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kalie

Crossville, TN

#1 Feb 7, 2013
I believe there is a misconception in the minds of certain sperm donors, who think just because they are paying 60 per week, a child needs nothing else. The mother supports all the childs needs, and the dead beat sperm donor doesnt even think about Christmas gifts, or boyscouts, illnesses or incidental items in the childs life. How can this be when the sperm donor trades his first son, for another child, and ends up having to provide ALL care to the second child, totally disregarding the first one. Shame shame no you Ian, you will one day regret what you have done to ur son, and karma will bite you in places where you might not expect it.
Plan truth

Charlotte, NC

#2 Feb 7, 2013
Just a word of advice from someone that has been down that road and fought with the lawyers, if it is not written in the support papers the noncustodial parent is only responsible for the amount of support payments. According to the law you must have it stated in the support papers if they are responsible for clothing, medical, educational or sporting and recreational expenses. According to the court this should be covered by the child support. This isn't right and few are told about it. It is also wrong if the other parent doesn't step up out of love for their child.
kalie

Crossville, TN

#3 Feb 7, 2013
Well there I guess he is not showing any love or concern for his child, and is not willing to go the extra mile, and even drop off a christmas or birthday gift. too bad Ian, you have no idea what blessings you are missing, and unfortunately will be known as a dead beat father when this child grows up. sad, sad, sad. I think you skipped the class on moral responsibility in basic training.
Plan truth wrote:
Just a word of advice from someone that has been down that road and fought with the lawyers, if it is not written in the support papers the noncustodial parent is only responsible for the amount of support payments. According to the law you must have it stated in the support papers if they are responsible for clothing, medical, educational or sporting and recreational expenses. According to the court this should be covered by the child support. This isn't right and few are told about it. It is also wrong if the other parent doesn't step up out of love for their child.
Just 4 fun

Chicago, IL

#4 Feb 7, 2013
I generally despise deadbeat parents of either sex but in this case, it seems, the father has the child's best interests in mind. Mothers and grandmothers who use children as a pawn in their quest to make a father 'love' the mother and call him a deadbeat when he refuses to play their jealous games are the despicable ones. My guess is this father would gladly spend time with his child if he had been given the opportunity without the 'package deal'. Those who agree with the so called mother and grandmother have obviously never had to deal with women like this. A REAL MOTHER OR GRANDMOTHER WHO LOVED THE CHILD would never allow their own selfishness and drama to hurt an innocent child. They would never make a child feel like he was unwanted by his father even if it were true. They would certainly not post on a public forum that the child could read later that abortion was an option. A true loving mother and grandmother would protect a small child from these things. They would make it as EASY as possible for the father to take part in the child's life. Feel lucky to get the $60/week. If the father didn't care about the child, he would work a lot harder to get out of paying it. I don't know any of you and live far away from Crossville, but have dealt with the court in that county enough to know that the mother is allowed to screw over the father in almost every single case. It was a $20,000 lesson in giving up!
respect

Cookeville, TN

#5 Feb 7, 2013
Just 4 fun wrote:
I generally despise deadbeat parents of either sex but in this case, it seems, the father has the child's best interests in mind. Mothers and grandmothers who use children as a pawn in their quest to make a father 'love' the mother and call him a deadbeat when he refuses to play their jealous games are the despicable ones. My guess is this father would gladly spend time with his child if he had been given the opportunity without the 'package deal'. Those who agree with the so called mother and grandmother have obviously never had to deal with women like this. A REAL MOTHER OR GRANDMOTHER WHO LOVED THE CHILD would never allow their own selfishness and drama to hurt an innocent child. They would never make a child feel like he was unwanted by his father even if it were true. They would certainly not post on a public forum that the child could read later that abortion was an option. A true loving mother and grandmother would protect a small child from these things. They would make it as EASY as possible for the father to take part in the child's life. Feel lucky to get the $60/week. If the father didn't care about the child, he would work a lot harder to get out of paying it. I don't know any of you and live far away from Crossville, but have dealt with the court in that county enough to know that the mother is allowed to screw over the father in almost every single case. It was a $20,000 lesson in giving up!
That was well put. My brother went through the same same thing. Now the mother knows she cant play those games and everything is fine. He pays his support & sees his child regularly. These two were having a great time yesterday running this man in the ground. Guess it's not so fun when stones are thrown back!
Gramma

