Mother Serving Alcohol: No criminal charges for Kewaskum mother...

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West Bend police say they are not pursuing criminal charges against Sarah Shay, but now we're learning more details about the party.
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#42
Jan 9, 2010
 
So who bought the alcohol then? we all know the kids didnt go buy it.
Someone is to be held responsible for these minors and unfortunately if your sister was the only adult there(which is what I heard from the news)(yeah, I know the news) she should be the one responsible for the safety of these children. Someone has to be held accountable and it sounds like your sister may be the one
I'm sure all of us posting on here are parents and have every right to be upset about something like this. We are just looking for someone to be held accountable for this lapse in judgement.
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#43
Jan 9, 2010
 
In a post above "sister" claims someinfo may have been left out of "them missing pages". Sorry but I don't think there is any excuse for Sarah. She must be a half-wit or mentally deficient. Any adult who knowingly supplies alcohol to little kids is TWISTED and brainless. In California she would have been put behind bars.
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#44
Jan 9, 2010
 
Stickgirl wrote:
So who bought the alcohol then? we all know the kids didnt go buy it.
Someone is to be held responsible for these minors and unfortunately if your sister was the only adult there(which is what I heard from the news)(yeah, I know the news) she should be the one responsible for the safety of these children. Someone has to be held accountable and it sounds like your sister may be the one
I'm sure all of us posting on here are parents and have every right to be upset about something like this. We are just looking for someone to be held accountable for this lapse in judgement.
I am not saying that my sister didn't buy it. What I am saying is there is more to this story then what the media is telling and showing. I don't know what went on first hand as I was not there. That is why I am trying to find out why the media has not put all the pages online. My point is that I want to know what is in them other 6 pages and 5 other statements that are not online. I don't blame any one for being upset. I just would like to know all of the report. There has been so much said about my family. And I know how they are and this just don't all add up
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#45
Jan 9, 2010
 
anonymous wrote:
In a post above "sister" claims someinfo may have been left out of "them missing pages". Sorry but I don't think there is any excuse for Sarah. She must be a half-wit or mentally deficient. Any adult who knowingly supplies alcohol to little kids is TWISTED and brainless. In California she would have been put behind bars.
She has not been found guilty yet! Where you there to see her give the alcohol to the kids? Don't it make you wonder why there is only 5 statement where there is 10 counts? Maybe it is cause I am her sister that I think there is some thing in them other 5 statements. Maybe I am wrong! But right now I am not jugging on this case as the whole story has not been told!
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#46
Jan 9, 2010
 
eye wit wrote:
<quoted text> no iam not sarah but ithi do know whats going on with with this story. like how the cops whent back to the school today and talked to the kids again and they changed there storys. now they told the truth. saying they stole the alcohle and there perents told them to say differant. the truth will come out on monday.. once again iam not sarah shey just someone whos looking for the truth
Bull! my two sisters are friends with sarah shays daughter and they were at that damn party and i know for a fact that my mom didn't tell them to go tell another different story. they told the honest d*** truth to the detective and i been watching sarahs cowardly a** drive slowly past her house because shes to chicken shi* show her face on TV. and i know the truth i seen all the police reports. sarah is the one inviting the kids that were at the party to go to her house a couple days after the party because people were talking about it at school and she told them to keep their mouth shut! yeah she said that to my sisters and sad to another girl that if she told anyone that she drank she would be sad she did!
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#47
Jan 9, 2010
 
anonymous wrote:
In a post above "sister" claims someinfo may have been left out of "them missing pages". Sorry but I don't think there is any excuse for Sarah. She must be a half-wit or mentally deficient. Any adult who knowingly supplies alcohol to little kids is TWISTED and brainless. In California she would have been put behind bars.
i totally agree with you now this is to that other "sister" or whoever else is defending that brainless so called mother! and there not showing the other 5 or 6 police reports because they don't have to you should be lucky u even seen the first 5! i know there was alcohol there and i know sarah provided it end of story. my sisters were at that party so i think i know more than you "sister"
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Jan 9, 2010
 
