Cheating Wives-Why
Really

Junction City, KS

#188 Apr 10, 2013
get a clue wrote:
<quoted text>Where in her post does she say , or even imply , that her husband is a servicemember ? She does mention him being "fat" and the Army has tightened up their weight and BMI standards lately. Try not reading things into posts that aren`t there. Your comprehension might even improve a little.
No she didn't, but you can't swing a dead cat in this community without hitting an army wife so I went with the probability that she was. My mistake.
Yes Sir

Junction City, KS

#189 Apr 11, 2013
Correct wrote:
He's right. She IS a wh*r and she IS a slvvt.
I agree too. And if there's a name for men that do the same thing let me know and I'll call them that. I'm not sexist, far as I'm concerned they both are whor*s and sl_ts, when they cheat on a partner or a spouse.
Look at what you started

Junction City, KS

#190 Apr 11, 2013
Why wrote:
Come on people, be nice! If you can back up a comment then ok, but no false accusations please. I didn't start this to spread false rumors, I did it as a sort of therapy, kind of a misery loves company thing. I was hoping to try and make some sense out of what has happened to my world, guess I failed.
You have one hell of a track record lately don't you. You could have sucked it up and gone on with your life but you were searching for people that are more miserable than you are.

Now women that post on this topic are called whores and sluts, people are talking about swinging cats and hitting military wives with them, we even got into the military weight program and Body Mass Index.

Are you feeling better?
The world is what it is, quit wallowing in self pity.
CSA Chandler says

Junction City, KS

#191 Apr 11, 2013
Look at what you started wrote:
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we even got into the military weight program and Body Mass Index.
We`re cracking down on tattoos , overweight soldiers ,DUI`s , and misconduct. Downsizing allows the Army to be more selective.
Yes Really

Sierra Vista, AZ

#192 Apr 12, 2013
Really wrote:
<quoted text>Another USD 475 drop out!
Not a drop off but an employee, come and get me, I am usually with another usd475 employee and we love our margarittas and hate our husbands, we drink flirt, and go home to their sleeping butty's. working on breaking up a marriage is what we do best.
Plebs

Junction City, KS

#194 Apr 12, 2013
El Tapatio, a mediocre at best "Mexican" restaurant on some pothole-riddled street in a nothing town is the hot spot to meet people? Then you have sex with them???? Hahahahahaha. Small towns..so quaint and inbred!

You need to go see the world. We here in reality (and I say this as a 20 year resident of the UWS in NYC...you know, the real Manhattan) call this flyover country for a reason. Can't wait to get back out of here. Hicks.
Elephant in the Room

Junction City, KS

#196 Apr 12, 2013
Look at what you started wrote:
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The world is what it is, quit wallowing in self pity.
The sooner the Republican Party embraces this notion , the greater their chance of survival. I`m betting against it , though . LOL !
jealous

Junction City, KS

#197 Apr 13, 2013
Agnostick wrote:
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Whaddya mean "the real Manhattan?" Manhattan, Kansas, is just as "real" as your "Big Apple." Although with fewer worms at the core. I guess you're downright bored, not having to dodge stray bullets and vacant-eyed crack whores?
You probably miss the rats, though... I feel for ya. We have rats here, too, but we handle them a bit differently: We *DISPOSE* of them after we kill them, rather than toss 'em on a grill or in a stir-fry. We prefer to eat good Angus beef, instead of rats and cats.
Bon voyage on your trip home, though!:)
jealousy is not a virtue.

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#198 Apr 13, 2013
Plebs wrote:
El Tapatio, a mediocre at best "Mexican" restaurant on some pothole-riddled street in a nothing town is the hot spot to meet people? Then you have sex with them???? Hahahahahaha. Small towns..so quaint and inbred!
You need to go see the world. We here in reality (and I say this as a 20 year resident of the UWS in NYC...you know, the real Manhattan) call this flyover country for a reason. Can't wait to get back out of here. Hicks.
So, what are you doing here, azzhole?
Saw you

Junction City, KS

#199 Apr 13, 2013
Beach I saw your ugly picture on Facebook You are nasty and Topeka says so as well. Get a life and go home to your husband cause you is ugly and stinky
Playa

Junction City, KS

#200 Apr 13, 2013
Yes Sir wrote:
<quoted text>I agree too. And if there's a name for men that do the same thing let me know and I'll call them that. I'm not sexist, far as I'm concerned they both are whor*s and sl_ts, when they cheat on a partner or a spouse.
The word is Playa. Don't hate the Playa, hate the game.
blameless

Junction City, KS

#201 Apr 14, 2013
Playa wrote:
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The word is Playa. Don't hate the Playa, hate the game.
It`s not our fault when somebody`s spouse or partner offers themselves up to us. Playas are only human. If you`re starving at a steak and lobster buffet you`re gonna eat.
Who Cares

