Stephen Starr Murder in Hickory

Since: Jul 08

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#21 Feb 17, 2011
cant stand you wrote:
<quoted text> you just make me sick i cant even stand reading your post,you think your so innocent and just know everything, you are a dumb ass mental case on the loose
If you can't stand reading my posts, then it's kinda mental to do it.
pcnc

United States

#22 Feb 18, 2011
cant stand you wrote:
<quoted text> you just make me sick i cant even stand reading your post,you think your so innocent and just know everything, you are a dumb ass mental case on the loose
So why the personal attack? And your post that followed that one - what the hell is up your (as you punks want to spell it these days) "azz"? If we need any kind of "squad", it should be a "bigot squad" to handle the likes of you.
The point is - a human being was murdered WHILE HE SLEPT by a person who could have left of his own free will, but because he is claiming something like the "Twinkies defense" with his Mucinex DM story, he will probably be found not guilty by reason of insanity or mental defect, & we will all end up supporting him in Broughton with our tax dollars for many years.
With your attitude towards your fellow human beings, perhaps one day you will end up doing something that will allow you to be his Broughton roommate. But unfortunately, until you do something drastic & cause injury or death to someone because of your beliefs, you are allowed to roam freely.
shut up

Las Vegas, NV

#23 Feb 18, 2011
I think he should be axed and feel the pain.
Howell

Lincolnton, NC

#24 Feb 18, 2011
The killer was in the Boy Scouts when he was a little younger. That is where I got my first BJ. The scouts are full of pedophiles.
shut up

Las Vegas, NV

#25 Feb 18, 2011
Howell wrote:
The killer was in the Boy Scouts when he was a little younger. That is where I got my first BJ. The scouts are full of pedophiles.
There is a huge difference in being gay and being a child molester. The killer met his victim at the gay bar. He knew what was up. He needs to feel the pain for killing a sleeping man.
Stephens Friend

Greenville, SC

#26 Feb 18, 2011
SecretX-You don't what the hell you are talking about. I KNOW STEPHEN STARR....saw him just the other day...while he was with the sick and twisted MURDERER WHO TOOK HIS LIFE. The MURDERER has only been living with him for mere DAYS! He was allegedly in a bad living situation and needed a place to stay. It wasn't about sex...it was about a nineteen year old that was having life struggles and had no place to live. You should burn in hell for the things that you said about a man who was killed IN HIS SLEEP and as if that was not enough...mutilated too. You should LISTEN TO THE MURDERERS 911 call where he mentions ridiculous bull shit about not taking his ADD medicine and overdosing on Mucinex D and that somehow being the cause of his violent and reprehensible act. That you could come here and talk such trash about a dead man who surely did not deserve to die, let alone the way he did....sure shows the kind of spawn of Satan that YOU ARE. What comes around, goes around! GOD SEES TO THAT! And He will with you too!
Angelo

Gaffney, SC

#27 Feb 18, 2011
This is sad all the way around. Very tragic.

Isn't it a sad thing that a temporary feeling, an act done in the heat of a moment, can do such lasting damage? More and more psychosis now. What has our society become?

I keep thinking, even IF the guy would have been making unwanted advances, killing him in his sleep? No way that's justified.

My bet is the makers of Mucinex will pay a higher price tan the killer.. even though he abused it.
If- You-Knew

Mount Airy, NC

#28 Feb 19, 2011
Don't go judging Michael. He did have place to go. He was lured in by some sick individual that took young men and TRIED to CHANGE them? I would say that he tried changing them to his advantage. There are sick people in this world. And for Mr Starr to thinkk he could MAKE A BETTER Person? Should have practiced on himself.
Dana Hedgepath Messick
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Stephen Starr my son
February 6 at 8:08pmStephen Starr its along story
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February 6 at 9:36pmStephen Starr I have a new adopted son, he is 19, just turned, pray for me
February 6 at 9:54pm · 1 person
Loading...Stephen Starr I have taken him in against bad odds. He will be a good man, or I will die trying.
February 6 at 10:04pmDana Hedgepath Messick You better be on his own life.
Stephens Friend

Greenville, SC

#29 Feb 19, 2011
@If You Knew

Really?? He had a place to go? Well I just spoke to Michael the day I met him and right after he moved in with Stephen and he PERSONALLY told me that he HAD NO PLACE TO GO. And he told me a lot of other things too. PERSONALLY! So...I guess in addition to being a murderer...he is a pathological liar too. In addition to being a psychopath.

