signs that a women is cheating

signs that a women is cheating

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painter

Louisville, KY

#1 Jan 12, 2013
What are signs that a women is cheating cause I think mine is
Sticky Rod

Tyler, TX

#2 Jan 12, 2013
She stops having sex with you, dresses differently, never lets you see her phone, or text messages, becomes private and secretive, might change up her looks, as in hair color, make up, if she does have sex with you, she might start doing things that you two have never done before.
seriously

Jasper, IN

#3 Jan 13, 2013
Sticky Rod wrote:
She stops having sex with you, dresses differently, never lets you see her phone, or text messages, becomes private and secretive, might change up her looks, as in hair color, make up, if she does have sex with you, she might start doing things that you two have never done before.
You nailed it!!! Absolutely 100% accurate....
scorned

New Haven, KY

#4 Jan 13, 2013
okay from a woman side,, she might have been in a bad marriage and he did it first... maybe she got tired of abuse, mentally , physcially and emotionally, dont judge someone before you know there info..
what

Louisville, KY

#5 Jan 13, 2013
scorned wrote:
okay from a woman side,, she might have been in a bad marriage and he did it first... maybe she got tired of abuse, mentally , physcially and emotionally, dont judge someone before you know there info..
U are stupid. Typical topix poster. No one on here judged anyone. No one called anyone a name or not even said one bad thing about the girl. So why did u make this post and comment that u did? There wasn't even an argument on this thread. It was just a simple question and answer. U are just trying to start stuff
chill

Maysville, KY

#6 Jan 13, 2013
what wrote:
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U are stupid. Typical topix poster. No one on here judged anyone. No one called anyone a name or not even said one bad thing about the girl. So why did u make this post and comment that u did? There wasn't even an argument on this thread. It was just a simple question and answer. U are just trying to start stuff
immature people cheat on their control freak as a way to get out of the relationship even if they dont realize why theyre doing it poster might be right and probably is.
hhhg

Lexington, KY

#7 Jan 13, 2013
When someone is cheating on you, you just know.
Brad

Henderson, KY

#8 Jan 13, 2013
Here are a few more things to watch out for:

- Take note if she is suddenly spending a lot more time on facebook, or has recently created a facebook account that you are not aware of. Facebook has become the go-to tool for cheaters to communicate with their side dish. Checking phones is no longer reliable.

- Is she constantly picking fights with you over things that she would have shrugged off three months ago? Everyone who cheats feels guilty about it, both men and women. However, the way we deal with that guilt is very different. Men often assuage their guilt by doing nice things for their wife/girlfriend like buy her flowers, take her out to dinner, etc. Women often rationalize it by picking fights about minute issues, which helps create a negative relationship that makes them feel that infidelity is justified.

- Are any of her close friends acting strangely around you or avoiding direct conversation? Women are normally a lot more emotionally excited about cheating, but normally feel a strong desire to spill all their overflowing excitement out to one or two of their closest friends. If someone who has always been comfortable around you suddenly isn't, they probably know something you don't.

Honestly, the best thing you can do is take mental (or even physical) notes every time she does or says something that doesn't quite seem "right". Then, go back and check previous things she has said and done for contradictions. The ways men and women lie are fundamentally different. Men normally plan and map their lies out well in advance, so that one large lie that they have rehearsed in their heads covers all bases. Women tend to lie on the spur of the moment, telling little white lies whenever the need arises. Because these lies are spontaneous, they will often forget a lie they told three weeks ago and contradict it with another story later. Men usually get caught cheating because they get lazy or careless... we are naturally cocky and increasingly feel bulletproof the more we get away with something. Women usually get caught cheating because they can't keep their story straight.
Brad

Henderson, KY

#9 Jan 13, 2013
I should add something here...

Checking your significant other's phone/email/facebook/etc is a VERY slippery slope. For one, it is a complete breach of trust and privacy. You had better be DAMN sure something is going on before you do it. For another, and I say this both from personal experience and from their experience of others, if you do NOT find what you are looking for, you will not feel the least bit better about the situation. It will only further convince you that she is getting away with something, and you will become increasingly paranoid.
Vet

Lexington, KY

#10 Jan 13, 2013
You can purchase a program that u can get any activity she does on the computer . All you do is download this into your email while on her computer and you can check her activity at any pc, phone or any other device thru your email. This is a wounderful tool. I do PI work so I know it works. Be prepared for what you might find out, it might not be a broken heart experience.
awesome

