date question...what does this mean?

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what

United States

#1 Jul 27, 2013
This is crazy. I've been talking to this girl for a bit now and I asked her out this weekend. Or I asked if she wanted to get together and go out. She says she doesn't know because she doesn't know what she will be doing yet. What?!? Hello...that's why I'm asking so that you will know what you are doing and have plans! That's the dumbest excuse I've ever heard. Shehas plans yet.
what

United States

#2 Jul 27, 2013
She has already said before that she wanted to go out sometime but we just haven't made plans yet. Now does that sound to anyone else like I'm just a back up in case she doesn't find anything else to do? Lol
Yup

United States

#4 Jul 27, 2013
I don't give bitches a lot of slack these days, talk to the bitch online for no more than week, if she don't meet you, stop talking to the bitch
girl

Berea, KY

#6 Jul 27, 2013
Definitely sounds like a back up....she's not interested and time to move on.
what

Lexington, KY

#7 Jul 27, 2013
Exactly. I agree. But why sit there and say that you would want to? Why give me your phone number if not interested? Weird a** people I'm telling ya
Yup

United States

#8 Jul 27, 2013
Waste your time on purpose, keep on looking or be like me and just be like f**k 'em
girl

Berea, KY

#9 Jul 27, 2013
She gives you her phone number for attention. In this day and age texting is a big form of communication. I don't know your situation but some girls give out their phone number to random guys, more than one at a time, just for the attention. Sounds like to me she's talking to more than just you and she is waiting for maybe the other guy to ask her out or something. Again, you are just a back up.
girl

Berea, KY

#10 Jul 27, 2013
I agree with "yup" as well......keep looking.

Since: Dec 09

Falls of Rough, Kentucky

#11 Jul 27, 2013
Just letting you know your not that important, you sound full of yourself, yourselves get over it. I'm a older man it always been the woman's call to show interest or not, she is not married or obligated to you, no relationship exists.
what

Lexington, KY

#12 Jul 27, 2013
girl wrote:
She gives you her phone number for attention. In this day and age texting is a big form of communication. I don't know your situation but some girls give out their phone number to random guys, more than one at a time, just for the attention. Sounds like to me she's talking to more than just you and she is waiting for maybe the other guy to ask her out or something. Again, you are just a back up.
Oh I do agree. No one online only talks to one person at a time lol. Well unless maybe u are a real goody 2 shoes and old fashioned. But yes I know I'm not the only one. She's not the only one I talk to either. Sometime I'm making plans with so many that I have to read back through the texts just to remember what I talked about and what info I know about each girl. But still if I'm talking to one then I always at least try to meet her once. Only reason I brought all this up was because she gave like the dumbest excuse ever. It's not even an excuse really.
what

Lexington, KY

#13 Jul 27, 2013
deray wrote:
Just letting you know your not that important, you sound full of yourself, yourselves get over it. I'm a older man it always been the woman's call to show interest or not, she is not married or obligated to you, no relationship exists.
I know that. Point is...you don't tell me that you wanna meet and go out then always try to do something different. Do what you say you are gonna do. That's the point
Tiffany

Walnut, CA

#14 Jul 27, 2013
You made it to open ended and gave her the option to not commit. Make plans, set the time, and tell her to be ready. Stop being a pansy.

Since: Dec 09

Falls of Rough, Kentucky

#15 Jul 27, 2013
what wrote:
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I know that. Point is...you don't tell me that you wanna meet and go out then always try to do something different. Do what you say you are gonna do. That's the point
Sorry fellow, what you have posted on here shows she has not committed to a certain time or date, if by what you have posted you think a woman had said she is going do something for you, your sadly mistaken. Your reading the signals wrong or have no idea about women, try to get at least a tentative date and time if she will not give you that she is not really that interested, it is that simple. Also people (women) have their own lives to live, I hardly believe her life revolves around you. You sound kind of self centered, that puts allot of women off, you not wanting to share an experience, your wanting a experience, do you know the difference?
girl

Berea, KY

#16 Jul 27, 2013
what wrote:
<quoted text>Oh I do agree. No one online only talks to one person at a time lol. Well unless maybe u are a real goody 2 shoes and old fashioned. But yes I know I'm not the only one. She's not the only one I talk to either. Sometime I'm making plans with so many that I have to read back through the texts just to remember what I talked about and what info I know about each girl. But still if I'm talking to one then I always at least try to meet her once. Only reason I brought all this up was because she gave like the dumbest excuse ever. It's not even an excuse really.
I'm curious now.....what was her excuse?
what

Lexington, KY

#17 Jul 27, 2013
girl wrote:
<quoted text>I'm curious now.....what was her excuse?
That was in my first post! Lol that's what the whole thread was about
what

Lexington, KY

#18 Jul 27, 2013
girl wrote:
<quoted text>I'm curious now.....what was her excuse?
U already said in ur first post as well that it sounded like I was the back up. So u obviously read my post and the excuse or u wouldn't have made that comment
girl

Duluth, GA

#19 Jul 28, 2013
what wrote:
<quoted text>That was in my first post! Lol that's what the whole thread was about
Maybe I should have stated it as "What was her real excuse?" As she states she doesn't know what she's doing yet which could be true. She may have to work or some family function or plans that's she has made in advance that she doesn't wish to tell you. Even you have said that her excuse really isn't much of an excuse. Now I'm not defending her in any way. I feel that if she wanted to get together or had any interest at all she would definitely be taking you up on your offer to go out.
what

Lexington, KY

#20 Jul 28, 2013
girl wrote:
<quoted text>Maybe I should have stated it as "What was her real excuse?" As she states she doesn't know what she's doing yet which could be true. She may have to work or some family function or plans that's she has made in advance that she doesn't wish to tell you. Even you have said that her excuse really isn't much of an excuse. Now I'm not defending her in any way. I feel that if she wanted to get together or had any interest at all she would definitely be taking you up on your offer to go out.
She had nothing planned. If she had to work she would have told me. If a person doesn't know what they are doing, then they have nothing going on lol. Some people out there are just weird. Quite a few I've talked to actually. U don't give someone ur number and act all like u really wanna go out, but then never seem to actually wanna go or make the plans. That's dumb and weird. Some people need help
haha

Ashburn, VA

#21 Jul 28, 2013
Dude you are only looking to get laid. It's obvious and thats why you are in such a hurry. Desperation is not a turn on.
Maybe talking for a week she has realized that you have very little going on, are no prize yourself and as evidenced by your rant above think everyone else is weird but you. That my be a clue for you.
what

United States

#22 Jul 28, 2013
haha wrote:
Dude you are only looking to get laid. It's obvious and thats why you are in such a hurry. Desperation is not a turn on.
Maybe talking for a week she has realized that you have very little going on, are no prize yourself and as evidenced by your rant above think everyone else is weird but you. That my be a clue for you.
U are an idiot. What hurry? I'm in no hurry? Hell I've been talking to her for a while now. I don't care about just getting laid. Like the other guy said, if a person can't or doesn't wanna meet after a week or 2 then that's ridiculous. Time to move on. Only reason I started the thread was seeing if other people agreed that it was a crazy excuse and sounded like I was a backup plan lol. I haven't talked to her since. I'm talking to plenty others. It's no big deal to me! It's just ridiculous that there are that many weird people out there who just like to play around and talk just for attention

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