polythesim

Lewisburg, TN

#62 Aug 26, 2013
I tried getting a DNA through my mom's doc and the man I grew up with as my father, removed her from that doc's care. An Ass. Dist. Attorney friend, told me you can't make someone give a DNA unless a crime was committed. Siblings may come around or not when he passes. They were trained and hopefully they will stop the ways they were trained to reject me and live a freer life. I ran out of every way I tried is why I prayed one question for hours.
Who knows if any other child is not his. I want Science evidence more than you know. He's out of his mind more as time passes. Forget about getting any DNA from an abuser even in his once right mind.
Every baby should know who their birth parents are by tests before leaving the hospital. No one needs to not know. Praying is still my only option. I believe the man that was in the vision was a neighbor. I don't remember him passed my 7th birthday. He's been dead for years.
An abuser was not enough to get the DNA from. Isn't that the case like most times where the victims aren't listened to? I want to know. I am too old to not know.
Thank you for what you said.
Free advice

Columbia, TN

#63 Aug 27, 2013
polythesim wrote:
I tried getting a DNA through my mom's doc and the man I grew up with as my father, removed her from that doc's care. An Ass. Dist. Attorney friend, told me you can't make someone give a DNA unless a crime was committed. Siblings may come around or not when he passes. They were trained and hopefully they will stop the ways they were trained to reject me and live a freer life. I ran out of every way I tried is why I prayed one question for hours.
Who knows if any other child is not his. I want Science evidence more than you know. He's out of his mind more as time passes. Forget about getting any DNA from an abuser even in his once right mind.
Every baby should know who their birth parents are by tests before leaving the hospital. No one needs to not know. Praying is still my only option. I believe the man that was in the vision was a neighbor. I don't remember him passed my 7th birthday. He's been dead for years.
An abuser was not enough to get the DNA from. Isn't that the case like most times where the victims aren't listened to? I want to know. I am too old to not know.
Thank you for what you said.
Are you saying none of your own siblings trust you or are close enough to help you? I am a little confused.
Didn't you say you were expecting a $65,000 inheritance from your father? Why would a man who knows you are not his real daughter, who dislikes you to the point he will not give you a DNA sample, bother to leave you any money? Something does not add up here because that defies any known logic or sanity. Your father is saying, "I don't know you, I don't like you but hey, here's $65,000"??? Come on Mae... something is missing here or you are not being totally forthcoming. I am not saying you are lying or anything, just either stretching the truth or leaving something out. People don't leave people money they don't like or have any connection with. How do you explain that? Will you add me to your will? Would you leave any of your money to someone you don't like and don't have a family connection to?? Come on Mae. We both know the answer to that.

Getting a DNA sample from you father would be very easy to do. It is not like you have to have a swab from his mouth. That is just the criminal system taking it from suspects. DNA can be obtain from just about anything a person touches. Just have someone go to his home, and go through his trash which is very legal to do. All you need is any personal item like a used razor, or tissue. It's not rocket science, and it is not a criminal investigation where you HAVE to prove it was used by him. Just as long as you are satisfied it is his... there is your DNA sample.

As for your other siblings also not being his... highly doubtful. A man does not live with a woman and not know what's going on in her life. I mean unless he was an imbecile and she was having sex with a neighbor for many years... no. That just does not happen.

Taking all this information together tells me you had some family issues growing up and dislike your father so much, you are willing to lie to yourself than to admit he is your real father. Your friend is correct in saying you can't 'force' someone to give up DNA, but did you ask that friend to go ask them for you? Just to put it to rest? I see no reason why your father or siblings would not be forthcoming. They have nothing to lose by admitting you are related through DNA since they already freely admit you are related.
polytheism

