How to tell my wife i dont love her

How to tell my wife i dont love her

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HPT

Jacksboro, TN

#1 Dec 12, 2012
I dont know how to tell her without hurting her. Yes i have been seeing someone for two years now and am in love with that person. Yes i know it was wrong but it happend and here i am lol. At first didnt think it was anything but now im so into this person i would do anything for them. Dont get me wrong my wife is a great person but just not ment for me to be with her.
who cares

United States

#2 Dec 12, 2012
Why don't you put your name instead of hiding behind this hpt BS low life
justbehonest

Kingston, TN

#3 Dec 12, 2012
Just set her down an be honest,,honesty is best policy,,I wouldn't tell her you've had an affair because it will hurt her even more but just be honest an tell her u dont wanna be with her,,just remember the longer u wait the more its gonna hurt
ura maggot

La Follette, TN

#4 Dec 12, 2012
If there are any kids involved have you considered what this will do to them? If you HAD to have someone different than your wife you should have left before finding that person.
HPT

Jacksboro, TN

#5 Dec 12, 2012
ura maggot wrote:
If there are any kids involved have you considered what this will do to them? If you HAD to have someone different than your wife you should have left before finding that person.
No there is no kids if there was i wouldnt have done what i did
jack

Kingston, TN

#7 Dec 12, 2012
This is BS hell if you cant tell her let me know who she is ad I will help you out pus!!!! she is ost likely getting dicke by your friend anyway.
exactly

United States

#8 Dec 12, 2012
Your a dumbass
Mom

United States

#9 Dec 12, 2012
You should have thought of your wife and family, before you started playing around. Tell her get it over with. She deserves better than this. Two years and she doesn't have any ideal.
Did the woman your with know that you were married? Just remember what goes around comes around.
class act

La Follette, TN

#10 Dec 12, 2012
asking this NOW for what ... a "Christmas surprise" to your wife and kids in a couple weeks.

man what an epic loser. wait til couple days after Christmas so a week later they can start a new year with a new BETTER life without you in it.

oh and for a Christmas present you can put an appt to the DOC in your Christmas card to your wife PRE PAID testing for STDs - the gift that keeps on giving - you prob gave her, so she can know for sure and if it comes up positive can get treatment .. at YOUR expense.

good luck to them.

you? you and your skank are made for each other, and hopefully your wife will be smart enough to start her new year and life by taking you to court and winning the shirt off of YOUR back. sweet :) good luck with that! lol

Since: Sep 10

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#11 Dec 13, 2012
These threads are usually started by the other woman. Keywords are ' in love' and ' into her'. Keep talking yourself into believing that. lol I dont see a married man saying that to anyone except his side piece or his wife. In all reality, he loves neither.
I suppose it could happen....nah.

“what's your major malfunction?”

Since: Aug 12

San Diego, California

#12 Dec 13, 2012
delicious1 wrote:
These threads are usually started by the other woman. Keywords are ' in love' and ' into her'. Keep talking yourself into believing that. lol I dont see a married man saying that to anyone except his side piece or his wife. In all reality, he loves neither.
I suppose it could happen....nah.
or maybe just someone that wants to start marital problems with every couple in cc lol. Keep it anonymous and not say names so every woman wonders if it's their husband.
who cares

United States

#14 Dec 13, 2012
Just tell her so she can go find a real man and you can go get what you deserve from your whore! And remember once a cheater always a cheater and the women that get involved with married men are sluts and you will get what you deserve in time! Karma honey " and you think you are happy now and enjoying your self well enjoy it now because it will end and you will be the one that gets what you deserve! And your wife will be the winner because you will go crying back to her and she will laugh and probably thank you for setting her free so she could really be happy dead beat
LiveLife

