i was raped by a PURE nightclub bouncer

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patty

Minneapolis, MN

#1 Sep 26, 2008
On the night of saturday june 2, 2007 i went to PURE nightclub in Las Vegas. I was completely drunk and underage but managed to flirt with the head bouncer who stood just across from the counter girl who collected the cover charges. This guy looked like Steve Wilkos(bald and tall) and I thought he was cute. I gave him my number before going into the club. early sunday morning i went back to my hotel room and received a call from the bouncer who told me that he just completed work and wanted to meet up. i agreed and invited him to meet me at my room. i let him in and we started kissing and petting. but then i wanted him to stop but he refused and then proceeded to rape me. i was underage, drunk/hungover, and invited him to my place so i felt very ashamed at what happened but i've reached a point where i feel lost and depressed and need to tell people what happened that night. i didn't deserve to be raped.
mogirl

Ware, MA

#2 Sep 26, 2008
Im sorry that this happened to you, You did not deserve anything like that to happen.. You need to be very careful of who you let in your room/house... some men dont know what no means!!! Just give all your guilt and shame to God and he will get you through this.. God Bless!!!!

Since: Sep 08

Las Vegas, NV

#3 Sep 26, 2008
Honey, let this be a lesson to you. You did everything imaginable wrong. Drunk, underage, tourist, bouncer, Vegas, invite into the room, give out your number, etc.

Too bad he violated you, but you set yourself up for a huge disaster.

Get with your parents (you are underage right?) and seek professional psychiatric help. You might be able to get over this

“ALL ABOUT WHAT I AM INTO”

Since: Sep 08

HOLLYWOOD

#4 Sep 26, 2008
so what was this guys name and the phone number that you contacted or he contacted you from? why do you feel like reporting this to this site and not to the police? to some authorities?
Anna

Somerset, KY

#5 Sep 28, 2008
patty wrote:
On the night of saturday june 2, 2007 i went to PURE nightclub in Las Vegas. I was completely drunk and underage but managed to flirt with the head bouncer who stood just across from the counter girl who collected the cover charges. This guy looked like Steve Wilkos(bald and tall) and I thought he was cute. I gave him my number before going into the club. early sunday morning i went back to my hotel room and received a call from the bouncer who told me that he just completed work and wanted to meet up. i agreed and invited him to meet me at my room. i let him in and we started kissing and petting. but then i wanted him to stop but he refused and then proceeded to rape me. i was underage, drunk/hungover, and invited him to my place so i felt very ashamed at what happened but i've reached a point where i feel lost and depressed and need to tell people what happened that night. i didn't deserve to be raped.
I will pray for you.
Please call the Rape Crisis Center in your area. I looked up the number for you, but the site wouldn't allow me to put it on here. Please look it up "Rape Crisis Center" and call and talk to them right now.

Please be careful about information you put on here, some people might be dangerous. Please call that number, please, they will help you.
God Bless You.
mahendra dev durham usa

Raleigh, NC

#6 Sep 28, 2008
what did she expect that the guy will come with some candy for her and leave after leaving the same outside her door .
you are dumb and stupid and invited the rape whether minor or major . treat it as a lesson for future . but i suspect that you repeat such behavior in future too .
Anna

Somerset, KY

#7 Sep 28, 2008
Anna wrote:
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I will pray for you.
Please call the Rape Crisis Center in your area. I looked up the number for you, but the site wouldn't allow me to put it on here. Please look it up "Rape Crisis Center" and call and talk to them right now.
Please be careful about information you put on here, some people might be dangerous. Please call that number, please, they will help you.
God Bless You.
Please call.
OMG

United States

#8 Sep 28, 2008
OMG talking about it and letting others know should help. Getting support from your loved ones helps a lot more. Regardless if you invited him and let him in, he did NOT have a right to treat you this way. Report him to the Police and to the place of business. This a sick person and might have harmed others and can harm again. Best wishes to you ....
despicable

United States

#9 Oct 2, 2008
patty wrote:
On the night of saturday june 2, 2007 i went to PURE nightclub in Las Vegas. I was completely drunk and underage but managed to flirt with the head bouncer who stood just across from the counter girl who collected the cover charges. This guy looked like Steve Wilkos(bald and tall) and I thought he was cute. I gave him my number before going into the club. early sunday morning i went back to my hotel room and received a call from the bouncer who told me that he just completed work and wanted to meet up. i agreed and invited him to meet me at my room. i let him in and we started kissing and petting. but then i wanted him to stop but he refused and then proceeded to rape me. i was underage, drunk/hungover, and invited him to my place so i felt very ashamed at what happened but i've reached a point where i feel lost and depressed and need to tell people what happened that night. i didn't deserve to be raped.
i feel for you--nobody deserved what happened to you. the PURE nightclub bouncer should be prosecuted.
Chris

Charlotte, NC

#10 Oct 12, 2008
I feel sorry for what happened to you and believe these people who try to blame you are wrong. I am a man and have made out and had sex with many women, all consensual. If while making out, a woman told me no, no further, then I would stop. That's it. Every man knows where the line is. There is no confusion and that bouncer is simply a rapist. It is no different than if he had snuck up on you in a dark alley. Please work through your trauma in therapy.
nicol

