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Wondering

Chicago, IL

#1 Jan 12, 2014
I'm just wondering, and half-hoping to restore my faith in men, is there any guy on here who can honestly say they've never cheated on their girlfriend/wife?
Testosterone

Henderson, KY

#2 Jan 13, 2014
Wondering wrote:
I'm just wondering, and half-hoping to restore my faith in men, is there any guy on here who can honestly say they've never cheated on their girlfriend/wife?
Nope, we ALL cheat!
Any guy who tells you otherwise is a liar hoping to ride you.

The same goes with the gals. They cheat too -- the only difference is that they all pretend to be 'good girls'-- BWAHAHAA!
yep

United States

#3 Jan 13, 2014
Testosterone wrote:
<quoted text>Nope, we ALL cheat!
Any guy who tells you otherwise is a liar hoping to ride you.

The same goes with the gals. They cheat too -- the only difference is that they all pretend to be 'good girls'-- BWAHAHAA!
Very true
wello

United States

#5 Jan 13, 2014
No they don't all cheat! I have a great husband and I know I'm very lucky because he's a rare one!
yep

United States

#6 Jan 13, 2014
wello wrote:
No they don't all cheat! I have a great husband and I know I'm very lucky because he's a rare one!
If he had the chance he would. He just be too ugly to find another woman or get hit on. Or he's too smart to get caught
wello

United States

#7 Jan 13, 2014
yep wrote:
<quoted text>If he had the chance he would. He just be too ugly to find another woman or get hit on. Or he's too smart to get caught
He's good looking and he wouldn't! I'm no fool, I know how to make him and keep him happy! Even if I didn't, he wouldn't go any where because he's the kind of man that sees and appreciates a good woman. That I'm more than a sex partner. And if it were that bad at home, he'd divorce me first, but he's a happy man!
Now, my ex husband is another story. He had a wondering eye at all times. I couldn't go anywhere without him constantly scanning the room. There was nothing I could do to keep him happy. I tried everything except a threesome. I just wasn't his type. He likes the trashy type and strippers. I finally told him he could have them.
yep

United States

#8 Jan 13, 2014
wello wrote:
<quoted text>He's good looking and he wouldn't! I'm no fool, I know how to make him and keep him happy! Even if I didn't, he wouldn't go any where because he's the kind of man that sees and appreciates a good woman. That I'm more than a sex partner. And if it were that bad at home, he'd divorce me first, but he's a happy man!
Now, my ex husband is another story. He had a wondering eye at all times. I couldn't go anywhere without him constantly scanning the room. There was nothing I could do to keep him happy. I tried everything except a threesome. I just wasn't his type. He likes the trashy type and strippers. I finally told him he could have them.
Doesn't matter what u do at home or how happy he is. That's not always why guys cheat. They can be perfectly happy but still take another woman if they could. It has nothing to do with u or how u act or treat him. Example...I could come home to u every day and u could give me 100 dollars to keep me happy with money. But say I was out somewhere and someone just gave me another 100 bucks. Well I'm not gonna sit there and not accept it just because u were already giving me money at home! I'm gonna take their money too! Same concept. Some men will take all they can get. And women will too. And nothing wrong with that! He could stop and have a quickie with someone on his way home from work or whatever. U would never know a thing
wello

United States

#9 Jan 13, 2014
yep wrote:
<quoted text>Doesn't matter what u do at home or how happy he is. That's not always why guys cheat. They can be perfectly happy but still take another woman if they could. It has nothing to do with u or how u act or treat him. Example...I could come home to u every day and u could give me 100 dollars to keep me happy with money. But say I was out somewhere and someone just gave me another 100 bucks. Well I'm not gonna sit there and not accept it just because u were already giving me money at home! I'm gonna take their money too! Same concept. Some men will take all they can get. And women will too. And nothing wrong with that! He could stop and have a quickie with someone on his way home from work or whatever. U would never know a thing
My husband says that all men are dogs. I agree. Only some are good dogs and he's one of them. For now, I trust him and he gives me no reason to think I shouldn't. All I can say is, he'd better be dm good at hiding it because after my last husband, my radar is always on. My ex, although brazen, thought he was sly and couldn't get caught, but I picked up on all those subtle things that got my attention and I didn't ignore them. I gave him several chances to stop and wished I hadn't, but finally, I had enough.
yep