Crossville, TN

#6 Feb 7, 2013
You are so wrong about what u said. The sperm donor in this case has even gone as far as telling the child he wants nothing to do with him, and since he has a new b aby and new wife, he wants free and clear of it all. no child support no involvement at all. The sperm donor doenst realize what he has missed out on, and what an awesome little boy his son is. He brags about buying houses, cars, new shoes but he doesnt even give his son a xmas present, and h asnt in eleven years. it took him 2 years before he started paying he tried to keep it secret. Nobody wants anything out of him except to recognize he made a child, and 60 dollars per week is not all it takes to raise a child. his mom has given him everything in the world and taken excellent care of him. I am astonished that somebody with his level of training and education can treat a child the way he has treated his. makes me sick
Just 4 fun wrote:
I generally despise deadbeat parents of either sex but in this case, it seems, the father has the child's best interests in mind. Mothers and grandmothers who use children as a pawn in their quest to make a father 'love' the mother and call him a deadbeat when he refuses to play their jealous games are the despicable ones. My guess is this father would gladly spend time with his child if he had been given the opportunity without the 'package deal'. Those who agree with the so called mother and grandmother have obviously never had to deal with women like this. A REAL MOTHER OR GRANDMOTHER WHO LOVED THE CHILD would never allow their own selfishness and drama to hurt an innocent child. They would never make a child feel like he was unwanted by his father even if it were true. They would certainly not post on a public forum that the child could read later that abortion was an option. A true loving mother and grandmother would protect a small child from these things. They would make it as EASY as possible for the father to take part in the child's life. Feel lucky to get the $60/week. If the father didn't care about the child, he would work a lot harder to get out of paying it. I don't know any of you and live far away from Crossville, but have dealt with the court in that county enough to know that the mother is allowed to screw over the father in almost every single case. It was a $20,000 lesson in giving up!
You need therapy

Mcminnville, TN

#8 Feb 7, 2013
Gramma wrote:
I am writing this to thank many of you who commented on the "Where's He working at now" posting regarding the deadbeat sperm donor who choses to take one child over another. I believe if people stand up to trash like this, there would be less children get hurt, and more scum sitting in jail. The dead beat dad, in all realms of the term, could share in the child's life. Instead he wants to be a pussy, and sit and hold the baby all day long, while his old lady works. i am so glad that he will be paying child support for the next 8 years.This will teach him a valuable lesson, yes Ian, while u are working for At work. maybe they will give you a promotion if you scrub those toilets real hard. Or maybe you can work on the potato line, just like the military after they found out you lied about having a dependent and broke a moral code. Stupid stupid little man with a pair of 38 dollar shoes, and no brains or common sense.
as a parent shouldn't you choose the high road and not retort to a site of this ones nature to post about your ( ex son in law) I take it ? To constantlly bad mouth him doesn't say much of your parenting skills and your morals personally whether I was sorry as hell or not doesn't need to be posted nor will it get a positive reaction from him to take care of his child .i had a mother in law just as yourself and now years later we have a awesome relationship and I divorced her daughter years ago but not of being a sorry ass but different reasons I'd rather not discuss . Try encouraging him some however difficult it may be that's what I had done to me and it helped but if she had done it the way your handling it she wouldn't have liked me too much because I would have not done nice things to her out of vengeance and revenge. And that's where your heading and I have noticed you do keep on about posting on this site about personal matters and its none of our bussiness but your have obviously have chosen the ow road ...this isn't the first or only posts about this you have made , anyhoo best of luck and I hope you learn something from all this although I do not see any good from the way your handling it .
her mommy

Crossville, TN

#9 Feb 7, 2013
what do they do if they father wont show up?
Careful

Crossville, TN

#10 Feb 7, 2013
Just 4 fun is entirely correct. There are many posts "trying to make this father realize what he is missing". I believe you have crossed over into "look at what he has done to poor me". I have been owed child support for years. My ex-husband has a child with his new wife and a lot nicer house, car, "things" than I have. My ex doesn't see my child but I always talk positive about her dad because she may meet him some day or her dad may change his mind. AND hate would just eat me up and turn me into a bitter resentful person. You can't make someone love someone else...even if it is their own child.
whew

Henderson, NC

#11 Feb 7, 2013
This man might be a dead beatdad,I don't know him.but Lordy Mercy,what kind of mother are you?Is the child supposed to do without all because a man won't provide it?You are a grown woman I hope and no body ever promised you a perfect world,you have a child you damn well better be ready to raise it,do you want the kid to not have what it needs b ecause the man won't pay support so you aren't gonna step up and be the best mother you can be?And stop badmouthing the dad,child didn't pick it's father you did.
hahaha

Crossville, TN

#12 Feb 7, 2013
You can't make people be decent.
Momma drama

Mcminnville, TN

#13 Feb 7, 2013
I think the mother pawns the child off on her mother to raise and can't afford it but not to bad mouth her lazy ass pitiful daughter so she bad mouths the dad and blames him for it all being his fault because their food stamps wic and welfare check ain't cuttin it !
Just 4 fun

