Corruption the police and Dyfs perfect togather

[Cathrine Smith]

Another mother, I have one for you but it is to much information to write here. Log of the shortt of it, my three year old goddaughter and her 17 month old brother were removed from her parents into the Paterson DYFS care i have been fighting to gain custody of these two. They have come up with all kids of excuses as to why i cant have custody, i was able to get weekend visitation of the two kids who since have had bruise everytime they come here and we keep getting told the three year old did it. I am not the parents but i am a blood relation to the children. We have made reports to the case worker and nothing has been done except to tell us if we keep pushing the case worker will revoke our weekends and we will never see the kids again. I need to find a lawyer that is inexpensive that will fight to help me get these kids, you can reach me at [e-mail]

[a mommy]

appalled wrote:

No was a different Dr. I filed a complaint and he got in trouble with the board of medical examiners.
They all lie, make up stories and fabracate evidence.

these people are heartless they want to destroy and i mean destoy peoples lives spirit and soul. lies, injustice, these people have to be stoped they are like a web you cant get out once in!!!!!!!

[Ray Cisst]

Dear farming mother
Are you single ?/
I would help you out legally because you sound like a caring person
Do you like Coffee??

[Suzanne Archer]

appalled wrote:

Very hard to do when they have caused you loose everything. Your home, get you fired from your jobs, destroyed your health. And you think when they close your case your done? Wrong! They will hunt you down and haunt you until your kids are 21.
I know someone who's case was closed, they moved to another state, DYFS found them and contacted child services in that state and gave them a line a of bull about the parents being a danger to the children.
They finally moved out of the country it got so bad. The so called reform is a joke. False report or not you are guilty in their eyes.
And just an FYI the united stated appelate courts from the 1st through the 11th have all said you do not have to allow them into your home without a warrant. ALso under federal law they can not interview a minor child without an impartial adult in the room such as a teacher lawyer, minister etc.

My problem is I DID report a true neglect.
But the DYFS REFUSES to do ANYTHING about it
since they have the case against the Father instead.

The mother is Korean National who only had the child to get Citizenship

The Ms Koh and her family own a business IMPORT EXPORT in Chile and the mother lives there all while the child is using the NJ School system
illegally without paying.
I reported to the NJ Bergen County Schools the
non resident use of NJ taxpayer dollars but the Superintenent did not care not did the School
principal. When I sent the complaint to the
State Board, they sent me back my orginal complaint and stated to contact the Superintendant.

The mother lives in Chile and neglects the child
here to live with the grandmother who speaks NO ENGLISH and is not legal guardian. The courts
are sheilding the mother and her passport so
it cannot be used against her.
They are trying to convict the father of abuse
that actually happened while the mother lived
with the child in Chile. The mother flew to NJ for 1 week and left the Child unsupervised in Chile and after that is when the child told
that a 12 yr old boyfriend molested her. But the mother needs to keep this from the father so she is claiming the Father was the abuser. He was in the Navy on ship in Iraqi waters.
The DYFS will not prosecute the mother nor will the police they are sheilding my report even from me so I cannot use it against her or the State or DYFS.
I have written Corzine, but he is too busy with
trying to get reelected.

[william Harbour]

DYFS has ruined my life, so if they ever come to your home curse them out, and they will leave you alone. They have conspired with my mentally chalenged sister and mother,and now have my babies. I am taking them to distruct court, I really need help. thank you. call with any ideas,and a award minded lawyer. My number is [e-mail] thank you very much.

[Kelly]

another victim wrote:

