Judge me all you want. I really don't care. It happened and I am trying to find him. What if it happens that I got pregnant by him & he doesn't know. Perhaps he would like to know his daughter! She deserves to know him & have the opportunity to have him in her life. Does anyone even know him and where he is now? He worked at Toyota, 3rd shift skilled trade/maintenance. His name is Billy G.
First you just wanted his wife to know so that you wasn't the only one suffering, misery does love company. Now you had a child and your looking on topix to find him to tell him. Which story is it? People shouldn't cheat period, but it is not your place to tell her. Should she know? Yes. But he is her husband and it should be him. I know a girl who slept with a married man, he called it off and first thing she did was pick up the phone. She stayed with the guy and my friend was broken hearted. Lesson to learn don't sleep with married men. And for all the men who cheat, what happens when you bring home something that can't be cured?