caldwell county child support agency

caldwell county child support agency

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babygirl

United States

#1 Feb 25, 2009
does anyone other than me feel they get nowhere with the child support agency in caldwell county,im the one they are suppoe to be helping but yet when i go there,they talk to me and treat me like im the bad guy my kids dad is over 9,000 behind in child support,but they keep letting him continue his cour date and let im walk away,but yet if i were to go there to social services an ask for help like i did last year for my power bill they told me i had to show proof where i spent mytax money before they would help me,I laughed at them,because i dint keep receipts,being my kids daddy isnt helping and i have six year old twins,I had to buy them clothes,shoes socks underclothes,bedsheets body washes shampoos,school supplies,so it dint takelong for my tax money to disapear buying for two kids.but social servics refused to help me,
jonn

United States

#2 Feb 25, 2009
babygirl wrote:
does anyone other than me feel they get nowhere with the child support agency in caldwell county,im the one they are suppoe to be helping but yet when i go there,they talk to me and treat me like im the bad guy my kids dad is over 9,000 behind in child support,but they keep letting him continue his cour date and let im walk away,but yet if i were to go there to social services an ask for help like i did last year for my power bill they told me i had to show proof where i spent mytax money before they would help me,I laughed at them,because i dint keep receipts,being my kids daddy isnt helping and i have six year old twins,I had to buy them clothes,shoes socks underclothes,bedsheets body washes shampoos,school supplies,so it dint takelong for my tax money to disapear buying for two kids.but social servics refused to help me,
I think they should do more to track people down who want pay.The 10 most wanted is a joke .there is one guy FH who owes 45.000 in back CS .I think they should build a place and make them work out the money at $1.00 an hr till its paid .cut road banks ,pick up trash anything the state has to pay for make them do it .I also believe anyone who is running from CS should be turned in so they can be caught.I hate this is happening to you.Good luck
Just Wondering

Lexington, KY

#3 Feb 25, 2009
I agree with Jonn. More should be done to find these deadbeats, then work them hard and send their pay to their children.
jonn

United States

#4 Feb 25, 2009
Just Wondering wrote:
I agree with Jonn. More should be done to find these deadbeats, then work them hard and send their pay to their children.
I for one am tried of paying to keep kids( and I love children)up by welfare when they have dads and moms.Some moms don't get welfare they just works others get welfare knowing it will never get paid back by the other parent.i feel for these moms and dads who have such a low life mate .
Just Wondering

Lexington, KY

#5 Feb 25, 2009
Again, I agree. I also feel for the children, wondering what they are learning from all of this.
yea keep telling yourself

Banner Elk, NC

#6 Feb 25, 2009
child support agency is a joke!! i pay support for my child and have done so for for many years, with that being said i have been late ( a few days ) before and my phone was ringing off the hook .. they was telling me that they were going to have me arrested .. please keep in mind i am talking about a few days , i told them i will be sending it in they still treated me as if i was one that never payed. if they would only concentrate that energy to getting the deadbeats, and leave the ones that do pay alone..
Just Wondering

Lexington, KY

#7 Feb 25, 2009
EXACTLY! The path of least resistance seems to be where the pressure is exerted.
granny boone

AOL

#8 Feb 25, 2009
My son pay's child support to a dead beat mom who has my grand son and collects his support however want work, and has two kids which the fathers have and she don't ever have to pay support, she get's food stamps and medicaid etc,and is a drug addict i can't count the times she has been arrested and ive ben called to come get my grandson,yet she has custody and she violates that order too. my son pays his support then when she is angry or things dont go her way she keep's his child from him out of spite,these mom's who are living off welfare and getting child support just think the world revolves around them and they can get away with anything using these kids to get their way,well things are changing for little miss mom who has a custody order for my son to pick up my grand son and she dont show up! the judge said using a child to spite another parent or using that child to promote your anger for the other parent is ABUSE AND NEGLECT to the child and causes MENTAL harm to the child /children involved. Im very angry with how child support works and how dss works and how they give out money for children who's parent's use it for drugs and not the child!if a parent recieves support and has a drug problem the state should enforce a family member who is stable to care for the childs finances and money being paid
Concerned

