Stupid women who stay with a cheating...
wow

Georgetown, KY

#21 Oct 26, 2013
coming clean wrote:
Judge me all you want. I really don't care. It happened and I am trying to find him. What if it happens that I got pregnant by him & he doesn't know. Perhaps he would like to know his daughter! She deserves to know him & have the opportunity to have him in her life. Does anyone even know him and where he is now? He worked at Toyota, 3rd shift skilled trade/maintenance. His name is Billy G.


First you just wanted his wife to know so that you wasn't the only one suffering, misery does love company. Now you had a child and your looking on topix to find him to tell him. Which story is it? People shouldn't cheat period, but it is not your place to tell her. Should she know? Yes. But he is her husband and it should be him. I know a girl who slept with a married man, he called it off and first thing she did was pick up the phone. She stayed with the guy and my friend was broken hearted. Lesson to learn don't sleep with married men. And for all the men who cheat, what happens when you bring home something that can't be cured?
do it

Georgetown, IN

#22 Oct 26, 2013
coming clean wrote:
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Thank you! Finally someone who understands. Now if someone would just come out & tell me where I can find him. I did find out he left Toyota for a different job but not because he told his wife. Someone help me out here plz.
My husband works at Toyota and cheated(probably still is) and the girl who he cheated on me with told me. I am soooo thankful she told me, even tho it devastated me, I am thankful that I'm not living his lie of a life anymore. I had no clue because we had sex daily,3 kids and how swore he'd never cheat. It makes me so angry that people take up for the cheater a d bash the female for Being hurt and or angry. The wife deserves to know and the coward will never tell her.......he'll just keep on living a lie. So, go find her and tell her, but be nice to the wife because she did nothing to deserve this and SHE is not your enemy. Also, don t expect her to be your friend or act like she believes you because you will have turned her world upside down. She loves him and has been living a life of lies lies lies.....I'm just saying be nice to her....its not her fault she married a lying, cheating, douchebag
STFU

Georgetown, KY

#23 Oct 26, 2013
do it wrote:
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My husband works at Toyota and cheated(probably still is) and the girl who he cheated on me with told me. I am soooo thankful she told me, even tho it devastated me, I am thankful that I'm not living his lie of a life anymore. I had no clue because we had sex daily,3 kids and how swore he'd never cheat. It makes me so angry that people take up for the cheater a d bash the female for Being hurt and or angry. The wife deserves to know and the coward will never tell her.......he'll just keep on living a lie. So, go find her and tell her, but be nice to the wife because she did nothing to deserve this and SHE is not your enemy. Also, don t expect her to be your friend or act like she believes you because you will have turned her world upside down. She loves him and has been living a life of lies lies lies.....I'm just saying be nice to her....its not her fault she married a lying, cheating, douchebag
Look stupid! No one is taking up for a cheater!!! It's just that you women are too stupid to realize that the girl he cheats with is just as bad.. But YOU ALL take up for each other like the married man forced your ignorant asses to participate. Why aren't you bashing this girl for screwing around with a married man? Why is the guy bad, but yet you feel sorry for the other half that did the exact same thing? How do you know he started the relationship and not her?
wow

Round Rock, TX

#24 Oct 27, 2013
coming clean wrote:
So are you guys defending him or do you just have no idea where I can find him. How fair is it that I have suffered while he still gets to play husband and father of the year? Yes I do want his wife to know. As far as I know they are still married and she doesn't have a clue that he fooled around on her. She has the right to know! And maybe me telling her could keep her from having to go through it again b/c once a cheater, always a cheater. He even cheated on his first wife. They were only married about a year. So does anyone know the guy I am referring to? Are they still married for sure? Did he really leave Toyota?
Please. Please don't tell her. Just go on with your life and stop trying to find ways to destroy hers. It sounds to me like you are angry at him and you have a right to be! He lied to you as well I'm sure.:( Just be happy you missed that piece of trash and move on.
Stupid

United States

#25 Oct 27, 2013
STFU wrote:
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Look stupid! No one is taking up for a cheater!!! It's just that you women are too stupid to realize that the girl he cheats with is just as bad.. But YOU ALL take up for each other like the married man forced your ignorant asses to participate. Why aren't you bashing this girl for screwing around with a married man? Why is the guy bad, but yet you feel sorry for the other half that did the exact same thing? How do you know he started the relationship and not her?
You're so stupid. Do you ever stop to think that nobody forces the men to cheat, they CHOOSE to screw outside their marriage and blaming or hating the wh**res they choose to screw is a waste of time and energy. Are they married to the skank or their cheating lying scumbag of a husband??? The man chose to marry his wife, be faithful and many other things including cheating. We are not taking up for the idiots that pursue, screw, love these married men, but lashing out on just the skanks, well is a waste. The skank didn't vow to love me till death, my husband did. Obviously I know it takes two to tango per say but unless I'm married to both, which I'm not, my concern is my husband that chose to bring a skank in our life. I just can't stand it when people just blame the girl solely. Plus WHY DON'T YOU FOR ONCE CONSIDER THE WIFE, THE KIDS AND ALL THE PAIN THAT COMES ALONG WITH AN AFFAIR. if you can't, then you are an idiot. No one comes out on the winning side after an affair. If you're not happy, be a man and tell your wife BEFORE you choose to lie, cheat, and destroy your family. Because your marriage will never ever be the same.
STFU

