Guest

Jonesboro, AR

#23 May 24, 2012
Jeremy wrote:
Ive known them for over 16 years...
Yes, Jack did in fact act inappropriate with Brooke. It was actually MARC that found and saw the text messages and made the decision to not file.
They did however get a restraining order against Jack.
There were many reasons they choose not to file charges but I won't share all that. But, I, personally saw the text messages on Brooke's phone that Marc had as I was one of the very few he discussed this with.
Jack has no business being around the kids and it was Marc's desire to keep him away.
Anyway having clarified that for you people. Let me say, I am beyond shocked at all this and am disgusted with Michelle and Carl.... So pointless...sad and evil. They deserve allthepunishment they get. Also, despite Jacks prior mistakes I also feel sad for him and Tana, they lost a son and regardless of the bad relationship they had over these last years.
The true losers here are the kiddos obviously.... Damaged for life
So why did the grandma not have access to the children? She didn't have anything to do with the alleged misconduct. And I'm wondering if anyone like Michelle had possible access to the father inlaws phone? Was it a one text deal, was their dialoug in the text? Could anyone else possibly have access to his phone and just sent some random stuff? I think before anyone throws this abuse story out there, the facts really need to be known, or don't state anything.You reading the text, doesn't mean they actually came from the person. Or were the text maybe something that were not sexual, but could be taken sexual. I know text without facial experession, or the vibe of the conversation can be taken out of context. I would just have to have read them, and been there to lay judgement. If it was not charged, then Michelle throwing that around is bullshit. Anyeone can claim anything. If your not willing to following through with allegations, and charge, then shut up. You case is not proven. No different than her right now being charged, she is not guilty until proven. Allegations are just that. Knowing what we know now, and the murder. I would not have put it past her to send text from Inlaws phone. I believe at that time they should have had contact with grandparents, and my wife would certainly have access to my parents phone without them around. As I do for her's. Older people most times don't stay connected to their phone like young people. Its never on them, and most times laying around the house. Just saying
Friend Too

Jonesboro, AR

#24 May 24, 2012
friend of Despain family wrote:
Someone should ask Marc Despain's father, whatever his name is, why he molested his granddaughter, and why he's hoping that those kids are allowed back into his life. Did you miss that in the news? Oh right, it wasn't reported.
Jack took a polygraph in regards to the accusations that were made against him and passed it. He was investigated and no charges were ever filed against him. i think that if Michelle had anything to do with Marks death or knew it was going to happen and did nothing, she deserves to be tried for it.
Guest

Jonesboro, AR

#25 May 24, 2012
Friend Too wrote:
<quoted text>Jack took a polygraph in regards to the accusations that were made against him and passed it. He was investigated and no charges were ever filed against him. i think that if Michelle had anything to do with Marks death or knew it was going to happen and did nothing, she deserves to be tried for it.
So the father inlaw took a polygraph over Michelle's bogus sexual allegations, and came back inconclusive. But Michelle never would take a polygraph on the murder of her husband? Hmmmmmm. Yeah lets believe what Michelle has claimed in the past. Hey Michelle, Damian Echols says you can use his cell, he don't need it anymore...
Guest

Jonesboro, AR

#26 May 24, 2012
Oh wait she don't have computer access today. Family and friends could you pass my last message along. lol
Fro

Dallas, TX

#27 May 24, 2012
guest wrote:
I would kill someone that touched my child and you people are saying that Michelle didn't even care enough to press charges????
How was he killed? I'm new to this sorry?
guest

Paragould, AR

#28 May 24, 2012
He was gunned down at point blank range as he entered his home.
guest

Little Rock, AR

#31 May 24, 2012
justice for marc wrote:
<quoted text>First of all jeremy, you just pissed me off with your off the wall asshole lies!!! You obviously have been sucking hind tit on Michelle up to the point that she got arrested! now you dont want your name associated with her now that your eyes have been opened! Loser!! You yourself are no better than michelle. If you had read these alledged text messages why didnt you speak up to the authorities? You dumbass, dont you think that the police didnt review the text messages if there were any! And if those messages were there, then the police would surely have pressed charges!! So, Jeremy, dont tell stories that you have no proof to back up!! In other words, get your head out of michelles ass!
You are so obnoxious
guest

Jonesboro, AR

#32 May 24, 2012
If they say the grandfather was sending bad things to the grandaughter on the phone don't you think they would have caught up with it just like they did Michelle and her dad and their deleted messages she thought where forever erased? Thank God for the advanced technology we now have.Caught ya Michelle!! Money!! The big root of all evil at least in this case huh???
Sadly

Jonesboro, AR

#33 May 24, 2012
The really bad thing here is that sooner or later someone is going to offer this woman money in some form for "her story" and it will probably end up in a book and/or a movie, and she will still benefit from it in the long run. Who knows, it could already be happening.
rad