Bowling Green, KY

#15 Dec 13, 2012
HPT wrote:
I dont know how to tell her without hurting her. Yes i have been seeing someone for two years now and am in love with that person. Yes i know it was wrong but it happend and here i am lol. At first didnt think it was anything but now im so into this person i would do anything for them. Dont get me wrong my wife is a great person but just not ment for me to be with her.
I don't know these people, but whoever they are must have something going on that they aren't going to stop. If the cheater is in love with someone else, then he/she needs to make things happen to be together. If a spouse is involved, he/she needs to let go. It makes no sense to keep in a relationship just because it may be the thing you've always thought you should do.
Sometimes, staying in the relationship is the worst thing to do. If you condone cheating or allow it to happen against yourself, you are surely someone who is reliant on someone else and have no self motivation to do better.
It is really making you look bad especially if a lot of people know. There are reasons why people cheat such as no longer happy or found someone they love more or maybe have always loved. Whatever the case, trust can never be restored, and once a cheater, always a cheater if you stay in a marriage they clearly don't want to be in
. Take advice, move on. You know, it may be your fault for not being or doing what you should while the other person is.
who cares

United States

#16 Dec 13, 2012
Better yet tell her to get on topics u puss since you can tell everybody on here but not her
Jcr

Bowling Green, KY

#17 Dec 13, 2012
Just tell her, atleast you can be totally honest unlike some ''men''. Life is to short to waste it by letting other's tell u what to do. Good luck.

Since: Sep 10

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#18 Dec 13, 2012
LiveLife wrote:
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I don't know these people, but whoever they are must have something going on that they aren't going to stop. If the cheater is in love with someone else, then he/she needs to make things happen to be together. If a spouse is involved, he/she needs to let go. It makes no sense to keep in a relationship just because it may be the thing you've always thought you should do.
Sometimes, staying in the relationship is the worst thing to do. If you condone cheating or allow it to happen against yourself, you are surely someone who is reliant on someone else and have no self motivation to do better.
It is really making you look bad especially if a lot of people know. There are
reasons why people cheat such as no longer happy or found someone they
love more or maybe have always loved. Whatever the case, trust can never
be restored, and once a cheater, always a cheater if you stay in a marriage
they clearly don't want to be in
. Take advice, move on. You know, it may be your fault for not being or doing
what you should while the other person is.
Rofl You are ignert. Ya ever heard of that? Its way past ignorant. One call and you'd be in the cold and you know it.

Since: Sep 10

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#19 Dec 15, 2012
lovely1nkrazyTown wrote:
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or maybe just someone that wants to start marital problems with every couple in cc lol. Keep it anonymous and not say names so every woman wonders if it's their husband.
Nope, it's personal. Too much time invested.
baglady

United States

#20 Dec 15, 2012
POS! PERIOD! Your going 2 ruin X-mas 4 your whole family men like you is what turn women against men I hope she gets everything out of the divorce an the other woman cheats on u constantly
Big Larry

Fond Du Lac, WI

#21 Dec 15, 2012
There will be no easy way to do it. But you need to know that statistically speaking, the chances of the relationship you now have with the other woman working out are very slim. This new relationship is one that was built on lies and deceit and has no real foundation upon which to stand.

After the excitement has waned, what will you be left with? It's very different when the affair becomes a relationship. Right now you're caught up in the excitement, the thrill, the romance. But how will life with this other woman be when it starts becoming mundane? When instead of secretly dating and having forbidden sex all the time it's bills and grocery shopping?

You've got a lot to think about my friend.
Yeppers uh huh

Bowling Green, KY

#22 Dec 15, 2012
Big Larry wrote:
There will be no easy way to do it. But you need to know that statistically speaking, the chances of the relationship you now have with the other woman working out are very slim. This new relationship is one that was built on lies and deceit and has no real foundation upon which to stand.
After the excitement has waned, what will you be left with? It's very different when the affair becomes a relationship. Right now you're caught up in the excitement, the thrill, the romance. But how will life with this other woman be when it starts becoming mundane? When instead of secretly dating and having forbidden sex all the time it's bills and grocery shopping?
You've got a lot to think about my friend.
Maybe that's why the marriage isn't working out either, could it possbily be that it was based on lies as well??

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