Louisville, KY

#11 Jan 13, 2013
I love cheating. It's fun to try new people
painter

Louisville, KY

#12 Jan 14, 2013
Yes she does have a Facebook an has for years but uses it the same I assume its all down on her phone. Everything is done on the phone we don't use the computer.and I've look at emails cause I know Facebook send msgs for request and msg people send you. Don't dress any different but notice she dont dress or undress in front of me. Her close friends really don't come around a lot nor do I really talk to them (not in a bad way) ones a sister so she's not going to say anything. But I've notice she don't leave her phone laying around anymore and sometimes goes in the other room or part of the house on certain calls. Also will denie a call then text but that could be coincidence. ( a lot of collectors call and that's me too) so that's not concrete. Don't wanna accuse but its hard to catch anything cause she work days and I'm nights so I'm sleep in the day and not know if she's coming straight home or not cause work schedule varies daily. She may 2,3,5,7,4 hours it varies. What should I do we have kids so it's not that easy just to leave
lol

United States

#13 Jan 14, 2013
painter wrote:
Yes she does have a Facebook an has for years but uses it the same I assume its all down on her phone. Everything is done on the phone we don't use the computer.and I've look at emails cause I know Facebook send msgs for request and msg people send you. Don't dress any different but notice she dont dress or undress in front of me. Her close friends really don't come around a lot nor do I really talk to them (not in a bad way) ones a sister so she's not going to say anything. But I've notice she don't leave her phone laying around anymore and sometimes goes in the other room or part of the house on certain calls. Also will denie a call then text but that could be coincidence.( a lot of collectors call and that's me too) so that's not concrete. Don't wanna accuse but its hard to catch anything cause she work days and I'm nights so I'm sleep in the day and not know if she's coming straight home or not cause work schedule varies daily. She may 2,3,5,7,4 hours it varies. What should I do we have kids so it's not that easy just to leave
Just stay like nothing is wrong and start getting u some on the side too if she's not taking care of u
obvious

Nashville, TN

#14 Jan 14, 2013
Here's a novel ideas, have you ever thought about just asking her? How about just talking.
painter

Louisville, KY

#15 Jan 14, 2013
obvious wrote:
Here's a novel ideas, have you ever thought about just asking her? How about just talking.
I've thought about asking but she's not going to say she's cheating and it shows a lack of trust and to talk about it only lets her know what you know or think is going on and how to better cover herself
been there

United States

#16 Jan 14, 2013
If you have the feeling that she si, then she probably is, go with your instinct, I caught mine by accident just by following a gut feeling.
Chester

Keller, TX

#17 Jan 14, 2013
painter wrote:
Yes she does have a Facebook an has for years but uses it the same I assume its all down on her phone. Everything is done on the phone we don't use the computer.and I've look at emails cause I know Facebook send msgs for request and msg people send you. Don't dress any different but notice she dont dress or undress in front of me. Her close friends really don't come around a lot nor do I really talk to them (not in a bad way) ones a sister so she's not going to say anything. But I've notice she don't leave her phone laying around anymore and sometimes goes in the other room or part of the house on certain calls. Also will denie a call then text but that could be coincidence.( a lot of collectors call and that's me too) so that's not concrete. Don't wanna accuse but its hard to catch anything cause she work days and I'm nights so I'm sleep in the day and not know if she's coming straight home or not cause work schedule varies daily. She may 2,3,5,7,4 hours it varies. What should I do we have kids so it's not that easy just to leave
Sometimes having kids will shut a woman down. They are just to tired to do anything. So don't jump the gun just yet. She very well may not be cheating on you at all.
painter

Louisville, KY

#18 Jan 14, 2013
Chester wrote:
<quoted text>Sometimes having kids will shut a woman down. They are just to tired to do anything. So don't jump the gun just yet. She very well may not be cheating on you at all.
I know kids will shut a woman down because they're tired but whens there's time to rest she has to go do this or that. I just think this is different but nevertheless I hope you're right.
Vet

United States

#19 Jan 14, 2013
You can track her phone. Get her text. Get get phone chats. You can get all. They have many programs for this. What carrier do h have? If you want me to follow her ,I do pi works a side job.
painter

Louisville, KY

#20 Jan 14, 2013
painter wrote:
<quoted text> I know kids will shut a woman down because they're tired but whens there's time to rest she has to go do this or that. I just think this is different but nevertheless I hope you're right.
oh and it seems like her movements aren't planned its all spontaneous now like before she would tell me or I would hear making or telling somebody else know its just out the blue I have to go do this or go here and no invite to go its almost as if I don't exist

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