Lewisburg, TN

#64 Aug 27, 2013
Free advice wrote:
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Are you saying none of your own siblings trust you or are close enough to help you? I am a little confused.
Didn't you say you were expecting a $65,000 inheritance from your father? Why would a man who knows you are not his real daughter, who dislikes you to the point he will not give you a DNA sample, bother to leave you any money? Something does not add up here because that defies any known logic or sanity. Your father is saying, "I don't know you, I don't like you but hey, here's $65,000"??? Come on Mae... something is missing here or you are not being totally forthcoming. I am not saying you are lying or anything, just either stretching the truth or leaving something out. People don't leave people money they don't like or have any connection with. How do you explain that? Will you add me to your will? Would you leave any of your money to someone you don't like and don't have a family connection to?? Come on Mae. We both know the answer to that.
Getting a DNA sample from you father would be very easy to do. It is not like you have to have a swab from his mouth. That is just the criminal system taking it from suspects. DNA can be obtain from just about anything a person touches. Just have someone go to his home, and go through his trash which is very legal to do. All you need is any personal item like a used razor, or tissue. It's not rocket science, and it is not a criminal investigation where you HAVE to prove it was used by him. Just as long as you are satisfied it is his... there is your DNA sample.
As for your other siblings also not being his... highly doubtful. A man does not live with a woman and not know what's going on in her life. I mean unless he was an imbecile and she was having sex with a neighbor for many years... no. That just does not happen.
Taking all this information together tells me you had some family issues growing up and dislike your father so much, you are willing to lie to yourself than to admit he is your real father. Your friend is correct in saying you can't 'force' someone to give up DNA, but did you ask that friend to go ask them for you? Just to put it to rest? I see no reason why your father or siblings would not be forthcoming. They have nothing to lose by admitting you are related through DNA since they already freely admit you are related.
Let me ask you this question. Are you a good and decent upstanding person in this city?(Today, we mark our 26 years living here in Marshall County,TN.) If so, are you willing to get involved with me having the DNA test made for my health? I have no money to pay you.
Free advice

Columbia, TN

#65 Aug 27, 2013
polytheism wrote:
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Let me ask you this question. Are you a good and decent upstanding person in this city?(Today, we mark our 26 years living here in Marshall County,TN.) If so, are you willing to get involved with me having the DNA test made for my health? I have no money to pay you.
Let me think on it. It will have to be totally anonymous as I do not wish my identity to be known to anyone. I may register a private screen name in which you can communicate to me (I will let you know). You will have to give me some private information such as addresses to your kin in which I can write on your behalf, but nothing financial such as money or identity numbers like SSN.(Never give that information to anyone you don't know). I can do a DNA test myself using an "at home" test kit which Walgreens sells for as cheap as $20. Mind you, court approved DNA tests can cost as much as $2000. However, these home test kits are reported to be just as accurate as one done in an office (and is performed by a lab through a pharmacist), but just like the one in the office, there is a risk of getting a false report in which case you would redo the test to insure you are getting the correct answer. In your case, you are only looking for self relief not financial gain.

Here is some information on this:

http://singleparents.about.com/od/paternity/a...

http://abcnews.go.com/Health/Wellness/dna-scr...

Let me know if you want me to think about doing this as an uninterested third party, or if you want to try to do it on your own.
monotheism

Lewisburg, TN

#66 Aug 27, 2013
I called Walgreens,$30.00
I also called DNA Testing,$130.00
I sent a message to a male relative.
Hopefully, he can help this matter real soon.
I am counting the days till I see my surgeon.
Thank you.
Free advice

Columbia, TN

#67 Aug 27, 2013
monotheism wrote:
I called Walgreens,$30.00
I also called DNA Testing,$130.00
I sent a message to a male relative.
Hopefully, he can help this matter real soon.
I am counting the days till I see my surgeon.
Thank you.
Very well. Let me know how it works out for you or if you change your mind. Good luck.
not working out

Lewisburg, TN

#68 Aug 29, 2013
Relative not helpful. I feel sick.
Don't respond to this post. I am going to bed.
Free advice

Columbia, TN

#69 Aug 29, 2013
not working out wrote:
Relative not helpful. I feel sick.
Don't respond to this post. I am going to bed.
??? So you don't want any help?
going to ask MD

Lewisburg, TN

#70 Aug 29, 2013
I tried to post three times and nothing worked right.

