Let this be a public witness

Let this be a public witness

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Concerned

Carpentersville, IL

#1 Jan 14, 2013
My mother is married to an extremely abusive man. She has no way out because of circumstances that need not be explained on here.
She takes medication to be able to deal with his abuse that Dr. Shekhat prescribes her. He has now decided that he's going to cut her down 5 each visit.
She has warned him several times that if he continues to titrate her down, that she will not be able I control herself.
He is my step-father. His abuse of her is bad but he is elderly and would die without her. They own their home and neither would have no place to go if either one left. Her leaving is not an option.
The meds help keep her sane. If she goes off of them, she WILL go INSANE.

So if you're reading this, Dr. Shekhat, know that this post will stand as a witness against you if something bad happens to her or anyone else. She is abused daily and te meds are all that keep her sane.

For those bright people who want to post smart ass remarks on here, go right ahead. This is my last post on this subject and I will reply to no one. I didn't post this to read replies, only to take to court in case that day comes.
I'm not even going to read any replies. While I type this my husband is video taping me. Jus for proof that i was the one to post it. After I finish, I'll print it, have him record me signing it, and put it in a lock box until the day I need it. Hopefully that day never comes.
Help

La Follette, TN

#2 Jan 14, 2013
Listen this is not a smartass remark but there is a way out! Can't in a word that should not be used and the first thing she needs to do is call 911 then leave! It's not the doctors fault he/ she don't treat what your speaking of if you want to help your mother call the police and then help her get out of there. So instead of blaming the doctor YOU help your mother get out of that situation asap!!!!
Concerned wrote:
My mother is married to an extremely abusive man. She has no way out because of circumstances that need not be explained on here.
She takes medication to be able to deal with his abuse that Dr. Shekhat prescribes her. He has now decided that he's going to cut her down 5 each visit.
She has warned him several times that if he continues to titrate her down, that she will not be able I control herself.
He is my step-father. His abuse of her is bad but he is elderly and would die without her. They own their home and neither would have no place to go if either one left. Her leaving is not an option.
The meds help keep her sane. If she goes off of them, she WILL go INSANE.
So if you're reading this, Dr. Shekhat, know that this post will stand as a witness against you if something bad happens to her or anyone else. She is abused daily and te meds are all that keep her sane.
For those bright people who want to post smart ass remarks on here, go right ahead. This is my last post on this subject and I will reply to no one. I didn't post this to read replies, only to take to court in case that day comes.
I'm not even going to read any replies. While I type this my husband is video taping me. Jus for proof that i was the one to post it. After I finish, I'll print it, have him record me signing it, and put it in a lock box until the day I need it. Hopefully that day never comes.
haha

Jacksboro, TN

#3 Jan 14, 2013
Must be Jacky Swanson..course dave is abusive..he's on meth
Crazy

La Follette, TN

#4 Jan 14, 2013
Lady your nuts!
Concerned wrote:
My mother is married to an extremely abusive man. She has no way out because of circumstances that need not be explained on here.
She takes medication to be able to deal with his abuse that Dr. Shekhat prescribes her. He has now decided that he's going to cut her down 5 each visit.
She has warned him several times that if he continues to titrate her down, that she will not be able I control herself.
He is my step-father. His abuse of her is bad but he is elderly and would die without her. They own their home and neither would have no place to go if either one left. Her leaving is not an option.
The meds help keep her sane. If she goes off of them, she WILL go INSANE.
So if you're reading this, Dr. Shekhat, know that this post will stand as a witness against you if something bad happens to her or anyone else. She is abused daily and te meds are all that keep her sane.
For those bright people who want to post smart ass remarks on here, go right ahead. This is my last post on this subject and I will reply to no one. I didn't post this to read replies, only to take to court in case that day comes.
I'm not even going to read any replies. While I type this my husband is video taping me. Jus for proof that i was the one to post it. After I finish, I'll print it, have him record me signing it, and put it in a lock box until the day I need it. Hopefully that day never comes.
Crazy

La Follette, TN

#5 Jan 14, 2013
Lady your nuts!
Concerned wrote:
My mother is married to an extremely abusive man. She has no way out because of circumstances that need not be explained on here.
She takes medication to be able to deal with his abuse that Dr. Shekhat prescribes her. He has now decided that he's going to cut her down 5 each visit.
She has warned him several times that if he continues to titrate her down, that she will not be able I control herself.
He is my step-father. His abuse of her is bad but he is elderly and would die without her. They own their home and neither would have no place to go if either one left. Her leaving is not an option.
The meds help keep her sane. If she goes off of them, she WILL go INSANE.
So if you're reading this, Dr. Shekhat, know that this post will stand as a witness against you if something bad happens to her or anyone else. She is abused daily and te meds are all that keep her sane.
For those bright people who want to post smart ass remarks on here, go right ahead. This is my last post on this subject and I will reply to no one. I didn't post this to read replies, only to take to court in case that day comes.
I'm not even going to read any replies. While I type this my husband is video taping me. Jus for proof that i was the one to post it. After I finish, I'll print it, have him record me signing it, and put it in a lock box until the day I need it. Hopefully that day never comes.
how it is

