Shaun Spencer/Philip Peter Spencer Jr.

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Jason Clay Spencer

Fairmont, WV

#1 Oct 18, 2006
To whom it may concern, My name is Jason C. Finch. I was born in Concord,MA at Emerson Hospital on March 23, 1973 at 3:55pm As Jason Clay Spencer. I am contacting you in regards to information regarding my birth family. I was adopted around two years old. I am trying all avenues including MA Social Services and other search sites for information. So all I am asking of you is if you know of any Spencer family or anything of that sort that may be of some help. Now I have a brother that lived or LIVES in Kennebunk,ME and would love to reunite..could be a good story I guess for you guys. His name is Shaun Spencer hes about 37 and I'm his younger brother. He went to Kennebunk High School Thanks for your time. Sincerley Jason Finch ps Some of my birth family also lives in the area of Wells and Biddeford and Kennebunk. Oddly enough My parents have a vacation home on the bayside in wells at the end of Mile Rd. My birth dads name is Philip Peter Spencer Jr. Email me at jcf-boston@excite.com
S Spencer

Bath, ME

#2 Oct 15, 2010
I know Shaun he is my half brother and Peter is my father as well.
S Seery

East Bridgewater, MA

#3 Oct 16, 2010
S Spencer wrote:
I know Shaun he is my half brother and Peter is my father as well.
That man has more children, and he never talks to them. He is also my father, I have a twin brother that is the spitting image of him, yet he denies this, which is fine.
Although I grew up w/out a father, and not really a mother either, it made me a better person! I put myself through college, have the most incredible husband in the world, as well as the 3 most beautiful boys a mother can ask for.
I could never imagine having children, walking away from them, making a whole lot of money, and having the state pay for them!! He will live a lonely life, which is what he deserves!
S Seery

East Bridgewater, MA

#4 Oct 16, 2010
Oh, another I left out, he is the biggest "Dead Beat Dad", because he can't take responsibility for any of his children, there is also another boy in Vermont; he would go there on vacation but NEVER stop to see that poor little boy, who is a man now. I can also imagine he feels the same way!
S Spencer

Bath, ME

#5 Oct 26, 2010
According to my counsin, you lived with my grandmother for a short period of time and had a DNA test to prove that you were not Peter's child.
S Seery

Brockton, MA

#6 Oct 26, 2010
I have never had a DNA test done at all!! Which cousin said this, how would they know? And at that time they didn't have the technology they have now. I remembering speaking to you when I was 16 yrs old, I was so excited, and all you did was scream and cry at me about how bad a father he was, well I found out. Shawn even called me when my oldest son was a baby, I really had no interest after that, however, I tried to contact him on FB last year, he didn't reply, which was fine, I never want Peter Spencer to know where I am, or have any contact with him. Jason, and I are going to have a DNA test done, not for the sake of Peter Spencer, but for our own. Susan, at least you had a wonderful mother and step father, my twin, and myself never had that.Yes I lived with Ruth who was just as horrible as her son, Peter!
S Spencer wrote:
According to my counsin, you lived with my grandmother for a short period of time and had a DNA test to prove that you were not Peter's child.
S Seery

Brockton, MA

#7 Oct 26, 2010
Susan, Peter has said anything, and everything to avoid acknowledging his mistakes, and not to have to have any responsibility to anyone but himself. I saw the way he a Shawn lived, it was horrible, he treated him horribly! Do you have any idea how heartbreaking it is to have finally met your father, thinking that you would be loved, and everything was going to be ok? Then you find what a horrible human being he is? I was devastated and acted out like anyone would. That man never paid a dime for me, then asked me to move to Maine, and wanted me to pay rent, all he has ever cared about is hoarding money, and how could he get awsay with not having to pay for his kids! If Jason isn't his, then how come Peter won't talk to him just to give him info on his mother? I'll tell you why, because he doesn't want another one of his kids bothering him!! And who did I have this DNA test done with? If you want one let me know.
S Spencer

Bath, ME

#8 Oct 26, 2010
I certainly did not mean to open this up to you to cause pain and anger. I was over Peter a long time ago. He never did anything for me or my brother and the only time I was ever involved with him was when he was married to Mary and she tried to make some kind of family out of his mess. It is true, he is a selfish and uncaring individual. I totally agree with you about Ruth. She and Peter were very tight and they were made from the same cloth. She made my life miserable the times I spent with her. I did very much like her sisters - Eulah and Eleanor and had some contact with them in the late 1980s. I remember when Peter got Shaun for permanent custody. We went and picked him up and there was a small baby in the window looking at us as we left and I believe that was Jason. He was removed because Karen stabbed him I think. She was very unstable and I stayed with her and Peter when they were first together. It was disgusting and I can remember it even though I was probably only 9 at the time. She was a ravaging alcoholic. I would like to continue contact with you if that would be possible. I would like to more about Shaun. He was such a sweet kid. The last time I saw him he was like 9-10 years old. I would also be interested in the results of your/Jason DNA testing.
R Spencer

Holden, MA

#9 Apr 27, 2011
Ok don't ask me why I would even bother to look up the man who treated my mother Mary horribly then to visit me in Vt when he happened to be in the area. But I figured I would track him on the internet some how and found this to my surprise. Since I am the youngest of the kids he had left I have just stories from my mother about some of you. Hard to believe when I read this information so much of what my mother had told me is actually true! My mother did try to take Shawn as well but was obviously unsuccessful and very unfortunate. Having him not in my life has been a blessing even though the childhood was rough. He has reached out to me in the past (even at his fathers funeral) at which point I told him that I want nothing to do with him. My mother spoke very highly of Susan and I hope all is well.
Susan

Bath, ME

#10 Jun 24, 2011
I am very surprised and happy to see that Richard has responded. I have been trying to find out where Mary has been for a long time. Of course, I was never able to get it from Peter. Please tell me where Mary is and how I can reach out to her. My email is plummer@gwi.net - I would really like to talk with her. She was very kind to me and my brother and I can only imagine the horror that she endured with Peter. It was a tough way to live and he isolated her from her family. Even at a young age I could see what was going on with her. I also wanted to know more about you and where you lived. The last time I visited you were probably about nine months old and were still in a crib. Hope to hear from you soon. I have talked with Shaun via email as I was able to locate him via facebook.

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