claudio serpico

UK

#66 Jan 13, 2013
just got out of hospital after 15 months and I need my wheelchair with my great looks and Amazing personality being in a wheelchair does not limit my options but to tell u the truth it is a worry. Its all about that magic word.... LOVE
I know

Duluth, GA

#67 Jan 14, 2013
I've been with a guy in a wheelchair for 20 years. The first 5 years weren't easy because he had just had a totally life changing event happen. He came to terms with hand he was dealt. He is an amazing man. We are probably the exception but our life together as a couple is much more fulfilling than the able bodied couples we know. Any relationship is a gamble and a challenge! You never know where you will end ul in this life. Peace out!
HOVEROUND

Jackson, KY

#70 Jan 15, 2013
All you people talking about sex in wheel chairs!! It's much more kinky to have sex in a hoveround! You can even go to the grand canyon on this thing. I banged this one girl on top of the grand canyon in my hoveround you could hear her yelling and it echoing on the grand canyon...Hoveround takes me where I want to go!!! I had them wheels smkoking on that little hoveround!! balls on wheels, leg in the air..we had a time to rememeber!

Since: Aug 10

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#71 Jan 15, 2013
^^^^^^^^^^

Um, funny. NOT.
Jeff

Cromwell, CT

#72 Jan 26, 2013
zoltan wrote:
i am a T6 level man of 38 years old with spina bifida from Ireland. i can honestly state my opinion would be that the overwhelming majority of women would not date a man born paralysed from the waist down which, although sad, is because of completely justifiable reasons.
1.Sexual Attraction. it is almost impossible that an ablebodied woman would be sexually attracted to a man paralysed from the waist down in a wheelchair and any relationship without mutual sexual attraction is not romantic.
2.It is Human Nature for us to feel sympathy for those who cannot do what we can do and even if she says she doesnt feel sympathy - she is lying
3.Even if he CAN get an erection - what can he DO with it if he cannot stand? She WILL stray.
4.MONEY. there is an excellent chance he doesnt work.
Dude, that is the most ignorant, self pitying thing I have ever read..... I have been in disabled since birth and you know what? You CANT predict what women find attractive..... I dont know why, but I have been called sexy, hot, irresistable, and my physical body is not gonna challenge Brad Pitt anytime soon. You have a point about sort of "natural selection" and it wouldnt be instict for a woman to choose a disabled man over one not. BUT, EVOLUTION results in THOUGHT and INTIMACY superceding shallow crap in humans. Also, the only way someone feels "sympathy" for you is if you feel it for yourself... In other words you feel sorry for yourself... And THAT is probably the reason girls avoid you like the plague.... Here's a hint: Women love confidence and a person who makes them laugh. Doesnt sound like you have either quality....And as far as having a job? Once again, its up to you. I have made a very fine living working since I was 15 years old. If you want to lie around and collect checks from the government, then that too is part of your own poor self image. Please dont project that crap on other people. It's a terrible reinforcement of incorrect stereotypes... now go back to watching the gameshow network....
Jeff

Cromwell, CT

#73 Jan 26, 2013
Ladies, PLEASE do not let some of the "Oh, woe is me!" male wheelchair users commenting on this site to affect you. I've said it once and I'll say it again: One of the most amazing things about women is their mystery. That includes them finding me attractive... But I am not gonna look a gift horse in the mouth.... I dont necessarily understand it but if they are happy with me, I'm happy. EVERYONE has infirmities. Some are just more visible than others.... So I am gonna keep on keepin'on and will find my best friend/lover eventually.(I am divorced, so I already screwed one up!!!) But you need to love yourself before you can be loved... Apparently a lot of these guys see their wheelchair before they see themselves and hate it...... Their loss...
zoltan

Dublin, Ireland

#75 Feb 18, 2013
jeff, i feel it my personal duty to bring you into (kicking & screaming if i hav3e to) the realm of reality from your state of delusion regarding this matter.

