Why are there so many gays these days?

Why are there so many gays these days?

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weirded out

Dublin, OH

#1 Aug 19, 2010
Seriously, why are there so many gay people now? Especially in Kenton? I dont personally have anything against it, but I do believe it is getting out of hand. Is it the new "in thing" to do? What the hell is going on? And it is more guys than girls! In a way, when I start thinking about it, it disgusts me what they actually do, but hey, that is their lives I guess. What happens behind closed doors is their business. I just dont understand why there are so many gays and what makes them turn that way? The girls are bad too, but guys...There are waaaaaaay too many single hot girls out there for you to be choosin men instead! And also, why are the gay men so dramafied? They love it! The more drama the better! Worse than most woman I know! Does anyone, gay or straight, have an explanation? If you live in Kenton, you know it is not easily accepted, so why dont you maybe think about moving away to a bigger city such as Columbus? Just a thought...
Dont Judge

Zanesville, OH

#2 Aug 19, 2010
Well, they shouldn't have to move away just because people don't accept it. Like you said, it is their lives, they shouldn't have to change who they are or where they live because people don't accept them. And about the gay guys and drama, I seriously fell over laughing, because it is mostly true. And quite frankly, I couldn't explain why it is they act like that either.
Stupid

United States

#3 Aug 19, 2010
If they are not hurting you or your kids don't worry about it. It is their life they can do as they choose. And it is more excepted around Kenton than you think. I personally have a few gay male friends and I LOVE them. Don't care why they are gay if they are happy more power to them!

Since: May 10

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#4 Aug 19, 2010
It's because I turned everybody gay.... I'm really sorry about that.... The reason we are so drama'd out is because.... Well, I personally just get bored and end up starting a lot of messed up stuff. I have a lot of Sociopathic tendencies too, so that plays a role. We kind of thrive here though? I mean lets face it, Kenton is the most scandalous, drama filled town I know of. Being gay in rural america can be hard maybe for some people who don't like any negative attention? I'm over it because I've learned that people here are just really Hardin County'd out and just don't really get it. An hour away in Columbus literally nobody cares so.... I just reallly love the looks you get when you pull up in let's say a yellow Audi with an Ed Hardy rinestone shirt on shimmering in the sun. Columbus wouldn't look at you twice! Kenton will more than stare. Poor town just wasn't ready for me.... Or any of us for that matter.
Dont Judge

Zanesville, OH

#5 Aug 19, 2010
*claps*
LOL. Absolutely loved that explanation!

Since: May 10

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#6 Aug 19, 2010
Dont Judge wrote:
*claps*
LOL. Absolutely loved that explanation!
Thanks!
The Truth

Brice, OH

#7 Aug 20, 2010
Pretty good explanation Hayden....although Ed Hardy is out this fall, stick to Express fitted.

BUT THE FACT IS:

Nothing "switched" Hayden or any other homosexual over to gay. Hayden didn't get fed up with girls and "turn gay" no more than any other homosexual.

It was always part of his brains hardwiring.

Like a chin dimple, or being left handed. It's just different.... not better, not worse.

The percentage of gays is the same it's always been, as the world accepts it more, more admit to it.

Keep in mind, in history:

Alexander the Great
Socrates
Michangelo
Leonardo DaVinci
Tchaikovsky
Julius Ceasar
Pope Benedict IX
Pope John XII
Aristotle

were all...no doubt about it (look any up in any reference book you like) confirmed homosexuals.... so despite the believe of 80% of Kenton "being homosexer" didn't start in 1998 when "Will & Grace" came on.

Since: Jun 10

Columbus, OH

#8 Aug 20, 2010
The Truth wrote:
Pretty good explanation Hayden....although Ed Hardy is out this fall, stick to Express fitted.
BUT THE FACT IS:
Nothing "switched" Hayden or any other homosexual over to gay. Hayden didn't get fed up with girls and "turn gay" no more than any other homosexual.
It was always part of his brains hardwiring.
Like a chin dimple, or being left handed. It's just different.... not better, not worse.
The percentage of gays is the same it's always been, as the world accepts it more, more admit to it.
Keep in mind, in history:
Alexander the Great
Socrates
Michangelo
Leonardo DaVinci
Tchaikovsky
Julius Ceasar
Pope Benedict IX
Pope John XII
Aristotle
were all...no doubt about it (look any up in any reference book you like) confirmed homosexuals.... so despite the believe of 80% of Kenton "being homosexer" didn't start in 1998 when "Will & Grace" came on.
The ONLY thing I have an issue with is where you stated the following:
"It was always part of his brains hardwiring."

You DO have a peer reviewed scientific study that backs this up handy correct?

If so please post a link so we can all take a look at it.

As far as I know the debate over choice vs. biological has not been proven either way as of yet, so, I am really interested in reading any scientific proof you have that states it is biological.
The Truth

Brice, OH

#9 Aug 20, 2010
Jarhead,

Rather than list 25 websites and get into a soaking wet pissing contest like you and Coy do to clutter up every thread, lets just say this:

You are married right?
You love your wife? sure
Does she sexually get you aroused? of course
Do you like looking at young toned women? yep
Young beautiful women in short shorts or skirts ok by you? I'll bet so.

NOW.... in walks the most muscular, defined, man with perfect features, and a great smile.... he wants to spend the night making love to your ass...interested? me neither.

what if he offers you cash to worship your ass....interested now? Me neither.

But as we are repulsed at the thought, Hayden is putting his Rhinestone shirt on, and way too much Curve cologne....and wants to meet this guy.

Meanwhile.... the thought that you MAY put your penis inside a disgusting vagina tonight makes Hayden sick.

