DeadBeat Mothers
Never Give Cash

London, KY

#24 Mar 17, 2013
NEEDING TO KNOW wrote:
My ex has me in contempt right now for back child support and maintence and knows I don't have any money either. She doesn't give a rats ass and Im sure she hopes I go to jail and rot there. Im scared to death that the judge will put me in jail at our hearing in a couple months but I just dont have any money. Hell I just got a job to be able to pay anything to her. That child support place says I owe over $3000 but they wont even consider the cash I paid her. Its a bunch of crap how that judge treats men who get behind.
Big mistake on your part. Never give cash. Always pay with check or money order and you will always have a receipt that proves you gave her money. Otherwise she will lie and say you never paid her one cent. I know what I’m talking about because I have been through this hell with my ex.
NEEDING TO KNOW

Huntingburg, IN

#25 Mar 17, 2013
what happened in your case? was it with the london judge too?
Obi

United States

#26 Mar 17, 2013
NEEDING TO KNOW wrote:
My ex has me in contempt right now for back child support and maintence and knows I don't have any money either. She doesn't give a rats ass and Im sure she hopes I go to jail and rot there. Im scared to death that the judge will put me in jail at our hearing in a couple months but I just dont have any money. Hell I just got a job to be able to pay anything to her. That child support place says I owe over $3000 but they wont even consider the cash I paid her. Its a bunch of crap how that judge treats men who get behind.
Do not give cash. And always send the money through the child support office. If you just got a job and have a couple of months until the hearing then try to pay extra towards the back child support so it will show you are making an effort. I've seen a lot of back payments set at only around $50 extra a month.
NEEDING TO KNOW

Huntingburg, IN

#27 Mar 18, 2013
Im not sure how much extra i will have to pay after making my payments. i got a bunch of other bills too that are behind right now and gotta catch them up to. if i am paying my payments on time tho and have garnished pay will that help?
crapout

Manchester, KY

#28 Mar 18, 2013
Hope you have a day in court when the judge is feeling good, either way you are screwed. Judges have guidelines but they do pretty much whatever they want as we are slaves living in the Illusion of freedom.I got behind on mine, had trouble paying $100. a wk. so the judge raised mine to a $150. a wk. so I could catch up,sweet huh.
NEEDING TO KNOW

Huntingburg, IN

#29 Mar 18, 2013
i would be ok if she only raised mine $50 for my back pay, it would be hard for me but shoot if thats what i get then im happy!
Never Give Cash

London, KY

#30 Mar 19, 2013
Child support is destroying a lot of families. And many men, even though they pay their support, have to beg and plead to get a visit with their children. This is wrong and it needs to change.
NEEDING TO KNOW

Huntingburg, IN

#31 Mar 19, 2013
no kidding on that man, i had a hard time gettin to see my baby to but after all the court stuff started she got better about it. i just think its not fair that the judge can put you in jail for gettin behind on child support when you havent got a job.
JJ_D

Williamsport, OH

#34 Mar 20, 2013
NEEDING TO KNOW wrote:
Im not sure how much extra i will have to pay after making my payments. i got a bunch of other bills too that are behind right now and gotta catch them up to. if i am paying my payments on time tho and have garnished pay will that help?
that judge is not gonna give a rat's azz if you have OTHER bills to pay to catch up first. better idea....go in there and tell the judge you have other bills to catch up on first. see what she says. LMAOOOOOOO
JJ_D

Williamsport, OH

#35 Mar 20, 2013
mother wrote:
My exhusband told me he would quit his job before he would pay me child support. We have three kids and he doesnt help with anything. Its easier to just let it go.
my ex husband said that, too. they base the child support from the previous year's w2. it wouldn't matter if he quit his job. nut up and make him pay.
JJ_D

Williamsport, OH

#36 Mar 20, 2013
mmhmm wrote:
<quoted text>
Thats because past due child support is rarely ever enforced when it's the dead beat mom that never pays. This is a well documented fact and can be found by doing online searches.
that's true. my son's worthless egg donor was ordered to only pay $50 a month. she has to be at least $500 behind to take her taxes or garnish her wages. they used to take it from her tax return every year, but then her student loans went into default, so her tax return went to the government. student loans trump child support when it comes to offsets. so, she'll go 6 months or more then make a $25 payment. it was almost a year in november, and she paid $11. she knows if it goes over a year, i'll be one step closer to adopting him. they'll never put her in jail because it would take 10 years to get far enough behind.
Never Give Cash

