My mom has "given up on me," what do I do now?
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#1 Nov 18, 2013
My mom has "given up on me," what do I do now?My mom and I have never been close. It began when she divorced my dad who was physically abusive towards her (which I was witness to) and sexually abusive towards me between 3 and 5 years old (she never pressed charges). Over time, when she had drank a bit too much and teenage arguments ensued, she has told me that she wanted a boy instead of me, that I look like I have had a baby (because I'm not thin but haven't been pregnant), and now in our latest argument has said that she has "given up on me" and that if I want a mom, I need to "go find a new one."
I consider myself a pretty good person after growing up with abuse from my dad and in a way, neglect from my mom (also being physically and sexually abused by a boyfriend for 2 years at 15 years old). I am in college (with a year left), married, and doing well; except for this. It has really thrown me a loop and I have gotten very depressed...even failing this last semester of school after her telling me this. I haven't done everything right; but I haven't done everything wrong either. I feel completely alone (my husband is now in South Korea). I am very interested in moving there with him until he comes back and forgoing school until we come back. It sounds like I am running, but I really just need to get away and be free for a bit.
So, what would you recommend? Any tips? I'd really appreciate anything from moms. I'm really looking for some hope here.
#2 Nov 18, 2013
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