male obgyn is unethical
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Elizabethtown, KY

#1 May 18, 2012
i think it is wrong for men to be in this field, and especially wrong that they never ask your preferance for female or male to do these exams
another opinion

Centerville, TX

#2 May 18, 2012
what wrote:
i think it is wrong for men to be in this field, and especially wrong that they never ask your preferance for female or male to do these exams
I'm in my 60's and never had a choice when i was younger, BUT, i never had a problem ever!!!! But in the last 15 years i switched to a women gyn, and they seem great!!!!...BUT I needed to see a gyn doctor last year, and my female doctor had a long wait for an appointment, so i made in with dr. Buck (male) and HE ABSOLUTELY was excellent and will keep him!!!! Doesn't get any better than him, patient and kind and very intellient!!!!
what

Elizabethtown, KY

#3 May 18, 2012
i just dont think they can seperate sexuality from the exam, it is a sexual act, i think it is improper and immoral regardless of whose available. i dont think we can let our opinions be the absolutle when it comes to right and wrong, even if the majority believe this is ok it is still wrong in prinicipal, and i think disrespects the marital vow. i can understand an emergency, but these are few and far between when an exam like that would be warrented, or make any differance in treatment for that matter when there are so many technical advances.
Lol

Elizabethtown, KY

#4 May 18, 2012
So, u feel like its disrespecting ur marriage vow to have a man do an exam/sexual act on ur 'girlie parts'-
But....
U feel more at ease with a woman doing that same exam/sexual act on ur 'girlie parts'....

Hmmmm, the plot thickens
FYI

Elizabethtown, KY

#5 May 18, 2012
Being a male OBGYN sounds like a huge double-edged sword.
wow

Elizabethtown, KY

#6 May 18, 2012
Some times there are no words

and still there are a few,

stupid
backward
inbread
yea those are some words that come close to the ignorance in those 2 statements.
seymore

Clarkson, KY

#7 May 18, 2012
im sure they see plenty of sights they would rather not have to see
umm

Evansville, IN

#8 May 18, 2012
if it bothers you to have a male gyn, simply, dont go to one.
what

Elizabethtown, KY

#10 May 19, 2012
umm wrote:
if it bothers you to have a male gyn, simply, dont go to one.
its not always that simple, sometimes you are placed in akward situations, and usually the male is always presented first(ER, regular doctor is out, etc) and you are faced with either 1. requesting a female,which usually angers the male doctor, or 2. going through with it, which makes you uncomfortable and angers your husband, and nobody is stupid or inbred just because we have a differant opinion
care

United States

#11 May 19, 2012
Too funny. Its been like this for many years. Just like any medical field. Female nursing assistants give baths on both male and female. As a medical professional I personally don't care about what I see. Some are odd gross or whatever. Believe me there probably sick of looking at it too. But if there being perverted as in touching u the wrong way get out. But if there just doing there job. Then there great.
Bigger picture

Greensburg, KY

#13 May 19, 2012
This is a silly notion that males in the medical profession get sexual pleasure from their job. Do you think female nurses get sexual pleasure from taking care of their male patients? You should be glad you live in the united states and live in a day and age. Where medical care is very good and easy to obtain!
Dumb

Elizabethtown, KY

#14 May 19, 2012
what wrote:
i think it is wrong for men to be in this field, and especially wrong that they never ask your preferance for female or male to do these exams
You have a choice when u call you make a apointment you say what dr you want to see.. Dumb ass
Dumb

Elizabethtown, KY

#15 May 19, 2012
umm wrote:
if it bothers you to have a male gyn, simply, dont go to one.
Yes thats correct thank you.
seriously

Elizabethtown, KY

#16 May 19, 2012
Okay first off if you husband is that insecure that he gets so upset when you see a male dr. then I think he has isues. My obgyn is a male and I think he is great at his job and my husband thinks so to.. I do not think he chose this perfession for the pleasure, he is happily married. So get over youself or grow balls and say you want a female. Kinda sounds like you just want something to bitch and whine about.
man

