Wanting to adopt a baby girl

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mom23

Bowling Green, KY

#1 Dec 27, 2009
My husband and I have been married for 10 years and have 3 beautiful boys. Two were conceived after several years of fertility treatments and one was adopted from fostercare. We are still participating in foster care, but have been unable to adopt any of our little girls we have hosted. The last one we are still grieving over after having her for 18 months, straight from the hospital. We have been checking into different programs both domestic and international, but it's crazy to spend 25000-50000 dollars, when that money could go directly to the child. If anyone knows of someone, who doesn't want or can't provide for their child, we would love to take them in. We come from a very small family and both of us have dreamed about having a large family.
Hmmmmm

United States

#2 Dec 27, 2009
Have you thought about a serogate?
mom23

Bowling Green, KY

#3 Dec 28, 2009
Hmmmmm wrote:
Have you thought about a serogate?
We have thought of a surrogate, but haven't seen anyone in Lexington, that performs those services. We aren't opposed to exploring that option either.
Hmmmmm

United States

#4 Dec 29, 2009
mom23 wrote:
<quoted text>We have thought of a surrogate, but haven't seen anyone in Lexington, that performs those services. We aren't opposed to exploring that option either.
I have 2 kids, happily married and don't personally want any more kids but I wouldn't be against helping someone else have another child.
Craigslist

Versailles, KY

#5 Dec 29, 2009
mom23 wrote:
My husband and I have been married for 10 years and have 3 beautiful boys. Two were conceived after several years of fertility treatments and one was adopted from fostercare. We are still participating in foster care, but have been unable to adopt any of our little girls we have hosted. The last one we are still grieving over after having her for 18 months, straight from the hospital. We have been checking into different programs both domestic and international, but it's crazy to spend 25000-50000 dollars, when that money could go directly to the child. If anyone knows of someone, who doesn't want or can't provide for their child, we would love to take them in. We come from a very small family and both of us have dreamed about having a large family.
I would try craigslist and make multiple postings in other states, sometimes teen girls get pregnant and the parents help her arrange out-of-state adoptions.
Good luck and I wish you the best.
adoptee

Nicholasville, KY

#6 Dec 29, 2009
If you have 3 kids you should be happy with what you have and leave it at that. Adoption sucks
Vanessa and James

Cameroon

#7 Dec 31, 2009
Hello
I can see that you have gone through failures along your road to have your own child and you are interested in adopting I have a female child that i adopted , I adopted this child because my wife was not able to give me a child , But just 2 weeks ago the doctors confirmed that my wife was pregnant , So i want to give this baby out for adoption to any family that needs to adopt a child , She is 4Months old now , and i stand as the father of the child since i have already adopted her , I want a Christian home that will spoil this Child with love that i had to give her , I am very sorry that it turn out this way, But she is still very small for me to keep her since my wife will soon give me another one.
If you are really interested then let me know where you are from , and a story of your family because i want this child to get to a nice home .
vanesa_milton65@yahoo.com
Waiting
God Bless you
wow

Altamonte Springs, FL

#8 Dec 31, 2009
Vanessa and James wrote:
Hello
I can see that you have gone through failures along your road to have your own child and you are interested in adopting I have a female child that i adopted , I adopted this child because my wife was not able to give me a child , But just 2 weeks ago the doctors confirmed that my wife was pregnant , So i want to give this baby out for adoption to any family that needs to adopt a child , She is 4Months old now , and i stand as the father of the child since i have already adopted her , I want a Christian home that will spoil this Child with love that i had to give her , I am very sorry that it turn out this way, But she is still very small for me to keep her since my wife will soon give me another one.
If you are really interested then let me know where you are from , and a story of your family because i want this child to get to a nice home .
vanesa_milton65@yahoo.com
Waiting
God Bless you
Is this for real?who else is on the adoption papers besides you? any mother listed? is this child related to you? how were you able to adopt as a single father? what state/country are you from?
Spam

