do men go back to there ex wife

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any advice

Corpus Christi, TX

#1 Nov 23, 2010
i was wondering if men that have been married once an then they get togethere with someone else do they ever think of getting back togethere with there ex's
u know it

El Monte, CA

#2 Nov 23, 2010
All the time... If they were with them n it ended cuz it was the guys fault...yeah they think about it... Believe me!
Lackoflife

Elgin, TX

#3 Nov 24, 2010
Yes they do, sone all the time
Sally

Meridian, TX

#4 Nov 24, 2010
I'm sure my husband wishes he never did what he did. The sad part is that when they click in their small little brain its always to late. I'm sure the ex has found another. And these men have to live with the thought of what could have been and the regret of why he choose a diffrent path. But it is always and will be in their minds of wanting their ex even when they have another especially if he loved her so much!
well

Corpus Christi, TX

#5 Nov 24, 2010
not all men go back to theirs wifes.. espcially if the wife was being a put# and wants him back i dont think so.
truthful

El Monte, CA

#6 Nov 24, 2010
Well I think theyll always wounder what if??? But they also may find someone who makes them happier than their ex I know this cause I always ended up going back to my ex. But I found the love of my life so now I'm thankful that it didn't work out with my ex cause I never would of found my soul mate.
Shakes the clown

San Diego, CA

#7 Nov 25, 2010
Hey, that's why you call them "ex"....I don't really think they all go back...I believe they do because they are at the end of their rope and figured out there was nothing better than what they had or no one else will have them...the road is paved with "what ifs" ..make your own road...if it happens, there is nothing you can do about it...life is about choices and sometimes guys really are thinking with the wrong "head". Go figure...women are really the voice of reason...we just don't listen.
TheCrook

Corpus Christi, TX

#8 Nov 25, 2010
It's not that it's your soul mate. Sometimes guys can't put up with the whining and bitching and they leave. Not all men come back. There are like 45 women to every man in the world. Sometimes, the inner side of women makes them realize they messed up. But it's too late for her too. Then, when she finds someone else,..and she will, cuz all men want a "piece", her inner conscience subconsciously makes her believe she's found the "right"one. That she's so much happier now. And it WILL seem that way, for a while. Haven't you heard so many times, that they go to someone who they think it's better, yet...turns out worst?
Shakes the clown

San Diego, CA

#9 Nov 25, 2010
The Crook, very good advice...smart, logical, hey, the ball is in your court...any advice....time to make decisions...so far the crook makes the most sense...
truthful

El Monte, CA

#10 Nov 25, 2010
There is plenty of logic in what you both said. I myself know the one I'm with is indeed my soul mate. She is just... WOUNDERFUL!! I got tired of having to work then come home and cook clean and take care of my kids as she got lazier by the day. She never tried to change or work it out until she saw how happy I was with someone else.
I so

Corpus Christi, TX

#11 Nov 25, 2010
Really wish my x would repent on what he did
and ask for forgiveness...we have been divorced
too too long...and him and I are both single.
How sad huh? He lives out of town though..and
I believe his very happy with his mommy and daddy.
What now I do not have (my parents.
My x Has a great job and nice house and me and my son are over here stuggling.

I so wish I could find someone to fill that empty space in my life. But guess that will never happen.

My x mother in law told me specifically if I left
her son I was going to regret it for the rest of my
life...and I do!
Mellie

El Monte, CA

#12 Nov 25, 2010
Sally wrote:
I'm sure my husband wishes he never did what he did. The sad part is that when they click in their small little brain its always to late. I'm sure the ex has found another. And these men have to live with the thought of what could have been and the regret of why he choose a diffrent path. But it is always and will be in their minds of wanting their ex even when they have another especially if he loved her so much!
I agree... Was with my ex for 10 yrs n have 3 kids with him...he messed up bad. I couldnt take him bck after hurtin me soo bad. But I get those looks with his chick in the car. I know he regrets it....but now im happy once again n he has lost me to a real man! Lol.

“Smile :D”

Since: Nov 10

Kingsville

#13 Nov 25, 2010
It sounds like a lot of guilt. And getting back together out of guilt is a bad idea. When you end on bad terms it's better not to get back together. You or your partner will always bring up what ended you and it will end you again. Stay friends, friends with benefits, but don't get back together. If you were meant to be, you'd still be together.
well

Corpus Christi, TX

#14 Nov 25, 2010
samantha361 sorry we are npot all like u.. so every ex u been with u stay friends with benefits.. what a sl*t and take that pic off ur default u know u look nasty in reality.

“Smile :D”

Since: Nov 10

Kingsville

#15 Nov 25, 2010
well wrote:
samantha361 sorry we are npot all like u.. so every ex u been with u stay friends with benefits.. what a sl*t and take that pic off ur default u know u look nasty in reality.
Did I say I did those thing? Not exactly. I recommended it. For all you know I'm your mother. You never know who's behind the pictures til you meet. I didn't mean to offend anyone. Maybe your a cheater and I insulted your cheating pride. Idk. No need to get your panties all up in a bunch. Who takes anything on this site seriously?? If you can't handle the post without getting all butt hurt then don't come to the site duh lol
Shakes the clown

San Diego, CA

#16 Nov 25, 2010
Samantha...I want to be your "ex" yuk yuk. All in fun folks..I AM A CLOWN AFTER ALL. Ex's..some good, some bad...some adults...some act like children...you decide.

“Smile :D”

Since: Nov 10

Kingsville

#17 Nov 26, 2010
Shakes the clown wrote:
Samantha...I want to be your "ex" yuk yuk. All in fun folks..I AM A CLOWN AFTER ALL. Ex's..some good, some bad...some adults...some act like children...you decide.
Lol well obviously some people feel the need to be childish.
Lol your the only clown not to give me nightmares :D
fyi

Refugio, TX

#18 Nov 26, 2010
Samantha361 wrote:
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Lol well obviously some people feel the need to be childish.
Lol your the only clown not to give me nightmares :D
Lets see sam how many failed relationships have u had and or mended , cause quite honestly it sounds like u have no idea what ur talking about.( if u it was ment 2 be u would still be together ) wtf have u heard the saying u dont know u have a good thing until u lose it, well some times thts wht it takes 2 make things right !!!!!! so u r wrong with tht advice ,is all I gotta say.

“Jus being me”

Since: Nov 10

kingsville

#19 Nov 26, 2010
Some do go back to the ex. i had one leave me for his ex. i know they throw the past at each other. i see him from time to time. not see him as in date him . just around town every so often and he tells me they both throw the others mess up at the other. and ive stayed friends with most of my exs never had it end in to bad of terms except for that one who left me for his ex. i say hi but try to get away as soon as possible.
OCD girl

Corpus Christi, TX

#20 Nov 27, 2010
I just saw the movie, "It's Complicated" and it reminds of this discussion. He wanted his ex back. It's a great movie! Meryl Streep, Alec Baldwin and Steve Martin are wonderful. The background music is quite lovely too.

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