Regarding Phil Sefton

Since: Apr 13

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#1 Apr 2, 2013
I had read a post on this site about him last week, but now the post is gone? I almost fell for his game. I talked to him on the dating site OurTime and he does go by the username IAM57. I also talked to him through private email. There is something not right with this man. He is nice at first, but his attitude changes very quickly. I am glad I changed my mind about meeting him in person. He wanted my phone number right away, when I told him I run internet checks on men I may be interested in meeting, his whole attitude changed, but then he got nice again. I have lived in his area for many years and have asked people I know about him and what they had to say was not good. So, it is a good idea to try and find out what you can before meeting someone from the internet.

Since: Jul 13

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#3 Jul 16, 2013
I wish I had done a check first on this guy. He is everything bad that is written on the internet about him. He only wants sex from women He lies all the time about everything and when he is caught in his lies he gets so mad and nothing is ever his fault He has no respect for women He does not take a woman out he always has them come to his house He does not want to have to spend any money and take a woman out to dinner He will not go to the womans house He wants a woman to come over give him sex and than leave He does not make a woman feel welcome in his house This probably the reason he has not been in a relationship for 15 years. What you read about him is true.
I call bullcrap

Altamont, IL

#5 Jul 22, 2013
Really, come one, what kind of grown woman goes over to a manís house to meet him for the first time. And then has sex with him over and over again and doesn't make him take her out or start a relationship. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free bitch. Think about it, you wanted sex at first and youíre a slut and thatís why you got played. Then all of the sudden you want a relationship. Now the first woman, she checked her shit and did her homework. Any man who has had a woman for awhile and lost her would rather 1 just come over for sex and leave. Specifically, when yaíll are crazy. However, the problem isnít even that youíre a slut; itís that you made it out to be more than it should have been from the beginning. First lady, good job, second lady, thatís your fault.

Since: Oct 13

Pocahontas, IL

#7 Oct 3, 2013
To: I call bullcrap, the second woman did not say that she met him for the first time at his house. Why is it that it is okay for a man to do these things and if the woman falls for his line of crap, than she is called a bitch and a slut? Men who are player's are very good at lying to a woman and telling her that he wants a relationship when in fact all he wants is sex. Sounds to me that this Phil Sefton guy is nothing but a player, google his name and you will see that there are other women out there that have said the same things about him. The local women in his area must know about him and why he hasn't been in a relationship for 15 years and that is why he can only get a woman off a dating site. He preys on women it sounds like to me.
To PlayerPolice

Beecher City, IL

#8 Oct 7, 2013
You should probably stop questioning why society is the way it is and just accept that a loose woman is considered a tramp.

Since: Oct 13

Pocahontas, IL

#9 Oct 10, 2013
To PlayerPolice wrote:
You should probably stop questioning why society is the way it is and just accept that a loose woman is considered a tramp.
You are correct. Men get away with it, while a woman is called a tramp. But why is a woman considered a tramp when the man leads her to believe that he wants a relationship with her when all he wants is the sex? But, it's okay for him to do that, but if the woman falls for his game because of the lies he tells, than she is a tramp and slut. I believe women should do like the first woman did, check the men out first before meeting them, and the men should do the same thing. The dating sites are all a big joke anyway, it is for those that are to damn lazy to get out and try and meet people.

Since: Jul 13

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#10 Oct 15, 2013
Phil Sefton is a liar and cheat. I did not meet him for the first time at his house. He was seeing me while he was seeing someone that he has been involved with for years. He lied to me and when I figured things out and confronted him, he went nuts. It was all my fault, and he had done nothing wrong. I hung around for a few weeks because he kept telling me that it was over with the other woman and that he wanted a relationship with me not her. Another lie. So, women out there that get involved with him, he will not leave the other woman for you, she will always be in his life, but he will tell you horrible stories about her to get what he wants from you and so you will feel sorry for him. That other woman can have him. I am so glad I got out of that situation.

Since: Jul 13

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#11 Dec 9, 2013
Heads Up!! This guy is still at it. He is now using the username farmer835633 on FarmersOnly dating site. He has used the username of justcountry1954 and farmer623677 on the same site.

Since: May 14

Pocahontas, IL

#12 May 27, 2014
I have personally known Phil Sefton for the last 6 years. We are very good friends and he is a great guy. He is a loner and stays to himself. He loves his family more than anything. He is a very hard worker. Yes, he has dated many women, but he is single and has been for many years. Yes, he is on dating sites. He has encountered many women on dating sites that are just looking for a sugar daddy and want a free ride. Maybe the women that he saw right thru and didn't buy their crap are the ones posting all the negative comments about him. So many women have tried to destroy my friendship with him, but he has remained a true loyal friend to me and I to him. I couldn't ask for a better man as my friend.

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