Mount Sterling, KY

#9 Dec 31, 2009
Vanessa and James wrote:
Hello
I can see that you have gone through failures along your road to have your own child and you are interested in adopting I have a female child that i adopted , I adopted this child because my wife was not able to give me a child , But just 2 weeks ago the doctors confirmed that my wife was pregnant , So i want to give this baby out for adoption to any family that needs to adopt a child , She is 4Months old now , and i stand as the father of the child since i have already adopted her , I want a Christian home that will spoil this Child with love that i had to give her , I am very sorry that it turn out this way, But she is still very small for me to keep her since my wife will soon give me another one.
If you are really interested then let me know where you are from , and a story of your family because i want this child to get to a nice home .
vanesa_milton65@yahoo.com
Waiting
God Bless you
Go somewhere else and spam...you should be ashamed of yourself trying to take advantage of someone like that.
im from menifee

Lexington, KY

#10 Dec 31, 2009
Vanessa and James wrote:
Hello
I can see that you have gone through failures along your road to have your own child and you are interested in adopting I have a female child that i adopted , I adopted this child because my wife was not able to give me a child , But just 2 weeks ago the doctors confirmed that my wife was pregnant , So i want to give this baby out for adoption to any family that needs to adopt a child , She is 4Months old now , and i stand as the father of the child since i have already adopted her , I want a Christian home that will spoil this Child with love that i had to give her , I am very sorry that it turn out this way, But she is still very small for me to keep her since my wife will soon give me another one.
If you are really interested then let me know where you are from , and a story of your family because i want this child to get to a nice home .
vanesa_milton65@yahoo.com
Waiting
God Bless you
So let me get this straight, because your wife can now give you a child, you are just going to trade this one you adopted out like it is an animal or something that you can simply exchange? After your wife has this one and if she becomes pregnant again are you going to want to get rid of the one shes carrying now? Have you seriously lost your mind?
mom23

Lexington, KY

#11 Jan 5, 2010
My husband and I would be very interested in your little girl, if this was for real, our story is the first post in this thread, if you would like more information, you can email me at ali_kat7603@yahoo.com
Vanessa and James wrote:
Hello
I can see that you have gone through failures along your road to have your own child and you are interested in adopting I have a female child that i adopted , I adopted this child because my wife was not able to give me a child , But just 2 weeks ago the doctors confirmed that my wife was pregnant , So i want to give this baby out for adoption to any family that needs to adopt a child , She is 4Months old now , and i stand as the father of the child since i have already adopted her , I want a Christian home that will spoil this Child with love that i had to give her , I am very sorry that it turn out this way, But she is still very small for me to keep her since my wife will soon give me another one.
If you are really interested then let me know where you are from , and a story of your family because i want this child to get to a nice home .
vanesa_milton65@yahoo.com
Waiting
God Bless you
murtaugh

Lexington, KY

#12 Jan 5, 2010
Vanessa and James wrote:
Hello
I can see that you have gone through failures along your road to have your own child and you are interested in adopting I have a female child that i adopted , I adopted this child because my wife was not able to give me a child , But just 2 weeks ago the doctors confirmed that my wife was pregnant , So i want to give this baby out for adoption to any family that needs to adopt a child , She is 4Months old now , and i stand as the father of the child since i have already adopted her , I want a Christian home that will spoil this Child with love that i had to give her , I am very sorry that it turn out this way, But she is still very small for me to keep her since my wife will soon give me another one.
If you are really interested then let me know where you are from , and a story of your family because i want this child to get to a nice home .
vanesa_milton65@yahoo.com
Waiting
God Bless you
you sir,are the biggest piece of stinking shit that has ever posted on here.i hope this is for real and that the child gets a good home.christian or otherwise.and that the child your wife is carrying gets took from you and placed for adoption as you do not need to raise children.
Oh My