Chicago, IL

#14 Feb 7, 2013
I'm with you Careful, although my ex does see the two youngest kids every other weekend, he has a new family and much nicer things than I have but can't afford to pay child support. I would've been thrilled with $60/wk. My oldest (now of legal age) no longer sees his father regularly, but that is between them not because of anything I have said. I always felt it was in their best interests to feel like both of their parents loved them and have gone out of my way to make excuses for their dad whenever his head hasn't been on straight, not for him but for them.
Exactly

Crossville, TN

#15 Feb 7, 2013
From reading all these posts, apparently the man does pay his child support which is far better than most. I know many, many fathers that don't even bother to pay or sneak one payment every six months in to get the child support office off their back. It seems that this man is at least taking care of his legal obligation to the child. I give him much praise fro that alone.
HaHa

Niota, TN

#16 Feb 8, 2013
It's funny after keeping up with these posts the mother and grandmother started off trying to bash this guy and now it has turned around and bit them both in the as$. This just proves your character and how bad of scum you both are. He pays child support who gives a crap about his life he has now. It's obvious why he doesn't have you two in his. And who cares about his shoes....a little obsessed about his shoes....you are lame. I feel bad for that kid especially having to now deal with you two LOL
shellie

Crossville, TN

#17 Feb 8, 2013
you are all idoits. this child has more than most, and sometimes gets more than he should and guess what, not on the measley money his supposed sperm donor sends him, cause he has family that loves him. The hell with Mr. Price.
whew wrote:
This man might be a dead beatdad,I don't know him.but Lordy Mercy,what kind of mother are you?Is the child supposed to do without all because a man won't provide it?You are a grown woman I hope and no body ever promised you a perfect world,you have a child you damn well better be ready to raise it,do you want the kid to not have what it needs b ecause the man won't pay support so you aren't gonna step up and be the best mother you can be?And stop badmouthing the dad,child didn't pick it's father you did.
del

Crossville, TN

#18 Feb 8, 2013
This is something in society that is sickening. so many kids are left with their mothers because the pos sperm donors dont want to take on the responsibility of the children they create. I believe when they take on new families and responsiblities the old ones should be the first priority in the courts mind. the kids are the ones left behind by the absent parent and its not fair to them. I wonder how these idiots can live with themselves.
Careful wrote:
Just 4 fun is entirely correct. There are many posts "trying to make this father realize what he is missing". I believe you have crossed over into "look at what he has done to poor me". I have been owed child support for years. My ex-husband has a child with his new wife and a lot nicer house, car, "things" than I have. My ex doesn't see my child but I always talk positive about her dad because she may meet him some day or her dad may change his mind. AND hate would just eat me up and turn me into a bitter resentful person. You can't make someone love someone else...even if it is their own child.
del

Crossville, TN

#19 Feb 8, 2013
Guess what retard, the child is not being pawned off cause the mother makes more money than the father ever hopes to make. in this case i was told he lives off his new bff. how sad.
Momma drama wrote:
I think the mother pawns the child off on her mother to raise and can't afford it but not to bad mouth her lazy ass pitiful daughter so she bad mouths the dad and blames him for it all being his fault because their food stamps wic and welfare check ain't cuttin it !
hahao

Heath Springs, SC

#20 Feb 8, 2013
del wrote:
This is something in society that is sickening. so many kids are left with their mothers because the pos sperm donors dont want to take on the responsibility of the children they create. I believe when they take on new families and responsiblities the old ones should be the first priority in the courts mind. the kids are the ones left behind by the absent parent and its not fair to them. I wonder how these idiots can live with themselves.
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And exactly what makes you think the first child deserves more than the second?? And if she makes sooo much more money and doesn't appreciate the money he does send, then why don't you stop spending the money??? Personally I think the second child should come first considering the parents are still together. You can argue all you'd like but everyone sees how pathetic the whole bunch of you are...and guess what... your shittt stinks too!!!
hahaha

Crossville, TN

#21 Feb 8, 2013
Heather its obvious that you and your mother are still responding to all of the above, and not once have we heard from the "sperm donor". Just shut up get the f*ck over yourself and be happy your getting money. Many mothers like myself dont get any support. So shut yours and your mothers big fat mouth and raise your child and quit worrying about his. As per law he is meeting his legal requirements. And tell your wacked out mother that the "sperm donor" will never have anything to do with your son especially with you and your mother in the picture. You all are IGNORANT!!!

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