Did you read what was on MICHAEL's Facebook page? It said he was *in a relationship*. It also said:

At 4:04 a.m., Anderson posted, "God forgive me of my sins of which I have done plz [please] let your holy name be with me as I go to the heavenly place they will not take me alive my killing starts tonight I kill one by one hopefully I kill more than one though you it seems that I would rather want to kill lot more you know but oh well one will do I guess but if you get in my way you will be next."

So Stephen was not going to be the only one. He had big plans for killing that night. Had nothing to do with any damned sexual advances.

That said, if REALLY had a place to go and his living situation was not as he expected, then why not just leave? Just walk out and hit the bricks! He was not being held against his will. And according to HIS Facebook page, considering you are yanking stuff off of there to try and prove your point, HIS page also says he was going in the service very soon. So he would have been on his way.

All that aside...no matter what you say and no matter where you pull quotes from ...MURDER is not justified for anyone or any situation. But murdering someone in their sleep??? IN THEIR SLEEP?? And then mutilating the body??? Was Stephen not dead enough after being shot three times?? But your true colors are clearly shown in the fact that you could in any way, bash a dead man who this happened to.

Mr. Starr WAS A BETTER person. In more ways then even can be listed. And he was not the first one in this life who tried an intervention with someone who was on the wrong path! People aren't supposed to get MURDERED for trying to help another human being. And you can blather on about what you THINK his intentions were, but you will just be added to the list of people who are wrong.

And don't JUDGE MICHAEL you said? While you sit there and judge STEPHEN? Oh yes, Michael will be judged...not only by society, but by the almighty God. Society will listen to the 911 call and the answers are there, just for the listening.
Shallow Hal

Black Mountain, NC

#30 Feb 19, 2011
Stephens Friend wrote:
@If You Knew
Really?? He had a place to go? Well I just spoke to Michael the day I met him and right after he moved in with Stephen and he PERSONALLY told me that he HAD NO PLACE TO GO. And he told me a lot of other things too. PERSONALLY! So...I guess in addition to being a murderer...he is a pathological liar too. In addition to being a psychopath.
Did you read what was on MICHAEL's Facebook page? It said he was *in a relationship*. It also said:
At 4:04 a.m., Anderson posted, "God forgive me of my sins of which I have done plz [please] let your holy name be with me as I go to the heavenly place they will not take me alive my killing starts tonight I kill one by one hopefully I kill more than one though you it seems that I would rather want to kill lot more you know but oh well one will do I guess but if you get in my way you will be next."
So Stephen was not going to be the only one. He had big plans for killing that night. Had nothing to do with any damned sexual advances.
That said, if REALLY had a place to go and his living situation was not as he expected, then why not just leave? Just walk out and hit the bricks! He was not being held against his will. And according to HIS Facebook page, considering you are yanking stuff off of there to try and prove your point, HIS page also says he was going in the service very soon. So he would have been on his way.
All that aside...no matter what you say and no matter where you pull quotes from ...MURDER is not justified for anyone or any situation. But murdering someone in their sleep??? IN THEIR SLEEP?? And then mutilating the body??? Was Stephen not dead enough after being shot three times?? But your true colors are clearly shown in the fact that you could in any way, bash a dead man who this happened to.
Mr. Starr WAS A BETTER person. In more ways then even can be listed. And he was not the first one in this life who tried an intervention with someone who was on the wrong path! People aren't supposed to get MURDERED for trying to help another human being. And you can blather on about what you THINK his intentions were, but you will just be added to the list of people who are wrong.
And don't JUDGE MICHAEL you said? While you sit there and judge STEPHEN? Oh yes, Michael will be judged...not only by society, but by the almighty God. Society will listen to the 911 call and the answers are there, just for the listening.
You may be right on a lot of points but I don't really think that he picked this kid up in a gay bar just to do "an intervention with someone who was on the wrong path". I call BS! that statement is nothing more than pure hogwash. Granted he had no right to kill him especially in his sleep. Why do you feel the need to try to lessen what his real intentions were???
If- You-Knew

Mount Airy, NC

#31 Feb 19, 2011
You may be right on a lot of points but I don't really think that he picked this kid up in a gay bar just to do "an intervention with someone who was on the wrong path". I call BS! that statement is nothing more than pure hogwash. Granted he had no right to kill him especially in his sleep. Why do you feel the need to try to lessen what his real intentions were???

I agree Shallow Hal on the post

And Stephens Friend WE ALL will have to answer to a mighty GOD!.......

Since: Jul 08

Location hidden

#33 Feb 20, 2011
Grown men who have life experience under their belt also need to recognize that a young man having just turned 19 is NOT ok to hook up with at a gay bar, just as grown men must realize the same about a very young woman.

What happened is horribly tragic and VERY wrong.

