help for the homeless in this county is pathetic

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bobby

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Feb 14, 2009
 

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i've been homeless since october 2008 and the only assistance i received came from kccsi.

sure, putting me in a motel for 5 nights is great for childish altercations where the drama subsides and/or the individual isnt dependant on little income and has no other options/resources.

but for the genuinely troubled situations, there is lots of numbers to call and a few organizations that hold claims.. and none of them have been able to help me.

i've spent 98% of my time sleeping in my vehicle until my joints ache so bad it brung tears to my dry ducts.

some of these organizations that claim to help the homeless simply offer a referral to the salvation army.
and the salvation army has been consistantly full, telling me that there are people waiting in line each day looking for a bed.

i've been to the kankakee housing authority back in december and they put me on a waiting list.
i havent heard a single peep from them since.

i informed the department of human services about my situation and they first told me to come back with my representative payee, because they dont listen to anything beneficiaries have to say if the beneficiary is listed to have a representative payee.
i wasnt able to change my address when we moved.. and they didnt lend an ear when i told them i was homeless.
however i applied for foodstamps and got a whopping $11 per month.
that situation in front of a counselor netted a sheet of organizations that claim to help people.
i made it through every number on the list and the only one that offered a place to sleep was kccsi (the salvation army was listed, but i already knew they were full)

this all started after i became a victim of domestic battery and was kicked out/banned from the abusive home.
and yeah, i got arrested and have since been unable to press charges against the abuser.
my guess is the police have filed the charges against me and have since dropped the charges.
WELL.. a lot of good that does me, because the arresting officers told me that i had to file charges against the abuser when i go before the judge.
therefore.. no case trial, no chance to tell my side of the story.

cant trust the local system to serve and protect with accuracy.. and cant trust the local organizations to provide resources and help despitre their many flyers and ads on tv/radio.
bobby

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Feb 14, 2009
 
such a setup invokes a zero error allowance.. but realizing how the administrators are the most error occuring when confusion and arguments arise.. well it isnt safe to conclude anything anymore no matter where you are in this world.
and that is no excuse for the behemoths mouth that unlawfully arrested me and then stripped me of my chances of redemption and truth.
which has led to me sleeping inside my vehicle and has prevented me from entering college.. including the amount of damage that has been done to my vehicle since i started sleeping in it.
damage to my clothes.. damage to my emotional health.. psychological damage based on the trust of those who are there to protect me.. money loss from having to pay for week-long stays at local motels..
and a seriously important one,
i grew up with cats my whole life and i finally went out and got a dog about 7 years ago.
well, i havent been able to see that dog in ages because she is staying with my mother who is residing at the residence where i was abusively barred from.

i spent time with that dog on a daily basis prior to this ordeal. she is the closest thing i have to an infant/bestfriend.

i havent had the appliances to cook a healthy home-cooked meal either..!

\to think.. i am supposed to psychotically snap, and project myself as nice and kind-hearted to any stranger i encounter.
since i was already paranoid of people, this situation that has surfaces merely provides proof that my paranoia is not far-fetched.
the scum on this earth has grown so high that you can smell it in the mountain air.
and rationalize with me.. the stress doesnt have to come from murders and theives, there are plenty of emotional abusers and verbal abusers who manipulate and contradict things until a degree of chaos has enveloped.

my psychological health is growing sour as is my emotional health (which does zero good for my physical health).
i know i am running on reserve power as my main tank is empty.. i am just disgusted that the area organizations claiming to offer help to those who are on their reserve tank, really dont offer any help whatsoever.
if you call or drive to see these organizations, you will be prompted with a quick reply informing you that there is nothing they can do and/or they dont typically offer their help in such an area of emergency; despite their ads/flyers with implications and compelling advertisements of resources for those in need.
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Feb 14, 2009
 
