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having affair with married man for 5 years

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dazed

Mount Sterling, KY

#1 Aug 20, 2009
i dont know or have anything against his wife...this just came about at a rough time 4 both of us and i cant seem 2 shake him........he now seems 2 get an "attitude" when i dont stop or come where he wants... he doesnt say alot just makes small remarks later as 2 why i didnt come see him but i mean .....why?? hes alot older than me but we talk about everything and do get along really well so i dont know what to think right now
thanks 4 listening
SicilyYoder

Lawrenceburg, KY

#2 Aug 20, 2009
You need to do what God would want you to do, and also pray about it. I don't believe in adultry, but I can't and won't judge you as the Bible says not to judge either.
dazed

Mount Sterling, KY

#3 Aug 20, 2009
i really appreciate that. i never believed in that either and yet i am here
Dat girl

United States

#4 Aug 20, 2009
OMG....Drop his stupidass. I know how you feel. Ive been there too. I was madly in love with a married man once. I let him almost detroy me. I believed every word he ever said. But ya know what? The wife aint giving him what he wants and hes looking elsewhere. BE DAMNED if I would let him lead me around by my nose. Now if he really wasnt happy with his wife, he would leave her. Do you really think he is? Hell no. He aint goin anywhere. He thinks he has you and your his trophy. I know its hard when its pulling on those heart strings and it hurts like hell. You would rather have some one beat you than to hurt like you are. I would let it bother me so much that I got to throwing up and my nerves were to pieces.
If you are alright with him being married, go for it..but I couldnt do it anymore after 4 years. I had to go see a therapist. I loved him very much and I always thought he loved me. BUT NOT ENOUGH!!!! It took 3 thousand dollars and 2 years to come to the conclusion that I LET him do this to me. I am the one in control of my life. Not him. So..girl you keep on a thinkin..long and hard. You are better than an Old, lonely, deprived married man. Find you a single, happy, unselfish man who want to be with you. If I was you, tell him to go fuck his wife when he misses you...lol
dazed

Mount Sterling, KY

#5 Aug 20, 2009
wow you wrote everything pretty much 4 me. that is how i feel........we have never said i love you and ive been cool with that really but how do ya even know if he gives a damn? it gets lonely and i can tell he doesnt want me hangin around other men....soooo confused but i do have feelings 4 him....wrong i know
tom turkey

Olive Hill, KY

#6 Aug 22, 2009
he does't give a d----
dazed

Mount Sterling, KY

#7 Aug 22, 2009
well in your opinion what does he think of me? have been steerin clear of him for about 3 days
hes probably a little ticked
Dat girl

United States

#8 Aug 22, 2009
Girl if he cared, he would leave!!!! He cares only for himself. Yeah he would get ticked to see you talk to other men. Hes afraid some other man gonna get that puddin...F**K em. Let him make a decision. Tell em you give him 5 years and now its time to make a move. Either shit, or get off the pot. It aint fair to you or to his wife.
dazed

Mount Sterling, KY

#9 Aug 22, 2009
yea i know your right. i just wonder how after that length of time there is no feelin on his part at all........he must think im such a dumbass
Dat girl

United States

#10 Aug 22, 2009
No, men are like little boys. They need nurturing. 5 years is enough. Its gonna hurt but you will get over it. I did. I got pregnant. And I seen him for 4 and half years. Now I can wave at him and laugh. He still doin the same shit and that dumbass woman of his still takes him back. LOL shes so stupid. Thinkin he really means what he says. Girl, your wasting precious time. Please listen to me. YOU are better than waitin on a married man. Get a life and show him you mean business. There are good guy out there you just gotta fing them. Hes bringin your self esteem down and you dont need it. Trust me I know. I seen my married guy just 3 days ago. Yeah I got the jitters and I started to think way back then and then I got tickled. His wife is STILL puttin up with his shit. I made the the 3rd mistress he had and now she caught him in the 4th. Now, what makes you think he will ever leave her or even better yet that he gives a damn? I just dont want you to get side tracked any more that you are. If you need to talk and let that stress off let me know and Ill give you my number. I Know exactly what your feeling.....
wild turkey

Memphis, TN

#11 Aug 22, 2009
just wanted to say sicily yoder is the dumbest name i have ever herd
Dallas

