There is a difference between a answer and a dodge and a guess. I'm sure you'd be concerned if you flew on a plane where the pilot held your view.<quoted text>I gave you a answer, you might not like it, that's not my problem.
How does the fact that some gay men or some lesbians dress or act flamboyant or masculine change their rights to marry? Are you mandating that we all must dress or act in a prescribed manner ?
You are equating one relationship with another. Other realtionships are denied marriage because they are not the same. I am simply pointing out numerous ways gay unions are not the same, including the most basic, sexuality. In fact you are equating a broken 'object' with a natural one.