Why do men change their minds so fast about relationships

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Little Rock, AR

#1 Oct 20, 2009
Why do men change their minds so fast about being in a relationship. One day they want a serious relationship the next day they don't want to be tied down . Is this from fear that they change their mind?
Perspective

Little Rock, AR

#2 Oct 20, 2009
Guys are idiots in general. For some reason some think there is some great thing that they will miss out on if they commit. More than likely they will realize they messed up in a couple of years and have to marry some horrible person out of desperation. Seen it happen a thousand times. Literally, i HAVE SEEN IT!!!!!!! THOUSANDS AND THOUSDANDSDSDS HAHAHAHAHHAARAGARAGRHHAGRHARGA AARRRRRRRRGGGGGG!!!! The voices!!!!!....anywho, yeah its usually the fear of changing their minds sometime in the future.
why why why

Little Rock, AR

#3 Oct 20, 2009
Perspective wrote:
Guys are idiots in general. For some reason some think there is some great thing that they will miss out on if they commit. More than likely they will realize they messed up in a couple of years and have to marry some horrible person out of desperation. Seen it happen a thousand times. Literally, i HAVE SEEN IT!!!!!!! THOUSANDS AND THOUSDANDSDSDS HAHAHAHAHHAARAGARAGRHHAGRHARGA AARRRRRRRRGGGGGG!!!! The voices!!!!!....anywho, yeah its usually the fear of changing their minds sometime in the future.
I agree with that .
Bloke

Santa Clara, CA

#4 Oct 20, 2009
Most likely men come into the relationship with open eyes and great hopes only to realize what kind of horrible shrew you are. I'm sorry but the truth hurts.
ginger

Blytheville, AR

#5 Oct 20, 2009
Why do people keep posting these stupid ass questions?

Look, if you have to ask WHY.... then you just don't get it and you never will.
guest

Little Rock, AR

#6 Oct 22, 2009
ginger wrote:
Why do people keep posting these stupid ass questions?
Look, if you have to ask WHY.... then you just don't get it and you never will.
Shut up , Who asked you
justme

Little Rock, AR

#7 Oct 22, 2009
why why why wrote:
Why do men change their minds so fast about being in a relationship. One day they want a serious relationship the next day they don't want to be tied down . Is this from fear that they change their mind?
It depends on the guy. If he's a real man then it's because when they find out what the need to know they either stay or go. If they realize you aren't the one they want, they don't stick around and waffle and hope and pretend. They make up their mind and act on it without a bunch of feminine drama.

Otherwise, if they aren't real men, it's because they got you in bed, and now the new is worn off. The mystery is solved and they're bored, so off they go looking for the next new thing.

“the hammer”

Since: Oct 08

n a

#8 Oct 22, 2009
We are hard core so to speak,,we have been burnt so bad that we don't wont to get to close

“the hammer”

Since: Oct 08

n a

#9 Oct 22, 2009
ginger wrote:
Why do people keep posting these stupid ass questions?
Look, if you have to ask WHY.... then you just don't get it and you never will.
Well ginger it's iether hit this one or the five gay topix,,
guest

Little Rock, AR

#10 Nov 28, 2009
My best friend , is dating a guy who has been seperated from his wife for a year . He and his wife are getting divorced , but have to wait for personal reasons which I can't talk about on here. My question is , this guy loves my friend very much , and wants to be with her , but the problems his dealing with from his ex make him scared to trust another woman again and scared to give his heart away , What can she do to not scare him off ?
Blood

Sulphur Springs, TX

#11 Nov 28, 2009
Don't be the rebound girl!!
guest wrote:
My best friend , is dating a guy who has been seperated from his wife for a year . He and his wife are getting divorced , but have to wait for personal reasons which I can't talk about on here. My question is , this guy loves my friend very much , and wants to be with her , but the problems his dealing with from his ex make him scared to trust another woman again and scared to give his heart away , What can she do to not scare him off ?
Tinker

United States

#12 Nov 28, 2009
Some women assume there are relationships where there is none- go on a second date with some ladies and they assume you're in a relationship. So after the second date and they're planning futures together, suddenly the men look like the bad guys when they have to break the news that, "Hey, it's been fun, but..."