Cherokee Village, AR

#34 May 24, 2012
Sadly wrote:
The really bad thing here is that sooner or later someone is going to offer this woman money in some form for "her story" and it will probably end up in a book and/or a movie, and she will still benefit from it in the long run. Who knows, it could already be happening.
If convicted you are not allowed to profit from a crime.
Jeremy

Jonesboro, AR

#35 May 25, 2012
justice for marc wrote:
<quoted text>Oh, and by the way, your so sure of yourself, Marc did file against Jack and there was never a restraining order! Check your dumbass facts!! Have a good day,DA!!
JFM.... I'm sorry but you are easily ticked off...perhaps you should take a few more AntiDepressants or lay off the Red Bull and Vodka prior to posting. I realize you are living your life thru Topix these days but a good Mental Health counsel would do you some good I think.

Now, I didn't say that Michelle said Jack did those things, in fact, I rarely discussed that with her. It was MARC that came to me with it and MARC that was pressing the issue. And yes, Jack is forbidden to be around the children and still is as of today so what part of that are you confused about?

If Michelle had one ounce to do with Marc's death then I wish her locked up for life...period. I am MARCs friend and I support Marc and his kids first. I hope Michelle is innocent for the kids sake but evidence, not opinions will tell us that.

JFM.... You need to Relax
Jeremy

Jonesboro, AR

#36 May 25, 2012
Guest wrote:
<quoted text> So why did the grandma not have access to the children? She didn't have anything to do with the alleged misconduct. And I'm wondering if anyone like Michelle had possible access to the father inlaws phone? Was it a one text deal, was their dialoug in the text? Could anyone else possibly have access to his phone and just sent some random stuff? I think before anyone throws this abuse story out there, the facts really need to be known, or don't state anything.You reading the text, doesn't mean they actually came from the person. Or were the text maybe something that were not sexual, but could be taken sexual. I know text without facial experession, or the vibe of the conversation can be taken out of context. I would just have to have read them, and been there to lay judgement. If it was not charged, then Michelle throwing that around is bullshit. Anyeone can claim anything. If your not willing to following through with allegations, and charge, then shut up. You case is not proven. No different than her right now being charged, she is not guilty until proven. Allegations are just that. Knowing what we know now, and the murder. I would not have put it past her to send text from Inlaws phone. I believe at that time they should have had contact with grandparents, and my wife would certainly have access to my parents phone without them around. As I do for her's. Older people most times don't stay connected to their phone like young people. Its never on them, and most times laying around the house. Just saying
No....Michelle didn't really speak to them much at all during that time and Marc barely did. Marc has had a rough relation with his dad his whole life. Jack is a bit of an Ass and a bit crazy. That's well noted by many.

Problem is Jack and Tana had up and downs threw their Appraise business while they included Marc and it lead to a split. By then and shortly after they tried some patching up and had multiple properties together, etc... So many fires with that I can't begin to mention.

Jack made a mistake in his handling of his Granddaughter.....it's not black n white as to how Marc handled it then and the last few years. Marc simply wanted what was best for his daughter and to protect his family. He was a very good man.

Michelle would not have had access to the dads phone at night while at her own home. Do you understand? Jack sent the messages, acted inappropriate and got away with it legally. But not morally with Marc or the kids.

You don't see any of the kids rushing to try to see Jack or Tana do you? No...they don't want to and this past year when they attempted to come to Zacs games, etc the kids wanted very little to do with them.....as per Marc's feelings.

Not my opinion....facts
Guest

Jonesboro, AR

#37 May 25, 2012
Jeremy wrote:
<quoted text>
No....Michelle didn't really speak to them much at all during that time and Marc barely did. Marc has had a rough relation with his dad his whole life. Jack is a bit of an Ass and a bit crazy. That's well noted by many.
Problem is Jack and Tana had up and downs threw their Appraise business while they included Marc and it lead to a split. By then and shortly after they tried some patching up and had multiple properties together, etc... So many fires with that I can't begin to mention.
Jack made a mistake in his handling of his Granddaughter.....it's not black n white as to how Marc handled it then and the last few years. Marc simply wanted what was best for his daughter and to protect his family. He was a very good man.
Michelle would not have had access to the dads phone at night while at her own home. Do you understand? Jack sent the messages, acted inappropriate and got away with it legally. But not morally with Marc or the kids.
You don't see any of the kids rushing to try to see Jack or Tana do you? No...they don't want to and this past year when they attempted to come to Zacs games, etc the kids wanted very little to do with them.....as per Marc's feelings.
Not my opinion....facts
You said in another post that Jack had a restraining order against him and wasn't allowed to be around the children? Now you're saying they were going to ball games and the kids didn't want much to do with them because of their dad's feelings? A true friend wouldn't get on here and discuss any of their business anyway.
justice for marc

