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justaguy

Lawrenceburg, KY

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Jun 12, 2010
 
Hi,
I am curious as to your work as a Stripper. I enjoy looking and feeling many of you when I come to visit, But I would like to ask some candid questions...
Do you really enjoy Stripping or is it just the money?
Do you ever hook up with anyone that has been in the club?
Do you feel that your sex life is better because of what you do?
Do you actually get sexually aroused when dancing for someone?
To Be Honest

Nicholasville, KY

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Jun 13, 2010
 
justaguy wrote:
Hi,
I am curious as to your work as a Stripper. I enjoy looking and feeling many of you when I come to visit, But I would like to ask some candid questions...
Do you really enjoy Stripping or is it just the money?
Do you ever hook up with anyone that has been in the club?
Do you feel that your sex life is better because of what you do?
Do you actually get sexually aroused when dancing for someone?
I will answer you questions becasue im sure a lot of people wonder the same things. I have been dancing for a while to ill be completely honest.

1) Of course Its for the money. Do you honestly know one person that would enjoy getting on stage stripping off all there clothes off with a room full of strangers for free. I highly doubt it.

2) Personally I have NEVER hooked up or even messed around with anyone from a club. Although, there was a group of college students that were my age that came in and i gave one of the guys my number. I knew some of his friends though. We went out for lunch like a week later. Thats about it. Dont get me wrong I have heard rumers of girls hooking up but normally its hard to catch them because its just a few that travel from club to club.

3)This question confuses me because i dont have a clue how it could get better. For most girls it gets worse. If your in a relationship when you start dancing, It normally ends. If you get a bf while your dancing, it doesnt last long. Your sex drive goes down big time. The mans sex drive normally goes down too. If you girl friend got home late at night and you knew she had already been grinding all over 20 other dudes half naked would you want to hop rite in bed with her.

4) Im not going to lie i did get a little aroused one time. This guy was very attractive and i had been drinking.

Heres another thing for you. Most the girls you see in strip clubs go to school, have families, some have other jobs. Not many people take in consideration what dancers are put through. The most degrading thing is when people come into a club and dont even go up to the stage to tip atleast one time. So please tip if you ever go. Girls dont do that job for the fun of it.
Funny

Lexington, KY

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Jun 14, 2010
 
But dont you feel degraded or how would you feel about your husband or boyfriend going and having another female all over them? I know it is a job and you have to do what it takes to make a dollar but there is more jobs and better things to do than take your clothes off in front of a bunch of men. Very downgrading for woman, bet you wouldnt catch a independant woman or clasy doin this job but best of wishes and be carefull ladys to many std's going around and some can even come from just skin on skin contact whjle your grinding on these en...ewww
i agree

Hazard, KY

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Jun 14, 2010
 
Funny wrote:
But dont you feel degraded or how would you feel about your husband or boyfriend going and having another female all over them? I know it is a job and you have to do what it takes to make a dollar but there is more jobs and better things to do than take your clothes off in front of a bunch of men. Very downgrading for woman, bet you wouldnt catch a independant woman or clasy doin this job but best of wishes and be carefull ladys to many std's going around and some can even come from just skin on skin contact whjle your grinding on these en...ewww
yes be careful. these women are to be pityed.(to have to work in a dump to get money when there are so many other jobs out there and opportunities.) so sad
Hayley

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Jun 14, 2010
 
To Be Honest wrote:
1) Of course Its for the money. Do you honestly know one person that would enjoy getting on stage stripping off all there clothes off with a room full of strangers for free. I highly doubt it.
About how much per week do you get paid?
Also, do you have to work out a lot to keep the job, or do they (the employers) have specific body preferences?
independent woman

United States

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Jun 14, 2010
 

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I have never stripped, but to all of you who have and come across this website i wouldnt answer any questions for anyone on here. all their going to do is take your honesty about what you do and use it against you. if you do it while trying to get ahead in school or as a second job then so be it! i have a friend who does it and she is a respiratory therapist. I hate when people try to act like they are holier than thou,ughhh! not everybody chooses nor wants to live inside a miserable judgemental BOX people. live a little,damn!
Smurf

Richmond, KY

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Jun 14, 2010
 

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That's BS.
How can someone be degraded by something they allow to happen?
No one forces a girl to become a stripper.