But, taking a much, much younger 'young man' in that was met at a gay bar is a VERY bad, unwise decision on Starr's part, too.

It's just tragic.
o please

United States

#34 Feb 20, 2011
GFTrueBlue wrote:
Grown men who have life experience under their belt also need to recognize that a young man having just turned 19 is NOT ok to hook up with at a gay bar, just as grown men must realize the same about a very young woman.
What happened is horribly tragic and VERY wrong.
But, taking a much, much younger 'young man' in that was met at a gay bar is a VERY bad, unwise decision on Starr's part, too.
It's just tragic.
just shut up! you make me sick with your stupid nonsence on every post.
matt

Spring Hill, FL

#36 Feb 21, 2011
Ben Lookin wrote:
http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-50 4083_162-20032028-504083.html
nonsense. that michael planned the killing. he posted before the killing on his facebook about killing soon. and the little pizza face creep did kill.
doesntmatter

Fayetteville, NC

#38 Feb 21, 2011
I knew Stephen an I met Michael. I can only summarize this situation by saying, bad choices were made by BOTH. Stephen should have known better than to let a stranger into his home, and to try and formulate any type of relationship with someone he had no clue of their capabilities, or history.

Regardless of his intentions, it was a poor decision, that cost him his life. As far as Michael is concerned, he is an adult and he knew what he was doing. He lived with Stephen for weeks before this happened and the context of their relationship, is questionable.

Based upon the content of Michael's facebook, as well as his family's, It's safe to say he comes from a religious background, and from meeting him and reading his posts,reading up on his history, I think he is VERY mentally unstable.

It's my opinion that he probably did "snap" based on some of the choices he made, but is that Stephen's fault?...no. Nobody asks to be murdered, and at the bottom of it all, that is the crime committed here. The rest of the stuff being spewed around is just added bullshit.

And for the homophobes, your "heterosexual" crime rate far succeeds these few isolated incidences that sadly become categorized as "gay crimes". It's pathetic that 'some of North Carolina is still so far behind in education,morals and ethics.
IDIOTS

Salisbury, NC

#39 Feb 24, 2011
I went to school with Michael Anderson, He was a perfectly fine teenager. So I think all of you need to Shut the hell up. Seriously. Michael had some great friends. None of you low lifes know ANYTHING about him, and personally I think it's beyond disrespectful to sit here on your ass and talk all this shit about someone you don't know. Not to mention your offending Michael Anderson & Stephen Starr's family by saying stupid shit ONLINE. Real Mature. Speaking of Maturity, All of you are probably like thirteen or fourteen and have nothing else to do with your lonely pathetic lives. STOP TALKING SHIT IF YOU DONT EVEN KNOW THEM!
YaIknew

United States

#42 Mar 29, 2011
lol, reality does not change just because someone dies. The truth is the truth, it has nothing to do with respect for the dead. Also, there was another side to Stephen. Just because you knew him, does not mean you knew or ever saw that side of him. Even though this teen was already troubled and murder is wrong.. Stephen s aggressive, sexually forceful, and sometimes threatening behavior plaid a part in this. I am sure of it. It just so happens that the person he tried that crap with this time was extremely dangerous. He may not have deserved to die, but behaving the way he did towards certain people was bound to bring trouble someday. This should also be a lesson to people about being careful with who you pick up and bring home.. Especially when you don t know them that well.
Stephens Friend wrote:
SecretX-You don't what the hell you are talking about. I KNOW STEPHEN STARR....saw him just the other day...while he was with the sick and twisted MURDERER WHO TOOK HIS LIFE. The MURDERER has only been living with him for mere DAYS! He was allegedly in a bad living situation and needed a place to stay. It wasn't about sex...it was about a nineteen year old that was having life struggles and had no place to live. You should burn in hell for the things that you said about a man who was killed IN HIS SLEEP and as if that was not enough...mutilated too. You should LISTEN TO THE MURDERERS 911 call where he mentions ridiculous bull shit about not taking his ADD medicine and overdosing on Mucinex D and that somehow being the cause of his violent and reprehensible act. That you could come here and talk such trash about a dead man who surely did not deserve to die, let alone the way he did....sure shows the kind of spawn of Satan that YOU ARE. What comes around, goes around! GOD SEES TO THAT! And He will with you too!
YaIknew