bobby wrote:
such a setup invokes a zero error allowance.. but realizing how the administrators are the most error occuring when confusion and arguments arise.. well it isnt safe to conclude anything anymore no matter where you are in this world.
and that is no excuse for the behemoths mouth that unlawfully arrested me and then stripped me of my chances of redemption and truth.
which has led to me sleeping inside my vehicle and has prevented me from entering college.. including the amount of damage that has been done to my vehicle since i started sleeping in it.
damage to my clothes.. damage to my emotional health.. psychological damage based on the trust of those who are there to protect me.. money loss from having to pay for week-long stays at local motels..
and a seriously important one,
i grew up with cats my whole life and i finally went out and got a dog about 7 years ago.
well, i havent been able to see that dog in ages because she is staying with my mother who is residing at the residence where i was abusively barred from.
i spent time with that dog on a daily basis prior to this ordeal. she is the closest thing i have to an infant/bestfriend.
i havent had the appliances to cook a healthy home-cooked meal either..!
\to think.. i am supposed to psychotically snap, and project myself as nice and kind-hearted to any stranger i encounter.
since i was already paranoid of people, this situation that has surfaces merely provides proof that my paranoia is not far-fetched.
the scum on this earth has grown so high that you can smell it in the mountain air.
and rationalize with me.. the stress doesnt have to come from murders and theives, there are plenty of emotional abusers and verbal abusers who manipulate and contradict things until a degree of chaos has enveloped.
my psychological health is growing sour as is my emotional health (which does zero good for my physical health).
i know i am running on reserve power as my main tank is empty.. i am just disgusted that the area organizations claiming to offer help to those who are on their reserve tank, really dont offer any help whatsoever.
if you call or drive to see these organizations, you will be prompted with a quick reply informing you that there is nothing they can do and/or they dont typically offer their help in such an area of emergency; despite their ads/flyers with implications and compelling advertisements of resources for those in need.
You must be inside somewhere and have a computer to express youself.
bobby

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Feb 14, 2009
 
como?

this town has resorted to expressing themselves anonymously via computers??

i've been to the local wi-fi hotspots and they are empty usually.
Poor White Trash

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Now this is amazing. Bobby has time to complain about the system for not getting anything for free. I gotta an idea for you GET A FUCKING JOB. Here you are sitting on a computer with internet service typing a book. You can read and write and use a computer so get a fucking job. You are whats wrong with the nation and everything else. Go call your bitch Obama maybe he will help Yeah right he's worthless as well.

Typical sit back with your hand out and cry why me it's not fair.

Suck it up get a job. Go to the salvation aemy ask them for a free set of nice clothes and go interview for a job. Oh yeah you live in your car where does the money come from for the gas.

Probably cause you are on the street turning tricks for 20 bucks and than buying rock.

You lazy worthless shit bag go get a job and get off the computer. Here's an idea instead of posting blogs on topix why not look for a job on craigs list or monster etc.
bobby

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Feb 17, 2009
 
thanks for the raise trash.

with all that energy.. and you choose to post a comment to MY thread, GET FIRED YOU UNSIGHTLY loser.

you got a job??
GET FIRED!!

you probably have an attention deficit during your workforce.
and in-fact YOU are the scum of the workforce union.

my posts are healthy.. yours are not.

UNDERSTAND this is how references and referrals are made.
i'd definitely put you down as a trash who does not work hard and play hard.

if i was your supervisor and i seen such lackluster attempts to use your energy.. you would NOT get a raise and i'd be looking for any excuse to fire your sorry workhorse.

you are a jack-ass.
Poor White Trash

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Bobby,
You make no sense. You are telling me to work hard now thats funny. I'm not looking for a job. For your info I own my biz and good luck firing me. I have worked very very hard to get where I am at in my life. It was done with hard work not looking for a hand out and crying on a blog that its not fair your are homeless.

Hard work something you know nothing about.

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Son,Sorry,Due to a Recession/Depression must you help Yourself!
The Taxpayer will not bring up enough.
It's easy,believe me.
You may have a Profession you can do some Work,or,if all fails go working on a Farm.
They give you a Work,Home,Food and some Money.
Now in April/May starts anywhy the Harvest Season.
Otherwise:
Get you a Tent and pop down to KOA at Kankakee City South
bobby

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Aug 2, 2012
 
i dont agree with christians, as well as any other bible-related religion.

i wont let them into my life, even if it is for honest help.

i figure the reason why i dont agree with them is bound to show itself some time or another.

(long way of saying 'i wont give them the pleasure')
K3

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Bobby is a crazy nut with a few loose screws. He's always no here posting mindless rants.

