Gold's Gym Trainer, Train's Client to...

Gold's Gym Trainer, Train's Client to Cheat on Husband

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“Mighty Mouse”

Since: Jul 09

Jerseyville, IL

#1 Jul 27, 2009
It all started four months after my mother passed away from Cancer, unexpectedly, at the age of 58. My wife and I purchased a Golds Gym trainer, Raven Nelson in December 2008, from the Cedar Park, TX location. In February of 2009 my wife text me and said she wanted to go to Miami Florida with her trainer, "as support". Never asked for me to come with her. I then checked our cell phone bill and found hundreds of text messages between Courtney and Raven Nelson since December 2008 to February 2009. My wife had been deleting the messages before she came home each night. I confronted Raven Nelson,(Gold Gym Trainer from Cedar Park, TX), and told him to stop talking to my wife outside of work. Raven punked out and blamed it on his sister and other clients who used his cell phone. After I was ignored there, I spoke with the Golds Gym Cedar Park,TX Manager. A week went by and the Manager never passed the information on to Corporate. I contacted the Golds Gym Corporate Offices. I was given the run around and I was told my inquieries were investigated and action was taken. The action taken was, Absolutly Nothing. I was told it was the fault of my wife, Courtney and and not Ravens. I had given Golds Gym Corporate Offices pages upon pages of text messages. I gave tracking device information showing Courtney arriving at Ravens residence at 3am in the morning and leaving at 4pm, not before trying to score X. Video evidence of Courtneys car at Ravens the residence, and eye witness's placing Raven with Courtney downtown Austin on "Girls Night" while still living with me. Where is the responsibility and accountablility within the Golds Gym Corporation and it's employee's? Courtney could have moved closer to her work or anywhere between Austin, TX & Cedar Park,TX; but Courtney had moved around the corner from Raven, probably a mile or less. I gave all this evidence to my divorce attorneys to show her character. Speaking of character, Courtney took my mothers personal belongings and furniture while I was at work. I was told by some Golds Gym members that they have seen Raven Nelson act too touchy feely/flirty with some of the women he trains. Others thought he was Gay. Either way if a client is un-happy for whatever reason Trainers are not councilors. Having any type of Code of Ethics, a trainer should first advise he or she is a trainer not someone to tell problems too, much less give any advise to do anything. I'm sure the click at the Cedar Park, TX location just laughs at me. I was told by a Golds Gym Employee that this same thing happened in Round Rock, TX and the employee was fired! Personally, I think Raven used the Gay card, rather he is or not makes no difference. ME: Don't smoke, rarley drink, never mentally or physically abused, never cheated or gave reason to think so, went out on limb to build a home, used my credit for a new car for Courtney, bought all new furniture with MY Mothers Life Insurance money.(And I'm the bad guy!) What Goes Around Comes Around The Cheated One Leander, Texas
7731clrf

Georgetown, TX

#2 Jul 29, 2009
OMG. why go thru all the trouble of following your wife & waiting for her to leave you when you could have just dumped her when you first found out. Im sure its not the trainers fault because when the trainer made a move your wife should've had that much respect for you to say hey im married & in love. Instead she went along with it.
golds trainer

United States

#3 Aug 4, 2009
Raven got fired last week and I thought he should've gotten fired 6 months ago... Trust me we all feel the same nobody liked him or his bullshit ways of training...
ally

Snyder, TX

#4 Feb 22, 2010
I think your a freakin wierdo for imploring stalking techniques on your own wife im not surprised she was out cheating you dont deserve a relationship you freak!
12 Years a Trainer

Kountze, TX

#5 Jan 24, 2015
The thing about being a personal trainer is that you spend an hour or so at a time with the same person 4-5x a week for months sometimes years. You can only coach form so fucking much before you start to talk about other shit. But, think for a second, when was the last time (prior to stalking/raping/killing her) that you spent an hour, one on one, just you and your spouse? If you did so recently did ya'll talk at all? Where you interested in her problems? Were you indifferent? I'm not saying trainers should fuck all of their married clients, I'm asking you if a trainer is the only person who actually listens to a bored/stressed person''s problems is it really that surprising that said person will develop an attachment to the trainer that goes beyond exercise? Not saying you deserved to be cheated on and there are some predatory trainers out there who fuck a majority of their clients, but from what you describe it sounds like Raven was being a friend to your wife, not a fuckbuddy and if it took you a year to notice that your wife had made friends with her trainer then you really weren't paying her enough attention were you?
tmilster

Houston, TX

#6 Feb 1, 2015
12 Years a Trainer wrote:
The thing about being a personal trainer is that you spend an hour or so at a time with the same person 4-5x a week for months sometimes years. You can only coach form so fucking much before you start to talk about other shit. But, think for a second, when was the last time (prior to stalking/raping/killing her) that you spent an hour, one on one, just you and your spouse? If you did so recently did ya'll talk at all? Where you interested in her problems? Were you indifferent? I'm not saying trainers should fuck all of their married clients, I'm asking you if a trainer is the only person who actually listens to a bored/stressed person''s problems is it really that surprising that said person will develop an attachment to the trainer that goes beyond exercise? Not saying you deserved to be cheated on and there are some predatory trainers out there who fuck a majority of their clients, but from what you describe it sounds like Raven was being a friend to your wife, not a fuckbuddy and if it took you a year to notice that your wife had made friends with her trainer then you really weren't paying her enough attention were you?
Love it when ppl assume they know all the answers. Either way that was another life. God sent me in that direction to find a better life, a better wife. The only thing I lost from that was a girl who had no idea what she wanted, where I did. I hope she grew to be loving woman who understands what marriage is. The End.
yolanda

United States

#7 Feb 1, 2015
tmilster wrote:
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Love it when ppl assume they know all the answers. Either way that was another life. God sent me in that direction to find a better life, a better wife. The only thing I lost from that was a girl who had no idea what she wanted, where I did. I hope she grew to be loving woman who understands what marriage is. The End.
Amen

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