The Other Spouse

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There's a man somewhere in Laramie who has/had a wife by the name of "Vickie". Vickie's profession is that of a 'traveling nurse', a nurse at the hospital in Laramie, and she is employed at the WDOC in Rawlins.

I would very much like to meet with/talk to Vickie's husband, and in regard to what's been going on with Vickie and my, now, ex-husband for the past 3 months.

One thing, in particular, I'd like to find out, is if Vickie's current behavior towards my children is a normal thing for her, and if her, seemingly, psychotic ways are a normal way of life for her?

If anyone reading this can help me at all, it will be very much appreciated.

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Last post,(promise!), here's my whole "Vickie" story;

I am hoping to find someone who can give me any information about the woman who is living with my,(now), ex-husband. Her name is “Vickie”, she’s a RN who is employed at the WDOC, she also is employed at the hospital in Laramie, and whose profession is that of a “traveling nurse”.

My ex-husband, who is also employed at the WDOC, just up and left me and his two teenaged boys because I have become too disabled to have sex whenever he wanted it/on a more-than-regular basis, and “Vickie” was willing to put out, any time. However, unlike Vickie, my husband and I separated in an amicable manner; he wasn’t cheating on me before the two of them just moved in together on the day he left us. But Vickie, on the other hand, just abandoned her husband and teenage daughter, and up until about 2 weeks ago, this poor man and kid had no idea that Vickie had even been living with another man all this time/never knew she was having this extramarital affair.

The reason I’m now wanting to find Vickie’s husband is because I’d like to know exactly what kind of a person she is, or at least, what she was like when she was at home being a wife to this man and mom to her kid. Since Vickie has been with my ex, she, actually, panics whenever my ex spends any time with his kids. There’s been times that Vickie has included herself into this dad-his-kids time, and when that did happen, she would sit somewhere crying, or marching off mad, thus, pulling some desperate show of emotion in her attempts at getting my ex’s attention away from his children and onto her.(And it’s worked so far, too). Now it’s gotten to the point that she won’t ALLOW my ex to spend ANY time with his kids, and not unless she’s with all of them, too!

My ex was perfectly willing to continue driving me to the doctors’ appointments I must go to, and help us with getting groceries, at the time of leaving us,(neither of my kids have a drivers license yet, and with my disabilities, Laramie/Casper are just too far away for me to drive myself). My ex even signed a promissory note, in front of a notary, promising me he’d continue to help me in that way, and more or less, would still function as a decent father/as he had been before Vickie came along. Everything woujld have gone fairly well with my ex’s and my split, but since “Vickie” is determined to edge my kids out of the picture, THAT’S what’s causing problems now, and especially for my children.

As each week has passed since these two started living together on January 7th, 2009, his above legitimized promises became less and less. This week when I was in urgent need of going to a doctor in Cheyenne, I was told by my ex that “he couldn’t take me unless Vickie went, too”. Today, when speaking to both my ex and Vickie, I was told by Vickie that my ex isn’t going to do anything more for me because “she thinks I’m a bitch”,(her exact words). She also proceeded to tell me that I was a bad wife to my ex when we were together, and that I was a poor mother, also. I never cheated on my husband over the 17 years that we were together, nor did I ever, even once, as much as consider leave my children, or choose some man/sex over my children.

Aside from “Vickie” being, obviously, delusional, pathetic, and way off base to criticize the actions of ANY other wife/mother, she’s now got me to the point to where I am really wanting to speak to the family she up and abandoned. And did, literally, abandon ONLY because of her own selfish need for she and my ex to live a carefree,(no kids around), non-committal relationship based on nothing but sex.

If anyone can help me at all, it will be very much appreciated, and for any woman that has a husband at the WDOC/the hospital in Laramie….. watch out for this broad! I do imagine she’s been a bed-hopper for years, and I, also, have a distinct feeling she preys on married men.