deadbeat hater

Louisville, KY

#1 Sep 17, 2008
hey deadbeat parents...how about we sacrifice our swimming pools and expensive (not needed) vacations and catch up on the child support you are $1200 behind in? i don't get it...the custodial parent works their butt off and the non custodial can have lavish stuff and never pay their child support
the 80s baby

Mount Sterling, KY

#2 Sep 17, 2008
Call the child support office and complain! Keep calling... keep complaining... eventually they will get him!
the 80s baby

Mount Sterling, KY

#3 Sep 17, 2008
or her!
deadbeat hater

Louisville, KY

#4 Sep 17, 2008
tried..unfortunately...the non custodial paid $25 45 days ago which didn't put a damper in $1200 but it bought "them" another 60 days to play with the system...
the 80s baby

Mount Sterling, KY

#5 Sep 17, 2008
the system will eventually catch up! Call and request for the non cust parent to be considered for the TAX REFUND INTERCEPTION. If all else fails, you will be paid in full when the non cust parent files taxes. I know that does not help the "here and now" but at least you will FINALLY get the money owed to you.

“hey i'll let you know ”

Since: Sep 08

Springfield

#6 Sep 27, 2008
I am a non-custodial parent on one child and the other lives with me and i pay child support on both of them.. so the system is a f****n joke.. he gets my damn money and i raise his child.. just another free ride for a loser.

Since: Aug 08

Clarkson, KY

#7 Sep 27, 2008
Kick the kid out and tell him/her to find the parent that's supposed to raise 'em.
i am there

Elizabethtown, KY

#8 Sep 27, 2008
WEll folk i got you all beat. my ex owes me over $27,000 YELP $27,000 MY CHILD ID 11 SO YOU CAN SAY I NEVER HAVE GOTTEN ANY MONEY. i CALLED AND CALLED, AND CALLED. fILING TAXES...WELL THAT GOES TOWARD THE MEDICAL CARD. YES I GET A MEDICAL CARD AND I WORK 40 PLUS HOUR AND SOMETIME 2 JOBS. sO YOU SEE CALLING DOES NOT DO MUCH GOOD. i AHD TO CALL FRANKFORT AND CALL AND TELL THEM i AM TIRED...TIE\RED OF WORKING 2 JOBS, DOING WITH OUT, AND I DO WITH OUT SO MUCH. HE GOT COUGHT DOING SOMETHING WRONG AND WHEN HE WAS IN JAIL ON THAT THEY FOUND OUT (AFTER i CALLED ) OH HE BEHIND ON SUPPORT. HE GOT 15 MONTHS FOR THE THING HE DID. tHE WAY i FIGURE i AM NOT GETTING ANY THIGN SO HE NEEDS TO BE IN JAIL. HE DID WITH OUT NOHTING. NOW HE IS.

Since: Aug 08

Clarkson, KY

#9 Sep 27, 2008
It'd be much easier if ppl would stop having babies period. We need some population thinning.
fff

Bradfordsville, KY

#10 Sep 27, 2008
well,i know from someone in cambellsville if you will file an claplaint on the cs office the high number then you will get it maybe your worker isnt doing there job and you need to talk to there surviser,also they will know who was there and who wanst when they get older do teh best you can and always rem the kids love you never matten how much are you doing with out,this is to i am there
i feel your pain

Lexington, KY

#11 Sep 27, 2008
i dont know how the situation is in other homes but me and my husband have one child we both work full times jobs and still we r living pay-check to pay-check so i can only imagine how hard it is in a one parent home.. especially those of you whom r having problems collecting the child support you so rightfully deserve! the way i see it both of you helped bring the child into the world you should both be responsible for sharing the expenses of raising him/her.

Since: Aug 08

Clarkson, KY

#12 Sep 27, 2008
Oh yeah 'i feel your pain'. I'm a firm believer of if you sew the seed, then stick around and pick the berries.
nownow

Liberty, KY

#13 Sep 28, 2008
Now I live on the flip side of things- I pay my child support religiousely every month. IT is deducted from my check. I pay for my ex to have 3 kids by different ones and draw a check from all of them. She gets 500 from me, 300 from the other guy, and 450 from the other. NOw thats 1250/month. She spends her time party and getting piercings and tatoos. While i work and extra job to take care of my family to make up the difference. Now dont give me the it takes money to raise a kid, b/c her mom always has them, or they are with her friends, and they always are in ratty clothes, dirty faces, and none of the kids are in diapers anymore. She lets my child go with her ex husband that she has another kid with, and my son calls him daddy! When he comes with me he is so confused that he doesnt know who to call what! Some people need the help, and the money to raise the kid, some people are just in it for a check! Money so they can party, get their hair and nails done, and get their belly button pierced.
i agree

Burlington, KY

#14 Sep 29, 2008
nownow wrote:
Now I live on the flip side of things- I pay my child support religiousely every month. IT is deducted from my check. I pay for my ex to have 3 kids by different ones and draw a check from all of them. She gets 500 from me, 300 from the other guy, and 450 from the other. NOw thats 1250/month. She spends her time party and getting piercings and tatoos. While i work and extra job to take care of my family to make up the difference. Now dont give me the it takes money to raise a kid, b/c her mom always has them, or they are with her friends, and they always are in ratty clothes, dirty faces, and none of the kids are in diapers anymore. She lets my child go with her ex husband that she has another kid with, and my son calls him daddy! When he comes with me he is so confused that he doesnt know who to call what! Some people need the help, and the money to raise the kid, some people are just in it for a check! Money so they can party, get their hair and nails done, and get their belly button pierced.
See, i agree, there is a flip side to it all... its not always the men who are the "bad guys" in it...unfortunately in my case it is but i do know women who use their kids to get paychecks and free stuff...and it irritates me...i live paycheck to paycheck and call the CS office on a weekly basis to remind them that the non custodial parent in my case yet has to pay anything...i know there are people who are behind way more than my ex but i am trying to not let it get that far...(and he pays for his other kids...just not mine!) but i do put what child support i have ever gotten straight towards my son..nothing else...anything i want, i work for...and its hard especially these days to run a one parent household.

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