Elizabethtown, KY

#17 May 19, 2012
as a man i see it as a sexual act, it is wrong and the only ones that are supporting it have been brainwashed to think it is ok, and no, when you make an appointment some places want you to see every doctor if you are pregnant including the males, how can you not see this as offensive and immoral? oh i forget our society is so loose these days anything goes, well its wrong, what standard are you using to say that it is not a sex act? you have no clue as to how men are driven sexually, just because your a doctor and make a lot of money does not diminish your sex drive. why is there wet t-shirt contests, porno magazines and the like? every commercial has some sacnty woman on there? nothing sexual hu that is stupid! and name calling is all youve got to support your ideas!
man

Elizabethtown, KY

#18 May 19, 2012
seriously wrote:
Okay first off if you husband is that insecure that he gets so upset when you see a male dr. then I think he has isues. My obgyn is a male and I think he is great at his job and my husband thinks so to.. I do not think he chose this perfession for the pleasure, he is happily married. So get over youself or grow balls and say you want a female. Kinda sounds like you just want something to bitch and whine about.
didnt choose it for the pleasure? then why not quit and do something he likes? oh lets all pretend.....
man 2

Lexington, KY

#19 May 20, 2012
man wrote:
as a man i see it as a sexual act, it is wrong and the only ones that are supporting it have been brainwashed to think it is ok, and no, when you make an appointment some places want you to see every doctor if you are pregnant including the males, how can you not see this as offensive and immoral? oh i forget our society is so loose these days anything goes, well its wrong, what standard are you using to say that it is not a sex act? you have no clue as to how men are driven sexually, just because your a doctor and make a lot of money does not diminish your sex drive. why is there wet t-shirt contests, porno magazines and the like? every commercial has some sacnty woman on there? nothing sexual hu that is stupid! and name calling is all youve got to support your ideas!
I agree with you 100%!! It's mostly women that are saying that it's ok. I believe they like the thought of a male ob gyn. I think that women find it erotic, because why else would a woman feel comfortable letting another man look and feel what's supposed to be sacred territory between man and wife!!!
Female

Greensburg, KY

#20 May 20, 2012
You men are idiots!! I go to the Dr to make sure I dont have cancer. Ovarian and Uteral cancer and Breast cancer kill women. I dont want to die. And yes I choose a male Dr. because I dont really care for a woman Dr. I love my man and he loves me. And he wants me to live. So judge all you want but God is the only true judge. And also God made us smart enough to take care of ourselves so if you dont want to go to the Dr. to take precaution to save your life thats your choice. As for me I go to the Dr. a Male Dr.
man

Elizabethtown, KY

#21 May 20, 2012
the chances of contracting cervical cancer is slim to none, look it up yourself at the center for disease control. once again, what are you using as your standard? the book i read says that it is wrong to commit fornication and adultery, and even sexual contact outside of the sexual context has laws against it. Jesus said that whoever looks at a woman to lust after her has commited adultery already. are you going to tell me that these strait male doctors never get turned on by touching and penetrating female genitals and breasts? how nieve are you? if you look it up you will see that 25% of male gyns admit to sexual contact with patient, tat means the odds of hanky panky ggoing on is far greater than the risk of contracting cancer. in fact prostate cancer has ten times the mortality of cervical, why arent men screened every year like the women are? im sorry but this practice is highly provacative, and is immoral.
Female

Greensburg, KY

#22 May 20, 2012
man wrote:
the chances of contracting cervical cancer is slim to none, look it up yourself at the center for disease control. once again, what are you using as your standard? the book i read says that it is wrong to commit fornication and adultery, and even sexual contact outside of the sexual context has laws against it. Jesus said that whoever looks at a woman to lust after her has commited adultery already. are you going to tell me that these strait male doctors never get turned on by touching and penetrating female genitals and breasts? how nieve are you? if you look it up you will see that 25% of male gyns admit to sexual contact with patient, tat means the odds of hanky panky ggoing on is far greater than the risk of contracting cancer. in fact prostate cancer has ten times the mortality of cervical, why arent men screened every year like the women are? im sorry but this practice is highly provacative, and is immoral.
Cervical cancer runs in my family. I have already had cancer cells removed twice. I am 39 years old. I do not look at it as sexual. Im saving my life.

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