busted him using games to chat with girls but this is different. I just want to know before I get rid of him.
Sorry to hear that but you can delete texts. But clearly it sounds like he's cheating and is hiding something and is not trustworthy. You could try and plan a way to catch him in his cheating ways. Try purchasing a throw away cell phone and text him from it pretending to be her. Play the role well so he doesn't pick up on it. Text him from throw away cell phone and give a good reason why you're using that phone such as it's someone else's, sibling, friend etc. And see how he responds. I read a book about a girl that tried that with disposable cell phone and she caught him in the act. Good luck. And remember the bottom line is you're hurt by him bc you suspect he's cheating and lying to you about cheating. So you have every good reason to do what you need to do to catch him since he won't fess up.
noo

Tucker, GA

#3 Nov 27, 2012
Sorry wrote:
<quoted text>Sorry to hear that but you can delete texts. But clearly it sounds like he's cheating and is hiding something and is not trustworthy. You could try and plan a way to catch him in his cheating ways. Try purchasing a throw away cell phone and text him from it pretending to be her. Play the role well so he doesn't pick up on it. Text him from throw away cell phone and give a good reason why you're using that phone such as it's someone else's, sibling, friend etc. And see how he responds. I read a book about a girl that tried that with disposable cell phone and she caught him in the act. Good luck. And remember the bottom line is you're hurt by him bc you suspect he's cheating and lying to you about cheating. So you have every good reason to do what you need to do to catch him since he won't fess up.
Shut up with those stupid ways! U don't get on here telling crap like that. Thinking u are all slick. Just leave him alone! Quit being a snooping nosey b!tch and he might wanna pay more attention to u instead of her!!
noo

Tucker, GA

#4 Nov 27, 2012
Curious wrote:
My man was flirting with a girl from work he told me he ended it. I looked at the pome bill and it seemed that there were no more texts. Then the other day I saw he was texting her again. How is he hiding this? I busted him using games to chat with girls but this is different. I just want to know before I get rid of him.
And same to u! Either leave him or just shut up about it and let him be. Quit being a snooping nagging gf and he might not be doing that! U are probably the one that drove him to do it anyway. Just get some revenge. Find another guy to text and get with and have u some extra fun too
noo

Tucker, GA

#5 Nov 27, 2012
Ur guy was dumb anyway for using his reg cell phone. If he was smart then he wouldn't have been caught. But then again...if he is just ur bf and u aren't married then u have no business looking at his cell bill anyway! Unless u are both on the same plan...which if u are, that again shows his stupidity. Always have ur own things. Don't do joint anything
Techguy

Clarksville, IN

#6 Nov 27, 2012
Its pretty simple. All he has to for is use either an IM service. Then it is charged against his data plan.
Sindy

Clarksville, IN

#7 Nov 27, 2012
Good advice. I think I may be able to use it to keep from getting caught!
Mack

Clarksville, IN

#8 Nov 28, 2012
There are also free Alps available for texting. They do not show up on your phone bill because you aren't using the phone carriers service. It has worked great for me.
Another Opinion

Paintsville, KY

#9 Nov 29, 2012
It's not snooping when it concerns you. I say, "snoop, snoop, snoop, and don't leave no stone uncovered"! When you're in a relationship with someone find out everything you can about them BEFORE you marry them, especially if kids are involved. Do everything and anything to protect yourself and your family! When you date a crazy man like I did, then you'll understand what I mean. I thought I knew him pretty good, because I talked to him for about 2 months before I went out on a date with him, shew was I wrong! The statement is true,'live and learn'!
Bluecat

Ashburn, VA

#10 Nov 29, 2012
Nagging and snooping will run a man off faster than anything.
nah

