I think my wife is cheating on me

I think my wife is cheating on me

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Why

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#1 Jan 30, 2013
Saw a text from a guy that said "How is your day going sweetheart?" She said it must have been a wrong number. She was 4 hours late last night too. We have been married 10 years. I don't ever want to lose her.
soooo

Jasper, IN

#2 Jan 30, 2013
Why wrote:
Saw a text from a guy that said "How is your day going sweetheart?" She said it must have been a wrong number. She was 4 hours late last night too. We have been married 10 years. I don't ever want to lose her.
So sorry...but if you want to survive..do not let her know you are worried about losing her...MAKE HER FEAR LOSING YOU!!!! Do you have access to her cell records online?!?
Why

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#3 Jan 30, 2013
Yea and she has been texting that # a lot but only recently
juice

Jasper, IN

#4 Jan 30, 2013
You have to be slick about it, but when shes in the shower or sleeping get here phone and read the texts. I caught my ex wife like this. If you can, access her cell records on the internet of at the cell store but that can be tricky. Buddie of mine went to verizon to get his wifes cell records and the not only wouldn't give them to him but they called her and told her he was trying to get them. You cant let her know your on to her. Act as everything is normal. This will make her let her guard down even more. If you got a buddy that you can trust, give him a few bucks to follow her if she says shes going to be late getting home. There are numerous spy store websites on the internet. You can get electronic bugs that you can inplant in here clothes that records audio but you really have to be willing to spend some money for that stuff. If you suspect it, then its probably going on. But the most important thing is to act as everything is fine. She will let her guard down if you do that and the truth will come out. Thats how I busted my ex wife. Caught her red handed in bed with her ex husband at a motel. Women are sluts. Some more than others but they like sex just as much as guys do. They just dont talk about it as much as we do to keep up the good girl image. But don't think for a minute a women don't think about a nice stiff one up in them several times a day. Good luck in your investigation.
hey

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#5 Jan 30, 2013
Well u must be doing something wrong then. Either not giving it to her enough, not going down on her or doing things she likes, maybe u don't treat her good or make her feel wanted. Call her names or disrespect her. Get mad a lot. Don't help around the house. There is something u aren't doing. But then again...maybe she just likes sex and likes experiencing new people! Wish I could find girls like that. I'd love to try her too
Why

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#6 Jan 30, 2013
If all she is wanting is a physical relationship with him then I can live with that. I want to be the one she loves.

I don't want to spy on her but that text message she got I was right there with her
hey

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#7 Jan 30, 2013
Why wrote:
If all she is wanting is a physical relationship with him then I can live with that. I want to be the one she loves.

I don't want to spy on her but that text message she got I was right there with her
May I try her for just physical fun? I won't take her away I promise. Don't want her love. Just to please her
Big Daddy

Tucker, GA

#8 Jan 30, 2013
Tell her she can fuck him n you want to watch her do this n you both will be able to enjoy the new relationship she is having . She will love you more if you hold her hand while he's inside her and tell her you love her then n all will work out , I'm sure he's a hot stud she just wants to feel inside her and give her pleasure either you haven't been or can't so let her enjoy herself and she will respect and love you and support her having sex with her new hot stud and maybe you will be permitted to have seconds if she doesn't want to just curl up on him n go to sleep . Do this and all will be happy in your marriage again but whatever you do continue to pay for her outings and send a present for him as well.
Why

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#9 Jan 30, 2013
No way!!

But you know.... If I knew 100% for sure she wouldn't leave me I wouldn't care but I'm certainly not going to hook her up with someone
Why

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#10 Jan 30, 2013
She is very sexy and we don't have sex very often. This may be part of the problem. But we aren't swingers. I just meant if she did this in her own I would still love her very much.

Because she is nice looking and has such a nice figure I have been used to guys flirting with her but except for one time before I have never had to worry about anything.
Sorry

United States

#11 Jan 30, 2013
Sounds like you need to find someone who cares as much for you as you do them.
Why

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#12 Jan 30, 2013
Thanks.... but we do care for each other. That's why I'm not as concerned maybe as the average person would be.
hey

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#13 Jan 30, 2013
Why wrote:
She is very sexy and we don't have sex very often. This may be part of the problem. But we aren't swingers. I just meant if she did this in her own I would still love her very much.

