Coworkers sleeping together

Coworkers sleeping together

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Whattodo

Jasper, IN

#1 Jan 29, 2013
I am so confused on what to do..Two of my co workers that I serve with are sleeping together and both are in relationships..The guys fiancÚ who he has been with for years is 8 1/2 months pregnant and would be absolutely devastated if she found out..However she is such a sweet girl and before she left on maternity leave she worked with us as well..I feel like she deserves to know what has been going on since she left..What should I do continue to turn the other cheek or tell his girlfriend??? I would hope if I were ever in her shoes and she was in my position she would tell me..And the worse part is that all our other co workers including the tramp sleeping with her fiancÚ smiles in her face whenever she comes into the restaura
MYOB

Henderson, KY

#2 Jan 29, 2013
You exaggerate your importance.
opinion

Jasper, IN

#3 Jan 30, 2013
I would tell her. She is going to find out sooner or later anyway. You would save her from further embarrassment. He knows he is doing wrong and eventually he will get caught so it won't be a big shock to him. It would give the fiance more time in her life to find someone who would treat her right. There are good men out there believe it or not. Worst case is the fiance don't believe you and and both of them turn on you. But in time she will find out and more than likely come back and apologize to you. But yes I would tell her. She deserves to know. If the other girl has a man I would tell him to. And keep in mind, there are ways to tell them and stay anonymous. They dont have to know its you that blew the whistle. Send a letter or write a note or somthing creative.
woww

Versailles, KY

#4 Jan 30, 2013
Yeah I would def tell her. She does deserve to know. I agree that if you could do it anonymously that would be great but if you went straight up to her face to face she will believe you more. Also you have to realize that even though the cat comes out of the bag that you will still be working with all these people. Just because they are messing around doesn't mean they are going to lose their job or quit when they get caught so that's another thing you have to be prepared for. Anyways good luck to ya! Keep us updated :)
huh

Tucker, GA

#5 Jan 30, 2013
Don't do it. It's none of your business. Let them sort out their own life. Don't get involved.
long john

Jasper, IN

#6 Jan 30, 2013
huh wrote:
Don't do it. It's none of your business. Let them sort out their own life. Don't get involved.
People who say this are the ones who mess around behind there partners back.
huh

Tucker, GA

#7 Jan 30, 2013
Nope, but if the asker isn't the one involved, why bother getting involved. Eventually it will come out, and the asker running and telling will only cause issues between everyone. Let the ones messing up slip up.
long john

Jasper, IN

#8 Jan 30, 2013
huh wrote:
Nope, but if the asker isn't the one involved, why bother getting involved. Eventually it will come out, and the asker running and telling will only cause issues between everyone. Let the ones messing up slip up.
They involved her by letting her and others find out. The other halfs of this infidelity don't deserve it and yes it will come out thanks to people like the asker. Put yourself in the other halves shoes. Thats right, you would want to know asap.
huh

Tucker, GA

#9 Jan 30, 2013
I'd rather hear it from the one doing it before some random person. And really unless they have physical proof the they can't prove that the two are sleeping together. It could just cause the coworkers to get mad at the asker, and then the ones that was told might think that the asker is trying to start problems.
Really

Shelbyville, KY

#10 Jan 30, 2013
She is pregnant, and she deserves to be able to protect herself from his cheating ways. She has a baby to protect inside her. What if she catches something from this man? Tell her the truth as soon as possible. Let her move on with her life without this piece of scum bag. If he is cheating why she is pregnant then think of what a horrible life that she will have with him.
wondering

Versailles, KY

#11 Jan 31, 2013
Any update on what's going on?
A Different View

United States

#12 Jan 31, 2013
Get both couples together and tell them all at the same time maybe they all will want to hook up as a 4sum and let you join,if you can't tell all of them then maybe you should mind your own business
hmm

United States

#13 Jan 31, 2013
I wish l could find a co worker to hook up with. But unfortunately I work with all guys lol. Except for 3 ugly girls in the office
Well

Shelbyville, KY

#14 Jan 31, 2013
I happens in almost every place of business in Lexingon. You have attorneys with their paralegals, bankers with their loan officers, etc. The funny part is their wives are friends with them and don't have a clue.
sheesh

Lexington, KY

#15 Feb 1, 2013
It is cold out, people are only trying to stay warm. Back off.
Kathy

United States

#16 Feb 2, 2013
sheesh wrote:
It is cold out, people are only trying to stay warm. Back off.
Maybe your wife will be one of those wives that are staying warm with a hot shot attorney then. Those attorneys in town seem to be quite the lookers at the ladies. Then she can come home and give you the leftovers which is what you deserve because you sound like a pig.
NOT Dr Phil

Hamilton, OH

#17 Feb 2, 2013
Tell her now. Send Anonymous letter in mail. I beg you. Do it. Would you want to know if you were in her position?
honestly

Tucker, GA

#18 Feb 2, 2013
Tell her. Be the one person who is going to be honest with her.
Well

United States

#19 Feb 2, 2013
NOT Dr Phil wrote:
Tell her now. Send Anonymous letter in mail. I beg you. Do it. Would you want to know if you were in her position?
Here is the problem they have been married for a long time and they get tired of their wives. They want something fresh that excites them. Something that makes them feel like a man again. They want to keep their family because they are smart, but they want the other woman to make them feel good and young again. That is why they have these affairs when they are older men. Call it a mid-life crisis or something like that. The wife probably wouldn't believe you if you told her. She has a great life with lots of money. Why would she leave? She doesn't want to have sex with him anyway because she is not in the mood. She has gone through menopause and isn't interested anymore. Why write a letter?

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