Oh, and lots of women can camoflauge vile, obsessive behaviors until the men they are dating desire relationships, then let out their emotional baggage and give the guys second thoughts.
knows better

AOL

#13 Nov 28, 2009
guest wrote:
My best friend , is dating a guy who has been seperated from his wife for a year . He and his wife are getting divorced , but have to wait for personal reasons which I can't talk about on here. My question is , this guy loves my friend very much , and wants to be with her , but the problems his dealing with from his ex make him scared to trust another woman again and scared to give his heart away , What can she do to not scare him off ?
Maybe he isn't really separated or getting divorced. Some men say that to the "other woman". He may have just spent the holiday with his wife.

“the hammer”

Since: Oct 08

n a

#14 Nov 28, 2009
guest wrote:
My best friend , is dating a guy who has been seperated from his wife for a year . He and his wife are getting divorced , but have to wait for personal reasons which I can't talk about on here. My question is , this guy loves my friend very much , and wants to be with her , but the problems his dealing with from his ex make him scared to trust another woman again and scared to give his heart away , What can she do to not scare him off ?
Well it is hard to gain a mans trust after he has been burnt more than twice,,myself it happend three times and it will never happen again,,but if he has only been burnt once and not playing you than maybe there is hope,,
1. don't be so clingey.

2. let him have his own space.

3. let him know he is the only one that she enterested in.

4. a way to a mans heart is threw his stomach.

5. stick with him threw good times and bad,,in this case sounds like there will be a lot of bad,,with the ex and all,,

but on the other hand don't let him take advantage of her such as going out with the guys all time,,never wanting to be around and such,,, bcuz that would b a playa!!!!!!

"hit my digits"
guest

United States

#15 Dec 1, 2009
Tinker wrote:
Some women assume there are relationships where there is none- go on a second date with some ladies and they assume you're in a relationship. So after the second date and they're planning futures together, suddenly the men look like the bad guys when they have to break the news that, "Hey, it's been fun, but..."
Oh, and lots of women can camoflauge vile, obsessive behaviors until the men they are dating desire relationships, then let out their emotional baggage and give the guys second thoughts.
So damn true! If we stick around after figuring this out, with our words "I am not ready, or to hurt, or to scared ,to try another relationship" then it is because getting the putty is easy and avaiable with out all the work for it!!
brit

United States

#16 Jun 24, 2010
All I know is that men make no sense. It is better to be blunt and honest with someone rather then sugar coating stuff. Ladies: Let him go, let him try to date around, if its true love he will come back and realize that you are the one. And when that day comes....MAKE SURE YOU ARE WITH SOMEONE WAYYYYYYY BETTER!:)
hmm

Mountain Home, AR

#17 Jun 24, 2010
good advice from brit, you aren't the first and won't be the last move on
Anne

Sydney, Australia

#18 Jul 5, 2010
justme wrote:
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It depends on the guy. If he's a real man then it's because when they find out what the need to know they either stay or go. If they realize you aren't the one they want, they don't stick around and waffle and hope and pretend. They make up their mind and act on it without a bunch of feminine drama.
Otherwise, if they aren't real men, it's because they got you in bed, and now the new is worn off. The mystery is solved and they're bored, so off they go looking for the next new thing.
I agree wit that..It hurts but its so true.
guest

Lake Charles, LA

#19 Jul 5, 2010
For the gal whos been waiting a "year" for a man to get a divorce. Wake up and smell the coffee girl!! He's got his cake and eating it too. And ray elliott was doing ok till he got to the part about letting a man know you are interested in only him. BS. Men are hunters. Make him chase you. Keep him guessing till he "catches" you. Duh. Elementary. Mamas teach this in men 101. Once a man knows your a sure thing its done.
bettyjo

United States

#20 Oct 5, 2010
Ok answer me this. If your ex is going out with this girl n doesn't live but loves u soul and body n says is bad in relationships then y is he in one period n y is he.still with her they don't even have sex anymore he's been doing with me

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