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Junction City, KS

#1 Mar 19, 2013
What is wrong with the women in this town? I have/had been married to a woman, I thought was my soul mate, for 13 years. Recently I discovered that she has had several affairs during our years together and now we are getting divorced. No I am not in the military, never have been, I've got a good job and we have lived in JC for many years. I have/had been faithful to her, the entire time we were married.
I've been talking to friends, and I even read some of the older posts here on Topix, and there seems to be a hugh up swing in the number of wives (or girlfriends) that have either been caught cheating or admitted to it.
My question is, why? Is there something in the water here, in the air they breathe? What? Or is it like this everywhere and I've just been too blind to see it.
The other day she told me that she married me because she felt I would never "hurt" her, but she never really gave her heart to me. What the hell does that even mean? She didn't want to get hurt by me, but she has no problem hurting me. Am I just that stupid, or does that comment make absolutly no sense.
Maybe people who have been, or currently are, going through something similar, will respond and share their thoughts on the subject.
Why ask why

Junction City, KS

#2 Mar 19, 2013
I blame facebook, its like a super buffet of cheese to them cheating rats.
TheUglyTruth

Manhattan, KS

#3 Mar 19, 2013
Rats go where the food is. If there is food at home, they stay home. Think about it.
Maybe

Junction City, KS

#4 Mar 19, 2013
I have a friend whose marriage ended because his wife connected with someone on facebook, they say that today, 80% of all failed relationships/marriages end because of the internet, or rather "social media".
If someones going to cheat, they'll cheat no matter what, the internet just makes it a little easier to do so.
TheUglyTruth

Manhattan, KS

#5 Mar 19, 2013
Prediction: More than half of those here who blame Facebook... have Facebook accounts themselves.
Daves Top 10

Junction City, KS

#6 Mar 19, 2013
Top 10 of why women dump guys

1 There's someone else richer/cute (gold diggers)14%
2 Our dietary habits differ too much 12%
3 Too high maintenance 11%
4 Too short 10%
5 You don't earn enough money for the lifestyle I want to have 10%
6 You don't make me feel attractive 10%
7 Lack of punctuality 9%
8 Lack of attraction 9%
9 Too much fighting 9%
10 I don't feel like I'm a priority 9%

Best bet move on/forward and don't ever look back.
TheUglyTruth

Manhattan, KS

#7 Mar 19, 2013
I don't suppose you have some kind of verifiable source for that information? Perhaps you're just making it up as you go along?:)
Why ask why

Junction City, KS

#8 Mar 19, 2013
TheUglyTruth wrote:
Prediction: More than half of those here who blame Facebook... have Facebook accounts themselves.
VERY odd one out here: Deleted my Facebook and have blocked it from all devices on my net. Im very anti-Facebook and protect my kids via banning it.
Daves Top 10

Junction City, KS

#9 Mar 19, 2013
TheUglyTruth wrote:
I don't suppose you have some kind of verifiable source for that information? Perhaps you're just making it up as you go along?:)
Look it up yourself.

http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/top-10-reason...

http://wotwentwrong.com/

Always has to be one...
Maybe

Junction City, KS

#10 Mar 19, 2013
TheUglyTruth wrote:
Rats go where the food is. If there is food at home, they stay home. Think about it.
In my friend's case, there was plenty of "food" at home, his wife suddenly changed her mind about what she wanted on the menu.
TheUglyTruth

Manhattan, KS

#11 Mar 19, 2013
Daves Top 10 wrote:
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Look it up yourself.
http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/top-10-reason...
http://wotwentwrong.com/
Always has to be one...
No, it's just good manners, believe it or not. I'm not sure what school you (presumably) went to, but when I handed in my term papers, I was expected to source my information. I've always done so, throughout the past 15 years or so that I've engaged in various online discussions. On any given discussion forum, the more reputable, respected contributors voluntarily source their information, whenever they reference something. But maybe that's not the case in this little neighborhood.

