batterys in hiawatha

[vickie simon]

my daughter has a charge against her ex boyfriend father of 2 babies under 2. He cheated on her and said that this isnt what he wanted after she had baby #2 three weeks prior, as she tried to come to my house to think he ran trying to punch her she ducked, he came back pushed her down 3 times yelling to get the f*** back in the house. anyhow he called the cops they arrested him, he is now pleading not guily. I forgot he was holding a fight card and had fought 1 fight before his attack on my daughter. i have heard that he will get a smack on the wrist and not much else. I guess this is why people are fighting caught the charges are not bad enough. But i will remember the faces of my grandchildren crying and scared, what a man and a daddy to do this to the woman that had 2 of his children. But he signed over rights to his 4 year old by another woman and his 6 tear old he had not seen in at least a year and lost custody of. so what a guy to get mixed up with, i told my daughter if they seem to good to be true they are......

[understanding]

sounds like a loser. good that your daughter is not with him anymore. Of course he wont get much more then a fine, and of course the slap on the wrist. sounds like he needs to keep things in his pants since he has brought 4 children in the world. even though he signed his rights over on one of the kids. All the kids dont need to be around that kind of anger.

[vickie]

I am really sorry that after i printed this i had some miss spelled words but i think that is from being so upset, I hope that you can understand what i was trying to say. So i hope that your daughter, sister, friend doesnt fall for this guy. like they say once a cheater always a cheater and how many more children will he produce and not pay to take care of.

[ashamed]

You dont have family to talk to about this stuff?
Wow...

I have to question what type of person would come on a topix forum and lay such stuff out.

[duct tape]

well most people dont talk about this subjuct and they should and then maybe laws would change and men and women would think twice before hitting the other. and as far as him having all these children maybe the state should make him get snipprd and then he wouldnt reproduce sisnce he doesnt take care of his kids i am sure the state is helping raise them.

[Lisa]

this is going straight to you vicki...your daughter is a grown woman and she was to eager to have kids when what she should have been paying attention to was what he was like to his other children..that would have been the first clue to stay away from him. and you are leaving out so much of the story its rediculous! I am by no means condoning violence or not taking care of your children but things are the way they are. You fail to mention the reason why he was trying to keep her in the house was because she was going to go to his job and try and beat up some girl. shes not in high school anymore..theres comes a time when you have to act like a grown woman and suck up your losses. yeah its terrible that those children will probably not have a father but realize that whats done is done. you cannot make someone do what oyu want them to do. the 2 of you did everything in your power to ruin his life and almost did...now its time to shut up about it..shes not the first person to be done wrong in this world and this is no place to come and boohoo about it...GET OVER IT!!!

[Lisa]

one more thought...stop making it sound like he is some vicious fighter and he beat up your daughter..what do expect to happen to him....go to prison for years for pushing her! he will get whatever the judge thinks he deseves and you cant stand it that you have no control over that! you saying that she was trying to leave to go to your house is an out-right lie and you know it...tell the story right next time without the sympathy plea!

[resident of hiawatha]

well after reading this, i am sorry that 4 children were brought into this world by this man. I feel by reading this lisa is family or friend to the man, so she must know him pretty well. She says that she isnt condoning violence, but states that he was trying to get her back in the house, if he would have let her leave and she would have went to his job and try to beat up some girl wouldnt she be the one in trouble? So i am sure that vickie story and lisa story are all right but he sounds like a total loser. So maybe we should not feel sorry for vickie daughter but lisa since she is family or friend to the loser.....

[fed up]

Lisa-we know you are family so whatever. Are you the one that had the drunk aunt watching your kids??? Then don't post or talk--you are no better.
Have a good day

[Springer]

Jerry, Jerry, Jerry.

Mental picture... Sweat pants, extra long smokes, hair not done up for days, Takes everything back to walmart, Plays bingo (WITH GOVERMENT CHECK) and looks out the window all day to see what the neighbors are doing... Somehow I would think Fox run is involved with this... LOL

Ok enough of that mental picture...