United States

#43 Mar 29, 2011
well i know who you are and how both you and stephen worked. Your one to call someone else a liar. But i guess you would know best since your overly experienced in the lying department yourself. Lol. Ur such a piece of work. Murder is wrong, but keep it up and you also may set off the wrong person someday, if you havent already. Regardless of how anyone reacts, you shouldnt treat people the way you do. Someday, it catches up to you and could cost you alot more than just a friend or ur reputation, respectively.
Stephens Friend wrote:
If You Knew
Really?? He had a place to go? Well I just spoke to Michael the day I met him and right after he moved in with Stephen and he PERSONALLY told me that he HAD NO PLACE TO GO. And he told me a lot of other things too. PERSONALLY! So...I guess in addition to being a murderer...he is a pathological liar too. In addition to being a psychopath.
Did you read what was on MICHAEL's Facebook page? It said he was *in a relationship*. It also said:
At 4:04 a.m., Anderson posted, "God forgive me of my sins of which I have done plz [please] let your holy name be with me as I go to the heavenly place they will not take me alive my killing starts tonight I kill one by one hopefully I kill more than one though you it seems that I would rather want to kill lot more you know but oh well one will do I guess but if you get in my way you will be next."
So Stephen was not going to be the only one. He had big plans for killing that night. Had nothing to do with any damned sexual advances.
That said, if REALLY had a place to go and his living situation was not as he expected, then why not just leave? Just walk out and hit the bricks! He was not being held against his will. And according to HIS Facebook page, considering you are yanking stuff off of there to try and prove your point, HIS page also says he was going in the service very soon. So he would have been on his way.
All that aside...no matter what you say and no matter where you pull quotes from ...MURDER is not justified for anyone or any situation. But murdering someone in their sleep??? IN THEIR SLEEP?? And then mutilating the body??? Was Stephen not dead enough after being shot three times?? But your true colors are clearly shown in the fact that you could in any way, bash a dead man who this happened to.
Mr. Starr WAS A BETTER person. In more ways then even can be listed. And he was not the first one in this life who tried an intervention with someone who was on the wrong path! People aren't supposed to get MURDERED for trying to help another human being. And you can blather on about what you THINK his intentions were, but you will just be added to the list of people who are wrong.
And don't JUDGE MICHAEL you said? While you sit there and judge STEPHEN? Oh yes, Michael will be judged...not only by society, but by the almighty God. Society will listen to the 911 call and the answers are there, just for the listening.

“TRUE BLUE AMERICANA”

Since: Mar 09

Engelhard NC

#44 Mar 30, 2011
If- You-Knew wrote:
Don't go judging Michael. He did have place to go. He was lured in by some sick individual that took young men and TRIED to CHANGE them? I would say that he tried changing them to his advantage. There are sick people in this world. And for Mr Starr to thinkk he could MAKE A BETTER Person? Should have practiced on himself.
Dana Hedgepath Messick
Who's the teenager?
February 6 at 7:55pm · View Feedback (6)Hide Feedback (6)
Stephen Starr my son
February 6 at 8:08pmStephen Starr its along story
February 6 at 8:08pmHeather Wilfong Cloer WHAT?
February 6 at 9:36pmStephen Starr I have a new adopted son, he is 19, just turned, pray for me
February 6 at 9:54pm · 1 person
Loading...Stephen Starr I have taken him in against bad odds. He will be a good man, or I will die trying.
February 6 at 10:04pmDana Hedgepath Messick You better be on his own life.
Just for the record... YOU ALTERED THE POSTS from facebook. here is how it actually appeared.
Dana Hedgepath Messick
Who's the teenager?
February 6 at 7:55pm · Like ·· See Friendship
Stephen Starr my son
February 6 at 8:08pm · Like
Stephen Starr its along story
February 6 at 8:08pm · Like
Heather Wilfong Cloer WHAT?
February 6 at 9:36pm · Like
Stephen Starr I have a new adopted son, he is 19, just turned, pray for me
February 6 at 9:54pm · Like · 1 person
Stephen Starr I have taken him in against bad odds. He will be a good man, or I will die trying.
February 6 at 10:04pm · Like
Dana Hedgepath Messick You better be on your best behavior!!! Set an example.
You altered the last bit... why?

“TRUE BLUE AMERICANA”

Since: Mar 09

Engelhard NC

#45 Mar 30, 2011
YaIknew wrote:
lol, reality does not change just because someone dies. The truth is the truth, it has nothing to do with respect for the dead. Also, there was another side to Stephen. Just because you knew him, does not mean you knew or ever saw that side of him. Even though this teen was already troubled and murder is wrong.. Stephen s aggressive, sexually forceful, and sometimes threatening behavior plaid a part in this. I am sure of it. It just so happens that the person he tried that crap with this time was extremely dangerous. He may not have deserved to die, but behaving the way he did towards certain people was bound to bring trouble someday. This should also be a lesson to people about being careful with who you pick up and bring home.. Especially when you don t know them that well. <quoted text>
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