Understanding Honduran Men
Rosalinda

Charlotte, NC

#44 May 14, 2011
Oh I am totally with Cindy in Indy....she is right about these Hondurenos.....it's all bu$ine$$ when they get involved with an American....don't believe me? Don't give them any kind of financial incentive to be with you...don't give them anything........ and see how long they stick around.....go ahead....try it....
just sayin

United States

#45 May 23, 2011
Cindy in Indy wrote:
check back with me in a few years....we'll see if you're still as happy as you think you are right now....once the burn comes down.....
You had a bad experience move on. You should respect yourself first I mean come on. Not to mention be up front with what you want out of a relationship with a person. And these men are no more controlling and jealous than American men.
Meashea

Pearland, TX

#46 Jun 4, 2011
This is the most ridiculous, racist, stereotyping conversation I have ever heard in my life. People are people; and there are good and bad in every race, creed and color. I am currently dating a man from San Pedro Sula, Honduras, and he is amazing person. He has borrowed money from me a few times, and I have done the same. There is a mutual love and respect between the two of us. I will admit there are times when he acts jealous, but I reassure him, and he does the same for me. To judge a race or culture based on a bad experience one may have in a bad relationship is insane. I am Caucasian, and I would hate for people to think that just because of that I listen to country music and drive a pick up truck (not that it's a bad thing just not me). Evaluate your belief systems, and thought processes; because to judge is just as bad as any other "sin". I don't judge any of you for how you feel, but I ask you all to evaluate why you feel that way. Is it true what you believe? Is is based of facts related to Honduran people? Could it be that is your feeling are founded on one bad experience with one person?
Namaste
Ashley

Tallahassee, FL

#47 Jun 9, 2011
Well, when you have seven posters on here basically saying the same thing, that they have witnessed a lot of bad behavior out of these guys, there must be a lot of truth to it---and i don't think they come on here to be mean and run down a certain group--i think they come on here to warn others.
kat

United States

#48 Jun 15, 2011
I truly agree wt ashley....I'm only trying to put the truth out there and for the record I do think more then most Latino men have std's not trying to be hateful or mean.
kat

United States

#49 Jun 16, 2011
Ok 1st of all miss...Gringa don't be trying to shoot down my comment because your to afraid to get off your butt in get tested....I'm GOOD ARE YOU..I'M THE ONE THAT HAVE TO SEE THE FACES OF ALL THE YOUNG WOMEN THAT COME INTO THE OFFICE WERE I WORK HERE IN VIRGINA THEY ALL SAY THE SAME THING....OVER HALF HAD LATINO BOYFRIEND'S OR EVEN HUSBANDS and also I can say that I have a lot of respect for Latin women mostly women from Central America I see and talk to them a lot.
Dora

Houston, TX

#50 Jul 29, 2011
All i can say is that MEN from Honduras, are MACHISMO.... what they say.. goes.. they are controlling, jealous, abusive.. I was in Honduras for about 2 months, going to get married and all the good things in life. But an eye opener when he tried to kill me, and on top of that he cheated on me. I think that men from Honduras think about one thing and that is MONEY!!!! Women let's stick to the men from our country USA!!!
sauceda

Columbus, OH

#51 Aug 2, 2011
i have been married to my husband for 5 yrs.... we had a awsome relationship for about 3 yrs of it... he stood by me through a lot and we send money to his fam.. but about four month ago he stopped saying he loves me sleeps on the sofa... ignores anything and everything i have to say ... he just isnt here for us anymore he said hes leaving and his excuse is his my mom is lonely, since his dad passed.. but why throw us away .. why not take us with him and stay as we are/was ... i think there is something more but he is so bullheaded to say.i cook clean take care of the kids due my share with the bills all of it .. he cheated then we talked about that and now we are where we are at today ugh men !!!!
kat

United States

#52 Aug 15, 2011
Dora wrote:
All i can say is that MEN from Honduras, are MACHISMO.... what they say.. goes.. they are controlling, jealous, abusive.. I was in Honduras for about 2 months, going to get married and all the good things in life. But an eye opener when he tried to kill me, and on top of that he cheated on me. I think that men from Honduras think about one thing and that is MONEY!!!! Women let's stick to the men from our country USA!!!
!!!!!You can absolutely say that again!!!!!
banana

Garner, NC

#53 Sep 2, 2011
Sounds like you guys have had a bad time with Honduran men. I've had VERY VERY bad times with white and black men but I don't say all of them are bad. There's bad in EVERY race. I'm married to a Honduran. He pays ALL my bills (not that I'm mooching off him, have a low paying job) My husband does anything for me, even if I don't ask him to. So for you guys who say all are bad, how many relationships/men have treated you bad?
Chinita

United States

#54 Oct 11, 2011
I've been with my catracho for about 2 years but known him for about 6 years. I met him while I was dating another honduran guy. This guy had all your stereotypes for honduran men. All he wanted was sex and money and he was super controlling. He has a wife and kid back in honduras but he never sent them money. He introduced me to my current boyfriend now. Leaving my ex was hard, he said I was his girl no matter what and he would do anything to get me pregnant. Sadly for him, his friend didn't like the way he treated me and helped me get out of the relationship. After that, we've been together since. He treats me like a princess. He always insist on paying even though I know his financial situation isn't very good. He is a hardworker and is very passionate with me. He is about 10 years older than me but age is nothing but a number. He doesn't have any kids or a wife and I talk to his family all the time even though my spanish isn't so great. I truly believe there are good Honduran men, you just have to find the right one. And to not rush into a relationship.
Anderson Guy