Oceanside, CA

#11 Oct 18, 2008
no is no! period, he was wrong! you were a little nieve but it was still wrong.
The XO wrote:
Honey, let this be a lesson to you. You did everything imaginable wrong. Drunk, underage, tourist, bouncer, Vegas, invite into the room, give out your number, etc.
Too bad he violated you, but you set yourself up for a huge disaster.
Get with your parents (you are underage right?) and seek professional psychiatric help. You might be able to get over this

Since: Sep 08

Las Vegas, NV

#12 Oct 18, 2008
nicol wrote:
no is no! period, he was wrong! you were a little nieve but it was still wrong.
<quoted text>
Of course he was wrong. So let's say he is caught, tried, found guilty and punished. After the due process of law, it's a closed case. But, how does that help this girl? How does that eliminate her trauma? How does she deal with guys in the future? She is emotionally wounded for life by something she could have prevented. Re-read her original posting, did any of that add up to "good"? And where the hell were parents anyway?

"An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure"

Sweetheart, did you ever get with your parents and seek professional counseling? That's the right thing to do now. Get help to get your life back on track
NomeansNo

Las Vegas, NV

#13 Oct 18, 2008
Thankfully you are still alive to tell your story.
Lesson learned.
Move on with your life.
Kaharma will befall the bouncer.
Get checked for an STD, etc.

Do not repeat your mistake!!

All will be cool.
MisFit

Las Vegas, NV

#14 Oct 19, 2008
That little saying about what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas is taken a little to seriously. You never know if the person you are about to have a one night stand with is a serial killer or rapist. This is a transient town so you should not trust anyone. He had no right to do what he did. I hope his pee pee shrivels up.
Enquirer

AOL

#15 Oct 20, 2008
Question.....how could you enter the club and get a room , being underage?
your nuts

Las Vegas, NV

#16 Oct 20, 2008
mahendra dev durham usa wrote:
what did she expect that the guy will come with some candy for her and leave after leaving the same outside her door .
you are dumb and stupid and invited the rape whether minor or major . treat it as a lesson for future . but i suspect that you repeat such behavior in future too .
YOU ARE A IGNORANT PERSON MAY GOD HAVE MERCY ON YOUR SOLE! IT DOESNT MATTER IF SHE DID ALL THE WRONG THINGS THE MAN HAD NO RIGHT TO DO THAT TO HER!! AND FOR YOU TO COMMENT LIKE YOU DID YOU JUST AS AT FAULT AS HIM YOU PIECE OF SHIT!!!!
Caffeinated

United States

#17 Oct 20, 2008
patty wrote:
On the night of saturday june 2, 2007 i went to PURE nightclub in Las Vegas. I was completely drunk and underage but managed to flirt with the head bouncer who stood just across from the counter girl who collected the cover charges. This guy looked like Steve Wilkos(bald and tall) and I thought he was cute. I gave him my number before going into the club. early sunday morning i went back to my hotel room and received a call from the bouncer who told me that he just completed work and wanted to meet up. i agreed and invited him to meet me at my room. i let him in and we started kissing and petting. but then i wanted him to stop but he refused and then proceeded to rape me. i was underage, drunk/hungover, and invited him to my place so i felt very ashamed at what happened but i've reached a point where i feel lost and depressed and need to tell people what happened that night. i didn't deserve to be raped.
Are you kidding me? No, you don't deserve to get raped, but if YOU know that you are underage, and YOU know that you are drunk, and YOU gave him your number and YOU invited him to your room, and YOU allowed him to touch you in the first place...then don't be surprised when YOU got "raped".

YOU weren't responsible, and YOU paid the price. Besides, something tells me that YOU didn't get raped at all, but are trying to get sympathy to cover up for your wrongdoings.

YOU are the reason that real rape victims don't have any credibility. Too many liars.
Caffeinated

United States

#18 Oct 20, 2008
nicol wrote:
no is no! period, he was wrong! you were a little nieve but it was still wrong.
<quoted text>
A little? She did everything except send out a formal invitation for sex. If someone is that stupid, they have no right to go out in the first place.
Caffeinated

United States

#19 Oct 20, 2008
JesseElaine1 wrote:
so what was this guys name and the phone number that you contacted or he contacted you from? why do you feel like reporting this to this site and not to the police? to some authorities?
She probably wanted to date him, and he turned her down. Now she is seeking revenge.

The fact that she is chatting about it online tells me that she is a huge liar.
mahendra dev durham usa

Raleigh, NC

#20 Dec 18, 2008
your nuts wrote:
<quoted text>YOU ARE A IGNORANT PERSON MAY GOD HAVE MERCY ON YOUR SOLE! IT DOESNT MATTER IF SHE DID ALL THE WRONG THINGS THE MAN HAD NO RIGHT TO DO THAT TO HER!! AND FOR YOU TO COMMENT LIKE YOU DID YOU JUST AS AT FAULT AS HIM YOU PIECE OF SHIT!!!!
,

you are the one who advocate dangerous behavior by young girls flirting when drunk was sending a wrong message to a young man , she had no right to tempt him . what else did she expect a brotherly pick on the cheek.
we in America do not own our responsibility for our stupid actions and expect others to be judicious in their actions . i am not ignorant rather a senior citizen father of wonderful kids .
do not need your prayers FROM LIKE OF YOU WHO CAN NOT KEEP THEIR LANGUAGE CIVILIZED to save my soul .
MY KARMAS WILL SAVE MY SOUL [ ATMAN]

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