Because she is nice looking and has such a nice figure I have been used to guys flirting with her but except for one time before I have never had to worry about anything.
Exactly what I said at first. Something u aren't doing. U aren't giving it to her enough. Question is...if she is that sexy then why don't u do it often?
soooo

Jasper, IN

#14 Jan 30, 2013
Ok so I was feeling bad for you and wanted to offer some advice and support...however you are an idiot looking for attention.
She SHOULD leave you for being a moron!!!!
Wondering

Paintsville, KY

#15 Jan 30, 2013
Post the telephone number! Maybe one of us can help you figure out who it is!
long john

Jasper, IN

#16 Jan 30, 2013
hey wrote:
Well u must be doing something wrong then. Either not giving it to her enough, not going down on her or doing things she likes, maybe u don't treat her good or make her feel wanted. Call her names or disrespect her. Get mad a lot. Don't help around the house. There is something u aren't doing. But then again...maybe she just likes sex and likes experiencing new people! Wish I could find girls like that. I'd love to try her too
Dont matter if he is doing something wrong still don't give her a free pass to cheat. If she's going to cheat she needs to do the right thing and tell him she wants to and is going to see other people first. If she is in a commited relationship and is cheating then she is a whore and he don't need her anyway. Dude, grow some balls. Stop all the i love her even if she cheats on me shit. Trust is everything in a relationship. If you don't have it you don't have a relationship. Find out if she is cheating but you cant let her know anything is wrong or she will catch on and hide it even better than she is now. In the mean time, bang her every chance you get and hope you don't get a std. Smell her dirty panties and see if it smells like sex when she gets home but for christ sake grow some balls.
Why

United States

#17 Jan 30, 2013
Smell her panties??? You can't tell if they had sex that way. What does clue me in is that she came home late wearing a nicer outfit than she usually wears.

I am going to watch this closely and might post his number but I also don't want to make her feel so guilty she leaves.
Big Daddy

Lexington, KY

#18 Jan 30, 2013
Its not cheating it's just sex she's still with him but he cannot supply her need of a young hot stud so she has to find that else where , no problem , she still goes home afterwards still let's him take her out shopping n dinner it's just the sex she has a need for something more than him to reach the climax she needs and I can't see any problem in that at all . She sounds wonderful and he should cherish her and let her enjoy her new found boy toy she's sexy and curvy and men flirt with her as you say then except that you psychically is not what satisfies her and help her along with this it's not swinging unless you both are doing it this is just helping your beautiful wife with a need you cannot supply and really it's your job to help her in every way because ultimately it's your fault she's having to venture elsewhere
Why

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#19 Jan 30, 2013
Big Daddy wrote:
Its not cheating it's just sex she's still with him but he cannot supply her need of a young hot stud so she has to find that else where , no problem , she still goes home afterwards still let's him take her out shopping n dinner it's just the sex she has a need for something more than him to reach the climax she needs and I can't see any problem in that at all . She sounds wonderful and he should cherish her and let her enjoy her new found boy toy she's sexy and curvy and men flirt with her as you say then except that you psychically is not what satisfies her and help her along with this it's not swinging unless you both are doing it this is just helping your beautiful wife with a need you cannot supply and really it's your job to help her in every way because ultimately it's your fault she's having to venture elsewhere
I hope its nothing at all but I can settle for this. I love her and I have no reason to think she doesn't love me.
long john

Jasper, IN

#20 Jan 30, 2013
Big Daddy wrote:
Its not cheating it's just sex she's still with him but he cannot supply her need of a young hot stud so she has to find that else where , no problem , she still goes home afterwards still let's him take her out shopping n dinner it's just the sex she has a need for something more than him to reach the climax she needs and I can't see any problem in that at all . She sounds wonderful and he should cherish her and let her enjoy her new found boy toy she's sexy and curvy and men flirt with her as you say then except that you psychically is not what satisfies her and help her along with this it's not swinging unless you both are doing it this is just helping your beautiful wife with a need you cannot supply and really it's your job to help her in every way because ultimately it's your fault she's having to venture elsewhere
How do you know all of this? are you the one shes cheating with? If all of that is true then she needs to just tell this poor guy that she isn't happy and wants to get dick else where. If he cant trust her then he don't need her. If she craves that much sex then she is a nympho and needs to go into porn. At least that way she can get paid to bang dudes. And yes you can smell here panties and see if she has been having recent sex. Smell a pair of her panties when you know for a fact that she didn't have sex that day. Then smell them when you suspect her of cheating. If they smell the same then no she didn't bang anyone unless she took a shower as soon as she was done. A vagina discharges different fluids after sex then it would if she hadn't had sex and they smell completely different. Haven't you ever smelled sex in the air when you bang your ol lady. Next time you bang her, go down on her and take a good whif. You will know what I mean then.

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