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Lexington, KY

#1 Nov 27, 2012
Recently met someone in their mid 30s. The guy is pretty sweet and very respectful. We have been dating for a couple months. When we firts met I talked to.him about wanting to take things slow to get to know each other first. Now after couple of month I really like him but he wont make a move to go all the way (you know having sex). Since we both have kids, iys kinda difficult to just let things happen. I dont know if I should say something about wanting to do it, or would that look bad? Now im thinking about he might be hiding something ... Or somethibg small.... Idk what do u all think
Bankster

Louisville, KY

#2 Nov 27, 2012
Couple months with no sex?

Gay. He's gay. Just give up.
lol

Lexington, KY

#3 Nov 27, 2012
U both are idiots if u went a couple months without sex. No one does that nowadays. He must be hiding something just from u because its guaranteed that he has not went a couple months without...whether it was with u or someone else he got some. Trust me lol
lol

Lexington, KY

#4 Nov 27, 2012
Moving slow is one thing but months is just ridiculous. 5 to 8 dates IS moving slow. If it hasn't happened by then, then just forget it bc I sure wouldn't stick around with anyone who didnt want to by then
Date

Lexington, KY

#5 Nov 28, 2012
Well... Lol= let me tell you,I am not a whore I dont' just go out having SEX with whoever just because. I value myself and I believe that being intimante with someone should mean something more than just sex! but that's just me, I respect your ideals. I have been single for two years and I haven't had sex since. I am perfectly fine , happy and I take care of myself when i need it. I really like this guy and he has no signs of being gay a all!
Sarah

United States

#6 Nov 28, 2012
Well how old are you? I would keep your values but dont date this guy I dont know you but it seems he doesnt really care for you. I wouldnt have sex unless you were married I waited unitl wedding night me and my husband happily married. I am in my early 40's.
Date

United States

#7 Nov 28, 2012
Sarah, I dont know what u mean or if u just didnt read well. We both have kids, been dati nging this guy who I like very much. He is very special , always attent , respectfull, constantly includes me in his plans. Its been little over two months and he has not made a move to go towards next step. Kissing and careness are awesome. I dont think I should be the one who ask to be intimate...
Sarah

United States

#8 Nov 28, 2012
I mean I would consider breaking up with this guy.It just doesnt seem that he cares for you I am sorry if that hurts you but I dont see it, I have children who dated some end up in bad marriages and some have good marriages, the ones that have good marriages is because they asked my approval, the other kids didnt listen and have had bad marriages. I have 4 kids. I dont think it would be proper for a lady to ask a guy for sex but if you are interested in this guy I would hold off on the sex until marriage wether it is with this guy or another guy.
lol

Lexington, KY

#9 Nov 28, 2012
Date wrote:
Well... Lol= let me tell you,I am not a whore I dont' just go out having SEX with whoever just because. I value myself and I believe that being intimante with someone should mean something more than just sex! but that's just me, I respect your ideals. I have been single for two years and I haven't had sex since. I am perfectly fine , happy and I take care of myself when i need it. I really like this guy and he has no signs of being gay a all!
Oh no not another one of u lol. Don't start with that crap. Listen I'm tired of always saying this and people need to understand....it doesn't mean u are a wh@re or slut or anything like that just bc u like to have sex or enjoy it! Women enjoy it just as much as guys and there's nothing wrong with them wanting it! They shouldn't have to be called names or thought of badly just bc they enjoy something! It has nothing to do with value or morals or any of that. There are plenty of good people out there who just love sex.
Sarah

United States

#10 Nov 28, 2012
You are wrong, defintion for wh@re is: a woman going house to house for sex.A promiscuous (indiscriminate, random,)woman will be called a bad a name wh@re. It will catch up with you, dont go after married people date someone who is in love with you but dont be a bad woman.
lol

Lexington, KY

#11 Nov 28, 2012
Sarah wrote:
You are wrong, defintion for wh@re is: a woman going house to house for sex.A promiscuous (indiscriminate, random,)woman will be called a bad a name wh@re. It will catch up with you, dont go after married people date someone who is in love with you but dont be a bad woman.
Just bc a woman likes sex doesn't mean she is going house to house. Men can screw all the girls they want and there is no bad name for them. It's not right
Date

