While I hear your heart, your thinking is faulty in too many ways to address. I will simply note that the crux of your point is, don't judge.I have read all the comments on here and let me say I am a parent that has a child that came to me a few years ago and told me she was a lesbian. I was in shock at first but I was calm I was like ok and when did this happen you've always dated guys , her response was I have always been attracted to women and I feel more comfortable with them and have more in common with them. Coming from a christian back ground at first I was like can we talk is this just a phase your going through ? She was like don't preach to me this is how I feel and who I am. So at first I didn't know how or what to feel but I never treated her any different or shunned her because she is my daughter and I love her with everything that is within me. What makes her happy is on her it is her life not mine to live. After several years have past now I have pondered and study and this is how I feel. The only Judge we have is the Lord he will judge us all one day and in His word He tells us sin is sin their are no black or white sins no big or little sins.So we all sin right ? Because were all human. He also tells us to work out our own salvation with fear and trembling.That means we are responsible for our selves only. He also says to keep our foot out of our neighbors door. Which means mind our own business. He also tells us not to cast our pearls before the swine. Which means don't keep pushing the issue when it's not being received. I know what I feel in my heart but I do not judge no one for nothing and I do not treat them any different. I have gay friends. And I must say their better dependable friends than my straight ones. I also have some that are raising children and they are wonderful parents. Do I think because gays raise children the children will be gay no I don't why because I was raised in a very dysfunctional home and I don't do th...o something but harming them by speaking hate is not going to change them they are who they are and they have a heart just like you. One day you may have a child or grand child come to you and say you know what I am gay and I hope you don't shun them and make them feel un loved. I wish my daughter would one day marry a man and have children but my view or normal is not what she wants or will do before she came out of the closet she was so miserable with hiding her feelings she tried to commit suicide several times and let me tell you I would much rather her be here than dead. We are to love one another as Christ loved the church. Doesn't mean we have to agree but we don't have to argue and treat others badly because we chose not to live the way they do. Lets live in peace and let the Lord do the judging. As for anal sex it opens you up to aides and Hepatitis among other things and straight people get it just as often as gays and if you listen to statistical it is more prominent in the black community than any. I will shut up now just some things to think about but if you gay, straight, black or white I don't care rich or poor doesn't matter to me . I'll be your friend , If you treat me with love and respect I'll treat you the same way. What you do in your house and to your own body is your decision not mine.Judging a gay person because risk of aides is like judging a fat because risk of diabetes or a heart attack.
You communicated that by judging. A contradiction, don't you think?