Bobby you are lazy go get a job and work quit looking for a hand out I can't support all you dead beats.

This country does to much to help the lazy ass people like you that call themselves homeless. Free cell phones, link cards, free medical, section 8 housing just to name a few.

How many job interviews and resumes have you been on of sent out? You obviously have a computer and know how to use it, how about trying monster or career builder but that would require you to actually do something and maybe you state aid getting pulled.
bobby

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you can be had for harassment, assault, torture.

until you see what i am looking at, you dont get the right to judge me.

perhaps you tried to slip a fast one by me when you said 'judgement (he) is always telling me no too'

the only 'yes' i have been given is to go to school.
i've spoken to all opportunities there is to speak to, and i am waiting for the situation to become complete.

i cannot physically force the other people to do their job.. no matter how much you are me would like to.
the only alternative from there is to do the other person's job for them.

i am not an empty soul that enjoys doing absolutely nothing month after month, year after year.

free cellphone? i turned down both offers.
link card? the amount of money allows me to eat ONCE per day and it isnt even a full course meal.
section 8 housing? the program has been shut down because THE GOVERNMENT is too lazy to open up the program to people with enough money to buy a house and rent said house to the government.
free medical? i dont use it.
the government used the 'free medical' a hundred times over than i ever did each time they kept advertising a drug that would help.

i've gotten my wisedom teeth pulled out (prevents severe damage and daily pain in the future, a rather humane procedure), and i've been to the 'family doctor' half a dozen times in the last decaade.
my mother has me on her insurance policy, and i always hand over that one with the 'free medical'
doesnt seem like i've got any control as to which one gets billed more.

doesnt seem like society has a grip on what they get billed for either.
i was at a hospital for about one week and they wanted to charge me $20,000 for the visit.
all for what?!!!!!!!
some food that can be bought for $5 at wholesale cost..!
an electricity bill that cost less than $1 for my portion used.
a water bill for less than $1 for my portion used.

dont talk to me about hourly wages, because i was physically held down and injected with a needle that made me fall asleep.
when i woke up they had me tied up telling me i was going to the hospital in chicago.
if you think i should have to pay for being abducted, you are absolutely obsessively inept about money and economics.

i dont think there is anything sensible in your post.

perhaps 'think before you speak' has transitioned to 'know before you hack'
and lets not forget 'stride to achieve' because you cant just grab onto a bandwagon and expect to rest without first running up to the wagon, and then pulling yourself up inside of it.

dont you think it is bad that i have to listen to one half of the government say 'go get some blood, urine, stool, saliva samples taken' and then they hold me down with a needle as they tie me up and take me to a hospital in chicago with a $20,000 bill that i said was much more adolescent than handing over the samples myself right there in the hospital'?

the topic of discussion is about the homeless system and how they all had big glowing signs advertising help, but when i get there they say they are all full or they are closed and forgot to lock the door or literally abusing people beyond vocal tone or vocal content.
bobby

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Aug 3, 2012
 
perhaps you need to rethink what the definition of a handout is.

today's economy should be a real good example with all the reruns and absolutely nothing on television or in the theater or articles to read or places to go if you are lonely or fair prices for the quality you get or fair amounts of function inside the products you buy.

no handouts means less of the above, being taught less in school, no conversations with strangers, no place to spend your leisure time amongst other people (unless you like to drink urine and organ oil at the bar)

who is the real idiot here?
the one demanding i respect, appreciate, and show gratitude towards the assistance i get .. or the one that fails to realize the billions of people that go to work and are stuck inside the building with no reason to leave, SHOWING how all the cars on the road are secret service out there driving around thinking they are not harming a single thing, yet getting paid for it.

there are lots of families that are not 'working' like most people think of work.
they dont have an office, they dont stay in a single building each day, they are always hunting and provoking problems.
they say their brain is their job, and they get paid for it.

so..
what are you going to say about 100 kids on disability when there are a thousand secret service members driving around while everybody is at work?

i think your lack of fact in your post is contempt in the trial you created.
i think the lack of sensibility in your assault calls for a hung trial.

i dont like being a victim for a person that has stumbled upon a new topic, yet has not realized all there is to realize.

