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rick

Knoxville, TN

#1 Mar 12, 2013
I am very upset and need some advice.(No bashing) my wife of 15 years has started to ignore me. She has "friends" that she Talks to regularly on her cell phone via text and Facebook. Most of these friends are men. She goes out in the middle of the night to the grocery store so she says and then brings home a box of cookies or something. I recently saw her taking nude pictures of herself. She has never shown me these pictures and doesn't have a clue that I saw her taking them. I heard her talking on the phone to one of her girlfriends and they were planning to meet some of her men friends for drinks. Do you think she is cheating on me?
Jess

Honaker, VA

#2 Mar 12, 2013
My guess is yes!! Follow her, do some investigating! Just my opinion, but I wish you luck!!
Opinion

Rock Hill, SC

#3 Mar 12, 2013
Yes
Jessica

United States

#4 Mar 12, 2013
I totally agree with the other Hess, do some investigating. Do you have any female friends? If so, recruit her to help you. The majority of women can do a better job than a PI.
My husbands ex-wife was "making trips to Wal-Mart in the middle of the night", she too would come home with one or two items. Several months later he found out 100% for sure she was indeed cheating. Also, I don't know of one single woman who has ever taken nude photos just because she wanted to look at pics of herself.
I truly hope she isn't, because there's nothing more devestating than being betrayed by a loved one.
I hope this helps.
reaper

Lebanon, VA

#5 Mar 13, 2013
i have been there if u feel it its probably true hopefully it hasnt gone to far but i would ask her in a polite manner and try to solve it now dont look over stuff ask her

“Vroom Vroom”

Since: Dec 12

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#6 Mar 13, 2013
It sure sounds like she is. Sorry buddy.
youknowit

United States

#7 Mar 13, 2013
Need help with "catching" her, ill do it.
Is she pretty

Haysi, VA

#8 Mar 13, 2013
Does she look good, but dressed and nekkid? If she is sending nekkid pics to anyone, she is fooling around.
Jessica

Duluth, GA

#9 Mar 13, 2013
Either way, whether she's having a physical or emotional affair, it hurts. I know. My husband was never physical with anyone that I'm aware of, but he sure liked chat rooms, text messages, calls, etc. and that's just as hurtful.
Maybe you should take "youknow it" up on their offer to help assist you.
I surely hope it isn't true, but I agree with "BillyRay...", it sure sounds like it.
sad at heart

United States

#10 Mar 13, 2013
Im sorry to hear this but its more than likly true.Ask her,but not until you find out more. That way you will know if she lie to you.
Thats life

Carol Stream, IL

#11 Mar 13, 2013
Sounds like a very bored woman looking for some excitement in her life or someone to talk with about issues she is not comfortable talking with you about.
Jessica

United States

#12 Mar 13, 2013
Thats life wrote:
Sounds like a very bored woman looking for some excitement in her life or someone to talk with about issues she is not comfortable talking with you about.
Some people just constantly need their egos stroked. If she needed to discuss issues she isn't comfortable talking to him about, she has girlfriends to talk to. There's no excuse for cheating!!
If you're not in love any more, cut em loose. It may hurt the other person, but to find out you're being cheated on is much harder to deal with.
who cares

Lebanon, VA

#13 Mar 13, 2013
dude if you got to post this S#(^ you already know the answer. next time she leaves follow her with a camera get the proof you need for court.
yesterday

United States

#14 Mar 13, 2013
Yes she cheating on you and the naked pictures says so.I dated married women an we meet at store a lot.They send naked pictures bot once a week and asked if they looked good.

Since: May 11

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#15 Mar 15, 2013
rick wrote:
I am very upset and need some advice.(No bashing) my wife of 15 years has started to ignore me. She has "friends" that she Talks to regularly on her cell phone via text and Facebook. Most of these friends are men. She goes out in the middle of the night to the grocery store so she says and then brings home a box of cookies or something. I recently saw her taking nude pictures of herself. She has never shown me these pictures and doesn't have a clue that I saw her taking them. I heard her talking on the phone to one of her girlfriends and they were planning to meet some of her men friends for drinks. Do you think she is cheating on me?
You all need cancelling before someone ends up on the 5 o'clock news. She is lying to you.
Dude

Cedar Bluff, VA

#16 Mar 19, 2013
Take a red hot poker and shove it up her a** that'll fix her.
Wow

Duffield, VA

#17 Mar 19, 2013
I thought this was a joke not trying to be cruel but man how much proof do you need. I would of have been gone just for her having guy friends, I don't give a flip what any of you people are about to say me but guys and girls can not just be friends unless the guy is gay. The girl may think a guy is just being " a friend" but that guy only has one thing on his mind, he might can be a friend once he gets the batter off his brain. Come on guys if your out there like Rick and your woman says she goes to clubs because she just likes to dance, then why can't you go dance with her, if she says she going to talk with Big John because he's a good friend, you should be the only guy friend she needs. The BS I hate worse than any of the excuses" your never there for me all you do is work" yea for your ass so you can have things , ok baby I'll quit my job so you don't haft to cheat on me and we can sign up on welfare. Wake up America , and by the way I'm saying guys but ladies don't let your man play you either , don't think you haft to settle there's somebody else out there for you.
Night shift grocestocker

Lebanon, VA

#18 Mar 22, 2013
No she isn't cheating on you....you got a good wife....what kind of cookies did she get?
rick

Knoxville, TN

#19 Mar 22, 2013
Thanks guys for the input. Indeed you all are right. I have investigated and found out that she has indeed been cheating with a man that I know very well. The pictures she took on her phone were sent to this man. That's enough for me to end it. The man was a good friend of mine at one time. He had done this before with his family members wives. I shouldve known it was him all along.
Jessica

United States

#20 Mar 22, 2013
Rick, I'm very sorry you're going through this. I realize 15 years is a long time, but please don't let her con you back into coming back. Obviously he's as big a piece of crap as she is and they deserve each other. Actually, he probably spent want a real relationship or he wouldn't keep messing with married women. Just like "wow" said, there's a good woman out there waiting for some great guy.
So you don't end up with another one like you're just getting rid of, take some time to yourself and work through your emotions so you don't hurt a potential good relationship. My thoughts will be with you.

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