People who cant get over a ex?

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MeMe

Lexington, KY

#1 May 11, 2010
Why cant people just move on?

Since: Jan 09

Lebanon Junction in Bullitt Co

#2 May 11, 2010
thats a very good question.....when you figure it out will you let me know? And good luck with it MeMe!
MeMe

Lexington, KY

#3 May 11, 2010
people do you wrong you move on and they cant it is ignorant
CURRENT

Kingman, IN

#4 May 11, 2010
Well is this person an ex or is this person in reality the current? There's a reason why people can't get over people. Most time who you think might be the ex, might still be having contact with the so called ex. People always try and play games and some people try and control others lives by telling them to stay away from their ex.
MeMe

Lexington, KY

#5 May 11, 2010
well my ex dont want to leave me alone and i have moved on with my life and i am happy but he just dont want me happy

Since: Jan 09

Lebanon Junction in Bullitt Co

#6 May 12, 2010
i agree current. get an epo against him meme
broken

Russell Springs, KY

#7 May 13, 2010
I'm seeing a married man, he wont leave his hog of a wife to be with me because hes afraid she will do something stupid, she just needs to give up and move on. He loves me.

“give peace a chance”

Since: Oct 09

Lancaster will always be home

#8 May 13, 2010
broken wrote:
I'm seeing a married man, he wont leave his hog of a wife to be with me because hes afraid she will do something stupid, she just needs to give up and move on. He loves me.
Maybe he ........loves........using you. True love don't work like that....or the "HOG" ....would be gone already.

Your lying to yourself ...if you really believes he's hanging around for ......love

prepare for a big let down someday.....and watch the...."HOG" ...get the last laugh...along with him laughing too.

Since: Jan 09

Lebanon Junction in Bullitt Co

#9 May 13, 2010
broken, dev is...and i know people will be at an uproar about this...... right, if he really loved you, he would have already left her. he's basically having his cake and eating it too and as long as you let him do it, he will. give him an ultimatum to leave her now and come with you or to not call again. because your wasting your life waiting for him.
LASKDJALS

Somerset, KY

#10 May 13, 2010
SYDENIE HOWARD CANT!!!
crazy

Danville, KY

#11 May 14, 2010
MeMe wrote:
Why cant people just move on?
Well, sometimes it is hard to leave the past behind. An Ex is an Ex for a reason, and unless it is for a good reason ~ you can still have feelings for that person. Every situation is different. Maybe one day the person realizes what they gave up and now has regrets. I personally realize that I walked away from my best friend, and even though I am happily married ~ I still like to keep in touch with my Ex. Guess we are better off friends than more. Is that wrong? Also, it depends on what bonds you together. If you want nothing to do with this person and they won't leave you alone ~ by all means take action! No one needs a stalker.
Me Me

Lexington, KY

#12 May 14, 2010
thank you for all your responses it was hard at first to let my ex go but he hurt me bad so it got easy once the trust is gone it is gone i mean if someone really loves you they wouldnt cheat on you right and now that i have moved on and am happy he tries to find me and screw things up
crazy

Danville, KY

#13 May 14, 2010
Leave him in the dust! If he doesn't leave you alone then you will need to get an epo.

Since: Jan 09

Lebanon Junction in Bullitt Co

#14 May 16, 2010
crazy wrote:
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Well, sometimes it is hard to leave the past behind. An Ex is an Ex for a reason, and unless it is for a good reason ~ you can still have feelings for that person. Every situation is different. Maybe one day the person realizes what they gave up and now has regrets. I personally realize that I walked away from my best friend, and even though I am happily married ~ I still like to keep in touch with my Ex. Guess we are better off friends than more. Is that wrong? Also, it depends on what bonds you together. If you want nothing to do with this person and they won't leave you alone ~ by all means take action! No one needs a stalker.
it doesnt sound like your very happily married if your regretting walking away from your best friend. Does your spouse know you still keep in touch with your ex or BEST friend? How does your spouse feel about you keeping in touch with your ex? What BONDS you all together>? Is your ex keeping the fact you all still "keep in touch" from their partner>? Yea, its hard to leave the past behind...but in order to move on, i think its a requirement. two people date usually because there is some sort of chemistry you have together...yea...there IS something wrong with re-opening things over and over again by keeping "in touch" with someone. Maybe the reason the two break up is for reasons beyond your control...maybe there are still old feelings swirling around and neither party want to admit it...they just say things like, they are keeping in touch because they are "friends" yea an ex is an ex for a reason, i dont feel like your respecting your spouse by keeping in touch with your "friend" I think you should ask them how they feel.,...Im just saying....
meme

Danville, KY

#15 May 20, 2010
OOBHAKEB wrote:
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it doesnt sound like your very happily married if your regretting walking away from your best friend. Does your spouse know you still keep in touch with your ex or BEST friend? How does your spouse feel about you keeping in touch with your ex? What BONDS you all together>? Is your ex keeping the fact you all still "keep in touch" from their partner>? Yea, its hard to leave the past behind...but in order to move on, i think its a requirement. two people date usually because there is some sort of chemistry you have together...yea...there IS something wrong with re-opening things over and over again by keeping "in touch" with someone. Maybe the reason the two break up is for reasons beyond your control...maybe there are still old feelings swirling around and neither party want to admit it...they just say things like, they are keeping in touch because they are "friends" yea an ex is an ex for a reason, i dont feel like your respecting your spouse by keeping in touch with your "friend" I think you should ask them how they feel.,...Im just saying....
So, do you not believe you can be JUST FRIENDS with an Ex? Kinda means you have moved on if you can look at the person and not want them right!? I want to be friends with my Ex simply because they are such a huge part of my past. With that said, I am glad to see them happily in love with a special someone as I am also. I am happily married, and just because I am friends with an Ex does not mean that I'm not truely happy.
crazy

Danville, KY

#16 May 20, 2010
I personally would not care if my Husband was friends with an Ex of his as long as there were no secrets, and I knew they were truly over each other. If I felt like a third wheel then there would be a problem. I know my Husband is happy right where he is at ~ Jealousy gets you no where but lonely and crazy! Guess it just depends on how much you trust your man or what the Friend is like.
Are you serious

Lexington, KY

#17 May 22, 2010
If you had a great relationship with a person and your life was great,then it would be hard to get over them. But if you had a crap relationship and you can't get over them then you have a serious problem. You can forgive and move on and eventually you can get on with your life. But hanging on to the past and not trying will get you NOTHING but trouble. You need to figure out if you really miss the person or are just desperate to have ANYONE that you can forget the B.S. that they put you through. Some people never change no matter how many chances you give them. Most people learn that after a while.If you don't, then you are just asking for trouble.
WoW

London, KY

#18 May 22, 2010
My Girl friend never got over her ex, or stopped sleeping with him.
wondering

Danville, KY

#19 May 28, 2010
When you say you want to be friends with an ex - are you meaning like hanging out with them or just being civil and saying hi every now and then? There is a huge difference!
Youalreadyknow

Danville, KY

#20 May 28, 2010
Lynsey Arnold is a PERFECT example:)
dont you just hate those ex's that wont get over YOUR man? The ones that lie and start silly child like stuff for attention.
Hahhaaa People just see them as a fool. They make themselves look stupid, they wont get your man or they would still have them.

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