[fed up]

LMAO-probably right on that one & very ugly picture now in my mind

[Lisa]

im not family at all...your thinking of his cousin lisa..keep in mind there is more then one lisa in this town...and fox run has nothing to do with this...i dont even know anyone that lives at fox run...the only reason i posted is cause this is old news...its over and done with...vicki needs to move on and stop whining about it! dont think for a second that i am under the impression he is a good guy or that he handled things the right way. im not trying to defend him or her.. but coming on here crying about something that happened 2 months ago is rediculous!and to come on here and not even tell the whole story or even a accurate version is childish.. she needs to get her daughter of the tit and let her grow up and handle things like an adult! GET OVER IT!

[fed up]

Lisa-poor Lisa.....sounds like you have alot of anger issues also. Get some help. If you are not related to the alleged abuser, maybe he's your hottie. Get a job and get off here-you just sound stupid

[have a drink]

well i do know the guy involved in this and he is messed up, he is friends with you and then talks behind your back if this isnt his cousin lisa then this must be the ulgy swinger that he says wanted him, but of course he thinks that everyone wants him.but again he use you to. yes vickie needs to let it go, her daughter had 2 babies so she must be grown or stupid, but since he has a total of 4 children then sounds like a smooth talker. she just needs to be glad that he is not in her daughters life, or her children. I also know his ex wife as a personal friend and she said that he is still married to his 1st wife, and that him signing over his rights was the best thing he could do she now has a daddy that loves her and is in her life forever. so i am going to sit back and watch this unfold and see him crap on you just like he does to everone else.

[Vickie Simon]

You are to family!!! Your a 4th cousin by marriage.

Fox run has everything to do with it, that is where the "other" girl lived.

2 months ago?? Your wrong, it was 1 month and 3 weeks ago!

Hold on... I just dropped my Salem light 100

[Lisa]

fed up wrote:

Lisa-poor Lisa.....sounds like you have alot of anger issues also. Get some help. If you are not related to the alleged abuser, maybe he's your hottie. Get a job and get off here-you just sound stupid

lol dont tell me to get off of here...your on here the same as me...and i do have a job..ever heard of a day off? im not fucking him or related..he is my husbands friend...you know absolutely nothing about it so dont tell me i sound stupid because i dont at all...i know exactly what im talking about and thats the only reason i posted on this site...unlike you, who i am sure have many posts about nothing that is your business...i got on here cause i heard about this post..its easy to sit around and act like your not posting constantly on here and pretending your better..but really your not and you know it so why dont you stop posting on this topic cause you obviously know nothing about it...go back to your gossip forums where you belong!

[Lisa]

omg vicki i was one week off...holy shit! anywho i really dont have time for all this crap...unlike you i dont have time to dwell on things..i live a completely drama free life and i plan on keeping it that way i just thought people should know that your on here whining about stuff that is over and nobody gives a shit about it! so your daughter got screwed over...well boohoo if he is such a bad guy and horrible father she should have thought about that before having kids with him..live and learn

[fed up]

I wouldnt go as far as say vickis daughter is stupid- maybe thought her loser boyfriend was actually going to be a "good guy", so yea stupid in the fact of picking the wrong guy. And yea the daughter should have known he was a loser with him being a dead beat dad to his first several kids. The "lisa" is the ugly swinger--how fricken gross is that????????? Who would want that??? Oh, thats why that alleged abuser lived there awhile---this iste is just too amusing. Wonder if the ex boyfriend that pushed vickis kid enjoyed that fatty, course he did...s**t sticks together!!!! hahahahahhahahahahahahahahahah ahahahhahahahahahaha

[Jesse]

fed up wrote:

I wouldnt go as far as say vickis daughter is stupid- maybe thought her loser boyfriend was actually going to be a "good guy", so yea stupid in the fact of picking the wrong guy. And yea the daughter should have known he was a loser with him being a dead beat dad to his first several kids. The "lisa" is the ugly swinger--how fricken gross is that????????? Who would want that??? Oh, thats why that alleged abuser lived there awhile---this iste is just too amusing. Wonder if the ex boyfriend that pushed vickis kid enjoyed that fatty, course he did...s**t sticks together!!!! hahahahahhahahahahahahahahahah ahahahhahahahahahaha

oh so you were there? you know that this guy and "lisa" were having sex? and how would you know that she is a "swinger"? i dont believe you know anything

[fed up]

jesse-everyone in this town knows others business,but when Lisa'a husband recruits "swingers" ummmmm......duh!!! Figure it out yourself. And lisa, you have a drama free life??? Why are you on here then??? DRAMA QUEEN with a closet full of toys.HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA GROSS!!!!