Junction City, KS

#202 Apr 14, 2013
Seriously, who cares, men cheat-women cheat, no one seems to be able to remainful to anyone anymore.
You can make up all kinds of excuses for why people do it, but I think people just don't care anymore. They don't care about who gets hurt, they don't hold marriage vows as being sacred anymore, we live in a disposible society now. When you're done with someone now a days, you simply throw them away and get a new someone.
Many years ago, you had to have a reason to get divorced; being unfaithful, domestic abuse, alcohol and/or drug abuse, something.
Today you walk into a court room, tell the judge you don't want to be married anymore, sign on the dotted line and bam, it's done.
Nothing matters anymore, nothing.
time travelers

Junction City, KS

#203 Apr 14, 2013
Who Cares wrote:
Seriously, who cares, men cheat-women cheat, no one seems to be able to remainful to anyone anymore.
You can make up all kinds of excuses for why people do it, but I think people just don't care anymore. They don't care about who gets hurt, they don't hold marriage vows as being sacred anymore, we live in a disposible society now. When you're done with someone now a days, you simply throw them away and get a new someone.
Many years ago, you had to have a reason to get divorced; being unfaithful, domestic abuse, alcohol and/or drug abuse, something.
Today you walk into a court room, tell the judge you don't want to be married anymore, sign on the dotted line and bam, it's done.
Nothing matters anymore, nothing.
We`re only here for a short time , relative to the age of the universe. In the big picure , change is the only constant . When we`re gone , time grinds on , as it always has and will. Our time here is minute segment of time . Modern man is the new kid on the block here on Earth. The Earth is a youngster in the universe. We`re more aware of this than ever before , so values change accordingly.
Who Cares

Junction City, KS

#204 Apr 14, 2013
time travelers wrote:
<quoted text>We`re only here for a short time , relative to the age of the universe. In the big picure , change is the only constant . When we`re gone , time grinds on , as it always has and will. Our time here is minute segment of time . Modern man is the new kid on the block here on Earth. The Earth is a youngster in the universe. We`re more aware of this than ever before , so values change accordingly.
Maybe what you say is true, but if it is inevitable that people will cheat, then why get married in the first place. Stay single, live together whatever, but why go thru the hassel and expense of a wedding if you know going in you won't be faithful and you won't stay married for the rest of your life.
Some people still take their wedding vows seriously, and why would you want to put them through the pain and suffering of a divorce. Not to mention if there are any children born from the marriage, why should they suffer needlessly.
I don't have any answers for these comments/questions, I'm only expressing my thoughts.
time traveler

Junction City, KS

#205 Apr 14, 2013
Who Cares wrote:
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I don't have any answers for these comments/questions, I'm only expressing my thoughts.
I did my best to validate your thoughts with some of my own. The answers are each individual`s interpretation of the questions.
gaxaxxa

Pittsburgh, PA

#206 Apr 14, 2013
youtube.com/watch... U women eat it up
Who Cares

Junction City, KS

#207 Apr 15, 2013
So basically, people are going to continue to suffer needlessly, lives will be ruined and families will be destroyed all because one person enters a marriage knowing that they have no intention of remaining faithful to their spouse. It won't matter what color they are, what profession they have, male or female, because of their selfishness, many people will be hurt.
Sounds like a very good argument to never get married, or even enter into a long term relationship, with someone. Just get together, have sex and move on.
Moving On

Junction City, KS

#208 Apr 15, 2013
When I met my wife, she admitted that she had a history of failed marriages and relationships, and she told me how they (her partners) had cheated on her, hit her and so on. So I tried to be the one that was the complete opposit of them.
After many years together she's filed for divorce, she admitted that she has had numerous affairs while we were together and she even told me that the reason she married me was because she knew I would never hurt her they way they did.
That's really great, so while I was trying to do the best I could, she felt free to do the worst she could.
So now I have to ask myself this question. Whose the idiot in the relationship, me or her? My answer is....me. I thought I could make a difference but I couldn't. Why? She had no intention of ever letting me make a difference in her life. So now we're moving on in totally different directions.
Good luck to the rest of you.
Who Cares

Junction City, KS

#210 Apr 15, 2013
Moving On wrote:
When I met my wife, she admitted that she had a history of failed marriages and relationships, and she told me how they (her partners) had cheated on her, hit her and so on. So I tried to be the one that was the complete opposit of them.
After many years together she's filed for divorce, she admitted that she has had numerous affairs while we were together and she even told me that the reason she married me was because she knew I would never hurt her they way they did.
That's really great, so while I was trying to do the best I could, she felt free to do the worst she could.
So now I have to ask myself this question. Whose the idiot in the relationship, me or her? My answer is....me. I thought I could make a difference but I couldn't. Why? She had no intention of ever letting me make a difference in her life. So now we're moving on in totally different directions.
Good luck to the rest of you.
Although I do feel sorry for what you are going through Moving On, you may have added validity to my earlier comments. It seems to me that your wife never had any real intention of making your marriage work. So why did she marry you in the first place? If she felt you wouldn't hurt her, but she apparently had no trouble hurting you, why bother with a wedding.
I hope she didn't pull out the old bullshit card of saying, "I still love you, I'm just not in love with you anymore", because that is so boring to hear it's laughable. And yes, I've heard it too, so I know the feeling. At least it wasn't the "It's not you, it's me" speech, talk about lame.

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