FIRSTLY, i have genuinely no doubt that you have a wonderful personality that women find very attractive, but - "dude" - this does not equate to PHYSICAL SEXUAL ATTRACTION, which forms the foundation for all romantic relationship. These women you say that find you ,sexy,,hot, irresistable...jeff, seriously... have you ever heard of confidence-boosting, Jeff? making people feel comfortable? As i have said you no doubt have a great personality & these women obviously see that but you must surely be aware you are also a curiosity to them (i wonder how he does A B & C? & so on.) Jeff, let me assure you most emphatically that the very last thing these women are thinking about when they are talking to you, i assure you, is sex or romance. ALSO - and i re-iterate this weather you like it or not - these women WOULD AND DO FEEL PITY FOR YOU simply because it IS HUMAN NATURE to PITY THOSE WHO CANNOT DO WHAT WE CAN DO. Oh and by the way "dude" (Jesus can ANY of you Americans speak properly at all?) I DON.T pity myself at all. I have my own home, iv been in a long-term relationship for over ten years and a job? Well..........whats the employment-rate for people with disabilities in the US Jeff?

If you don't think that able-bodied women feel pity towards you?

If you think that these able-bodied women are genuinely physically/sexually attracted to you?

You are more than happy to stick to your delusion,
good man.

Open your eyes, Jeff.
zoltan

Dublin, Ireland

#76 Feb 21, 2013
You BADLY NEED to understand something, Jeff. PHYSICAL SEXUAL ATTRACTION IS ROOTED in the ability to MOVE YOUR LOWER BODY. The way you STAND, WALK, MOVE YOUR HIPS, DANCE or CROSS YOUR LEGS. WITHOUT THAT ABILITY YOUR PHYSICAL SEXUAL ATTRACTIVENESS IS GONE "DUDE"
zoltan

Dublin, Ireland

#77 Feb 21, 2013
Just a footnote about the Game-show Channel, Jeff.
By the phrasiology & language you use, maybe its time YOU stopped watching Doctor Phil. You,re an idealist, which has no place in reality. Women AND men ARE shallow & very much geared towards the VISUAL AND THE MATERIAL.
you may be working since the age of 15 but i assure you that you are in a small amount of people with physical (??) disabilities working at all (the GLOBAL PERCENTAGE WORKING is ABYSMAL & UNLIKELY TO CHANGE IN OUR LIFETIME)so please cut the "its all in the attitude" crap.
i fully agree that it is imperative to have an outgoing & positive attitude to life irrespective of your circumstance & that such an attitude is attractive to people around you, but again Jeff, in order for a woman to get involved with you romantically with you, she MUST be PHYSICALLY SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO YOU, and i am, sorry Jeff but these women that call you sexy and irresitable DO NOT mean that in a SEXUAL, ROMANTIC WAY & if one of them DID perchance date you i am telling you that the basis would not be sexual therefore not romantic and , like it or not, she WOULD feel a degree of PITY for you because, as i have already stated it IS HUMAN NATURE.
ZOLTAN
laura holt-fishback

Lexington, KY

#78 Feb 21, 2013
Especially if he is hot and his equipment still works hell yeah!
C5 wheelchair lady

London, UK

#79 Apr 27, 2013
go Somerset wrote:
Sick! Anyone who would make light of someone unfortunate enough to not be able to walk and have to use a w/c for mobility God help you. This could happen to anyone and then what? Oh well, maybe you`ll be fortunate enogh to never know but I do.
crack rabbit is the one friend i will forever want.just like my bestfriend,she will tell you i'm normal.she will tell you i'm going through another phase in life just as everyone those.3 years in wheelchair and i'm loving every bit.yes there are challenges and yes there was challenges when i fully walking.
Malaya Jayce

Indianapolis, IN

#80 May 9, 2013
I have this amazing boyfriend who is in a wheelchair and I'm only 16. He is amazing. Dating a guy in a wheelchair is no different then dating some one who isn't. We've been dating for almost a year and I wouldn't chage anything I love him. <3
love4him

United States

#81 May 12, 2013
MY boyfriend is in a wheelchair and we have no problems having sex. He drives, cooks,cleans,vacuums, change light bulbs, everything he is awesome. I love him for who he is. I dont care if he is in wheelchair. He is an awesome sweet kind gentle intelligent hard working man.
Twins