La Follette, TN

#6 Jan 14, 2013
this posting of yours as witness to whatever is useless. in the eyes of the law she is a full grown adult and NO ONE is unable to get out of their situation if they want to badly enough. SHE is responsible for her own decisions, regardless of age. good luck to her, but the hard cold truth of the matter is she is with the man of her own choosing. whoever this doc is, is cutting back her meds i'm sure for valid reason. if he/she were UPPING her meds then you'd blame him/her for having her 'doped up'. the problem lies with HER since it is ultimately HER decision what happens with her about her husband and her meds. period.

no one HAS to take abuse.
Correct

La Follette, TN

#7 Jan 15, 2013
Agreed 100%!
how it is wrote:
this posting of yours as witness to whatever is useless. in the eyes of the law she is a full grown adult and NO ONE is unable to get out of their situation if they want to badly enough. SHE is responsible for her own decisions, regardless of age. good luck to her, but the hard cold truth of the matter is she is with the man of her own choosing. whoever this doc is, is cutting back her meds i'm sure for valid reason. if he/she were UPPING her meds then you'd blame him/her for having her 'doped up'. the problem lies with HER since it is ultimately HER decision what happens with her about her husband and her meds. period.
no one HAS to take abuse.
duckie

La Follette, TN

#8 Jan 15, 2013
If she is that bad she is too dangerous to be around anyone. It is your responsibility as her daughter to get her some help before someone innocent gets hurt.
agree

La Follette, TN

#9 Jan 16, 2013
how it is wrote:
this posting of yours as witness to whatever is useless. in the eyes of the law she is a full grown adult and NO ONE is unable to get out of their situation if they want to badly enough. SHE is responsible for her own decisions, regardless of age. good luck to her, but the hard cold truth of the matter is she is with the man of her own choosing. whoever this doc is, is cutting back her meds i'm sure for valid reason. if he/she were UPPING her meds then you'd blame him/her for having her 'doped up'. the problem lies with HER since it is ultimately HER decision what happens with her about her husband and her meds. period.
no one HAS to take abuse.
maybe go to court and see about getting her rendered incompetent to get power of attorney so then she could pull her out of there? idk. Prob would rather keep the drama going of it all instead of actually trying to actively DO anything about helping her. agree the 'let this be witness' blahblahblah crap is totally useless. could you imagine printing this out and handing it to a lawyer or judge and saying "see here? I did my part"??? I feel sorry for the mom but yeah it's ultimately her decision to take the abuse from her husband. maybe he's not even abusing her and it 's the meds making her nuts? who knows... anyway, good luck to her.
agree

La Follette, TN

#10 Jan 16, 2013
just read that first post again.

poster is blaming the doc if anything happens to who? the husband? like the woman will go nuts and kill her husband if the doc doesn't keep her drugged up?

now THAT'S insane and will never hold up in court. matter of fact it sounds like the poster is posing a blackmailing of the doc (gimme back the meds OR ELSE) and blackmail is illegal.

what an idiot. lol
Jimbo

La Follette, TN

#11 Jan 16, 2013
Concerned wrote:
My mother is married to an extremely abusive man. She has no way out because of circumstances that need not be explained on here.
She takes medication to be able to deal with his abuse that Dr. Shekhat prescribes her. He has now decided that he's going to cut her down 5 each visit.
She has warned him several times that if he continues to titrate her down, that she will not be able I control herself.
He is my step-father. His abuse of her is bad but he is elderly and would die without her. They own their home and neither would have no place to go if either one left. Her leaving is not an option.
The meds help keep her sane. If she goes off of them, she WILL go INSANE.
So if you're reading this, Dr. Shekhat, know that this post will stand as a witness against you if something bad happens to her or anyone else. She is abused daily and te meds are all that keep her sane.
For those bright people who want to post smart ass remarks on here, go right ahead. This is my last post on this subject and I will reply to no one. I didn't post this to read replies, only to take to court in case that day comes.
I'm not even going to read any replies. While I type this my husband is video taping me. Jus for proof that i was the one to post it. After I finish, I'll print it, have him record me signing it, and put it in a lock box until the day I need it. Hopefully that day never comes.
This is not a smart remark, but good free advice.Be sure you do not mention the name "TOPIX" to the lawyer or judge.Good luck to you.
How

La Follette, TN

#12 Jan 16, 2013
How stupid can a person be? Lady you are at the top of the list! Your mother needs to be taken out of your life sounds like to me!
Concerned wrote:
My mother is married to an extremely abusive man. She has no way out because of circumstances that need not be explained on here.
She takes medication to be able to deal with his abuse that Dr. Shekhat prescribes her. He has now decided that he's going to cut her down 5 each visit.
She has warned him several times that if he continues to titrate her down, that she will not be able I control herself.
He is my step-father. His abuse of her is bad but he is elderly and would die without her. They own their home and neither would have no place to go if either one left. Her leaving is not an option.
The meds help keep her sane. If she goes off of them, she WILL go INSANE.
So if you're reading this, Dr. Shekhat, know that this post will stand as a witness against you if something bad happens to her or anyone else. She is abused daily and te meds are all that keep her sane.
For those bright people who want to post smart ass remarks on here, go right ahead. This is my last post on this subject and I will reply to no one. I didn't post this to read replies, only to take to court in case that day comes.
I'm not even going to read any replies. While I type this my husband is video taping me. Jus for proof that i was the one to post it. After I finish, I'll print it, have him record me signing it, and put it in a lock box until the day I need it. Hopefully that day never comes.

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