Danville, KY

#12 Aug 23, 2009
Hey, wild turkey it's sounds like you feel threatened. You must cheat also. You need to learn to spell, instead of putting down women.
OMG

Louisville, KY

#13 Aug 25, 2009
Why's everyone feeling sorry for this girl, she's the one that has chose to have an affair with a married man. I don't feel sorry for you at all. The poor woman that's married to this man is who I feel sorry for. You shouldn't be having affairs with married men!!!
agree

Clarksville, TN

#14 Aug 25, 2009
omg... i agree with you. five years with a married man. what is wrong with you. you must be young and feeling really insecure about yourself. leave him alone.
Yell

Olive Hill, KY

#15 Aug 25, 2009
OMG wrote:
Why's everyone feeling sorry for this girl, she's the one that has chose to have an affair with a married man. I don't feel sorry for you at all. The poor woman that's married to this man is who I feel sorry for. You shouldn't be having affairs with married men!!!
What did you expect he is married and will prouably stay married. You were just a fling. Grow up and find a man that's not married.
For a shame

Louisville, KY

#16 Aug 26, 2009
Dat girl wrote:
No, men are like little boys. They need nurturing. 5 years is enough. Its gonna hurt but you will get over it. I did. I got pregnant. And I seen him for 4 and half years. Now I can wave at him and laugh. He still doin the same shit and that dumbass woman of his still takes him back. LOL shes so stupid. Thinkin he really means what he says. Girl, your wasting precious time. Please listen to me. YOU are better than waitin on a married man. Get a life and show him you mean business. There are good guy out there you just gotta fing them. Hes bringin your self esteem down and you dont need it. Trust me I know. I seen my married guy just 3 days ago. Yeah I got the jitters and I started to think way back then and then I got tickled. His wife is STILL puttin up with his shit. I made the the 3rd mistress he had and now she caught him in the 4th. Now, what makes you think he will ever leave her or even better yet that he gives a damn? I just dont want you to get side tracked any more that you are. If you need to talk and let that stress off let me know and Ill give you my number. I Know exactly what your feeling.....
That say alot for you, that you fooled around withe a married man for 4 1/2 years, and your calling the wife stupid? She's just trying to make her marriage work, but she can't because of being married to a idiot, and because of women like you. Oh, and I would really be telling everyone that I was his 3rd mistress, that's something to be proud of!
Stupidity

Louisville, KY

#17 Aug 26, 2009
Learn to have some respect for yourself, and don't sleep with married men!
Dat girl

United States

#18 Aug 26, 2009
For a shame wrote:
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That say alot for you, that you fooled around withe a married man for 4 1/2 years, and your calling the wife stupid? She's just trying to make her marriage work, but she can't because of being married to a idiot, and because of women like you. Oh, and I would really be telling everyone that I was his 3rd mistress, that's something to be proud of!
I do have respect for myself now...that was years ago. I was trying to tell this woman to have respect for herself. Find someone whos not married. And his wife is stupid. I wouldnt put up with his shit all these years. Shes got more patience than I would with him. Im glad I dont do that shit anymore. I was young and very stupid. But hey, thanks for the comment. Your right. Married men are married for a reason. That reason is not to fool around...
OH PLEASE

Mount Sterling, KY

#19 Aug 27, 2009
Dat girl wrote:
<quoted text>I do have respect for myself now...that was years ago. I was trying to tell this woman to have respect for herself. Find someone whos not married. And his wife is stupid. I wouldnt put up with his shit all these years. Shes got more patience than I would with him. Im glad I dont do that shit anymore. I was young and very stupid. But hey, thanks for the comment. Your right. Married men are married for a reason. That reason is not to fool around...
who r u to judge the wife and call her stupid, u r the STUPID one for messing with a married man in the first place. Why would u waste 4 1/2 years on a man who was married, and more likely to never leave her for u. Did he ever tell u that he was leaving her for u. Probably not. All u was to him was a free piece of ass, and further more if it was not 4 WHORE"S like yourself and dumb ass dazed these married men would not be fooling around. Did you ever think about that?
awwwwwwwww

Eddyville, KY

#21 Sep 29, 2009
its women like u that mess up relationships and put kids through hell get a life my bad i mean a single man duhhh

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