London, KY

#37 Mar 21, 2013
Finally, a thread that discusses “Deadbeat Mothers.” Bravo!
Never Give Cash

London, KY

#38 Mar 21, 2013
Child support should be the responsibility of both parents. I know one biological father who was ordered to pay child support—and several months later he finally sent his first payment—a $1-bill tucked inside an envelope addressed to their mother. To my knowledge, he never paid another cent. 4 or 5 years later, I adopted his two kids. They were both still small. Apparently the adoption erased all his past due child support payments and saved him thousands of dollars and possible jail time. He never showed any interest in the kids before and after the adoption. However, after their mother and I divorced—and the kids were teenagers—he weaseled his way back into their lives. Sadly, he and their mother together lied to them about why the adoption happened. He even had the youngest child to call me one day, to tell me he “thanked me for raising his kids and saving him from having to pay child support.”
taylorlexingtonk y

London, KY

#40 Mar 24, 2013
right on i know a mother who get child support kids never get dime of it they should come up with new law everthing they buy out that money they should have to show child support, recipts show what they done with the money
BHO

London, KY

#41 Mar 24, 2013
I have to destroy the family before I can destroy the country. When a woman can walk away from a lifetime committment like marriage and never having to miss so much as a hair appointment. They will do it.

Wake up America. Kill the lawyers and politicians, we'll eat the GD socialist.

Lots of broken homes would not be, had fair and equitable responsibilties be equally shared.
lisa

Manchester, KY

#43 Mar 24, 2013
I've seen both sides of the child support issue...my friend is paying $650 a month for his son, but the mom spends the money on anything but him. In addition to monetary child support (that he agreed on at the time of the divorce), he also pays for the kids' insurance. The child has been sick many times and the mom is too lazy to get up off her rear and take him to the doctor, he only gets taken when my friend takes him, and they live in different counties 2 hours away. I believe that if child support is to be paid the father/mother (and yes, I am in total agreement that people need to support their kids) then they need to account how the money was spent by supplying receipts showing where it went..those on welfare need to show where their proceeds are spent, also. When the supporting person goes to court for any reason regarding child support, the first thing they are ask for are receipts to show they have complied (unless they are paying through child support enforcement which has a record). It should be no different for those receiving child support or AFDC monies.
Never Give Cash

London, KY

#44 Mar 24, 2013
Child Support, Family Court, and Social Services have done great damage to the family unit. Many fathers pay their child support, but are denied the opportunity to see their kids and have a constructive relationship with them—and/or the kids are programmed to hate their fathers. The percentage of this happening is greater with the fathers than it is with the mothers. Many of the judges are liberal, and they often side with the mother. Social services are required to place so many kids per year in foster care for them (social services) to receive tax payer funding. So they don’t care what happens to the family—the funding is their concern. Parents need to wake up and see all this for what it is: evil. When women started running to the court system and complaining about their husbands, they opened the door that let the government tell us how to raise our kids, what to feed them, what kind of house to live in, etc etc. In-short, the government has destroyed the family unit in this Country.
Old Man

Belvidere, IL

#45 Mar 24, 2013
I agree. This happened to me too. My kids don't recognize me at all. They've been programmed by their mother too. It's a shame that they get away with this. I've just come to a conclusion to pray for them and let God take it in his hands. I can't change nothing anyway.
IThinkNot

London, KY

#46 Mar 25, 2013
lol wrote:
<quoted text>You are funny!! For one, you need to go back to third grade because your grammar and spelling really sucks and for two, you need to go back to psychic school because your ability to read people sucks. Better yet, you need to get your dumb butt up at 7:00 A.M.(that means morning time)and catch that little yellow bus that keeps honking for you all the time.
How can you be talking about other people’s grammar with that "run on" sentence?
Never Give Cash

London, KY

#47 Mar 25, 2013
I know from my own experience and from the predicaments other fathers are in—that many kids have been programmed to believe their fathers are monsters. The kids grow up believing such lies about their fathers—and—they (the kids) suffer all their lives because of it. But the Court System doesn’t care—and Social Services don’t care. A decent, poor man doesn’t have a chance in this Country. And sadly, this monstrosity is going to continue, unless somebody in elected office wakes up and stops bowing to liberalism and feminism.

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