Lexington, KY

#12 Nov 28, 2012
Lol= I love sex and I love myself as well therefor it needs to be a balance. I dont share your opinion! Love, sex, respect, values, and morals go hand and hand with who you are.. Having sex with anyone just because you like sex. It def do not make it right. Not even to imagine how many crazy people are out there... Incliding sick people, you know! Anyways its my opinion , I know people who share ur beliefs and are cheaters, lairs, end up with HIV, ect, etc...
Date

Lexington, KY

#13 Nov 28, 2012
Sarah= I respect your beliefs ... But WHY would I break up with the guy who is the one okay with waiting till I AM ready to make the next move... I dont get you. This days 98% if guys WANT sex the 1st, 2e, or 3er date if you dont give it up, they dont make an effort.... and quite trying. Pathetic! Anyways thats why I have been single for almost two years 'cause those guys are not worth my time anyways.
Sarah

United States

#15 Nov 28, 2012
Sorry honey I didnt mean to upset you dear. Just my take on it you be your own judge sweetheart.I think he dont care for you, Sorry honey I wouldnt upset anyone for anything.
lol

Duluth, GA

#16 Nov 28, 2012
Date wrote:
Lol= I love sex and I love myself as well therefor it needs to be a balance. I dont share your opinion! Love, sex, respect, values, and morals go hand and hand with who you are.. Having sex with anyone just because you like sex. It def do not make it right. Not even to imagine how many crazy people are out there... Incliding sick people, you know! Anyways its my opinion , I know people who share ur beliefs and are cheaters, lairs, end up with HIV, ect, etc...
See that's the thing...ur looking at it wrong. it's not right or wrong! It's not a bad or dirty thing! It's not wrong to like sex or wanna do it. It's only natural. It doesn't matter who u do it with. If u are attracted to someone then just enjoy urself if u want to. U are acting like its right or wrong. It's not! Geez it's not like we are talking about murder or stealing. Those kinda things have a right and wrong
lol

Duluth, GA

#17 Nov 28, 2012
Date wrote:
Sarah= I respect your beliefs ... But WHY would I break up with the guy who is the one okay with waiting till I AM ready to make the next move... I dont get you. This days 98% if guys WANT sex the 1st, 2e, or 3er date if you dont give it up, they dont make an effort.... and quite trying. Pathetic! Anyways thats why I have been single for almost two years 'cause those guys are not worth my time anyways.
The reason is bc it's 2012 for gods sake. It's not 1950 anymore. That's how it's done nowadays. That's why there are so many fwb these days. Or even if u are dating or seeing someone....sex is a part of a relationship. That's just how it's done today. It's not looked at as a bad thing like it was 40 or 50 years ago. Times change! No one can stop it. Just gotta get with the times
Date

Lexington, KY

#18 Nov 28, 2012
Sarah= you did not upset me at all!!!! Is like me telling you that ur men does noy care for you I bit and that I think he sleeps around with another woman on your back... Lol Sarah Iam sorry to say but u kinda strick me as wierdo!!! Thanks for your confusing advise anyways
Date

Lexington, KY

#19 Nov 28, 2012
Lol= thats why you are wrong lol. Sex its not wrong, I never said that. I simply dont see things your way, as you said Sex is natural and we ARE humans NOT animals, therefor values, respect, love towars yourself and others, ect are important. Im def not stuck in old ways , I know things have change nor I act like it. I do care and take my time with people how I might consirer being inside me and sharing such an intimate moment
Lisa

Richmond, KY

#20 Nov 28, 2012
Date wrote:
Sarah, I dont know what u mean or if u just didnt read well. We both have kids, been dati nging this guy who I like very much. He is very special , always attent , respectfull, constantly includes me in his plans. Its been little over two months and he has not made a move to go towards next step. Kissing and careness are awesome. I dont think I should be the one who ask to be intimate...
Since you told him in the beginning that you wanted to take things slow, seems he apparently is leaving it up to you as to when you are ready to take the relationship to another level. I believe if he didn't care for you, he would have already moved on. I think he respects you and doesn't want to rush you into an intimate relationship until you're ready.
Next time the two of you are cuddling, etc., make your move. Let him know you're ready for a more intimate relationship if he is. How things progress from there will tell you where you stand with the guy. Good luck.

Since: May 11

Covington, KY

#21 Nov 28, 2012
Get him drunk. Slip a zanax in his drink. When he passes out toss his salad and he might wake up and love u forever

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