It has been a stressful day. I was told by a friend to talk to the MD I am scheduled to see.
This is for my health. I can't be having stress.
I don't know you and for a stranger to be given addresses is not safe. You can understand that much.
I am out there and not hiding. No need to hide. I enjoy being me.
I have to rest.
Thank you but no thank you unless I knew you and felt that you could do anything more than my doctor, without getting into a bad situation. I don't want you hurt.
emma2009

Lewisburg, TN

#71 Aug 29, 2013
open minded wrote:
I don't want to hang out with any sinners. I don't drink, break rules, cuss, do drugs or any of that and I don't dwell in the company of others who do. So EDDIE.. why would I want to hang out with "sinners"?
I live my life right and don't judge others, maybe you should do the same and live life right. Be happy. The bible says you can't judge me, so why do you?
you are true to yourself wish more people were

Since: Aug 13

Columbia, TN

#72 Aug 30, 2013
Got the best sis misty kids love my sis and here 5 kids and hubby chris king they are my family we like going to the rive with them me my hubby billyjoe wright my kids and my sonin law andy king we all are a happy family

Since: Aug 13

Columbia, TN

#73 Aug 30, 2013
Got the best hubby billyjoe wright we are happy family we do thing like familys do we go to the rive fishing walk ride watching movie familys time I love my hubby and kids they are ever thing to me love my sis misty king and here hubby chris king and there 5 babys they are evey thing to us we love my familys
Free advice

Columbia, TN

#74 Aug 30, 2013
going to ask MD wrote:
I tried to post three times and nothing worked right.
It has been a stressful day. I was told by a friend to talk to the MD I am scheduled to see.
This is for my health. I can't be having stress.
I don't know you and for a stranger to be given addresses is not safe. You can understand that much.
I am out there and not hiding. No need to hide. I enjoy being me.
I have to rest.
Thank you but no thank you unless I knew you and felt that you could do anything more than my doctor, without getting into a bad situation. I don't want you hurt.
It's up to you. Giving up addresses is no big deal, mainly because it would not be that hard to come up with them if I wanted to. I don't say that to be sassy, just to let you know they really are not private information. I do know more than you think I do based on what you have posted in the past. If want proof I can give that to you, but... none of it will matter if you don't want me to help you resolve your ancestry and have it properly registered (I believe ancestry is important to you). And trust me, I would not get into a bad situation. I know how to handle these matters.

At any rate... I respect your decision and won't post on it further unless you change your mind.
wait on me

Lewisburg, TN

#75 Aug 30, 2013
Free advice wrote:
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It's up to you. Giving up addresses is no big deal, mainly because it would not be that hard to come up with them if I wanted to. I don't say that to be sassy, just to let you know they really are not private information. I do know more than you think I do based on what you have posted in the past. If want proof I can give that to you, but... none of it will matter if you don't want me to help you resolve your ancestry and have it properly registered (I believe ancestry is important to you). And trust me, I would not get into a bad situation. I know how to handle these matters.
At any rate... I respect your decision and won't post on it further unless you change your mind.
I like what you said!
One question, if he says yes and one (or two) Power of Attorney says, no, then what?
Would meeting you somewhere in public be a problem for you?
The money is not ready to be used on this, because Property Taxes and Fire Insurance will be coming due. This is because of limited income and can't borrow at this date. We borrowed for cemetery matters and will be out of debt in June next year unless someway comes open to pay it off early.
More doctors visits and transportation will really hurt us.
I hope I have good news and not see the Surgeon till at least six months or a year and not monthly.
I will talk to the Surgeon and see what he says to do.
In about two weeks, I will let you know.
It is very vital to me to know the truth.
Thank you so much.
Free advice