Mountain City, TN

#9 Feb 25, 2009
I feel the same way. My fiancees uncle is going through a child custody case with his 3 children. He moved out of the home, found a new place, is paying bills, started from scratch with everything the kids have now. The courts ordered him visitation and he is the one paying for all of the kids needs as well as the mother and she pays nothing. They ruined his career, he now has no money, and no life because of dss. they told the courts he beat the children and their is no proof of course he doesnt even spank his children. they have turned the entire situation around to make him look worse when the mother leaves the children at school for more than an hour because she forgets to pick them up. She doesn't help them with homework instead makes them clean her car. The father has been fighting over a year and has now signed over his rights because dss took the children and placed them in a foster home. I do not understand how a parent addicted to drugs can keep their child, but a father who started with nothing and gives his children everything loses them?
need answers

Melbourne, FL

#10 Feb 25, 2009
If a potential father is tested for paternity for child support purposes, will the father receive some type of notification if he is or is not the father?
babygirl

United States

#11 Feb 25, 2009
well I went to child supprt agency personally and let them know my twins father was working as a truck driver but getting paid under the table,making goodmoney.My child support worker told me that they were doing the best they could to get me the child support,but if i thought i could do any better i could hire a lawyer to get money.well if i had the money for a lawyer i wouldnt need no child support right?lawyers are not cheap!I have ful custody of my kids I work in healthcare feild,but still find myself struglng with bills and my kids needs and stuff,I just dont see why they want to talk to the parent thats actually trying to do good or their kids like they are the bad guy.and everytime we go to court he gets to continue it,just because h tries to make it look good and pays a little befo court.I do realize things are rough with people loosig their jobs,but my kids just cant stop eating or needing things,this man like i said is a truck driver.so no reason why he cant pay something.
ark2

United States

#12 Feb 25, 2009
marry into a wealthy family like i did. use their money to pay for attorneys to get joint custody then. get permantly laid off from you'r job file for bank rupsy and welfare that's what i just did.i love laying at home on my ass running the roads all day long look through the phone book write down a few places for a work search and sleep in every day send the kids to school and lay in bed i love it.sit home and wait on my check ever week oh the sweetness of being wealthy
ark2

United States

#13 Feb 25, 2009
and wait for you'r childs daddy to kick the bucket so she can draw ss, boy oh boy i think i will have it made then unless he screws me and puts it all in a trust through the courts which he probably has already done,
yea keep telling yourself

Banner Elk, NC

#14 Feb 25, 2009
how sorry!!
ark2

United States

#15 Feb 25, 2009
need answers wrote:
If a potential father is tested for paternity for child support purposes, will the father receive some type of notification if he is or is not the father?
yes he can call or request a letter
wedgiemaster

Dudley, NC

#16 Feb 26, 2009
need answers wrote:
If a potential father is tested for paternity for child support purposes, will the father receive some type of notification if he is or is not the father?
If you did it through DSS child support, they will call you, or send you a letter letting you know you have an appointment to come in to give you the results. They cannot give results over the phone though.
carolinalemom

Gilbert, AZ

#17 Apr 7, 2009
Don't feel bad, Because my son's dad is out of state and they won't ask the other state to enforce the court order, he's 10 grand behind and moves from state to state and they refuse to do anything about it so instead of doing their job, they DROPPED my son's child support case because they can't find him. I'm a single mom barely getting by supporting 3 children on my own with NO help. If I try to ask for help I get told that I make too much money BEFORE the taxes get taken out of my check :(
in the same boat

Black Mountain, NC

#18 Apr 8, 2009
if you know the county and state where he lives you can call the caldwell county sheriff and ask them to send the warrant to that county. hope this helps-i am right there along with the working single moms with the dead beat dads. also, for cases over 5k www.supportkids.com -they keep a portion but its worth it
i dont think so

Matthews, NC

#19 Apr 9, 2009
about the supportkids.com link...i would really read that before you do it! they charge nearly $500 just to start, and 34% of all money received after that! i suppose its better than nothing, and maybe a great thing for some cases...but i could never agree to those terms!
The Man

Shelby, NC

#20 Apr 9, 2009
Most of you people just want to have babies so you can collect child support.

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