Is Text Sex Cheating
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wondering

Tarboro, NC

#1 Oct 29, 2009
Just wondering if anyone else thinks that text sex if you are married is cheating on your spouse?
loyal wife

Tarboro, NC

#2 Oct 29, 2009
I believe any communication with another person of the opposite sex is cheating...virtual or non virtual!
I myself would never text with another man without my husband knowing and I certainly wouldn't text sexually to another man!
Of Course Its Cheating

Tarboro, NC

#3 Oct 30, 2009
Cheating can be physical or mentally. If he's text sexing with someone else of course he is cheating. He's having an affair in his head, probabaly hoping someday for it to come true.
I have heard some people say that emotional affairs are actually worse than sexual ones-and that those kinds of affairs always eventually lead to actual sex.
My Opinion

Tarboro, NC

#4 Oct 30, 2009
Now, what is at the core of cheating? At the core of cheating are lies, deception and secrecy. If you are doing something that you don't want anyone finding out about, well that is wrong. If you don't feel that is cheating then at the very least it most defiantly is damaging to the relationship and breaks down trust. Do you not agree?
yes

United States

#5 Oct 30, 2009
I studied this and it is a form of cheating. Its cheating of the emotional kind.
Someone Who Knows

United States

#6 Oct 30, 2009
Well if its cheating then someone should tell Ben Boyce's Wife, he does it all the time with lots of women. He is always text sexing!
WV Raised

United States

#7 Oct 30, 2009
Duh! Texting, emailing, chatting, and forums all give us the illusion of intimacy without the responsibilities or the reality. This makes it very easy to believe that an online relationship with WHOEVER is a real, tender romance. In reality, because so much communication is missing, we're developing relationships primarily with our own egos. This poor girl prob thinks more of it then you and your wife is being disrespected behind her back by the one man she loves enough to give her life to. You are breaking your vowels for a ego boost?!
luvcoalminers

Oak Hill, WV

#8 Oct 30, 2009
Someone Who Knows wrote:
Well if its cheating then someone should tell Ben Boyce's Wife, he does it all the time with lots of women. He is always text sexing!
Ben Boyce .... prove it
hmmmmm

Oak Hill, WV

#9 Oct 30, 2009
who all has he cheated with ?
cheater hater

Mount Hope, WV

#10 Oct 30, 2009
If he is cheating then why has no one told his wife he does have 3 kids if it was me i would what to know
Ended

United States

#11 Oct 30, 2009
I know about this one. Know both of them. It didn't end well. Her husband found all the emails and then went and searched her phone and found all of those texts too. It has ended, just not well. He of course is denying it, but I seen the texts from him and he is lying. It has been going on for a long, long time. It stopped cause they got caught.
I Hear

Oak Hill, WV

#12 Oct 30, 2009
Well , I hear that there is a woman that this is been going on with , thought it was all rumors , everyone knows how people talk , but Ive seen the flirting ect. I think hes the type of the man that if asked he'd tell the truth!
Interesting

United States

#13 Oct 30, 2009
So it is just not the texting but actually flirting too. Now that is bad. I did hear some rumors about someone that graduated with him, but thought it was just rumors. They had been friends for many many years. Maybe that is why he is not letting his son wrestle, cause this girl's kids are big into wrestling and they would see each other alot. That could be bad if one spouse knows and the other doesn't!
Interesting!
prove it

Mount Hope, WV

#14 Oct 30, 2009
wondering wrote:
Just wondering if anyone else thinks that text sex if you are married is cheating on your spouse?
Obviusly this is not just about sex texting it is about Ben Boyce if so be women enough to put it in the topix box not sex texting and was it more than texting or just text people will not that is cheating DUH
hee

Mount Hope, WV

#15 Oct 30, 2009
i know both people and like them both but cheating is cheating so hope it works out ok
Wondering

United States

#16 Oct 30, 2009
I actually put the topix out there because I have a girlfriend who was texting all the time with her "friend" and it seemed to be more than just hi. The giggling and such was a little more than I could take, so I looked on her phone and found out it was like sex on the phone....just wondered if she was cheating or just needed an arousal like some people watch porn!
The comments are all good...who is this Ben Boyce?
Someone Who Knows

United States

#17 Oct 30, 2009
Oh he done it alright and now wants to act all innocent like it was all the girl. I seen what he sent, knew it was going on, advised her to stop. Told her that he was only using her to see how far she would go. Not to say she was all innocent, but I think she really cared for him and he just wanted the sex and the play and used her feelings to get what he wanted.
What a man! A real winner there.
whoa

Rocky Mount, NC

#18 Oct 30, 2009
seems like everyone knows everything! so whats the big secret? cheating is cheating no matter how u do it! this was wrong on both parts. i just hope that both families can move past this and be happy! as far as the wrestling thing goes, bens wife will eventually figure him out and leave him high and dry! he has a son i just hope he tried to teach him how to be a better man and husband than he is!
Who

Tarboro, NC

#19 Oct 30, 2009
Everyone seems to be putting the blame on this guy, who is the girl?
Concerned

Elkins, WV

#20 Oct 30, 2009
I know the female party involved in this. Yes, everyone is blaming him because he would not let her end this when she tried to quite some time ago. He persued her on a daily basis. She had no intention of this ever getting this far or hurting anyone's family including her own. Everyone needs to leave them alone and let them get on with their lives.

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