United States

#10 Jan 13, 2014
wello wrote:
<quoted text>My husband says that all men are dogs. I agree. Only some are good dogs and he's one of them. For now, I trust him and he gives me no reason to think I shouldn't. All I can say is, he'd better be dm good at hiding it because after my last husband, my radar is always on. My ex, although brazen, thought he was sly and couldn't get caught, but I picked up on all those subtle things that got my attention and I didn't ignore them. I gave him several chances to stop and wished I hadn't, but finally, I had enough.
Well if I was him I would leave u anyway! I wouldn't put up with that crap from any woman. Gonna be snooping and watching everything I do saying your radar is always on. U either trust him or u don't. If u don't then leave. If u do, then no need for a radar and snooping
wello

United States

#11 Jan 13, 2014
Wow! I never said that I snoop! As far as my radar goes, it's on out of instinct and being burnt before and it's turned all the way down. I do trust him and he gives me no reason not to. He can go where he wants and I don't question him about when he's coming back or who was there. I don't need to because he's given me no reason. I trust him completely because he's an honest man.
My question to you is, if all men cheat, why would it matter to you if a woman trusted the man or not? You're gonna cheat either way, so what's it matter? You give no woman a reason to trust! So you can't complain if she doesn't trust you.
big boy

Pikeville, KY

#12 Jan 13, 2014
Wondering wrote:
I'm just wondering, and half-hoping to restore my faith in men, is there any guy on here who can honestly say they've never cheated on their girlfriend/wife?
I can honestly say ive never cheated on anyone whom I was married to or dating. I divorced my ex wife for cheating on me. caught her with her ex husband in our bed. I beat the shit out of him and kicked her ass out of my house. Im a 37 year old man and i believe if your not happy with your partner/spouse, then break it off with them. I would of rather her left me and divorced me instead of cheating on me.
big boy

Pikeville, KY

#13 Jan 13, 2014
Testosterone wrote:
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Nope, we ALL cheat!
Any guy who tells you otherwise is a liar hoping to ride you.
The same goes with the gals. They cheat too -- the only difference is that they all pretend to be 'good girls'-- BWAHAHAA!
Typical topix reject who thinks they know everyone and everything. Speak for yourself jack. Some of us still have morals in this country.
Bret

Lexington, KY

#14 Jan 13, 2014
I never had . Which is 100% honesty
yep

Lexington, KY

#15 Jan 13, 2014
wello wrote:
Wow! I never said that I snoop! As far as my radar goes, it's on out of instinct and being burnt before and it's turned all the way down. I do trust him and he gives me no reason not to. He can go where he wants and I don't question him about when he's coming back or who was there. I don't need to because he's given me no reason. I trust him completely because he's an honest man.
My question to you is, if all men cheat, why would it matter to you if a woman trusted the man or not? You're gonna cheat either way, so what's it matter? You give no woman a reason to trust! So you can't complain if she doesn't trust you.
Well that's how u should be. That's how all women should be! All the ones that are those jealous and snooping type don't even deserve to have a man. But anyway, yes I give every woman reasons to trust me! I never give anyone a reason not to so they have no reason not to. What I do when I'm out or on my own time is my business. Not theirs. All that matters when we are together is me and them. I'll admit I've had my extra fun plenty of times. No one I've ever dated has even suspected a thing because I know what I'm doing. I don't change. Like other idiot guys that get caught. They get caught because they are dumb. Like I said, ur guy could be out banging someone at anytime and u would never ever know. So trust all u want
Wondering

Taylor, MI

#16 Jan 13, 2014
"Testosterone" that's not true, I've never even had the thought cross my mind in any relationship. I don't even understand the concept of cheating. I'm an average girl, low maintenance, I don't ever use his money, I work hard for where I've gotten, I workout and get hit on pretty often so I know I'm not terrible looking and he gets sex any night he wants. Yet every single relationship I've been cheated on in. I can't figure out where I'm going wrong or if it's just the thing to do in a relationship. But I am glad to hear that it's not for everyone.
Tell me