It is, after all... Junction City... ;)
Not Always

Junction City, KS

#12 Mar 19, 2013
TheUglyTruth wrote:
Prediction: More than half of those here who blame Facebook... have Facebook accounts themselves.
I have a facebook account and I've never cheated on my wife, and I have many friends that have accounts too and they've never cheated on their wives. But, they have had their wives cheat on them with someone they met(or knew)on facebook.
I accidently found out about my wife's affair when she left her facebook page open and I came across some conversations she had been having with an "old" friend. When I confronted her with it, she admitted everything and acted like it was no big deal. And no I wasn't spying on her, hell we had each other's login information on our accounts, and while she looked at mine from time to time, this was the first time I looked at hers. Maybe if I had looked at it sooner I could have changed things, but now it's too late.
Facebook is a tool, not the cause.
TheUglyTruth

Manhattan, KS

#13 Mar 19, 2013
How about a little research? A little science?
Indeed, the profit models of many online-dating sites are at cross-purposes with clients who are trying to develop long-term commitments. A permanently paired-off dater, after all, means a lost revenue stream. Explaining the mentality of a typical dating-site executive, Justin Parfitt, a dating entrepreneur based in San Francisco, puts the matter bluntly:“They’re thinking,[i]Let’s keep this fu**er coming back to the site as often as we can[/i].” For instance, long after their accounts become inactive on Match.com and some other sites, lapsed users receive notifications informing them that wonderful people are browsing their profiles and are eager to chat.“Most of our users are return customers,” says Match.com ’s Blatt.
Source:

http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2...
TheUglyTruth

Manhattan, KS

#14 Mar 19, 2013
To read this thread, a newcomer would get the impression that Junction City men are all perfect angels who somehow all got tricked into marrying deceptive, cheating skanks. How the heck did that happen??:-/
TheUglyTruth

Manhattan, KS

#15 Mar 19, 2013
Oh wait, that's right... Facebook!
Daves Top 10

Junction City, KS

#16 Mar 19, 2013
TheUglyTruth wrote:
<quoted text>
No, it's just good manners, believe it or not. I'm not sure what school you (presumably) went to, but when I handed in my term papers, I was expected to source my information. I've always done so, throughout the past 15 years or so that I've engaged in various online discussions. On any given discussion forum, the more reputable, respected contributors voluntarily source their information, whenever they reference something. But maybe that's not the case in this little neighborhood.
It is, after all... Junction City... ;)
Wow thanks for your ugly truth facts professor. Fact is your trolling on Junction City topix while it says your source is in Manhattan? Whats wrong not any action in Manhattan?
Why

Junction City, KS

#17 Mar 19, 2013
TheUglyTruth wrote:
To read this thread, a newcomer would get the impression that Junction City men are all perfect angels who somehow all got tricked into marrying deceptive, cheating skanks. How the heck did that happen??:-/
Not at all what I meant when I started this thread, but yes it could seem that way.
However, a large majority of the older comments here are about wives cheating, and from talking to friends, and friends of friends, but it seems more women are currently cheating and ending relationships these days then men are. But that doesn't mean that women can't comment if they want to.

Since: Feb 13

Junction City, KS

#18 Mar 19, 2013
Why wrote:
What is wrong with the women in this town? I have/had been married to a woman, I thought was my soul mate, for 13 years. Recently I discovered that she has had several affairs during our years together and now we are getting divorced. No I am not in the military, never have been, I've got a good job and we have lived in JC for many years. I have/had been faithful to her, the entire time we were married.
I've been talking to friends, and I even read some of the older posts here on Topix, and there seems to be a hugh up swing in the number of wives (or girlfriends) that have either been caught cheating or admitted to it.
My question is, why? Is there something in the water here, in the air they breathe? What? Or is it like this everywhere and I've just been too blind to see it.
The other day she told me that she married me because she felt I would never "hurt" her, but she never really gave her heart to me. What the hell does that even mean? She didn't want to get hurt by me, but she has no problem hurting me. Am I just that stupid, or does that comment make absolutly no sense.
Maybe people who have been, or currently are, going through something similar, will respond and share their thoughts on the subject.
Women don't have morals and high standards like they should. They'll spread their legs to any man who makes enough money. Bc they think that's what gets a man.(Probably so) let her go, and the next one you come across, hold on to your wallet real good no matter how cute she is. I see it has she didn't want to get hurt until she was ready to move on to something better, than its all okay.

Since: Oct 10

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#19 Mar 19, 2013
Why ask why wrote:
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VERY odd one out here: Deleted my Facebook and have blocked it from all devices on my net. Im very anti-Facebook and protect my kids via banning it.
That's just like refusing to ride in a car after you've been in an accident.

“I gotta dig bick.”

Since: Nov 10

You read that wrong.

#23 Mar 19, 2013
You wanna know why them beyotches cheat? MFkr they ain't cheating, they gittin what you quit given em. I just tell em they pretty. I tell em they hair look nice. I tell em they smell good, beautiful dress, pretty eyes and all that shit. Wedding ring or not that beyotch be sucking my balls in no time and I be pounding that booty like its my last time. I call em the next day. I drop off a flower or a sweetie card and I hit that sheit cuz you too busy to treat you wife like a lady and you too tired to bang her like a ho.

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