i see everyday how the economy is trying to squeeze every single person out of their very last cent until they have to get a loan or use a credit card.
i dont think it is sensible when the prices are as high as they are.
i dont think it is sensible when they refuse to take anything except money.

i know all too well what dead wrong is.
i see people out there physically starting to give up and finding a place to lay down and melt into the rocks, hoping to re-awaken when all the chaos has calmed down.

two big problems:
1. money doesnt represent the persons value, yet some people think it does
2. people dont go out there and do what makes them happy because of poor planning or they ran out of time

nobody laughs at a 30 year old living with their parents anymore.
but nobody talks about how knowing what you want to do with the rest of your life by the time you are 18 is not long enough.
not staying with your parents until you were 20-25-30 years old is going to be the new 'problem'

not having any parents and not getting any government assistance is also going to be the new 'problem'

my family life was shattered when i was 6 years old, and it remains unstable to this day.

nobody wants a bunch of 20 year olds out there shooting at people randomly because they are all upset life didnt offer them any help when their parents abandoned them.

the government taxes people, not only to keep the roads free from potholes.. but also to prevent crime.
you should look at the list that creates and maintains life, because it means more than maintenance and crime prevention.

if i made some chemicals at home and attacked you with those chemicals, and you couldnt even smell them.. then your tax dollars would go towards prosecuting me for the assault, as well as paying for a secret service member to attack you again with the antidote.
all the secret cameras and microphones that get installed, all the hardware to keep it running, all the research out in space as they bring back concentrated amounts of minerals that are found in only very small amounts here on earth because they are good for medicine.

dont you realize a party with a door fee has more content inside the party because all of that content is getting paid for with the door fee?
it is rare to find a free party that has all the same quality.
bobby

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Aug 3, 2012
 
those free parties sometimes require an invite.
sometimes you get there and the owner of the party gets angry with you because you didnt donate anything, and maybe that means you arent welcome to come back the next time.

talking about the people that ran out of time before they decided what they wanted to do with their life, you cant say i dont think about those people because it is those same grumpy people that put on a fake smile and walk around numb to the world.
these people show themselves as the one that makes you repeat yourself on the telephone or while ordering food.
these people show themselves as the insecure group that gathers up with an impossible attitude.
these people show themselves to children while the children are outside playing, because the person is sad and tired at home and those emotions stain the thought process of the child (causing more problems when trying to realize how they want to fit into society).

you think i am living with less stress when all i can see is a giant clog in the economy right before everything starts to celebrate all of the technological revolution in the products on the shelves everyday because they've spent the last 100 years in research and development?
all i see is a bunch of products torturing us now, and everywhere we look they are demanding money.
and all i see in the future is upgraded products torturing us less, yet everybody is still going to be demanding money.
the best that i can do is realize how i want to get money in my pocket.

it still doesnt look easy for absolutely anybody to work and go to college to get money a different way.
but, some people dont ever care about going to college to make money a different way because the menu of college programs is too small.
instead, if they want to make money a different way they simply go work at a different job.
those people get enough money to spend on toys and other things they want?
i dont believe it is true, i believe the government has spent a lot of time realizing how they can put a price tag on as many things as possible.
we both need to hope that once they are done putting a price tag on everything, those prices come down to something more sensible that people can afford.

every single time i shop i see how the prices are higher than what poverty levels can participate in.
and everytime i lose hope i know the alternatives for the low poverty people are much worse.

you cant always yell at poverty.
i realize somebody might make more than $3 over the minimum wage, but they still use poor management at home that sucks up all that extra money.
and i see how the prices are high enough to prevent people from wasting all that extra money because the prices for normal things take all the money away.

yes i find it scary that the economy thinks they can put insensitive prices on things and take all the money before extra things can be bought.
but it also scares me knowing there are millions of people in the world that go out there and work a dumb job with no guarantee or insurance as to how long they will work there.

sure, mcdonalds isnt going anywhere anytime soon.
but that doesnt mean you can work there and keep your job.

sure, you can stop looking at businesses on the main roads and work at some small company, but that doesnt mean you can work there and keep your job.
bobby