Richmond, KY

#17 Jan 14, 2014
Wondering wrote:
"Testosterone" that's not true, I've never even had the thought cross my mind in any relationship. I don't even understand the concept of cheating. I'm an average girl, low maintenance, I don't ever use his money, I work hard for where I've gotten, I workout and get hit on pretty often so I know I'm not terrible looking and he gets sex any night he wants. Yet every single relationship I've been cheated on in. I can't figure out where I'm going wrong or if it's just the thing to do in a relationship. But I am glad to hear that it's not for everyone.
You say he gets sex all the time, but are you good at it? About 5% of the women I've had sex with just lay there and don't get freaky with it. I know a couple were really shy and inexperienced, and a couple were just shitty at sex. The odd thing is that one of them was great at giving oral, but just wasn't good at sex. She enjoyed it, bc she wanted it usually twice a day, but she just laid there most of the time. She just wasn't good at moving her body. It was really funny to watch her try to dance when we'd go out with her friends. Point is that if your not keeping things interesting then the same thing can get old fast. I have never cheated on my wife, but I admit I did cheat on most of the girls I dated before I met my wife. It is weird though. I've got a buddy that ever girl that's ever seen him think he's sexy as hell. He's been with alot of women. The odd thing is that every woman he got serious with and dated for an extended period of time, they ended up cheating on him. I mean every one of them. I don't know if he's wasn't giving it to them right, or if he just wasn't changing up the routine or what. Point is both sexes cheat if its in their nature, and their not getting what they need I think. I would divorce my wife before I cheated on her though. I believe in the sanctity of marriage. Last thing, do you have an orgasm most of the time you have sex? I do know one reason people cheat is if their partners not getting off, it makes them feel incompetent, so they cheat to try to raise their self esteem.
yep

United States

#18 Jan 14, 2014
Wondering wrote:
"Testosterone" that's not true, I've never even had the thought cross my mind in any relationship. I don't even understand the concept of cheating. I'm an average girl, low maintenance, I don't ever use his money, I work hard for where I've gotten, I workout and get hit on pretty often so I know I'm not terrible looking and he gets sex any night he wants. Yet every single relationship I've been cheated on in. I can't figure out where I'm going wrong or if it's just the thing to do in a relationship. But I am glad to hear that it's not for everyone.
Read my earlier posts. I'm telling u the truth for all guys. It has nothing to do with u, how u treat your guy or any of that. Cheating is simply done bc it can be. For something new and different than the same old woman every single night. Guys always like to enjoy something different. It's just about getting off and feeling good. It has nothing to do with u. It doesn't even mean that he doesn't like or love u. Most guys will take some anytime whenever they can find it. It's nothing u are doing. It's simply bc he wants to try a different p***y and get a new experience. U are the crazy one for not taking advantage of all the guys hitting on u at the gym. If I was a girl id be enjoying a new guy each night and having fun!
yep

United States

#19 Jan 14, 2014
Tell me wrote:
<quoted text>You say he gets sex all the time, but are you good at it? About 5% of the women I've had sex with just lay there and don't get freaky with it. I know a couple were really shy and inexperienced, and a couple were just shitty at sex. The odd thing is that one of them was great at giving oral, but just wasn't good at sex. She enjoyed it, bc she wanted it usually twice a day, but she just laid there most of the time. She just wasn't good at moving her body. It was really funny to watch her try to dance when we'd go out with her friends. Point is that if your not keeping things interesting then the same thing can get old fast. I have never cheated on my wife, but I admit I did cheat on most of the girls I dated before I met my wife. It is weird though. I've got a buddy that ever girl that's ever seen him think he's sexy as hell. He's been with alot of women. The odd thing is that every woman he got serious with and dated for an extended period of time, they ended up cheating on him. I mean every one of them. I don't know if he's wasn't giving it to them right, or if he just wasn't changing up the routine or what. Point is both sexes cheat if its in their nature, and their not getting what they need I think. I would divorce my wife before I cheated on her though. I believe in the sanctity of marriage. Last thing, do you have an orgasm most of the time you have sex? I do know one reason people cheat is if their partners not getting off, it makes them feel incompetent, so they cheat to try to raise their self esteem.
This is also very true. I have been with a lot of women who were horrible at sex. They just lay there like they don't even know what's going on. I mean seriously some of them don't even let out a single moan or make a sound or anything. No emotion of enjoying it, yet they always say it was good and wanna hook up again. A guy can't get into it that way!
Wondering

Taylor, MI

#20 Jan 14, 2014
I guess I don't know, I can usually get the "I last forever" or "I can't go with a condom" guys to go pretty quickly. But so far as once the newness wears off, maybe that's it. I try, but I'm up keeping a household that they usually show little interest in helping with. Still, I've been with guys that weren't really the best, but good communication goes a long way, it doesn't mean that I give up and turn to someone else.
Wondering

Taylor, MI

#21 Jan 14, 2014
"yup" (sorry, my phone won't let me quote) I don't see sex as the highest priority, and I enjoy molding one guy rather then start over with someone new all of the time. Thrill of the chase is more thrill of the caught. A girl that's slept around a lot is regarded more sourly then a guy that's slept around a lot, by herself and others. But if that's true then I might as well get comfortable forever single.

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