Kewaskum Resident wrote:
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Bull! my two sisters are friends with sarah shays daughter and they were at that damn party and i know for a fact that my mom didn't tell them to go tell another different story. they told the honest d*** truth to the detective and i been watching sarahs cowardly **** drive slowly past her house because shes to chicken shi* show her face on TV. and i know the truth i seen all the police reports. sarah is the one inviting the kids that were at the party to go to her house a couple days after the party because people were talking about it at school and she told them to keep their mouth shut! yeah she said that to my sisters and sad to another girl that if she told anyone that she drank she would be sad she did!
If you saw the police report and knew any thing about our parents ! Our parents are very christen people. One child states that" Sarah Shay's mother had brought some champagne and more Mike's Hard Lemonade." This is an out right lie! Our Mother don't even buy or give us alcohol! No one is saying your sisters lied. But I do know for a fact that one child did. Also did you see all of the 10 statements? Why has the media only put 5 of the statements on here? If you seen the reports then why don't you tell us what the other 5 say? And Sarah is only doing what her lawyer told her to do! I was not at the party so I don't know first hand what happen. But from the sounds of it you were there and know for a fact as to what happen!!!
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#49
Jan 9, 2010
 
I cannot believe there is one single person who thinks what this brain-dead idiot chose to do in pursuit of the title of "Cool Mom" was in any way, shape, or form okay!!! I feel that the fines she received were a slap on the wrist. She should be forced to take parenting classes along with alcohol awareness classes. I sincerely hope a social worker is assigned to monitor her from now on! I also feel that Hampton Inn is responsible to some degree for letting this go on. I have driven by this hotel and on any given day there's about 2 cars in the parking lot so I find it hard to believe they didn't see this mom with the dozen kids pile out of a limo and into their hotel! Also, there had to be a hotel worker who walked by and saw them all in the pool area. I think we just keep setting our standards for what's acceptable higher and higher. My kids go to Kewaskum Schools and Sarah Shay should feel damn lucky she didn't take my child to a co-ed drinking, condom party because I would have jacked her up! Also, I sincerely hope she loses her job as a daycare worker. Seriously, would you like her watching your baby or toddler?!!!
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#50
Jan 10, 2010
 
Sarah brought alcohol to the motel. We all know she did this. We have 10 counts on her for that. We have only 5 statements saying she gave it to them. I know for a fact in one of them statement one lied.. So now that puts us down to 4 statements.What ever happen to the right to freedom of speech? Has this gone to court? NO! All you people are name calling to people who want the WHOLE STORY and not part of it. If that makes me a brain-dead idiot be it. I just want to know the facts of the 10 statements and not just the 5. And once I know the facts of the whole story I will make a judgment on that! That is my right! If the rest of you are happy with only part of the story being reported that is right.
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#51
Jan 10, 2010
 
Honestly, I'm more concerned with parents buying their 16 year old kids cars that they can't handle.
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Jan 10, 2010
 
Kewaskum Resident wrote:
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Bull! my two sisters are friends with sarah shays daughter and they were at that damn party and i know for a fact that my mom didn't tell them to go tell another different story. they told the honest d*** truth to the detective and i been watching sarahs cowardly **** drive slowly past her house because shes to chicken shi* show her face on TV. and i know the truth i seen all the police reports. sarah is the one inviting the kids that were at the party to go to her house a couple days after the party because people were talking about it at school and she told them to keep their mouth shut! yeah she said that to my sisters and sad to another girl that if she told anyone that she drank she would be sad she did!
for the last time.. iam not sarah shey. like i said the truth will come out in the next couple days.
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#53
Jan 11, 2010
 
how about all the cell phones that were taken away
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Jan 11, 2010
 
sister wrote:
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If you saw the police report and knew any thing about our parents ! Our parents are very christen people. One child states that" Sarah Shay's mother had brought some champagne and more Mike's Hard Lemonade." This is an out right lie! Our Mother don't even buy or give us alcohol! No one is saying your sisters lied. But I do know for a fact that one child did. Also did you see all of the 10 statements? Why has the media only put 5 of the statements on here? If you seen the reports then why don't you tell us what the other 5 say? And Sarah is only doing what her lawyer told her to do! I was not at the party so I don't know first hand what happen. But from the sounds of it you were there and know for a fact as to what happen!!!
I was not at the party but my sisters were and I know everything that has happened and I did see all 10 statements the officer showed me and my mother all of the statements and sarah said to one of the kids if you say anything to anyone you will be sorry you did... In my eyes that is a threat and I would be pressing charges against her because she is a 36 yr old woman giving 11-14 yrs old middle schoolers alcohol hell yeah I would be opening my mouth to someone too and i would pursue charges. of course again the state always protects the mothers that should have never had kids in the first place
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Jan 11, 2010
 