Ok this is going to be long but here goes.
In aug my friends 2 boys were playing in their front yard. A 10 year old from accross the street came over and started hitting on her 2 boys and a friend that was over playing. The friend pulled out his cell phone and called the Lakehurst police. The police came and was told the kids would be kept inside because this was an on going problem as the friends mother and sister of the kid across the strret were fighting over $25.00 and the 2 boys were not allowed to play togather and the 10 year old was jealous because the 2 boys wanted to play with the other kid.
The Police officer left without even talking to the family of the 10 year old.
The sister of the 10 year old, her boyfriend, the boy friends parents and boy friends grandmother, then decended on my friends house screaming at her for calling the police.(how did they know the police were called when the cops never went over there?) They told her she was not wanted in their neighborhood and threated to "get her out by any means possible".
My friend then called the Lakehurst police back because of the threats. OOps wrong thing to do so she found out. The neighbor across the street turns out is the best friend of the acting chief of police. The police refused to make a report or take her complaint about the threats.
A while later the woman across the street called my friend and said haha you are going to jail and dyfs is taking your kids away. My friend hung up on her. Well sure enough that night the cops show up with DYFS break into the home and arrest my friend for not letting them in . The cops then searched and trashed the house and had Dyfs remove the kids.
Well now DYFS can find NO abuse nor neglect but will not return the kids because their doctor now says that the parents are insane and in need of intense phsycotherapy.
Mind you before the evaluation was done this doctor was given the complete file to read and spoke in depth to DYFS about my friend and her husband. During the interview this doctor sat there eating chips and chocolate bars constantly looking at his watch and playing with his cellphone. can you say unethical?
Now they cant afford a decent lawyer so have to have a public defender. The pd doesnt return calls or do what my friend asks him to do.
These people are being put thru the ringer by the state and NO ONE wants to help.
The press isnt interested in the story, they cant afford a lawyer and no one is willing take payments so they can get a desent lawyer.
The whole thing in a nut shell is DYFS thinks they are above the law and has even told my friend this on many occasions. They disreguard judges orders and when my friend and her husband request all evidence for discovery so they could go to court pro se to try and get their children back they were told no lawyer no discovery and the info they have on my friend is "none of their business".
If anyone knows of a lawyer willing to help or another source they can go to to get this out there for people to see please post here and let me know so i can tell them.

I am very sorry to hear about your friends problems. I too have had the misfortune to be involved with DYFS ( stands for Destroy Your Family Slowly). Long story short, my children were removed from my care after my ex fabricated a story about my son being hit. I have 3 boys the oldest of whom is in my custody and has been for 4 years The man who made the accusation has a history of domestic violance (FRO to prove it) and he is a crack cocaine addict. I have been fighting for 5 years to get my 2 youngest boys home. In May 2008 he tested positive for crack cocaine(shocker)and my kids were removed from him. He physically and emotionally abused them. I am STILL fighting to regain custody. The judge is considering returning custody to HIM!!!!!!!! Tell your friend I said good luck. The system is broken. It does not work.........period.

[Amanda Sarvent]

I feel all of your pain. My ex was being accused of child abuse and a worker came to my home and said my son could not stay there, either I take him somewhere or she was going to take him and put him into foster care. So I run him straight to his grandparents, now they(grandparents) are accusing me of neglet, but DYFS tells me there is none found. But won't tell the judge in court that they found none. All they said is "we have no opinon on this your honor" GOD I don't know what to do. They have myspace pics of me years ago at a party, they say I an alcholic, but I'm not. They say I had "many" men in and out of my life. I only had 4 boyfriends in my life. And I'm 25. They taught my son to call them mommy and daddy and call me amanda. I'm losing him and Dyfs says there is nothing they can do, even though he is there because of them. I HATE DYFS!!!! They told me to get a lawyer but I can't afford one, and they have one of the best in nj. Now they closed the case, and he still with them. They broke my family apart and left. Now I'm left defenseless because of them. Pray for me, I go back to court july 20. I hope all this research helps me in my battle. And I hope you all win your battles.

[Kelly]

I'll pray for you and your kids Amanda. I tell everyone,if you want to destroy someones life,call DYFS. Apparently, what they have done to you is the same thing they did to me. They opened a case against you with absolutely no evidence. Then, because they could not prove anything, but had already removed the children, they turned it over to the court as a "family matter".Once that happens you have no right to a public defender and they dont have to prove anything because it is not listed as a "DYFS case". Thats how they get out from under when they screw up.(which is often) The only thing I can suggest is that, if they have substantiated anything against you or your ex, you could file an appeal with the ALJ court in Trenton. It may or may not help, but it is worth a shot. I have already made up my mind that if my children are not returned to me at the next hearing, I will call every talk show, newspaper, congressman, senator, and anyone else I can think of across the country. I will knock on doors, I will beat the streets until I find someone to listen to the fact that the state of NJ believes in allowing children to be abused, hiring incompetent state workers that are near impossible to fire, and has a court system that does absolutely NOTHING to help. New Jersey children are suffering and no one seems to care. I believe the reason DYFS hates me so much is that I called them on their bullshit and they didn't like it. I actually asked one of the many supervisors that I went through in 4 years, exactly how many children they were responsible for killing in the last year, because I did not want my kids to be the next statistic on the front page of the asbury park press. She hung up on me. Guess the truth hurts.