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Aug 3, 2012
 
yes, i realize the only way to keep the job is to do the job without error and give an attitude that makes other people want to be around you.
but that doesnt mean you are happy there at the job, it doesnt mean you agree with what you are doing at the job, it doesnt mean the company wont file for bankruptcy, it doesnt mean you will be treated as a friend, it doesnt mean you can work with your friends, it doesnt mean you will be treated with the emotional or mental involvement you deserve.

the economy itself isnt sensible.
corporations were built with the option to be sensible or obnoxiously numb.

the only way to get ahead in business is profit.
the only way to make extra profit is to buy more quantity or work out a REASON with the factory (or warehouse).

it is very rare to see an invention get created and ran through a factory at large numbers.
i like to think the only reason those inventions exist is because somebody forgot something, or they simply left it out on purpose for somebody else to invent.

that means the pieces for all creations need to be released with higher quality and lower price.
there is only two choices for a small business:
1. you sell a well known or not well known brand name
2. you build your own things and sell them

when people get enough money, they design something and gather up the pieces to build it.. then they slap on a generic brand name and they make some at the factory.
if they sell, then they make some more.
if they dont sell, the owner has to count their money and decide what to do next (probably selling whatever stock is left to whoever will buy it).

factories used to be mean, because the factory needed to build itself just like corporations did.
that means no time for small profit transactions.
nowadays they've established themselves and smaller people can get their things made without being a big burden to the factory.

because when you open up a carton of 12 and you take away 1 .. they would complain all day and night because they couldnt sell a carton that wasnt full, and because there was a lot of arguement as well as frustration as to who could buy the other 11.

as time went on, they learned people dont care much about what product goes where.
if you find a nike or adidas shirt from a cardboard box on the sidewalk of chicago, people dont care.
and it draws a question as to why people care about the nike or adidas shirt at the local footlocker for three times the price.
what is the insurance from footlocker?
is it because the cotton is authentic?
is it because the chemicals in the dye is less harmful?

overstock has been beautiful for people to save money.
it demands more warehouses be built and maintained, because it is simply easier to shop from a closet than it is a giant fancy store where hourly wages and monthly lot rent cause the prices to go up.

see.. if everybody went to ONE store for t-shirts, then those hourly wages would be working every minute.
but since they dont work every minute, the price goes up to pay for extra hourly wages.

thanks to ebay, warehouses can start selling directly.
it is a smooth operation when those hourly wages dont get wasted causing a loss in profit.

maybe we shouldnt be building a whole bunch of stores that sell the same exact thing (or similar items) because the demand for profit is high because they put a price tag on everything except breathing.

i dont like it when other people tell me they dont have any free time to think and organize the thoughts in their head.
but the truth is, if they cant find the time.. then they need to get those organized thoughts from people that do get the free time.
i believe everybody should think and organize thoughts because like a garden, each person (or plant) grows more sophisticated.
the added sophistication makes the garden remarkable.
remarkable makes memories worth remembering.
remarkable makes a garden worth visiting.

paying extra for lost profit isnt the same definition of remarkable.
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Aug 3, 2012
 
'paying extra for lost profit isnt the same definition of remarkable'

let those words be a lesson to all the insurance companies, all the chemical manufacturers, all the electronics manufacturers, all the food manufacturers, what am i missing? i know there can be more to the list.!

for instance, if you pay $2,000 a year for insurance and you have been paying that insurance for 10 years.. that comes to $20,000
then you need to file a claim and they say you are only going to get $15,000 and you wonder where the rest of your money went that you paid.

they say 'we need to take that $5,000 because we were stupid enough to try and make profit from insurance payments.. and that means there isnt any money in our savings to give you and the rest of the claims filed for the month all the money you gave us'

that means you are involved with people that are counter-productive because they are simply trying to gamble the odds and put extra money in their pocket when nobody files a claim.
it means you are treated with less because the people you are involved with tried to treat themselves as more.

you go up to them and ask them 'really.. how much money do you need for the 10 hours total i've talked to you over the last ten years??!'