Jonesboro, AR

#38 May 25, 2012
Jeremy wrote:
<quoted text>
No....Michelle didn't really speak to them much at all during that time and Marc barely did. Marc has had a rough relation with his dad his whole life. Jack is a bit of an Ass and a bit crazy. That's well noted by many.
Problem is Jack and Tana had up and downs threw their Appraise business while they included Marc and it lead to a split. By then and shortly after they tried some patching up and had multiple properties together, etc... So many fires with that I can't begin to mention.
Jack made a mistake in his handling of his Granddaughter.....it's not black n white as to how Marc handled it then and the last few years. Marc simply wanted what was best for his daughter and to protect his family. He was a very good man.
Michelle would not have had access to the dads phone at night while at her own home. Do you understand? Jack sent the messages, acted inappropriate and got away with it legally. But not morally with Marc or the kids.
You don't see any of the kids rushing to try to see Jack or Tana do you? No...they don't want to and this past year when they attempted to come to Zacs games, etc the kids wanted very little to do with them.....as per Marc's feelings.
Not my opinion....facts
Michelle taught you well as the lies keep coming of your lieing mouth! You have no facts, just what michelle told you and look where she is now! She has done nothing more than lie to you and all her so called friends for the past 5 years! your just one of the fools that believe her!!! Dumbass!And there is no restraining order! Fact! Go check the records!!
justice for marc

Jonesboro, AR

#39 May 25, 2012
Jeremy wrote:
<quoted text>
No....Michelle didn't really speak to them much at all during that time and Marc barely did. Marc has had a rough relation with his dad his whole life. Jack is a bit of an Ass and a bit crazy. That's well noted by many.
Problem is Jack and Tana had up and downs threw their Appraise business while they included Marc and it lead to a split. By then and shortly after they tried some patching up and had multiple properties together, etc... So many fires with that I can't begin to mention.
Jack made a mistake in his handling of his Granddaughter.....it's not black n white as to how Marc handled it then and the last few years. Marc simply wanted what was best for his daughter and to protect his family. He was a very good man.
Michelle would not have had access to the dads phone at night while at her own home. Do you understand? Jack sent the messages, acted inappropriate and got away with it legally. But not morally with Marc or the kids.
You don't see any of the kids rushing to try to see Jack or Tana do you? No...they don't want to and this past year when they attempted to come to Zacs games, etc the kids wanted very little to do with them.....as per Marc's feelings.
Not my opinion....facts
You have facts? Prove them or shut up fool!
guest

Paragould, AR

#40 May 25, 2012
Hopefully one day Marc's children will see her for exactly what she is and has done. That will only happen when they are away from her... for good.. Seeing her on the news and in the paper from yesterday not upset. Does she not realize that she won't see her kids graduate from high school, get married, have kids, all of their adult life? Praying that whomever gets these kids gets them help. She is so selfish though, she probably doesn't even care what this has done to the kids.

I am wondering how long it will be before the insurance company will come after the money that they have paid on the one life insurance policy.
justice for marc

Jonesboro, AR

#41 May 25, 2012
to all that is reading this thread! I know that this Jeremy is not Jeremy Ragsdale! He is a good friend of Marcs and he would not put his family in this spotlight!! This other Jeremy is just trying to stur up some stink! And he did, with me!! He is just a Michelle supporter and i hope he goes to hell right along with Michelle!
guest

Little Rock, AR

#42 May 25, 2012
justice for marc wrote:
to all that is reading this thread! I know that this Jeremy is not Jeremy Ragsdale! He is a good friend of Marcs and he would not put his family in this spotlight!! This other Jeremy is just trying to stur up some stink! And he did, with me!! He is just a Michelle supporter and i hope he goes to hell right along with Michelle!
Tell us how Michelle bailed out and if she has the kids.
guest

Euless, TX

#43 May 25, 2012
I'm betting she used the life insurance money she already got to bail out. Makes me want to puke.
Guest

Jonesboro, AR

#44 May 25, 2012
Hey Jeremy, did you read the affidavit? The shooter says Carl was giving play by play details to someone. Forensic's say it was Michelle's phone that was receiving the text. She deleted most except one, but the technology saw what was texted. On top of this she left work at a odd hour saying she had a bill to pay I believe, so why wouldn't one call the husband to pay the bill since he was home? And then she arrives home never checks to make sure he was dead, and runs out of the house. Dude if you can't see the guilt, you blind as a bat. Are you the Jeremy on camera talking to beady eye Carl the day of the murder in front of the murder scene? If your a friend of Marc's and still a friend of Michelle's, well one had the other murdered in broad daylight in their own home. She is one evil sick manipulative killer. Think I would stir clear of defending that evil murderer.

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