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A new year

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#1
Dec 31, 2012
 
We want this to be a sexual year . What are some fantasies my wife and I can try ?willing to do almost anything .
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Dec 31, 2012
 
I would like my wife to show just a little bit of interest .i have to make all the first moves to have sex even in the bed room .....
It's getting old already.
How can I get her to try that out maybe it would help us out
AqueousKitty

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Jan 1, 2013
 
Are you good at it?
Wow

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#4
Jan 1, 2013
 
Never had any complaints. From any one yet.
Shania

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#5
Jan 1, 2013
 
Put some porn on...let her watch it and let her come to u
Wow

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#6
Jan 1, 2013
 
What kind of porn ? Lol
towndude

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Jan 1, 2013
 

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Wow wrote:
I would like my wife to show just a little bit of interest .i have to make all the first moves to have sex even in the bed room .....
It's getting old already.
How can I get her to try that out maybe it would help us out
You got a long rocky road to travel my friend. It never really gets better. Good luck.!
Wow

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Jan 1, 2013
 
Lol
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#9
Jan 1, 2013
 
Maybe because she already use to you doing it first. So she figures you like to take control, just tell her how you would like her to make the first move at times.
Wow

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#10
Jan 1, 2013
 
Ill try that
Kvg

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#11
Jan 1, 2013
 
Wow wrote:
What kind of porn ? Lol
seriously?
Wow

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#12
Jan 1, 2013
 
Seriously what?
Lol

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#13
Jan 2, 2013
 
Join the club lol
Faithfulgirl

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#14
Jan 3, 2013
 
Lol wrote:
Join the club lol
Ha, wow!!! Why not just put it in there and stop being so childish.
Ashley

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#15
Jan 3, 2013
 
Lol wrote:
Join the club lol
If you hate it so much then why be with the girl, just be single and sleep around by the sound of this you've probably already have just saying....
amused

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#16
Jan 3, 2013
 
But can we please get back to the top 10? I need to remember to pass the first 15 comments, lol.
VWFringe

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#17
Jan 3, 2013
 
I've discovered, but haven't field tested yet, that getting dopamine flowing in her brain will bring the best results, and convincing her that she has the human right to think of herself as a sexual person - you're there just to facilitate. Dopamine is ultimately something we do inside our own heads, but sex without it is just waiting for friction to bring about a bodily function, but if you get your dopamine going, and demonstrate that brain chemistry, through the subtle clues she'll pick-up on, matched breathing, care and concern in how you move, how you move your hands. They say the brain is the most powerful aphrodisiac, but I maintain sex has just been the most powerful physical pathway to a dopamine rush, and people who get good at it build their dopamine before they start and keep it going through-out, and when you do that, it makes getting off on extreme fantasy seem weak. Not to say that having a frame-work of understanding what works for her and what doesn't - that's a kind of fantasy...? bridge that gap so you understand what gets her off, and understand it's probably centered around times and locations that are conducive to her feelings of well-being and safety...which means the bedroom. Watch videos on Youtube of women talking with other women about what does and doesn't work for them in the bedroom and around sex, they talk about public but non-identifiable, but from what I know now, I can't imagine anybody'd be able to have a strong orgasm or really focus their dopamine without looking into the eyes of the person you're helping get off, and knowing how valuable it can be to have that to look forward to as a source of dopamine outside the bedroom.
How much does anybody know about their Human Reward System? But, we know sometimes we feel more alive, more connected, and it shouldn't be around specific emotions, but to get into it you can remember certain emotionally loaded memories, breath-into the dopamine part and let the emotions drop away, its' like praying with your eyes open, and you should be able to orchestate the meanings of what you're doing into keeping a drip going.

I hated ADHD orgasms - I'm so glad after my diagnosis I started to make the connection to past misbehaviors was connected to RDS (Reward Deficiency Syndrome), and started to pay attention to how I use my reward system, and try to turn it on when I'm around others (Good Morning, Good Evening, instead of burying my head in something right away)- it works much better than coffee, but it's also so much more elusive because it's not what you're thinking, but how you're thinking, and "breathing into" it, to maximize your experience of it, takes a little skill, but everyone has developed paths to it's use, and can borrom from that skill to learn to re-create it on demand, or in response to interactions given the mind-set that what we all share is our reward system, and it's only how we learn to use it that's different.
I've read most women aren't into sex right away, and that most expect the act to carry them away into the state of mind where they can cum. I believe if you master your ability to approach her with a strong dopamine buzz-on - adjust your brain chemistry first, then approach, strip away expectation, and understand that any exchange of dopamine is a high, and remember we used to neck instead of sex, because it effected our dopamine level and that let us concentrate and feel close to someone - change your brain first and she'll probably find it infectious. You may need to rack up some time doing just this together, before she's ready to re-join the sexual side of the relationship, but as she recognizes you're attentive to whatever her real needs are, not just the ones you're established over time, she may feel safe again thinking about herself as a sexual person, and how good the dopamine feels, how much more intense the orgasms feel when there's time given to foster a dopaminergic state shared by the two of you,
Kngsvl

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Jan 16, 2013
 
Best dream is a nicely built 5"11'!!!
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#19
Jan 17, 2013
 
my sexual fantasy is to have 6 kids from different fathers and get everything free. then get a bf that works away from here for days and he gives me money while i get pregnant again and say its his
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Jan 17, 2013
 
local kingsville hoe wrote:
my sexual fantasy is to have 6 kids from different fathers and get everything free. then get a bf that works away from here for days and he gives me money while i get pregnant again and say its his
Haha this is pathetic you're trash that belongs in the dumpster

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