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Friendship
United States
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A friend has been seeing a married man for two years. Am I wrong to stop talking to her because of this. I have talked to her about breaking it off with him. I am trying to surround my family and myself with positive people with good character and morals.
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I Think
Staffordsville, KY
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From my experience, I don't think you're wrong, but did you tell her why you're not having anything to do with her? In my past I had a friend that cheated on her husband all the time. I would try to get her to stop, but she wouldn't. The crazy woman even tried to hook me up with her husband without his knowledge! Later on I found out that she turned everything around on me and made me look like the terrible person that she was. People still don't know the truth, because she goes around acting like a goody two-shoes. So, in hind site, I wish I had of distance myself from her as soon as I found out she was a cheating ho!
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yes
United States
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Friendship wrote: A friend has been seeing a married man for two years. Am I wrong to stop talking to her because of this. I have talked to her about breaking it off with him. I am trying to surround my family and myself with positive people with good character and morals. Yes u are wrong. If she's ur friend then she's ur friend. Doesn't matter what she does. It's none of ur business. She's not the one cheating anyway. The guy is. She's not doing anything wrong, just enjoying herself
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Friendship
United States
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yes wrote: <quoted text> Yes u are wrong. If she's ur friend then she's ur friend. Doesn't matter what she does. It's none of ur business. She's not the one cheating anyway. The guy is. She's not doing anything wrong, just enjoying herself I understand that the man is cheating(he has a wife and two young children) but she is still doing something wrong. In fact she will tell where they went and what they did. Sometimes TMI cause my teenage daughter may be in the room. And I have talked to her about this.
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Friendship
United States
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To "I think" thanks for your kind words
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yes
United States
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So? She's ur friend. Let her live her life and enjoy it if that's what she wants. It's not like she's doing drugs and ruining her life
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Karma
Lexington, KY
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While you may not agree with her choices, if you are her friend you will be there for her regardless of good or bad choices. If it's TMI for your kids then maybe ask your friend to not discuss personal issues when your kids are around. Things like this never work out for the good, just be there to pick up the pieces & maybe in time she will learn a valuable lesson from this. What goes around comes around...
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Friendship
United States
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yes wrote: So? She's ur friend. Let her live her life and enjoy it if that's what she wants. It's not like she's doing drugs and ruining her life I don't want her talking about this relationship in front of my children and have told her so. I guess I will have to end our friendship. I will choose my family over my friendship with her. Are you in a relationship with a married mam. You talk so positive for it
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Friendship
United States
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yes wrote: So? She's ur friend. Let her live her life and enjoy it if that's what she wants. It's not like she's doing drugs and ruining her life If this were your sister or daughter would you still feel the same
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who is
Lexington, KY
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Friendship
United States
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I see trouble
United States
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who is wrote: what is the mans name Are you the wife?
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who is
Lexington, KY
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be an example Mommy
Lexington, KY
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Friendship wrote: <quoted text> I don't want her talking about this relationship in front of my children and have told her so. I guess I will have to end our friendship. I will choose my family over my friendship with her. Are you in a relationship with a married mam. You talk so positive for it RUN from this mess. Your "friend" disrespected you by involving you in her deception. Of course she doesn't care, she only cares about herself. You know what to do. You didn't need to ask anyone.
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hmmm
United States
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Now u gotta tell us who the man is...
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yes
United States
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Friendship wrote: <quoted text>I don't want her talking about this relationship in front of my children and have told her so. I guess I will have to end our friendship. I will choose my family over my friendship with her. Are you in a relationship with a married mam. You talk so positive for it No I'm not but have done it before. Not relationships with them but just good sex. I don't care if they are married or not, it doesn't affect me having my fun. I was just saying its her life. Not urs to worry about. Saying things in front if ur kids is a different issue
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Friendship
United States
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Thank you all. Will let you know how it goes.
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little ole me
Monticello, KY
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Friendship wrote: Thank you all. Will let you know how it goes. i have a family member who like this who is married and sleeps with anything with a pulse with no concern for anyone but herself. she is also an alcoholic. the worst part is her telling me about all her sexual details even after i had asked her not to. i finally had to just stop associating with her because i don't agree with her lifestyle and general disrespect for others, herself and me. it sucks when you really care about someone.
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guy
United States
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little ole me wrote: <quoted text>i have a family member who like this who is married and sleeps with anything with a pulse with no concern for anyone but herself. she is also an alcoholic. the worst part is her telling me about all her sexual details even after i had asked her not to. i finally had to just stop associating with her because i don't agree with her lifestyle and general disrespect for others, herself and me. it sucks when you really care about someone. Nice. I wish i could find her. I'd love to have some
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fbi
Washington, DC
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Who is the man... tell us
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