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Just do not understand

Westmoreland, TN

#1 Sep 9, 2010
I just don't understand why some people will take their child support and instead of using all the money for the child that they will give some of it to their spouse or partner to pay for their stuff when the spouse or partner should be out working but instead is too lazy, they would rather be hunting or fishing. I am sure everyone would rather be doing something other than working but when you have children, either your own or step children, you need to grow up and get a job and keep the job, don't quit just because it complicates your hobby time...
Anonymous

Scottsville, KY

#2 Sep 9, 2010
Just do not understand wrote:
I just don't understand why some people will take their child support and instead of using all the money for the child that they will give some of it to their spouse or partner to pay for their stuff when the spouse or partner should be out working but instead is too lazy, they would rather be hunting or fishing. I am sure everyone would rather be doing something other than working but when you have children, either your own or step children, you need to grow up and get a job and keep the job, don't quit just because it complicates your hobby time...
Amen to that, but if the man is lazy and a woman is DUMB enuff to give him her money then thats her stupidity!! The kids have to pay for it is the sad part!! they have to live without, sounds like to me she needs to get a man that isn't a loser!! one that will work for his own money and not ask for her childrens money, he has to be a low life to ask or accept it in the first place.!!
and

Elizabethtown, KY

#3 Sep 9, 2010
cougar41 wrote:
<quoted text> Amen to that, but if the man is lazy and a woman is DUMB enuff to give him her money then thats her stupidity!! The kids have to pay for it is the sad part!! they have to live without, sounds like to me she needs to get a man that isn't a loser!! one that will work for his own money and not ask for her childrens money, he has to be a low life to ask or accept it in the first place.!!
what about the poor dad that rights the check every month.
mad

Campbellsville, KY

#4 Sep 9, 2010
What about dead beat dads that think they don't need to pay child support, because the step-dad is doing such a great job helping to raise the kids.

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#5 Sep 9, 2010
legally, all mom has to do is provide shelter, clothing snd food for the child snd as long as she is doing that, then dad has no say as to how the child support is spent. i think anyone getting child support should be made to show monthly reciepts as to where the money goes. The law is like this b/c of your dead beat dads who dont pay anything or pays very little and mom is left providing for the child completely..
loser dads

Crockett, TX

#6 Sep 11, 2010
Amanda Wynn wrote:
legally, all mom has to do is provide shelter, clothing snd food for the child snd as long as she is doing that, then dad has no say as to how the child support is spent. i think anyone getting child support should be made to show monthly reciepts as to where the money goes. The law is like this b/c of your dead beat dads who dont pay anything or pays very little and mom is left providing for the child completely..
You are right.All deadbeat Dads who doesnt pay leave the raising up to the mom and stepdad.My Husband takes care of my child because my lazy ex cant keep up his childsupport payments.Why do men like these even have children?They are low life scumbags.They would rather spend money on women and booze/drugs and let the stepdad do their work.I have a wonderful husband who does a great job.I wish the government would take the rights away from deadbeats.They dont deserve their rights to their child if they dont wanna help raise them.I hope to see my ex in jail soon due to non-payment.That is what he deserves.My child deserves better.
Sad but true

Leitchfield, KY

#7 Jan 15, 2011
What is also sad in kentucky is most dead beat dads who want to give up there parental rights can and will be held responsible to pay child support(in most county's). So the system is screwed. And there are women who are suppose to pay and don't but i know of 3 women who are way behind and no jail time yet but a dad who gets behind just $1000 in my county gets locked up. And true as long as either parent provides for the child nothing gets said and social services wont investigate a call about living conditions the police do. So whatever you pay it doesn't matter you are getting screwed. It should be shared visitation and no child support in the whole united states. We all know of the effects of not having mom or dad around all the time which studies shave shown.
AH HA

Elizabethtown, KY

#8 Jul 2, 2011
First of all #1...Women want money from a divorce cuz they laid on there back and slept with half the whole town and want to make there kid/s and ex-husband suffer.#2...Women cannot work after being divorced because they will lose there $1500 a month food stamps, there government assisted living apartment, and free health care for them and there kid/s.....all while knowing there ex is suffering dearly. So thanks to all you DEAD BEAT MOMS!!! for all you do so your place in HELL stays warm and cozy for you. With Love, THE DEVIL....see you whores and worthless piece's of flesh soon!!!
Chuck Wilkins