Georgetown, KY

#26 Oct 27, 2013
Stupid wrote:
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You're so stupid. Do you ever stop to think that nobody forces the men to cheat, they CHOOSE to screw outside their marriage and blaming or hating the wh**res they choose to screw is a waste of time and energy. Are they married to the skank or their cheating lying scumbag of a husband??? The man chose to marry his wife, be faithful and many other things including cheating. We are not taking up for the idiots that pursue, screw, love these married men, but lashing out on just the skanks, well is a waste. The skank didn't vow to love me till death, my husband did. Obviously I know it takes two to tango per say but unless I'm married to both, which I'm not, my concern is my husband that chose to bring a skank in our life. I just can't stand it when people just blame the girl solely. Plus WHY DON'T YOU FOR ONCE CONSIDER THE WIFE, THE KIDS AND ALL THE PAIN THAT COMES ALONG WITH AN AFFAIR. if you can't, then you are an idiot. No one comes out on the winning side after an affair. If you're not happy, be a man and tell your wife BEFORE you choose to lie, cheat, and destroy your family. Because your marriage will never ever be the same.
Your concern is not your husband that brought a skank into your life. Your concern here is sticking your nose in other peoples business that has nothing to do with you or your life. You just want to persecute ever man on earth for what happened to you! There was a skank that was with your hubby and you are on here taking up for a skank on this thread. Calling the man a lying home wrecker and then taking up for the skank is ignorant
coming clean

Nicholasville, KY

#27 Oct 27, 2013
Well I did not force B.G. to have an affair with me by any means. I know what we did was (is) wrong but it happened non-the-less & can't be erased. It just drives me nuts that he is getting off scott free. He has his precious wife believing that he loves her and would never cheat on her! He puts on this big show that they have a perfect relationship & marriage. Well, if it is so damn perfect and he loves her so much then why did he cheat on her? Like I said, he wasn't forced. So yes, I believe she needs to know. Of course he would probably convince her it isn't true. From my understanding she thinks he hung the moon and does no wrong and she is gullible & naive. Not meaning to put her down, just saying that she needs to know what he can really do while she is home playing house with a man she believes does no wrong & is probably doing it again. Even if no one tells me where he is does any one even know the guy I am referring to?
wow

Georgetown, KY

#28 Oct 27, 2013
I am not defending neither the cheater or the other woman/man. I do think the spouse should know, but not from someone who just wants to hurt. Would I want to know, yes. Marriage is hard work and sometimes when things aren't going so good and someone starts showing you attention, affairs happen. But just because it's over doesn't mean that the mistress should go out of her way to destroy a marriage. Some marriages do make it. Am I the only one who watched, Fatal Attraction?
cold

United States

#29 Oct 27, 2013
Stupid wrote:
<quoted text>You're so stupid. Do you ever stop to think that nobody forces the men to cheat, they CHOOSE to screw outside their marriage and blaming or hating the wh**res they choose to screw is a waste of time and energy. Are they married to the skank or their cheating lying scumbag of a husband??? The man chose to marry his wife, be faithful and many other things including cheating. We are not taking up for the idiots that pursue, screw, love these married men, but lashing out on just the skanks, well is a waste. The skank didn't vow to love me till death, my husband did. Obviously I know it takes two to tango per say but unless I'm married to both, which I'm not, my concern is my husband that chose to bring a skank in our life. I just can't stand it when people just blame the girl solely. Plus WHY DON'T YOU FOR ONCE CONSIDER THE WIFE, THE KIDS AND ALL THE PAIN THAT COMES ALONG WITH AN AFFAIR. if you can't, then you are an idiot. No one comes out on the winning side after an affair. If you're not happy, be a man and tell your wife BEFORE you choose to lie, cheat, and destroy your family. Because your marriage will never ever be the same.
Then quit snooping and keep ur damn nose to urself and u won't get hurt. That kills me how all these idiot wives think their husband is cheating bc they arms jealous or insecure so then they go trying to catch him. Why go looking for hurt!? If u don't wanna be hurt and go through all that then quit looking for it! And u will go on living as a happy family
STFU