Johannesburg, South Africa

#82 Jun 10, 2013
i have been dating a guy in a wheelchair for over a year now. He is the greatest guy I have ever known. He hadn't always been in a wheelchair, but was bound to one after an accident that occurred when he was a teenager. When I met him, he had already been in a chair for 10 years. We started as friends, but it quickly escalated unexpectedly. I had been in my fair share of relationships in which (to me) all of them combined do not even come close to being half the man he is. No man has ever made me feel more special, or beautiful in my life and I am an attractive girl. He has the best outlook on life, he is hilarious, attractive, and with his C5/C6 paralysis, he can do pretty much anything he wants if he puts his mind to it. Sure, he has his limitations, but you work around them. If you can accept them, you can find things that you can do together. We enjoy wine tasting, dining experiences, movies, concerts, poker (where we met) cooking, gardening, playing pool, road trips, singing, party's... we do so much together. I enjoy the fact that he loves life. He has many friends because of this. If it weren't for his optimistic personality, I am certain we would not be together. He has a great sense of humor... which made me getting to know him a lot more comfortable. I have learned so much about him, his condition and about loving life. If you find someone who enjoys life to the fullest, I don't think a wheelchair should stop you from getting to know them. I don't even see my boyfriends chair anymore. A lot of people had doubts when I first starting dating him, they weren't sure I could handle it. They wanted me to be happy. But, I am. The happiest I have been my whole life. To those who can't see past the chair, they aren't worth knowing in the first place. Don't be intimidated by the wheelchair. Ask questions... This is one of the first things my boyfriend told me. He said he would rather I ask questions then sit and wonder.
I believe there is someone out there for everyone.

I feel like I wrote this comment, you took the words out of my mouth. I am keen to learn more as my bf has the same injury but his spinal cord is deteriorating. Could u send me your email address so I can mail u some q's pls?
Zoltan-is-a-moro n

Peachtree City, GA

#84 Oct 7, 2013
ZOLTAN.... You're a freaking moron and its sad!!! first off don't you dare tell any American about American women... you're from fucking Dublin little guy, it SUCKS there everything from your climate to you community.... I've been there done that! How dare you try and give someone advice about dating and women when your some sad cripple sitting in your low-income wheelchair! your life sucks.... but that doesn't give you the right to try and undercut someone else's. you're one of those cripples that likes to try and undercut other disabled men's lives because you are honestly jealous!!! you like to think you're smart about women (when i bet the only females you've seen wipe your ass and get payed to sit in your living room ALL DAMN DAY) and you probably have never been in a real relationship and honestly little guy, you won't because guess what.... your attitude smells like your irish breath! Jeff is TWICE the man you are! I keep calling you "little guy" because i wouldn't even notice you here in the states... why? because you're one of those who settles for your SSI! ME on the other hand I was born to a power wheelchair and bullshit if it would best me! I have accomplished a lot... High school class president, 3-time state champion and former nation champ in 2 different wheelchair sports, 2 B.A.'s,$65,000 annual salary,$400,000 fully accessible house with elevator on 2 acres,$140,000 van, My own LLC. making paintball wheelchairs for vets, and thats not even the tip of the ice berg little guy! basically, i'm smearing your face in the fact that MY ATTITUDE and MY CONFIDENCE go hand in hand and none of those things above would have happened if I felt or thought like you do with women! JEFF your all good bro don't worry about some loser in Dublin trying to throw his philosophical nuts around on people who have a higher standard of living AND THINKING! I mean hell Jeff, Zoltan here tried and talk a girl out of her love for a man with a disability on a freaking disability dating chat board!!! ZOLTAN IS SIMPLY UNEDUCATED IN LOVE/A HATER TRYING TO DIMINISH THE ACCOMPLISHMENTS OF OTHERS TO LOWER THE BAR FOR HIMSELF! ITS TRAGIC AND HE IS JUST CREATING MORE PEOPLE TO "PITY" HIM!!!!!!
P.S.- Little guy.... I'm engaged to an ex-hawiian tropic model with a son on the way..... she must be full of "pity" and "lack of attraction" for me.... wow your entire point and way of life just got manhandled! Merica' chump!
Lot Monkey