And there are many other jobs out there (even though it's harder than ever to get a good paying one these days, even with a college degree), but if you're a good looking woman with a decent body you can make up to 4 times as much as you would at any other job.
It's perfectly understandable why young women working through college or being single mothers are so drawn to stripping.
Quick, easy money, and it's good money. A good stripper doesn't have to ho herself out in the VIP room either.

I'm not putting you down, just saying maybe your perception of how strip clubs really are is clouded by what the media and movies present to you.
Don't get me wrong, there are dancers that fall too deep into it and get into the drugs. But I bet if you did an anonymous poll at a strip club, and a "regular" work place you'd find that the ratio of clean people to people who do drugs (and use underhanded tactics to get ahead/make more money..anything associate with strippers and strip clubs really) is about the same.
I am a DJ, and have been for 10 years now. But I have also worked in office settings and other jobs during that time. I actually encountered more druggies and whores in the office than I did on a normal night at the club.
People are people, humans are humans, men are men, and girls are girls. It's not like strippers (or anyone that works in that industry) are from another planet or something.
Funny wrote:
But dont you feel degraded or how would you feel about your husband or boyfriend going and having another female all over them? I know it is a job and you have to do what it takes to make a dollar but there is more jobs and better things to do than take your clothes off in front of a bunch of men. Very downgrading for woman, bet you wouldnt catch a independant woman or clasy doin this job but best of wishes and be carefull ladys to many std's going around and some can even come from just skin on skin contact whjle your grinding on these en...ewww
Hayley

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Jun 15, 2010
 
independent woman wrote:
but to all of you who have and come across this website i wouldnt answer any questions for anyone on here. all their going to do is take your honesty about what you do and use it against you. if you do it while trying to get ahead in school or as a second job then so be it!
Not true. I'm seriously considering this job, and would like to know the salary and body type preferences.
To Be Honest

Lexington, KY

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Jun 17, 2010
 
Its easy for everyone to say theres jobs out there when the economy is this bad. What people fail to realize is that finding a job takes a lot of time these days. On top of that its even harder to find a job that will work around school schedules. Take me for instance, I go to school from 10-2 and then 5-8 through out the week. I cant just take a job at Mcdonalds, I have bills to pay. Bills that mcdonalds cant cover.
honest

Loyall, KY

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Jun 17, 2010
 
Jobs are hard to find
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Jun 17, 2010
 

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To Be Honest wrote:
Its easy for everyone to say theres jobs out there when the economy is this bad. What people fail to realize is that finding a job takes a lot of time these days. On top of that its even harder to find a job that will work around school schedules. Take me for instance, I go to school from 10-2 and then 5-8 through out the week. I cant just take a job at Mcdonalds, I have bills to pay. Bills that mcdonalds cant cover.
Hey keep up the good work baby doll. Your doing what you have to do to make the money you need. Dont worry about the haters on here women are always going to hate on other women for stripping. If you got people haten your doing something right.
Hayley

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Jun 21, 2010
 
So, what is the pay?
Dancer

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Mar 4, 2012
 
Hayley wrote:
So, what is the pay?
I'm 20 I've been dancing since I was 18 paying for school and living costs. And while stripping does come with it's downsides I'd say overall it's worth it. I come from a good background and wealthy family I Just take pride in my independence. I live in my own house drive a brand new 30,000 dollar car that I bought when I was 18 my credit score is 750 I'm doing very well for myself. If you have a good head on your shoulders and keep your focus I see nothing wrong with taking a ton of money just for someone to watch you dance the human body is a beautiful thing. I am not dirty and I make on average 800 every shift I work (about 4 or 5 hours) it varies by the time of year the state your in and the club you work for. Every club is run a different way. I recommend corporate clubs such as spearmint rhinos, Deja vus, hustler clubs and so fourth. Most clubs require you to work 1-3 shifts a week and if you choose to do more you simply drop in and work. As long as you aren't violating any of your own boundaries, it can be a very beneficial TEMPORARY job to get you where you want to be. As far as appearance each club has different standards and require an audition but different guys like different things it's not so much about appearance as it is your hustle (how you work the clientele) go for it, if you change your mind then simply quit
noo