then the real bill starts to happen.
they say taking your money every month isnt much.
then they say going in there to get the REAL value of the damages is going to cost more than simply placing you into a category of presets.
maybe it means taking samples and getting those samples looked at in a lab.
because what they do is, they try to wipe out everything even when it isnt necessary.. they do it for their insurance rather than their knowledge and experience.
(like getting dropshipped on ebay)

if we get back to knowledge and experience, then you can share knowledge and experience with eachother to pay for things to get done.
you do something for them, they do something for you, and no money gets exchanged at all.
(how life should be, how life must be)

you tell me we can be taught by teachers from school, and those teachings are value.
but when we want to do it ourselves, they demand we give them the blank concurrency that is money.
that isnt freedom of conscious or freedom of thought or freedom from slavery or right to fair trial or freedom of worship.

without the ability to trade, the reason to learn anything more than flipping a hamburger on time before it burns becomes absolutely zero.

the struggle to get people to love and enjoy themselves has been hard enough.
there isnt any sensibility to make people's desire to learn any less.
to say it is bad enough as it is.. it is hard enough to make them budge at all, and by going backwards we will simply get our foot caught deeper in a whole we cant get it out of.

they say the great depression was because not enough jobs, and that means not organized enough to expand the business, and not organized enough means they werent willing to work.

that means it took time to make people willing to work, and from there you go to school and learn a second thing to work twice to keep the day from becoming boring, as well as keeping the money coming in.
when that is said and done, people still get the right to complain about not enough time to spend with their loved ones.
people still get to complain about the average attitude of the economy affecting business.

dont be shocked when people blame the government when society is making life hard.. because the government are the parents affecting all the children out there surrounding you.
when life is hell and they arent doing a cleanup, the chaos grows as you become infected by it.
you either complain about the infection or ignore it.
there are tax return people waiting to hear you complain about the infection.
some say that is the only way to start a cleanup!!
how one gets a tax return can and does vary from one person to the next.
whatever tax return fits into your lifestyle should work smooth for everybody.
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Aug 3, 2012
 
and dont call me lazy, i've got enough encoded artistic punctuation on my facebook page to last somebody more than a month.

aside from that, i've got hundreds of writings that state otherwise.
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Aug 6, 2012
 
there is too much going on (or not going on) to involve yourself in fantasy.
looking at history, there was room for people to gather about such a thing.

the same way comic books were popular.
sometimes people could see there wasnt anything on television.
sometimes people couldnt afford a television, and instead they would read.
the fact of a good storyline is what made comics strong, but the 'niche' market is what kept the comic books alive.
for whatever reason, people enjoyed watching a comic book character do what humans couldnt do (whether because those things were adult humor or because they required super human powers, or maybe simply because it was way too hard to find people that would participate and react the same way)

another example..
say you are stranded in the woods and you are starving, but your body hasnt begun eating itself yet.
you find something that you know isnt all that healthy, and you question yourself:
1. do you eat the unhealthy and suffer the consequences?
2. do you wait for something less harmful in an effort to preserve longevity?

sad but true, the consequence part is the reason to pick an answer.
if you eat something unhealthy and it causes your immune system to become weak, then you get sick and it makes it harder to hunt for food .. perhaps you get sick and you dont get as much energy from the food you do eat.

wouldnt that be something, you eat something unhealthy and for the rest of the time you are stranded you find yourself needing to eat twice as much because you got sick and your body wouldnt get the normal amount of energy from the food.

when somebody says 'i agree with this' and you dont agree with what they agree with, then that stands to reason the person will say 'i dont agree' towards something you do agree with.
and what do you see those people doing?
they stand around talking a debate as they comb a search looking for a way to take a step forward.

what started as help could turn around and hold you down in your greatest moment of victory, simply because there is confusion lingering about.

all that talk is towards whether or not you get any help.
that doesnt begin to talk about all the contents within the middle of the equation.
say you express yourself and the person doesnt agree, but they are willing to help you anyways.
within that, there is a possibility of mistreatment while you are waiting for your 'help' to arrive.
it could be the other person expressing themselves, not only ruining your day but also causing an emotional uproar that must be organized before you can move forward again with clear focus.

all too often people are told to 'just ignore it'
while the real guidance will tell you that it must be organized and laid to rest to prevent distortion in your clear focus.