Tucker, GA

#11 Nov 29, 2012
Another Opinion wrote:
It's not snooping when it concerns you. I say, "snoop, snoop, snoop, and don't leave no stone uncovered"! When you're in a relationship with someone find out everything you can about them BEFORE you marry them, especially if kids are involved. Do everything and anything to protect yourself and your family! When you date a crazy man like I did, then you'll understand what I mean. I thought I knew him pretty good, because I talked to him for about 2 months before I went out on a date with him, shew was I wrong! The statement is true,'live and learn'!
Then don't date him! If u are gonna date someone then u have to trust them. If u don't then just stay single! I wouldn't put up with any girl snooping on me and worrying about what I'm doing. U either trust me if I have not shown u any reason not to, or don't. If u don't then get out. Simple. I once dumped a girl bc I caught her with my phone in her hand. Doesn't matter if I had anything to hide or not. I don't go through my girls stuff or snoop on her or ever touch her phone or never even ask who she is texting with. And anyone that's with me won't do that to me
nah

Tucker, GA

#12 Nov 29, 2012
Bluecat wrote:
Nagging and snooping will run a man off faster than anything.
Exactly
sam

Clarksville, IN

#13 Nov 29, 2012
If your significant other feels they need to hide any relationship from you then even they know its wrong.
Magnum PI

Tucker, GA

#14 Nov 29, 2012
sam wrote:
If your significant other feels they need to hide any relationship from you then even they know its wrong.
Very true. The man has been caught once. That in itself is reason enough to follow up.
Another Opinion

Paintsville, KY

#15 Nov 29, 2012
Bluecat wrote:
Nagging and snooping will run a man off faster than anything.
I agree, but the catch is: you don't let them know. It's called protecting yourself and your family.
Another Opinion

Paintsville, KY

#16 Nov 29, 2012
nah wrote:
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Then don't date him! If u are gonna date someone then u have to trust them. If u don't then just stay single! I wouldn't put up with any girl snooping on me and worrying about what I'm doing. U either trust me if I have not shown u any reason not to, or don't. If u don't then get out. Simple. I once dumped a girl bc I caught her with my phone in her hand. Doesn't matter if I had anything to hide or not. I don't go through my girls stuff or snoop on her or ever touch her phone or never even ask who she is texting with. And anyone that's with me won't do that to me
That's my point, snoop before you date them! Do you realize how deceiving some people can be? Well I do! I wouldn't let you know I was snooping and it's not worrying about what you're doing, it all about what kind of person you really are. Did you really quit a girl just because she was holding your cell phone, geez it must have been love. I can't wait until you come across a psycho like I did, then you'd sing a different tune, and believe me they are out there!
hmm

Tucker, GA

#17 Nov 29, 2012
Magnum PI wrote:
<quoted text>Very true. The man has been caught once. That in itself is reason enough to follow up.
If he has been caught before then she should have already left him. It's her fault for staying. If she's dumb enough to stay that doesn't give her a right to start snooping and checking up. If she has to do that then leave. Not a hard choice
nah

Tucker, GA

#18 Nov 29, 2012
Another Opinion wrote:
<quoted text>That's my point, snoop before you date them! Do you realize how deceiving some people can be? Well I do! I wouldn't let you know I was snooping and it's not worrying about what you're doing, it all about what kind of person you really are. Did you really quit a girl just because she was holding your cell phone, geez it must have been love. I can't wait until you come across a psycho like I did, then you'd sing a different tune, and believe me they are out there!
Yes I did! And not bc she was holding it but she was looking thru it and since I never do that to anyone I'm with then I don't put up with it being done to me. Only a girl who trusts me like she should will get this awesome guy
Sam

Clarksville, IN

#19 Nov 29, 2012
Its a very bad situation. One one hand you shouldnt have to snoop because there should be no "secret " friends. But you also need to be able to trust someone. I have had plenty friends that found out something was going on.right under their nose because they completely trusted someone only to find out too late.
Magnum PI

Lawrenceburg, KY

#20 Nov 29, 2012
If you do something that you wouldn't tell your significant other, or you're talking to someone and wouldn't tell your significant other about it, then it's wrong.

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