Georgetown, KY

#30 Oct 27, 2013
coming clean wrote:
Well I did not force B.G. to have an affair with me by any means. I know what we did was (is) wrong but it happened non-the-less & can't be erased. It just drives me nuts that he is getting off scott free. He has his precious wife believing that he loves her and would never cheat on her! He puts on this big show that they have a perfect relationship & marriage. Well, if it is so damn perfect and he loves her so much then why did he cheat on her? Like I said, he wasn't forced. So yes, I believe she needs to know. Of course he would probably convince her it isn't true. From my understanding she thinks he hung the moon and does no wrong and she is gullible & naive. Not meaning to put her down, just saying that she needs to know what he can really do while she is home playing house with a man she believes does no wrong & is probably doing it again. Even if no one tells me where he is does any one even know the guy I am referring to?
So you wish to relieve yourself of pain that you brought on yourself by inflicting pain on an innocent lady and her kids? Lady, you deserve every ounce of grief that shall ever come your way in life. Nothing will ever ease the pain inside you...... You were just born to be miserable and cause grief to yourself and everyone you encounter. Hurting others will never ease the hate inside you!

Since: Oct 13

United States

#31 Oct 27, 2013
cold wrote:
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Then quit snooping and keep ur damn nose to urself and u won't get hurt. That kills me how all these idiot wives think their husband is cheating bc they arms jealous or insecure so then they go trying to catch him. Why go looking for hurt!? If u don't wanna be hurt and go through all that then quit looking for it! And u will go on living as a happy family
I feel sorry for you and how stupid you are
cold

United States

#32 Oct 27, 2013
cheatersux wrote:
<quoted text>I feel sorry for you and how stupid you are
No u all the dumb ones that try to go hurting urself by snooping
Jessica

Frankfort, KY

#33 Oct 27, 2013
I am a cheater, I love to have sex with young guys
coming clean

United States

#34 Oct 27, 2013
Does anyone know the guy I am referring to? If you do, do you think he will ever come clean to her?
baggins

United States

#35 Oct 27, 2013
Jessica wrote:
I am a cheater, I love to have sex with young guys
Yea right. U are just a troll getting people riled up. U are prob a guy
wow

Georgetown, KY

#36 Oct 27, 2013
Jessica wrote:
I am a cheater, I love to have sex with young guys
Your an idiot. Who cares.
Really

Owensboro, KY

#37 Oct 27, 2013
What other people do is none of your business. If your person is cheating on you, most likely is your fault. So stfu and stay off of topix with your S*it
coming clean

Nicholasville, KY

#38 Oct 27, 2013
Well I was really hoping someone would know him & know where he is. Looks like I am going to have to go another route. I do know where he lives so perhaps a good old fashion face to face will have to happen. Probably shouldve gone that route in the first place. From my understanding his wife isn't hot headed or rough so I'm not worried about thay part of the deal. I have saved texts that I can share with her if she doesn't believe me. I have no doubt he will deny it right in front of me and from what I know of her, she is so crazy in love with him & thinks he does no wrong, so she will undoubtedly believe him even with the proof I have to show otherwise. But I am going to do this. I was just hoping someone knew him & I could reach him & not have to do it this way. I did find out that he definitely left Toyota for a 1st shift job much closer to where he lives so he didn't come clean and HAVE to leave because of what happened with us. He simply chose another job to be closer to home & be with her more. Gag! He is about to have his world turned upside down in a matter of days. Im shooting to make the drive to their house on Tuesday and make an impromptu surprise visit. Wonder if I should go talk to her before he gets home or wait until he is home?
STFU

Georgetown, KY

#39 Oct 27, 2013
coming clean wrote:
Well I was really hoping someone would know him & know where he is. Looks like I am going to have to go another route. I do know where he lives so perhaps a good old fashion face to face will have to happen. Probably shouldve gone that route in the first place. From my understanding his wife isn't hot headed or rough so I'm not worried about thay part of the deal. I have saved texts that I can share with her if she doesn't believe me. I have no doubt he will deny it right in front of me and from what I know of her, she is so crazy in love with him & thinks he does no wrong, so she will undoubtedly believe him even with the proof I have to show otherwise. But I am going to do this. I was just hoping someone knew him & I could reach him & not have to do it this way. I did find out that he definitely left Toyota for a 1st shift job much closer to where he lives so he didn't come clean and HAVE to leave because of what happened with us. He simply chose another job to be closer to home & be with her more. Gag! He is about to have his world turned upside down in a matter of days. Im shooting to make the drive to their house on Tuesday and make an impromptu surprise visit. Wonder if I should go talk to her before he gets home or wait until he is home?
So the truth comes out. You knew where she was all along. If you had any balls you would have done went and told her but you were too scared. Lose your man and get your azz kicked all at the same time! You were played like the pathetic sleeze you are and NOTHING you do to anyone else will ever change that!

Since: Oct 13

United States

#40 Oct 27, 2013
Ok, I was on your side till your last post. You make yourself out to be a desperate, psycho that was hoping to grasp the attention of your married fling. Who keep in mind dumped you. If you knew where he's lived/lives then why all this bullsh**t on here. I hope his wife beats you down and dumps you in the trash where you belong

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