Manteca, CA

#9 Jul 2, 2011
What about all the dead beat mom's out there...Yes and they are increasing each year. There is a double standard that takes place as far as child support enforcement goes in Grayson County. My son's mother hasn't paid $hit since spring of 2010...Oh, but the child support case worker will not push the paperwork to put her in jail for non payment.
shame

Clarkson, KY

#10 Jul 2, 2011
and wrote:
<quoted text>what about the poor dad that rights the check every month.
what about the ones that do pay every month and the mom won't let him see his child[through no fault of his own]only for spite and selfishness.they have to pay 1,000.00 to get visitation rights established so they can see their child. not right.
AH HA

Elizabethtown, KY

#11 Jul 2, 2011
Yup, those are man haters in the child support office, no wait...maybe they were banging the GOFF family...sick town, sick women, burn baby burn
Right

Kodak, TN

#12 Jul 7, 2011
shame wrote:
<quoted text>what about the ones that do pay every month and the mom won't let him see his child[through no fault of his own]only for spite and selfishness.they have to pay 1,000.00 to get visitation rights established so they can see their child. not right.
You are so right. A child should never be kept from it's biological parent when that parent loves the child also. Keeping up the child support is hard enough, but everyone needs to do all they can for their child. But to have to pay to see your own child. When you can't afford to pay to see your child, nothing hurts any worse. It's so wrong. People don't understand what a person is going through when their child is kept from them.
WHAT

Brownsville, KY

#13 Jul 8, 2011
what about us grand parents that end up raiseing them and can't get crap .they will make the DADS pay but the drug head MOMS get by with out having to pay anything ohhhhhh but they still consider themselves a mother.I have been dealing with our countys child support office for two years .Can't get them to do anything to the mom.They tell me well she don't work so you know your not going get anything.Well she buys her five dollar a day cigs that she has to smoke.My grandson gets child support from his DAD .It goes into his on checking account.I don't touch a dime of it.
WHAT

Brownsville, KY

#14 Jul 8, 2011
shame wrote:
<quoted text>what about the ones that do pay every month and the mom won't let him see his child[through no fault of his own]only for spite and selfishness.they have to pay 1,000.00 to get visitation rights established so they can see their child. not right.
I'M right there with.Been deaaling with them for two years .He will be eighteen in a few months .They tell me will she don't work so you know your not going get amything.They want even serve papers on her.What do you do ???
Marlo

United States

#15 Oct 15, 2013
Chuck Wilkins wrote:
What about all the dead beat mom's out there...Yes and they are increasing each year. There is a double standard that takes place as far as child support enforcement goes in Grayson County. My son's mother hasn't paid $hit since spring of 2010...Oh, but the child support case worker will not push the paperwork to put her in jail for non payment.
. I feel you about the deadbeat moms. My sons mom is a deadbeat "Ungelique Franklin", who jumps back an forth from Chicago to Wisconsin, when she wants to skip out on paying rent to the landlords. I have been paying childsupport for many years. DCFS has taken her kids many of times for neglect and abuse. I only have a son by her, the rest are the other baby daddy's, who don't pay jack. I tried to get my son through a custody hearing but, I was turned down. It took me 3 hours to drive down to Madison Wisconsin just to hear her tell the courts that she wanted her mother to take care of him. Mind you, the Mom was on crack really bad, they still gave custody to the her. "Wow" justice. Ungelique is in and out of jail for fighting Wisconsin police, retail theft, trying to coheres her children to do it also, jumping on the neighbors, there are too many charges to name. I just don't have the finances to fight for custody anymore. Her husband "Antonio", who is a lazy bum, who don't work, oh I forgot they depend on my money. She is a public aid recipient, who is trained to sit and wait on stamps and what ever this loser type system may offer. Don't get me wrong, "yes" some people really need it. Oh did I mention that she is incarcerated in Madison Wisconsin, Dane county for beating up her land lord, whom she skipped out on paying his rent. Then she moved back to Chicago for 2 years, did the same thing. Now she tried to go back down there and locate her old landlord, and she did. She then demanded her deposit back, he said no because, she skipped out on him. Then she jumps on him and beat him really bad almost to a comma. The man she beat was a old man about 70 years of age. I guess he pressed charges because, dumb dumb is now incarcerated for that heinous act. These are the ones that the government helps daily. What does that tell you about our so called government. Then they wanna call us deadbeats. She has a criminal record a mile long. I hope she meets "she bubbah". Fn loser
Just thinking