Columbia, TN

#76 Aug 30, 2013
wait on me wrote:
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I like what you said!
One question, if he says yes and one (or two) Power of Attorney says, no, then what?
Would meeting you somewhere in public be a problem for you?
The money is not ready to be used on this, because Property Taxes and Fire Insurance will be coming due. This is because of limited income and can't borrow at this date. We borrowed for cemetery matters and will be out of debt in June next year unless someway comes open to pay it off early.
More doctors visits and transportation will really hurt us.
I hope I have good news and not see the Surgeon till at least six months or a year and not monthly.
I will talk to the Surgeon and see what he says to do.
In about two weeks, I will let you know.
It is very vital to me to know the truth.
Thank you so much.
One, because I will not allow my identity to be known to you or anyone else, I will not ask you for any money. Power of Attorneys do not have power in what a person can or cannot do. They can only act on another's behalf in private affairs, business, or some other legal matters they are 'contracted' to perform such as signing checks, forms and such. But that would not be an issue because it would not be a 'forced' matter or one of legal obligation, just a simple resolve of known information. I believe it has been the matter of your approach that you have not succeeded in this endeavor. With that said, I will let you think on it. Let me know, but once the ball is rolling you cannot back out, so make sure your decision to move forward is in earnest.
Paganpride

Elizabethton, TN

#77 Sep 8, 2013
I have lived here in Lewisburg for about a year. I am pagan and not yet met a like minded, spiritual person here. It would be nice to have a full moon gathering if there were some more pagans in the area.

Blessed be
Raynebow_lette

Tampa, FL

#78 Sunday Oct 5
Merry meet and Blessed be!
Jesus Saves

Columbia, TN

#79 Monday Oct 6
God is alive! Jesus Christ lives and reigns, seated at the right hand of God the Father! Amen! As predicted, pestilence is coming. As predicted, head chopping is coming. As predicted, the anti-Christ is coming soon to place near you! There will no escape as the world's inhabitants have brought it on themselves. Enjoy Ebola and IS (Islamic State) as they are the beginning.
wandering wiccan

Cornersville, TN

#80 Wednesday Oct 8
We as pagan/wicca are not coming. We have been here for ages. Our religion dates back longer than other organized religions and we will be here for years to come. Accept us or not we do not bother others nor do we judge. We serve in the military so that everyone has the right to freedom of religion. We cook your meals and wait on you at the grocery store. If you were broke down on the side of the road; we would stop to help you. Need a cup of sugar; here take two you might need it before you can get to the store. We pray and ask for guidance in the world just as other religions.
give me a break

Columbia, TN

#81 Thursday Oct 9
wandering wiccan wrote:
We as pagan/wicca are not coming. We have been here for ages. Our religion dates back longer than other organized religions and we will be here for years to come. Accept us or not we do not bother others nor do we judge. We serve in the military so that everyone has the right to freedom of religion. We cook your meals and wait on you at the grocery store. If you were broke down on the side of the road; we would stop to help you. Need a cup of sugar; here take two you might need it before you can get to the store. We pray and ask for guidance in the world just as other religions.
You just described anyone who stands for their values. I know pagans/wicca who have no problem dropping those values when needed, just like anyone else. And you are a liar to boot. Why do I say that? Because you DO judge. Just like everyone does including Christians (even Christ admits to this when he advises to "judge correctly"). We have to judge to make decisions and to keep ourselves and others safe. You aren't fooling anyone by comparing yourself to other humans of other religions, even Christians. We are humans. We all think alike and live life alike (some are more evil than others). Anyone who claims to be better than someone else is fooling themselves. Who do you pray to? If there is a supreme entity or a bunch of unseen gods, you best believe someone is in charge of them because that is nature, the ying and the yang. Better hope your god has some pull with my God else you may find yourself back peddling in the hereafter. Btw... my God has archaeological/historical proof of his existence. Tangible proof. Does yours?

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