it can be seen in a little example..
you've got a 30 watt speaker connected to a 100 watt amplifier and the owner turns the volume up until the speaker is distorted.
you raise concern about the distortion and the owner says 'just ignore it because i like it loud'

watching the person slowly destroy something AND see the person self-torturing themselves in the process .. you add it up as a person doing two things wrong.

and then when you try to give the person any further benefit of doubt, you figure the only chance left for them is the song they pick to play through the speaker .. but no matter what, you realize it really doesnt matter what song they pick to play because all of the details of the song are broken, busted, and distorted.

you come to realize the person has a whole playlist of music you agree with, but you also come to realize the other person doesnt know why they enjoy the list of music.
you dont know if that list was created because all the other music is missing something (or doing something wrong, or doing something annoying), or if it is truly because of the content in the song.

when you choose to stand by the person, eventually the speaker blows and you witness MORE pain.
bobby

Kankakee, IL

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first the pain was brought onto you by the distortion ruining the experience.
then the pain was brought onto you because you are the only one that cares to realize the speaker is under abuse and is probably going to die.
then the pain was brought onto you as each song you enjoy gets put through a terrible time.
then the pain was brought onto you when the speaker blows and you watch the owner go through such an event of emotional uproar.
(it could be the other person doesnt care at all and doesnt flinch or cry.. or it could be the person gets all upset and angry and starts whining)

either way..
you ask the person 'why do you care about things the way you do?'
and if they are mature enough to respond with the truth, they would simply say 'because if i do it like you do then i would be getting hurt all the time'

if they had any sense of humor they would say 'look you made a list and said it yourself all the times you got hurt'

but..
sometimes people spend their whole lifetime trying to get another person to open up that much.
they think it is a victory to put themselves through a long list of self-torture and pain, simply because it is different than the way the other person is doing it.

see..
the careless insensitive person causes self-torture and pain to themselves, but they dont watch it.
the caring sensitive person realizes the pain is coming from somebody else, and the think they are standing there in a game of 'tag' at the 'base' or 'safety' because they have yet to realize they are self-torturing themselves.
when all they see is the pain, they are missing half of the equation.
and when they do that, they see a victory already.
then they see another victory when they spend a lifetime to get the other person to open up about themselves.
but throughout the course of the lifetime, all those efforts and all that trying to get the person to open up was responded to with more pain because of verbal abuse or neglect.

yeah sure, maybe you didnt stay with the owner of the speakers.
but that doesnt mean they didnt feed you the same verbal abuse or neglect for the short time you were there.

when you dont agree with how the person is helping themselves, you shouldnt expect much when they try to help you.
in a time of emergency or crisis, it is smarter to find people with more than enough help.. otherwise you might find your help coming up short.
if your help comes up short, you really werent helped at all.. but then you've got to look the person in the eye as they try to claim 'THIS ONE HAS ALREADY BEEN HELPED'
when in reality, they 'tried' to help you but the help came up short and your problem wasnt fully resolved.

that is like removing the bullet from a gunshot wound and putting some antibacterial gel on the wound.
they put the lid back on the gel and stand up shouting 'THIS ONE HAS ALREADY BEEN HELPED' but after maybe ONE shower, the gel rinses off and the wound gets infected.

then as you lay there realizing how much danger you are in, they expect you to represent yourself by getting the person with the gel into trouble for the lack of effort they put in.

i've seen it a countless number of times, when you are in a world of trouble they want you to take on another person's 'world of trouble' and get the other person's 'world of trouble' organized and laid to rest before your crisis gets looked at or fixed.

it is a hypocrisy because they say 'do the right thing'
but the person 'helping' you didnt do the right thing, and they didnt see any pressure or obstacles in their path.

it is like they are saying 'FINE.. if you wont do the right thing the first time, you will be forced to take on TWO scenarios of chaos.. and maybe neither one of them gets fixed'
when in reality, neither scenario of chaos was your fault or wrongdoing.

given some food but forced to eat it with the wrapper still on it, the arguement is whether or not you can taste the food and digest it.
the wrapper hides/distorts flavor and causes digestive difference
bobby

Kankakee, IL

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after harassment, assault, as well as negligence.. the person doesnt deserve attention.

the IQ is bad.
the IP is bad.

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