AMEN!!...Here's the cold hard truth...once you have children, it's not about YOU anymore. It's about the children. It is your responsibility to protect those children at all costs. Every decision you make affects those children. Take responsibility for your offspring and stop blaming the system.
If people are willing to excuse stupidity, then the same thing will happen over and over and over again. Nothing changes until we stop coddling weakness.
Young girls can get so wrapped up in "love". If it goes unchecked, then they become grown up women with kids who still don't know what a real man is. They get "hung up" and never let go of someone they think they love. They are scared to move on without their "love". How about learning to live life fully without love. Then when a true healthy love comes, you have your cake and can eat it too.
People waste their lives in dysfunctional relationships not to mention domestic abuse. It's time to wake up, take accountability for the past, stop making the same mistakes over and over again. Just because the statistics are high in this area of our culture doesn't mean we have to be one ofthe statistics. AWARENESS makes change. And that's why I'm so adamant about my thoughts.
Maybe there will be less children subjected to stupidity of their parents.