York, PA

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Mar 4, 2012
 
Funny wrote:
But dont you feel degraded or how would you feel about your husband or boyfriend going and having another female all over them? I know it is a job and you have to do what it takes to make a dollar but there is more jobs and better things to do than take your clothes off in front of a bunch of men. Very downgrading for woman, bet you wouldnt catch a independant woman or clasy doin this job but best of wishes and be carefull ladys to many std's going around and some can even come from just skin on skin contact whjle your grinding on these en...ewww
If u are beautiful or sexy, there is nothing wrong with showing yourself off or people looking at u. It's not degrading. Someone should be proud that they are blessed to look that way and should be happy. Plus some do enjoy doing it and showing it off. Exhibitionist. it's not a bad or dirty thing. To me...it's no different that wearing a short skirt out somewhere and showing legs. It's just body parts. Whoever it was that made the stupid rules about body parts...well who are they to say? It's just body parts, why are boobs considered dirty and feet or thighs not? Why can guys nipples be seen legally and women's not? Its the same thing, womens just have more fat inside to plump them out. Ridiculous. To me it's all the same. Body is body
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Lexington, KY

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Mar 4, 2012
 
independent woman wrote:
I have never stripped, but to all of you who have and come across this website i wouldnt answer any questions for anyone on here. all their going to do is take your honesty about what you do and use it against you. if you do it while trying to get ahead in school or as a second job then so be it! i have a friend who does it and she is a respiratory therapist. I hate when people try to act like they are holier than thou,ughhh! not everybody chooses nor wants to live inside a miserable judgemental BOX people. live a little,damn!
Your friend must be a c*nt.
love yourself too

Lexington, KY

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Mar 5, 2012
 
Honestly I absolutely love that response! I am a female. In a commited relationship. I have all the self esteem in the world. My bf and I Love strip clubs. I don't think of them the way most people do. I understand the money is good and how hard it is to entertain certain clients. I have girlfriends that danced in college. I've heard a lot about what goes on. I've had horrible experience at clubs before but not the typical female patrons issues. We've went before and because females were in our group not one dancer came over. I've had girls beg for money. Be so messed up that they can't even talk or.function properly. But my biggest pet peeve is impolite girls. We go there for the experience and the show. Whatever you do to make your money you should do it with a smile. If you hate it that bad don't take it out on guest who act appropriatly. And I'm not a big girl. size 8 normal size and when I'm not being a mommy I can still pull of a bikini. But even I don't feel I should be up there naked! Would dancer please speak up to your fellow co-workers that aren't quite up to par. I don't like being the only one taking up for the chunky stripper or the one that looks like she went.retarded trying to dance.
Titty Bar Fan

Lexington, KY

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Mar 5, 2012
 
love yourself too wrote:
Honestly I absolutely love that response! I am a female. In a commited relationship. I have all the self esteem in the world. My bf and I Love strip clubs. I don't think of them the way most people do. I understand the money is good and how hard it is to entertain certain clients. I have girlfriends that danced in college. I've heard a lot about what goes on. I've had horrible experience at clubs before but not the typical female patrons issues. We've went before and because females were in our group not one dancer came over. I've had girls beg for money. Be so messed up that they can't even talk or.function properly. But my biggest pet peeve is impolite girls. We go there for the experience and the show. Whatever you do to make your money you should do it with a smile. If you hate it that bad don't take it out on guest who act appropriatly. And I'm not a big girl. size 8 normal size and when I'm not being a mommy I can still pull of a bikini. But even I don't feel I should be up there naked! Would dancer please speak up to your fellow co-workers that aren't quite up to par. I don't like being the only one taking up for the chunky stripper or the one that looks like she went.retarded trying to dance.
Your experiences don't differ from those that us men run into at the strip clubs. There's always going to be pilled-out/drunkass dancers, ones that hate what they do and it shows on their face, and the beggars ("wanna dance? buy me a drink! gimme some money")- nothing new here.
wondering

Lexington, KY

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Mar 5, 2012
 
Titty Bar Fan wrote:
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Your experiences don't differ from those that us men run into at the strip clubs. There's always going to be pilled-out/drunkass dancers, ones that hate what they do and it shows on their face, and the beggars ("wanna dance? buy me a drink! gimme some money")- nothing new here.
Well, what are you there for?
Titty Bar Fan

Lexington, KY

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Mar 5, 2012
 
wondering wrote:
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Well, what are you there for?
because not ALL of em are like that......duh

plus I like something naked with my beer
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Mar 5, 2012
 
Sad and pathetic...

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