FURTHER PROVING JARHEAD

It's no different than stoopid ass teachers in the 40's & 50's trying to convert students holding pencils in their left hand to switch to their right...not gonna happen.....homosexuality, like left-handedness is simply no more than part of the individuals hardwiring.

Hayden wouldn't CHOOSE to be outcasted and made fun of in a "small farming community" such as Kenton..... BUT just like putting the pencil in the right hand of a BRAIN WIRED lefty..... placing Hayden in bed with a female would yield similiar results: Sloppy, not natural and uncomfortable.
the great one

Zanesville, OH

#10 Aug 20, 2010
this is all just GAY!!!!!!!

Since: May 10

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#11 Aug 20, 2010
Your totally right about everything.... Except the fact that I wear Curve! Never! I'm surprised that somebody from Kenton would know for one minute anything about fashion. And it's hard to admit.... But, you are right. Just like the Von Dutch hats of 02' trash is out. I don't know where I read this.... The thing of it is, is that people probably "switch" all the time because all they want to do is fit in. By "switch" I don't mean literally.... Because I don't even know how to manipulate my brain, I only know how to manipulate people. They don't literally switch, they try it all the time because society just seems to think the picture perfect life is 2 kids, a Suburban white picket fence house, and a like a Tahoe, and a WIFE.
blue

Kenton, OH

#12 Aug 20, 2010
there are no more. it is just a bit safer and more acceptable to be out these days. There have always been gay people. They were just in the closet.
MrHothead

Austin, TX

#13 Aug 20, 2010
This just in...the OP is a HOMOPHOBE!!!!
The Truth

Brice, OH

#14 Aug 20, 2010
Hayden Marshall wrote:
Your totally right about everything.... Except the fact that I wear Curve! Never! I'm surprised that somebody from Kenton would know for one minute anything about fashion. And it's hard to admit.... But, you are right. Just like the Von Dutch hats of 02' trash is out. I don't know where I read this.... The thing of it is, is that people probably "switch" all the time because all they want to do is fit in. By "switch" I don't mean literally.... Because I don't even know how to manipulate my brain, I only know how to manipulate people. They don't literally switch, they try it all the time because society just seems to think the picture perfect life is 2 kids, a Suburban white picket fence house, and a like a Tahoe, and a WIFE.
Please avoid Curve.
Curve made me sick in 2001 when it was in....it's been out for 8 years, so that means it's just now catching on in Ktown.
Hayden, although I am a straight guy, married, 2 kids....I fancy myself as a self-proclaimed male image/fashion guy = ie: I keep myself and my wife looking good....I am from Kenton, but now live elsewhere... but I get to Kenton every few weeks to visit my parents.

While the people of Kenton may look at you different, it's not their fault. Fashionable guys in Kenton are not a perfect "fit", but for the most part, just like with anything, you get back what you give.... if you give respect, you get it back.

In my reign at KHS well over a decade ago, guys & gals both came to me for fashion advice... yet I was a health & fitness guy who played sports too (not football)

I proved you don't have to gay to know fashion, and perhaps you proved not all gays are ashamed of who they are. Props to you Hayden for being open about who you are.

And if you must wear a hat, stick to Peter Grimm late summer/early fall, Sambora & Rock Star models are top picks, berets will be hot the winter.

Best Wishes!

Since: May 10

Location hidden

#15 Aug 20, 2010
Ahahaha, you are too funny! Thank you. Your so right about Kenton just now catching on to stuff that was popular like 10 years ago. So true.
weirded out

Dublin, OH

#16 Aug 20, 2010
OMG Didnt expect all this but great explanation guys. Hayden you absolutely crack me up. I dont know you, but kinda glad I dont since you know how to "manipulate people!" lol You seem stern behind your life decision and that is a good thing! I was just curious as to if ppl are coming out more bc of one single person or if deep down inside every guy is gay and just decided to come out with it! lol Idk if I agree with "the truth" but either way as long as the gay person has the balls and ability to stand up for themselves 24/7 then more power to them. It would be hard but I can sort of relate living in a hillbilly society. I'm not gay, but for other reasons. Let's just say Kenton is a racist town!
Doubt it

Carrollton, TX

#17 Aug 20, 2010
Hayden - I don't know you either, but you got it going on! Good for you! Be who you are & be proud! You are a little cutie (young! lol) Be true to yourself!

Since: May 10

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#18 Aug 20, 2010
I'd like to think I'm the reason ;) In 8th grade when everybody found out.... A couple months went by, and more and more guys around my age started admitting it. I'm going into my senior year, and it isn't even a thing at this point. I'm glad in 2010 Kenton can somewhat accept it. I'm pretty ballsy and can stand up for myself, I'm also good at making people who are small minded and Hardin Country'd out feel really ignorant and stupid. It sometimes further pisses them off, but I have the ability to realize that one day when I pull up in my Range Rover, those same people will be the ones pumping my gas.... "Premium Unleaded!"
Not a Fan

Columbus, OH

#19 Aug 20, 2010
Hayden- cudos buddy Its best to always be honest and never lie to yourself. I think your a trip and probally the funniest i have yet to see on this website with such a positive attitude and dont care about shit attitude. Keep it real boi.

Since: May 10

Location hidden

#20 Aug 20, 2010
Thanks! I'm probably funny because.... Yeah, there is a lot of people on this website who have that "I don't give a shit" attitude.... But, they also probably don't use proper grammar in their posts and that makes them look stupid and it's not even funny? Back to the name of this forum.... It's not that there is "more" of us. There is the same amount of us. Just more people are admitting to it. I could lie to everybody and myself and live a complete lie in the suburbs picking up kids from soccer practice and having dinner parties wiith the Jones' but.... No thanks? That sounds like the dumbest thing of my life.

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