Coxs Creek, KY

#16 Oct 15, 2013
It's kind of weird. When a married couple have children and one loses their job they get more help to provide for their children. However, when one parent is paying support and loses their job, they are threatened with jail time. Why is that? Give people a chance at least when they do try. Finding a job, is not like shopping for milk. They are few and far between.
Scotty

Bardstown, KY

#17 Dec 5, 2013
Ok I take it that you people really don't understand the system I have the best example for you mom makes 40 dollars a hour dad makes 10dollars a hr ok dad has to pay 400 a month child support his friend is in the same boat and pays 240 a month where is that right this child support system is stupid because if the dad is a 1000 behind and you lock them up for 6 months u put him behind 1400 more and that's just on 240 the 400 is 2400 which means it almost triples him behind ky law is stupid on child support and if ur going to be this hard on the dad then mom should take a drug test every month and show proof of where the money went.its time the law makers in ky open their eyes because if a woman is aloud to have 3 or 4 kids by 3 or 4 diff men just so she can draw a check then the moms should be made to work it's that simple make them work a real job and not one that allows them to lay on their backs
just pay it

Madison, TN

#18 Dec 5, 2013
Scotty wrote:
Ok I take it that you people really don't understand the system I have the best example for you mom makes 40 dollars a hour dad makes 10dollars a hr ok dad has to pay 400 a month child support his friend is in the same boat and pays 240 a month where is that right this child support system is stupid because if the dad is a 1000 behind and you lock them up for 6 months u put him behind 1400 more and that's just on 240 the 400 is 2400 which means it almost triples him behind ky law is stupid on child support and if ur going to be this hard on the dad then mom should take a drug test every month and show proof of where the money went.its time the law makers in ky open their eyes because if a woman is aloud to have 3 or 4 kids by 3 or 4 diff men just so she can draw a check then the moms should be made to work it's that simple make them work a real job and not one that allows them to lay on their backs
Stop complaining. If you just pay it you don't have to worry about the rest. Don't be a deadbeat dad.
just pay it

Brownsville, KY

#19 Dec 5, 2013
Scotty wrote:
Ok I take it that you people really don't understand the system I have the best example for you mom makes 40 dollars a hour dad makes 10dollars a hr ok dad has to pay 400 a month child support his friend is in the same boat and pays 240 a month where is that right this child support system is stupid because if the dad is a 1000 behind and you lock them up for 6 months u put him behind 1400 more and that's just on 240 the 400 is 2400 which means it almost triples him behind ky law is stupid on child support and if ur going to be this hard on the dad then mom should take a drug test every month and show proof of where the money went.its time the law makers in ky open their eyes because if a woman is aloud to have 3 or 4 kids by 3 or 4 diff men just so she can draw a check then the moms should be made to work it's that simple make them work a real job and not one that allows them to lay on their backs
Sounds like someone isn't paying their child support!!!! Seriously, you expect the mom to do EVERYTHING! 240 a month isn't crap! What do you even think that pays for in today's world. Stop being a dead beat!! Just freaking pay it!
just pay it

Brownsville, KY

#20 Dec 5, 2013
Scotty wrote:
Ok I take it that you people really don't understand the system I have the best example for you mom makes 40 dollars a hour dad makes 10dollars a hr ok dad has to pay 400 a month child support his friend is in the same boat and pays 240 a month where is that right this child support system is stupid because if the dad is a 1000 behind and you lock them up for 6 months u put him behind 1400 more and that's just on 240 the 400 is 2400 which means it almost triples him behind ky law is stupid on child support and if ur going to be this hard on the dad then mom should take a drug test every month and show proof of where the money went.its time the law makers in ky open their eyes because if a woman is aloud to have 3 or 4 kids by 3 or 4 diff men just so she can draw a check then the moms should be made to work it's that simple make them work a real job and not one that allows them to lay on their backs
And seriously, a drug test? You have got to be kidding me. How about you take a drug test every month? And showing receipts? Maybe if child support was paid on time that would be an option...then receipts could be shown for what little the child support actually covers!!! Then, maybe it would be raised!! Most child support barely covers food for a couple weeks, let alone anything else a child needs. However, someone that is over 1000 dollars behind sure isn't helping all those months that no child support was received! How bout you compare the receipts of what your child support actually buys with the receipts of what is actually bought in the custodial household? I guarantee the difference is drastic! Seriously, grow up and pay!

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