United States

#55 Oct 12, 2011
Stick to men made in the good ole USA! You'll be glad you did.
nashville

Nashville, TN

#56 Oct 26, 2011
I have been with my Honduran boyfriend for more then a year. He was deported about a month ago. He is in his country with nothing and refuses when i offer to send him money. He pays to call me everyday and hopes we will be together again soon.
Ataria

Atlanta, GA

#57 Jan 8, 2012
I have been dating this guy from honduras and he is great far as I know. He is a military man and he works. From the day I met him. He was honest about is wife and kids. His is divorced and a great father. He text and call me everyday. When he is called to duty then I wait to hear from him. So far he has done all the right things and showed me a great time. So dont put all men down there some good guys out there. I was in a relationship for 8 yrs everything was good but left because the guy desided he didnt want to get married. I have dated every race and all races have there good ones and there bad ones. My aunt is african american and her husband is asian and he treats her like.a queen. So ladies keep looking because your mr. forever is out there. God bless.
josue

Charlotte, NC

#58 Apr 25, 2012
I'm a honduran men and I'm not like that im dating an American girl n I respect that girl very much. U all need to stop talking bad about honduran men
Jaus

Huntsville, AL

#59 Aug 14, 2012
OLIVIA wrote:
Hopefully,he actually sent the money to his mother alot of these men are married and send everything to their teethless wives in Honduras. The women of honduras love to use their children as insurance itīs their way of ensuring that the man will always provide for them. Heaven fordbid they get off their lazy asses and get a job like a real AMERICAN woman...no itīs much easier just to spread their skanky legs....side note...where u found him their are ten others just waiting to take his place..
I couldn't have said it better myself
Jaus

Huntsville, AL

#60 Aug 14, 2012
gringa wrote:
well lets react on this topic, i have been happily married to someone from honduras we have two beautifull little girls he is respectfull gives me freedom we both work and he never ever used me in anyway yall are giving honduran men a bad name just because you cant pick the right one or you are just dumb enough too fall for idiots doesnt mean all honduran men are like that. it is kinda stereotypicall and give good honduran men a bad name.
I'm just sitting back reading other people's stories. not just on this topic but others also. You got lucky and picked a good one. I love my husband with all my heart and me being the type of person I am. I don't really put up with too much bull. My Husband pays everything for me and if he needed help, I do lend a hand. I know he loves me too, otherwise we wouldn't be together, but as for sneaky, lying, demanding, and controlling. That's 1 thing I know they are. Down to his brother and others too. And you can add jealousy to that too and sometime some physical abuse too. but anyone can learn from a good ass whooping. cause I know he did after the 1st and only time he hit me. I bet he won't be stupid again
jmro

Honolulu, HI

#61 Aug 18, 2012
Cindy in Indy wrote:
check back with me in a few years....we'll see if you're still as happy as you think you are right now....once the burn comes down.....
Dam woman! You really had bad experiences with Latin men or only Honduran men? Sorry to hear but like all races you have good and bad but every time someone talks good about one you seem to jump the gun let them be happy ..you should not feel hatred. Im also with one Honduran that is and let me say he is so far the nicest guy Ive met Im the mean one at times so you see not all are bad. You havent found the right one.GOOD LUCK
brazilnutz

Saint Ives, UK

#62 Oct 14, 2012
Rosalinda wrote:
Oh I am totally with Cindy in Indy....she is right about these Hondurenos.....it's all bu$ine$$ when they get involved with an American....don't believe me? Don't give them any kind of financial incentive to be with you...don't give them anything........ and see how long they stick around.....go ahead....try it....
i totally agree i had a recent experience wit a H>M and it is work sex sleep sex party sex i gave him nooo incentive and with in 2 months we are over as he cant get nothing from me and yes they are dirty fuckers from the begining he wanted unprotected sex and when i said no he told me i am his woman and i should act like his woman this is a man who also wanted unprotected anal sex .... i kicked him out and he came back giving me all the suga i forgave him by throwing condoms at his head i guess that was challenging for him they seem to like it when you treat them like crap they luv the challenge however they want to do whatever they can to break you ...one time i was really nosy and went through his drawer and found amoxcyliin i am an F2 in london (doctor) we use theese to clear infectioms ..i got rid and went straight into work and got my colleague to take my bloods did a vagina swab and an aids test even though i was safe ..after that i found he had another woman who he was planning to get married to and another one he had a baby with they are older women they love to go for older women with children i dont know why hmmm
glory3000

Kansas City, MO

#63 Dec 18, 2012
jasmine47 montgomery ala wrote:
i want say all hunduras men are bad,because i am a black american woman and i have been with one for 8 years and he has allways been there for me,he has been a protector and provider,he stepped up to the plate and has been the father to my 3 kids,he took the responsibility that there own biological daddy did'nt do,
i am a black american woman and i am in a relationship with a honduran man he is older then i am but he really cares and loves me i am currently in college full time and he is a wonderful provider and he loves me dearly i have not had a man that loves me the way he does he is very protective of me and attentive to my needs and when we met he told me all he wanted was me and that he would take care everything i needed i've never had that said to me by any other man before especially not from (black men)the way he treats me is how a real man is suppose to treat a woman i love him so much he also cares for my children i agree with u and also i would like to say all honduran man are not bad or the same u just have to be careful who u allow into your heart and life and thats goes for any man of any race

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