Richmond, KY

#85 Oct 7, 2013
I loves me a woman in a wheelchair. They can't run away.
braintrain

Evansville, IN

#86 Oct 8, 2013
I have a few friends in wheelchairs and while I am married being in a wheelchair would not exclude them if I were looking. I think it is sad how judgemental we are as a society that we would say no to someone just for that reason. Do some things require a little more planning or a different way of doing it ? Sure but the same exists when you have kids. Doesn't make them less of a person or less able to feel emotion and love. If they are a quality person and you would date them out of a wheelchair why would you not date them in ? If you are just curious about how certain things would work that is completely understandable. I will be the first to say I am utterly amazed at how independent some of what I would be are dependent people are. If you turn them down for other reasons that is fine, but solely because they are in a wheelchair? If that was the case that would make you very shallow my friend.
Bodhi926

Spokane, WA

#87 Oct 27, 2013
I've been in a chair for 19 yrs, I hate the fact that women overlook me as a possible date or boyfriend, I've had a fair amount of sex (it's different for every person in a chair) because it depends on WHY they are in the chair. But don't just think cuz their in a chair they can't have sex. I'm amazed at what women will out up with when it comes to boyfriends, cheaters, liars, drunks, druggies, physical & mentally abusive when here I sit alone , sober and sane...I get told a lot that I'm hot but guess they either worry about what people would say or think they are settling. Honestly I don't get it and it sucks
zoltan

Dublin, Ireland

#88 Dec 11, 2013
FIRSTLY, YOU IMBECILIC, EMPTY-HEADED NOMADIC AMERICAN PIG (which is EXACTLY WHAT ALL 300 MILLION OF YOU ARE)If you ACTUALLY KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT YOUR PATHETIC COUNTRY,S "HISTORY" YOU KNOW THAT THE IRISH PEOPLE THAT YOU OBVIOUSLY DELIGHT IN ABUSING ARE THE VERY PEOPLE THAT HELPED BUILD YOUR SHIT-FILLED MELTING POT IN THE FIRST PLACE WHICH MAKES AN ABSOLUTE MOCKERY OF YOUR ABUSE OF MY COUNTRY. SECONDLY, WHERE DID YOUR PARENTS ORIGINATE FROM? I WOULD VENTURE EUROPE, ASIA OR AFRICA SO YOU ARE NOT EVEN AN AMERICAN. AS A PREAMBLE TO MY THIRD POINT YOU MENTION YOU ARE CONFINED TO AN ELECTRIC WHEELCHAIR FROM BIRTH. YOU MAY CONSIDER YOURSELF LUCKY TO BE BORN AT ALL BECAUSE IT IS A FAST THAT MOST GENTICALLY-DISABLED FEOTUSES ARE AUTOMATICALLY ABORTED IN YOUR SHITHOLE COUNTRY. LOOK IT UP. TO MY THIRD AND FINAL POINT, IF YOU HAD BOTHERED TO ACTUALLY READ WHAT I WROTE PROPERLY (HARDLY SURPRISING GIVEN THE AVERAGE AMERICAN COULDN'T POINT OUT ITALY ON A MAP LET ALONE ANYWHERE ELSE) I WAS REFERRING TO YOUNG WOMEN IN GENERAL, IRRESPECTIVE OF ORIGIN. READ MY ORIGINAL TEXT AGAIN. IF YOU DENY THE NATURAL LAW OF PHYSICAL ATTRACTION AND HUMAN NATURE THEN YOU ARE EVERY BIT AS MENTALLY DEFECTIVE AS YOUR FELLOW COUNTRYPEOPLE.

WHAT A PITY IT WASNT A NUCLEAR ATTACK INSTEAD OF AEROPLANES THAT DAY.
beccalizbeth

Winnsboro, TX

#89 Jan 11, 2014
Hello there, Iv been talkin to a guy in a wheelchir on the internet,,we seem to be gettin really close,, what kin of things should I personally be prepared to do fr him if we married??He has colostamy bag,,moves hands an arms fine.We seem to get long really great. Any help or comments???

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