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Sarah brought alcohol to the motel. We all know she did this. We have 10 counts on her for that. We have only 5 statements saying she gave it to them. I know for a fact in one of them statement one lied.. So now that puts us down to 4 statements.What ever happen to the right to freedom of speech? Has this gone to court? NO! All you people are name calling to people who want the WHOLE STORY and not part of it. If that makes me a brain-dead idiot be it. I just want to know the facts of the 10 statements and not just the 5. And once I know the facts of the whole story I will make a judgment on that! That is my right! If the rest of you are happy with only part of the story being reported that is right.
I know everything that has happened and why don't you just be happy that you seen 5 of the statements and their only showing 5 of the statements because these children are minors and they have to have to parents consent to have their statements published to the public. Your so into this news story well get your facts straight first. I've had police officer after police officer and news station after news station coming to my house getting statements and interviews so now tell me I don't know what is going on! And you said the whole story would come out in a couple days well you said that about a week ago and those days have pasted and she is going to court on february 4th so we'll see then "sister"
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Jan 11, 2010
 
Appalled in West Bend wrote:
I cannot believe there is one single person who thinks what this brain-dead idiot chose to do in pursuit of the title of "Cool Mom" was in any way, shape, or form okay!!! I feel that the fines she received were a slap on the wrist. She should be forced to take parenting classes along with alcohol awareness classes. I sincerely hope a social worker is assigned to monitor her from now on! I also feel that Hampton Inn is responsible to some degree for letting this go on. I have driven by this hotel and on any given day there's about 2 cars in the parking lot so I find it hard to believe they didn't see this mom with the dozen kids pile out of a limo and into their hotel! Also, there had to be a hotel worker who walked by and saw them all in the pool area. I think we just keep setting our standards for what's acceptable higher and higher. My kids go to Kewaskum Schools and Sarah Shay should feel damn lucky she didn't take my child to a co-ed drinking, condom party because I would have jacked her up! Also, I sincerely hope she loses her job as a daycare worker. Seriously, would you like her watching your baby or toddler?!!!
She didn't lose her job her husband made her quit well thats just what she's telling people. and I totally agree with you my two little sisters went to that party and there was suppose to be three hotel rooms boys in another room and an adult to each of the three rooms and happen to be it was only one "so called adult" and a dozen kids boys and girls. and the hotel people checked on the kids plenty of times they walked past the pool and their room and seen all of them kids pile out of the limp because sarah on registered for one room for her and three of her daughters friends not 10 other kids.
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#57
Jun 7, 2010
 
West Bendonian wrote:
Lady, these are twelve year olds. Not only should they lock you up for awhile, but they should probably evaluate whether you are a fit mother. And, NO amount of alcohol for a minor is acceptable... especially if it's not YOUR kid. Pretty pathetic.
I know Sarah and all of her kids and the people that were at the party i was there an 8th grade boy opened up a bottle of whine when Sarah was not around and told some of the older 8th grade girls to give it to the younger kids and they did the boy also tried to have sexual intercourse with Sarah shays 6th grade daughter at her birthday party when the police came to the hotel where the party was at they asked me and the rest of the minors if Sarah Shay had given us the alcohol all of them straight up lied to the police worried if they told the truth the would go to jail i was the only one to tell the truth out of all the Kids attending middle school but the majority one the round even now at the middle school some of the students are bragging about the deed they have done i do not know if it was put into the police report or if it was even noticed but the young man who handed out the whine and tried to have sexual intercourse with Sarah Shays daughter has been smoking Marijuana ether before after or during the party and has he still to this day...

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