United States

#13 Jan 5, 2010
is he out of his mind -
R U SERIOUS

Columbus, OH

#14 Jan 5, 2010
So now that ur wife is pregnant u just dont want this little girl? Did u even love her or did u just adopt her to make ur wife happy??? How can u spend four months with a child and since another one is on the way u want to get rid of this little girl like she is a piece of clothing that has gone out of style!!
deseray

Yaoundé, Cameroon

#15 Jan 9, 2010
A girl I worked with called me today, her baby is due Aug 4th. She wants an open adoption for her baby. She had a couple picked out and and all these months thought they were taking the baby and they just decided they don't want to adopt anymore. She is frantic now to find good parents wanting to take the baby and called me to help. I don't know what to do but I want to help anyway I can. She does not want to go through any agency, because they are too picky and she wants to pick the parents. The last couple was through an agency and she did not like them. I asked my sister who has been trying for a baby for years, but she isn't sure if she still wants to this late stage of life. I am thinking of taking the baby myself as we have always thought of adopting and just pushed the idea away thinking we could never afford the legal stuff and its just a pain to go thorugh. Don't really know this is just so last minute that its taking all my thinking tonight. She will be calling me in the morning to see if I came up with someone. She is desperate and frantic wanting a family quick. Does anyone have advice?
if you want to adopt this baby let me know her baby is 7 months old contact me at deserayclark@yahoo.com
Sickofit

Mount Sterling, KY

#16 Jan 9, 2010
deseray wrote:
A girl I worked with called me today, her baby is due Aug 4th. She wants an open adoption for her baby. She had a couple picked out and and all these months thought they were taking the baby and they just decided they don't want to adopt anymore. She is frantic now to find good parents wanting to take the baby and called me to help. I don't know what to do but I want to help anyway I can. She does not want to go through any agency, because they are too picky and she wants to pick the parents. The last couple was through an agency and she did not like them. I asked my sister who has been trying for a baby for years, but she isn't sure if she still wants to this late stage of life. I am thinking of taking the baby myself as we have always thought of adopting and just pushed the idea away thinking we could never afford the legal stuff and its just a pain to go thorugh. Don't really know this is just so last minute that its taking all my thinking tonight. She will be calling me in the morning to see if I came up with someone. She is desperate and frantic wanting a family quick. Does anyone have advice?
if you want to adopt this baby let me know her baby is 7 months old contact me at deserayclark@yahoo.com
You are the same spammer from before, your ISP is from Cameroon. And all these months and now she is frantic? Your fictional girl would only be 10 weeks pregnant. You need to either get your story straight and work on a better story or stop giving false hope to people. Get a life!
mom23

Bowling Green, KY

#17 Jan 9, 2010
It's so sad that people would prey on somebody's emotions, I didn't realize how bad the spam was on here. If anyone seriously knows someone that would like to give their child a good home, we're always looking and praying.
Curious

London, KY

#18 Jan 9, 2010
mom23, I am just curious, how come the baby you had taken in for foster care was taken away from you after 18 months? What changed?
mom23

Bowling Green, KY

#19 Jan 9, 2010
Curious wrote:
mom23, I am just curious, how come the baby you had taken in for foster care was taken away from you after 18 months? What changed?
The worker the baby had only made 4 visits to our home in that time, there was no supervision of mom, no one made her do her drug drops, no on checked on the baby while it was going through cocaine withdrawal, no one acted like they cared about the baby at all. I must add this was not a fayette county case, we have had much better workers with fayette. The worker even met with us to talk about adoption, because no one in mom's family was approved to take her and mom's other four children were already in permenant placement. We have no idea, why this child was sent home, but the judge that ordered it, is currently under investigation, and the worker who recommended it, is no longer with the cabinet and the supervisor of the worker has left the cabinet as well.
lmbo

United States

#20 Jan 11, 2010
wow wrote:
<quoted text>
Is this for real?who else is on the adoption papers besides you? any mother listed? is this child related to you? how were you able to adopt as a single father? what state/country are you from?
OMG--it's not a puppy. You sound like a cruel person on soo many levels. Shame on you!!!!

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