Neighbor / Peeping Tom

Neighbor / Peeping Tom

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taxpayer

Saint Louis, MO

#1 Dec 9, 2008
Does any one out there have any ideas on how to keep a neighbor/peeping tom out of your yard? He's comes in our yard at night ALL the time. My daughters bathroom window is right beside the gate where he enters. He just stands there, but now he has started doing minor property damage. Most of the time he is drunk. He has a business here in town & starts his drinking there, so at 5p.m., when he comes home, he's usually pretty loaded. Anyone out there with any advice. No names please, just need advice.
taxpayer

Saint Louis, MO

#3 Dec 9, 2008
Well that would work for me, but I don't want to go to jail. He knows that we are aware of him, so now he just stays on the sidewalk. My daughter caught him last night walking toward our yard & when he seen her, he walked back to his house very fast. Then tonight, about the same time, our flood light on our tree {where he was last night}, had been busted out. Do you have any other ideas?
Jim

Saint Louis, MO

#4 Dec 9, 2008
Maybe a motion light might help.
Kennett Resident

Saint Louis, MO

#5 Dec 9, 2008
I would notify the police first. If that didn't work, I would personally have a very serious "talk" with the guy.
taxpayer

Saint Louis, MO

#6 Dec 10, 2008
We went to the police, called our attorney & went to the court house to try to get a restraining order against him, but he is best friends with a certain person at the court house, so that got us no where. We really need someone to advise us of other options. HELP!!
U Talk to the creep LOUD

AOL

#7 Dec 10, 2008
taxpayer wrote:
We went to the police, called our attorney & went to the court house to try to get a restraining order against him, but he is best friends with a certain person at the court house, so that got us no where. We really need someone to advise us of other options. HELP!!
Who cares who he is friends with, the hell with the man at the court house. The police won't help? Then you have that "talk" with this creep and you make it very clear that you are asking him to stop making your family uncomfortable with his hanging around your property and you will NOT be asking him or telling him again!
he is a lousy creep
taxpayer

Saint Louis, MO

#9 Dec 10, 2008
that's just it, he won't face us so we can talk to him. He only comes out at night, that's why I'm still up at 3 thirty in the morning, watching to make sure he doesn't try to tear our Christmas decorations down, like he did last night.
taxpayer

Saint Louis, MO

#12 Dec 10, 2008
If it wasn't a deep concern of mine, I sure would not be writing about this on topix. There are alot of stores in this town & I stated earlier that I didn't want any names mentioned. I'm begging for help because my husband & father of our child & grandfather of our grandchild is very ill & should not be bothered with this kind of stress added to fighting for his life. And i do appreicate anyone who can help us. Please understand that. You have no idea what he is putting us through.
ooo

Fairmont, WV

#13 Dec 10, 2008
security cameras...catch it all on video.
taxpayer

Saint Louis, MO

#14 Dec 10, 2008
Thank you very much, that is a very good idea & I know someone who works with DEA that can do that for us. Thanks again, that just might solve this whole mess. And to the person who thought I was bashing this man, I hope you understand that I am under more stress than I have ever been in, in my whole life, and I am sorry for that one comment I made, you just can't understand until you walk in our shoes and I do thank you for trying to help us.
taxpayer

Saint Louis, MO

#16 Dec 10, 2008
Let' put an end to this thread now so it won't get out of hand, okay...and thanks to all of you for caring. May God Bless all of you & I hope you all have a Merry Christmas!
guest

Sikeston, MO

#18 Dec 10, 2008
taxpayer wrote:
Does any one out there have any ideas on how to keep a neighbor/peeping tom out of your yard? He's comes in our yard at night ALL the time. My daughters bathroom window is right beside the gate where he enters. He just stands there, but now he has started doing minor property damage. Most of the time he is drunk. He has a business here in town & starts his drinking there, so at 5p.m., when he comes home, he's usually pretty loaded. Anyone out there with any advice. No names please, just need advice.
do you not have a male in the house??If not, Everytime I caught him on my property I'd be calling the police. You've seen him do it, I'd file for a restraining order telling them you are scare and feel harrased by this guy...you should not have to be up at #\3:00am trying to protect your house &....def get some video cameras & if you can afford it a security system. But every time I caught him I'd catch him in the yard I'd immediately call the police & they'll have a talk with him. If he has a local business I'm sure he won't want this to get out in such a small town & ruin his busines!! Just keep calling the cops that's what they are there for!! You should not live in fear in your own home
Once was JustME

Saint Louis, MO

#19 Dec 10, 2008
Also put heavy curtains over the bathroom window and any windows he may be looking in. That way he has nothing to look at. Before long he will stop coming to see.
who is it

Kennett, MO

#22 Dec 10, 2008
one more thing, not knowing if this perverted sicko has kids, but do you think he would be polite and politically correct if someone was doing that to one of his kids? im sure the answer is no! so, the way to deal with bullies and perverts like this is, you out them, and that way this guy has to own up to his own disturbing behavior. who is to say that one day his peeping would turn into actually acting out on someone's child? lwts hope it isnt yours.
Big Boss Man

United States

#23 Dec 10, 2008
who is it wrote:
one more thing, not knowing if this perverted sicko has kids, but do you think he would be polite and politically correct if someone was doing that to one of his kids? im sure the answer is no! so, the way to deal with bullies and perverts like this is, you out them, and that way this guy has to own up to his own disturbing behavior. who is to say that one day his peeping would turn into actually acting out on someone's child? lwts hope it isnt yours.
Take his picture & post it on here. Take out an ad in the DDD titled --- Perv.
miss ann

Saint Louis, MO

#24 Dec 10, 2008
what neighborhood is this?
grossed out

Campbell, MO

#25 Dec 10, 2008
Once was JustME wrote:
Also put heavy curtains over the bathroom window and any windows he may be looking in. That way he has nothing to look at. Before long he will stop coming to see.
if he's that much of a perv, putting up curtains may make him mad enough to just break into the house and who knows what may happen then. if i were you i'd contact the attorney generals office and let them know the police and courts aren't helping you with this situation since they are "friends" of the suspect and then make it clear you want something done about all of it right away before it get's out of hand and someone may get hurt. you should be able to feel safe in the comforts of your own home!
taxpayer

Saint Louis, MO

#26 Dec 10, 2008
That's what is making me so angry about this man. The police seem to not care that he is doing what he is doing & getting away with it. I am a mother & a grandmother & will do anything to protect my kids. I would love to tell his name on here, but I know I can't. He has "pull" in town, only by 1 person in the court house, everybody you mention his name to, hates him & says he has always been a a$$hole. A person we know who used to work for him said he buys beer for his workers & they sit in the back & watches skin flicks while drinking.
taxpayer

Saint Louis, MO

#28 Dec 10, 2008
How can I expose him without getting into trouble with the law?
me too

Saint Louis, MO

#30 Dec 10, 2008
taxpayer wrote:
How can I expose him without getting into trouble with the law?
what neighborhood is this? I would appreciate it.

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