[tenacious]

I am so sorry to hear about all these stories. No one challenges dyfs because we are all scared of them. there are millions of stories out there about what these people do. Most of the workers do not have children of their own, they just take the law into their own hands and distribute it as they see it. They are over the judge and court. They basically govern themselves. I am not sure what has to be done, but I think that America is so out of whack at this point that nothing can be done.. Lawyers don't want anything to do with it because they know they cant win. It is so frustrating. We are losing our rights as Americans and it is not right. Our laws are rapidly changing and to suit the people who make the laws and enforce them. It is only going to get worse. I can only give this advice. It is imperitive right now that we pray harder than ever for protection of our kids. Teach them how they should be, keep your family business to yourself and watch who you say things to and how you say them. You can only protect yourself at this point because you are not protected anymore by our laws. people don't band together anymore for causes. no one is willing to take risks, this is why our lawless society is this way. it is only going to get worse,. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but I've tried for years to get some things done about dyfs. I know what I am saying , I'm not just a raving lunatic. I also know other things but am not at liberty to say. I will say this though.... this country is in trouble, they are throwing smoke screens over our eyes and trying to turn our kids against us. We have to figure out how to teach our kids how to recognize and handle the betrayer. I know what I sound like, but mark my words, I am right.

short one wrote:

im so sorry bout ur friend a recent occurance happened to me a few years back, i reported my ex when he hit my kids got dyfs there a few times n they turned around n put the case on me, i got piks of my kids coming home n one with a fat lip at that time 2 1/2 yrs old, dyfs had me sign papers stating they came n all n i got a copy but court came n thye lost theres well let me tell u this my parents took over custody judge grasso apprved we wont ahve court till dyfs finishes the case, well he said we wotn be going to court the first date they gave us because we ahd emergency hearing that dya n my parents were awarded custody, well the day of the court date we woulda had if we didnt have the emergency hearing my ex was there claimin we didnt come so we come home from dr's n guess what police there to escort my kids the ones crying i dont want to go with daddy, the police man saying tis not right its clear there afraid n somethings wrong for my kids to be in his custody for his wiife to throw him out with police force because he punched my 4 yr old in the lip n all he got was anger management n i didnt get a call or nuttin i just found out months later after the fact he is home n with them from a common friend that only stays common for there safety not him. so hears the thing im done with dyfs makin a fool out of me when all i did was extra care for my kids never took any chances a sneeze they were in er at 12 am 3 am it didnt matter or drs,i took great care of them finished everything on dyfs list for the parenting lady to tell me she wants me to take it over ,n for dyfs still take my kids. u know what my ex refuses my visitations, n i ahvent seen them i love them n i miss them n my now 6 yr old probably dont remember me. this is makin me disgusted that dyfs, n the law work for each other its clear the kids rights arent being protected nor the parents that do as expected n still loose there kids. i knew from first time my kid said daddy hit her she meant it cuz i was a victim of his abuse, and a 4 yr old dont lie..... anyone wanting to talk bout this contact me at [e-mail]

[lmfao]

Dyfs doesn't just randomly come knocking on peoples doors. They have to have a reasonable doubt that urn child/children r being mistreated/abused. Good luck every1

[Eagleeye]

Report your case worker to the FBI and file a Missing children Report

[anon]

I am scared. Someone filed a completely false and ABSOLUTELY ridiculous complaint against my husband. They alleged that he is a drug dealer, hits his kids and wife, doesntwork, he is in a gang, etc., etc., etc. DYFS came to our home and interviewed me and asked that he leave his job, that he allegedly doenst have, to come home to be interviewed too. We complied and we have a meeting scheduled next week with them. I am scared that they can take my kids away based on the lies that someone else said to hurt us. We dont know for sure who would have made such a compalint, it was so ridiculous. My kids are well fed, taken care of and loved above everything else. Is there anything I can do to be proactive, to stop them from going to far? Whoever said that DYFS gets involved cause we cant lead quiet lives and take care of our own is completely wrong and obviously has never falled victim to some deranged persons attempts to ruin your life. Im scared. I love my kids, I couldt bare to think they could be taken from me for NO reason....

[modelofiron]

lmfao wrote:

Dyfs doesn't just randomly come knocking on peoples doors. They have to have a reasonable doubt that urn child/children r being mistreated/abused. Good luck every1

Your screen name gives away how unintelligent you really are. There is NOTHING FUNNY about children being taken from fit parents with no way to get those children back. Believe it or not DYFS regularly defies court orders and the family court LET THEM when they realize just how badly they screwed up.